Advertisement

Saturday, October 05, 2024

Chronicle Of BlogmVisitor Narrative - UPDATE

Hmmmmm


Hi Stella. This is an update to this CHRONICLE
 
So my SIL went on ahead to pay the fees without my knowledge. She just sent receipt to my husband who sent it to me. My husband was excited telling me how I should be happy that our son is mixing with posh children. I just kept quiet.

After the first day of dropping him in school, he came home and started complaining how he couldn't make it to work on time because he had to go all the way across town to drop our son and his boss was shouting at him and embarrassing him because he missed a very important meeting. I just looked at him and turned my face.
The following week he started lamenting to me on the cost of transportation and how it's only God that has been providing for him. What is my own? Didn't I highlight all these to him? Another day he called me that he's caught up at work and can't go all the way across town, that can I make it? Me that my office is far normally. Let me explain. 

There's a direct bus from my office junction to my house junction (that's why our initial school plan was better) but this school he put our son means I'd have to enter transport to another part of town then drop and take another transport before I get to the school. So calling me impromptu will mean he will stay in school longer. After waiting 2hrs and I hadn't reached he just told me to go home that he has called his sister go pick him. Every single thing I said is playing out. Na siddon look I dey. Since he has deliberately carried his legs and strolled into a tight corner, I want to see the outcome. I won't talk or complain again.

He will learn the hard way...please dont stress yourself over this..

44 comments:

  1. If no be say na person pikin dey involved ehn, that one he even asked you to go pick ur child, u for siddon no even try go but las las, a mother can never just fashy matter that concerns the child.

    Body go tell am las las since his wife sensible advice means nothing to him

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Marriage these days is becoming a hopeless competition

      Delete
  2. I beg u sister don’t talk again. Don’t say anything, infact if he tries complaining again, tell him God that that has been providing will continue to provide for you people. Don’t bother ur pretty head, with fuel at over 1k per liter, dem no dey tell man.

    ReplyDelete
  3. I just dey pity the poor child in all this una wahala.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Honestly, my heart really goes out to the poor baby, the stress he will go through in all of this is just starting! It's well with your family poster.

      Delete
    2. Honestly eeh , the stress will be too much.

      Delete
    3. We are all here feeling pity for the child, I'm sure the poster's heart breaks every time she sees the stress her child is going through, coupled with this rainy season!

      Delete
  4. You do well jare, don't Stress yourself poster, Let Sister in Law and hubby continue what they started..

    Hello iya Boys

    ReplyDelete
  5. Na prayers and praise remain,there is no need for long talk.
    Whenever he complains just say God will strengthen you more,you're a good father.....nobody will tell him before he returns him to a school closer to the house.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Prayers and praise 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

      Delete
    2. Exactly! Just be praising him oh and praying for him that God will provide for him.

      Delete
  6. Biko you are pregnant. Avoid anything that will stress you. For your SIL to go ahead and make payments, and then send the receipt to your husband, he gave ahead the go ahead. You highlighted these to him, he didn't see reason with you, let him do the school runs.

    ReplyDelete
  7. He will get used to it....... The show just started, don't just bother yourself.

    ReplyDelete
  8. My sister do sit-down look. He has to realize the things on his own. Let him learn

    ReplyDelete
  9. May God continue to strengthen him to do the school runs in Jesus name.
    He wants his child in a posh school, he should be ready to pay the price.

    ReplyDelete
  10. Madam you need to start lamenting about pregnancy stress everyday. Just complain o. Start your own before he starts. It’s a nice gesture from the sister but Haba Oga! Who posh school eep? The “rich kids” will make your son will feel inferior that he will have to be lying to meet up. Good luck with this. Take care of yourself thoroughly ❤️

    Karen

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yes oh. Use style to be highlighting your pregnancy symptoms so that he knows you’re also going through stress. Operate more in your feminine energy and baby girl side. You both are a team and this should have been your joint decision. I hate meddling family members-they may have good intentions but is this sustainable???

      Delete
  11. He may change your house
    Move closer to your son's school and make you the burden bearer of how you get to work
    May his mind not reach that side abeg

    ReplyDelete
  12. So the reason why your hubby agreed to that arrangement was because your kid would be mixing with posh kids. Pls forgive me, that is a retarded way of reasoning. Anyway, he will soon learn some hard lesson.

    ReplyDelete
  13. Posh school ko

    ReplyDelete
  14. Good for him, you are pregnant so please take care of yourself and let him finish what he started

    ReplyDelete
  15. Awoof dey run belle. I just pity the poor boy in the midst of the siblings shenanigans. 😔😔😔

    ReplyDelete
  16. I remember your first chronicle. Your husband was insistent, probably only looking at the money he would save if his sister paid the school fees instead of using wisdom in the matter. 5+5 will have the same answer no matter the school a child attends, and at your son’s young age it does not matter where the early years education happens. He shouted you down when you tried to speak wisdom into the situation and his boss shouted him down publicly because of the outcome of his insistence. Look at life.

    Can he not tell his sister the situation is unrealistic and to either get a refund for any remaining amounts or not to pay for the second term, depending on how she paid the fees. Relocate your child to the originally planned school. You are adults in charge of your own family life and do not need to explain anything to anyone about your choices. You have tried it, you both know that it is unsustainable so freaking speak up and say NO to another term of the madness and make realistic choices for your family and life.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. You are may have read the 1st chronicle syllable for syllable but you lack emotional intelligence.

      She already spoke up the 1st time, what did she achieve?
      When people are hellbent on doing what they want to do, as long as it does not physically affect you, allow them. Don't stand in their way.
      Other wise they will blame YOU as the barrier to their success.

      Did the Head of kini kan not know it was supposed to be a joint descision before he ignored his wife's please and advise and quickly sent his son's school account number for the money to be paid?
      So let the Head of kini kan carry the load as he sees best fit.

      Simple.

      Delete
    2. 10:53, stop rushing to give rebuttals if they make no sense🙄

      Delete
  17. Dear sis pls just siddon one corner dey look like a spectator. Him eyes go soon clear.

    ReplyDelete
  18. It's not even up to a full term he's complaining, that's the price of his decision.
    Take care of yourself and let him continue may be he will get use to it

    ReplyDelete
  19. It's just your child i pity in all of this..poor boy will be stressed out.

    ReplyDelete
  20. Please don't play strong wife at all, start singing about how pregnancy is taking a toll on you, in shut turn it to everyday song. Don't form Jakician that you have strength to multitask O,

    ReplyDelete
  21. Replies
    1. It's been long I heard this 🤣🤣🤣

      Delete
    2. It's been long I heard this 🤣🤣🤣

      Delete
  22. Your child can put up with your SIL and only returns home during weekends.

    Didn't they consider the distance this child has to commute everyday day to school? I just pity the child.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. As per mini boarding school or what?

      Do you consider if it is convenient for the SIL?

      How do you think the child will feel.

      You people just fling thoughts from your 'a*us' as if you're testing your thought process for the 1st time or yoire dealing with toys.

      Delete
  23. The poster is a bad wife. Plain and simple. Her Reasons are completely legit But her attitude is the problem.
    The husband's position is very understandable. I've had to change my kids from an affordable and fairly good school and I can tell you, there IS a world of difference...and background is also important for the future.
    However, like I said before, her reasoning was entirely selfish. Trying her husband that he'll handle the transportation himself since he doesn't want to listen to her and the new Siddon look approach is really bad. She couldn't handle it better and even clandestinely to get an outcome that would benefit all concerned.
    Now everyone concerned is stressed and the homefront is a little shook up, how's that wisdom?
    Second Chronicle, let's hope there won't be more

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. So the wife should stress herself financially for something she forewarned him about? How does that make her a good wife? So she should carry a financial burden for something that was completely avoidable to answer the name good wife? Odiegwu! You are a bad spouse and an enabler of bad decisions if this is how you handle marriage.

      Delete
    2. I feel like telling you that this punishment you want to inflict on poster will be inflicted on you ten fold, but I won’t say it. Your dirty mouth like selfish

      Delete
    3. Anon12:46, alternatives can be sought for, if you have the privilege to send your child to a standard school, you don’t know the solid foundation you are building them with. The difference is clear in all levels.

      Delete

Disclaimer: Comments And Opinions On Any Part Of This Website Are Opinions Of The Blog Commenters Or Anonymous Persons And They Do Not Represent The Opinion Of StellaDimokoKorkus.com

Pictures and culled stories posted on this site are given credit and if a story is yours but credited to the wrong source,Please contact Stelladimokokorkus.com and corrections will be made..

If you have a complaint or a story,Please Contact StellaDimokoKorkus.com Via

Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com
Mobile Phone +4915210724141