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The right person for her hasn't come.
ReplyDeleteThank you oh, this is exactly what I wanted to type.
Deletei concur
DeleteYou are 100%correct
DeleteExactly dear, nothing beats the right partner 👍
DeleteAdunni
She has no problem. Absolutely no problem at all.
DeleteWhen did being sinlge become a sickness or much of a big deal.
Make una rest abeg!
Sometimes, there are no issues with her. She just wants to take her time so she gets it right, once and for all.
ReplyDeleteShe is carefully looking for a husband who is ready to do life in happiness and peace...Not for what she is but who she truly is underneath it all.....Not to dim her light but to let it glow for their joint growth....
ReplyDeleteChampagne laced with strawberry for you.
DeleteLots of things...
ReplyDeleteChoice
Bad character
High maintenance
Health condition and finally
Choice.
I agree with you 💯
DeleteThis isn't always the case 😢😢
DeleteYou finish work.
DeleteNo problem. She's taking her time not to marry an efulefu.🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteChoice
ReplyDeleteThere's no problem. She's yet to meet the one for her.
ReplyDeleteNothing.
ReplyDeleteThe world is far more complicated it appears.
Word✌️
DeleteExactly the world is so complicated, you sometimes just don't understand.
Deleterelationshiop matters are very complicated... i know two people that fit this description...one is a distant relative, the other i met while working in Nigeria years ago... i have asked myself many times why these two beautiful ladies are still single...they are currently over 45 years.
ReplyDeleteOne day some of you will stop viewing being single as a disease.
DeleteYou want them to marry just to live miserably or die like Osinachi because of "what will people say?"
DeleteAsk yourself many questions relevant to your own life.
DeleteChoice
ReplyDeleteGenotype mismatch
Career pursuit
Missed opportunities
Emotionally unavailable
Family sieges
Destiny exchangers
Daddy issues (no or bad/deadbeat father figure)
Wrong advice from family or friends
Evil manipulations by the wicked
There are generally lots of wicked things happening in some African communities because of envious people who see every good thing in life as the basis for comparison and unhealthy competition.
Maybe hand work of evil and jealous family members. If you are blessed with a family that genuinely loves you, omo, be thanking God every minute.
ReplyDeleteGbamabsolutely
DeletePride
ReplyDeleteBeing too selective.
Looking for a tall, dark and gentle man with baritone voice
Finance, he must be very comfortable with houses and cars.
Must be ready agile in bed.
No. Some of us are very comfortable in our own skin and prefer to be without a man. I am in my 60s and still turn down proposals. I am not afraid of being alone. In fact I savor my alone time.
Delete@Anon 20:31.
DeleteWhile your perspective on how you choose to live your life even into your 60s might be valid from your point of view, I have a few questions:
Have you ever been married?
Have you remained single all the way into your 60s?
Were you once married but chose not to remarry after a divorce?
The reason I ask is because, in my honest opinion, marriage is an achievement. There's a unique sense of fulfillment and completeness that often comes with it.
Oga, just say to you, marriage is an achievement. Not for everyone.
DeleteMicho Hay8. I was married briefly. It was hell. I never had the desire to marry again and I have been celibate for decades. I've had multiple proposals for every decade of my life but these men are competing against my peace. A few were incredible men. A lot were looking for a nurse and a purse. Some were looking for a submissive provider.
Delete@Anon, 10:59.
Delete"I understand your situation, and it seems like you've found peace and confidence in being single. It’s clear you take great care of yourself, and it shows, no wonder others are drawn to you. Wishing you all the best."
Some want superior things than all you have identified-Godly, mature within and without, responsible and respectful, visionary etc.
DeleteShe is patiently waiting for the right partner.
ReplyDeleteShe's waiting patiently for the right man who will treat her right
ReplyDeleteSo true
DeleteMust there be a problem?. It is only in Nigeria that it is a problem. It is only in Nigeria that marriage is an achievement. Useless country with misplaced priorities.
ReplyDeleteThank you very much. God bless you for this comment. You are right about the Nigerian mindset of seeing marriage as an achievement. Meanwhile 90% of them are miserable in the so called marriage. SMH
DeleteHaaaaaaaaa! Thank you. I thought am the only one thinking like this. Must there be a problem. Must everybody get married.
DeleteYou deserve a good hug!!! Nigerians sure have a negative and toxic mindset with values they are convinced must be enforced on others and by force. You see people but when you communicate with them, you discover their mind is unrefined, polluted and completely blind. And yes, they are 'learned, religious and SPARK in tongues, experience and exposed" yet so poisonous. Life has advanced beyond "reproduction" and many ladies desire so much more than ring, dick and birthing."
DeleteVillage people and spiritual husband.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she's selective
ReplyDeleteOr she has a terrible character
Or she is not ready for commitment
Many things involve.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for the right person
Some are picker
Character
Etc
Nothing oooo
ReplyDeleteMight just be nothing. I mean not that there's any problem or a deficiency in her, just life playing out.
ReplyDeleteNothing, she hasn't met the right person.
ReplyDeleteThere is no problem. Some of us are simply not interested in marriage or children.
ReplyDeleteExactly.
DeleteExactly Anonymous 20:30
DeleteLike me
I am simply not interested in married life
I like being single
Life is simpler that way
There are no impediments to doing whatever you want to do, whenever you want to do it
Like pursuing further studies; relocating anywhere you want to; going on vacation whenever and wherever you want to; going to any function or program whenever or wherever; basically doing anything you want to do whenever you want to do it
There are no limits to what you can do
You are as free as a bird
🦅
I get flabbergasted when I hear things like:
1. Single ladies cry themselves to sleep every night - what, why would I do that ?!!! 😳
2. Single ladies wet their pillows with their tears every night - ha ha ha ha ha, I don’t even use pillows, they give me neck pain 🤭
3. Single ladies envy all married women, even poor broke married women - really?!!! 🫤
4. Etc, etc crazy assumptions
The people who make such assertions are not in the minds of the single ladies to know what they are thinking of their unmarried condition, yet they will be making wild claims on behalf of the single ladies
For their information, having peace of mind as a single lady is far better than experiencing domestic violence as a married woman
And that’s on period
💆🏻♀️
See my twin. Anon 11:55.
DeleteWho says there is a problem? So if someone isn't married, that means "there is a problem"... Have you considered the fact that not everyone wants to be married ?
ReplyDeleteWell said.
DeleteAdding "problem" to this question is the problem. Should it be a problem if this happens so?
ReplyDeleteLet me join you to ask. So?
DeleteThat is why some married one second men just to avoid society's "problem."
DeleteMost men have complex problems. So if will be hard for her
ReplyDeleteShe's waiting for the right person
ReplyDeleteshe is too choosy
ReplyDeleteShe may not be physically, spiritually, emotionally ready to settle down.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for her soul mate 💕
ReplyDeleteNot settling for less
Not willing to marry down
Adunni
Me singing (Beyonce's voice)
ReplyDeleteAll the single ladies
All the single ladies 2x
You better rise up and suck up all attention......
Nothing the happen
Many things involve.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for the right person
Some are picker
Character
Family problem
Evil doings of the enemies.
Wicked people and jealousy
Etc
Let me tell a story about a lady friend in church.
ReplyDeleteWe both attend same church, very beautiful and educated. As at 2012, she was about 35 years old. He was very close to the head pastor then, so that day we had a programme where we had a lot of visitors. Unknown to her, the head pastor had planned a match make her with one of the big shoot visitor. On the day of the event, come and see trouble because of rice this lady fought like a mad person, she tore the other lady's cloth. This had never happened before, she was so reserved, little thing like food can never make her display such act. Up till today, we are still wondering what happened. When she heard the plan, she was devastated.The man didn't approach her again. If na you, you go continue the plan? Although she is doing well too but is still single.
Probably she hid her real character away from us. This is to note that no matter how much you hide, you can never hid it all.
Her character ripped her off.
This is Terrible. I was hoping the story would end happily.🥺
DeleteSome were "married for a sec, minute, day, week, month, year and even years and chose to divorce or walk away for their personal PEACE OF MIND. Real ladies and women have so much choices these days and can achieve motherhood at any age if they desire unlike in the past. They have no problems and the ones asking the questions about "problem" are actually the problem and society's finger. PLEASE LET SINGLE WOMEN BREATHE, NO BE PROBLEM OR CRIME.
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