Hmmmm....
This is aright of reply to Wednesday Chronicle
''Stella good afternoon. I know it's my husband that wrote this chronicle because I caught him using bedroom voice to talk to a lady in the middle of the night when he thought I was asleep. He ended the call with "I love you baby".
When I confronted him, he told me "he wasn't going to affirm or deny anything. That I should believe whatever I want to believe and that he doesn't usually bother defending himself against such allegations since I already have a conclusion in my mind so defending himself is baseless."
I reported to his elder sister and she called to scold him and ask him to apologize to me. He told her he wasn't going to apologize because he didn't do anything wrong. He said he was just pranking me. Imagine! Like am I a crazy person? Didn't I hear the lady giggle when he said I love you? So he and the lady decided to talk affectionately at 2am just to prank me? Really?????
That was when I withdrew into my shell. Shebi he's the head of the family? Any direction he chooses to carry this marriage to is where we will go. I will not kill myself again. I know the effort I've put into trying to make the marriage fun. If he decides to carry the marriage in the direction of a loveless bland marriage with his actions, we will go in that direction.
For the fact that he's having high blood pressure because I've chosen to dress according to the standard of my new office is his cup of tea. I'm the new head of customer service in the headquarters, should I be dressing the way I was dressing when I was in that village outside town relating with people that could barely speak English?
A place I had to seat in public transport for 2hrs or more with serious traffic sef. Then when I reach the bus stop, I will still climb bike before I reach my office. Office that when I reach, I'm already stressed and tired, is that where I will be wearing heels and be doing slay queen?
It's your guilty conscience that is dealing with you. I encourage you to even bring the FBI to investigate me. It's not only private investigator. Shebi you see that I've not talked and I've been avoiding you since the incidence last year? Please don't trigger me. Instead of you to address the issue of your infidelity, you are busy looking for what I don't know.
Please just allow me face my job in peace since you don't want me to face the marriage. Thank you!
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Gbam!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry Poster...You married a man-child; A Peter Pan that has refused to grow up....I love how you are handling it....If you can't take the heat from the kitchen anymore, please plan your exit for your peace of mind.....
DeleteAll the best....
I love you baby girl! Keep pressing his neck! Press his miserable neck till he can’t breathe. Blood sucking enemy of progress demon!
DeleteGbamest..
DeleteClosing Time ..
May God fix it
DeleteGod Abeg!!!!
ReplyDeleteThis lady I like you already, no time for rubbish.
ReplyDeleteOsetigo 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteExactly what i wanted to write 😀
DeleteAt a point, I was just chuckling while reading this.
ReplyDelete(Some) Men be dishing what they can't eat.
Oga if you like, dey find wetin no lost, you go just kpai troway.
GABM
ReplyDeleteEND OF DISCUSION
Only you dey fight to spell two simple words
DeleteGBAM
DISCUSSION
You both should sit down and talk. Marriage works when both parties make efforts to make it work. Oga should not use pride and jealousy to scatter his home. Ehm , madam just calm down eee.
ReplyDeleteCalm down keh ? She's calm already, Oga is the one running up and down like a crazy person
DeleteHe was just pranking you? It would have been better if he didn't say anything, than say that nonsense. Madam, abeg continue to dress well jare. When he is ready to talk, he will talk.
ReplyDeleteCANDY
Egusi for egusi
ReplyDeleteAura for aura
This reply sweet my belle 😂😂
ReplyDeleteE sweet me wellu wellu🤩. Poster continue to live your life, let him do him. Thank God you are progressing in your career.
DeleteHe wants you to be crying and sad over him.
Every right thinking person will know that it is guilty conscience that is affecting him,a I beg face your job.
ReplyDeleteUseless man .let him go and marry I love you baby na oloshi .
ReplyDeleteOga, Madam don reply you
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteMadam,
We just hope he heard all the every every he was told yesterday and has rebooted..
The two of you have said your parts.
None of you appear to have lied in the narrations.
His post therefore read like an indirect (though unmanly) acceptance of misplaced ego.
You both should go work on your marriage.
Nobody here will be there for either of you if it goes farther than it is.
Forget the hailings and the rest.
If you do not want to be married any more you both would have gone your separate ways since.
Some people left their marriages for lesser actions.
But if you are benefiting from the marriage as is, you may choose to luxuriate in the hailings.
You both know what is up in the marriage.
Best wishes.
Mr. Mann
Your husband is a pathological liar and a gaslighter. Imagine him telling his sister he was pranking you. You on the other hand...
ReplyDeleteYou shouldn't have sent this in. You should have allowed him frustrate himself while having so many negative thoughts running through his head.
This write up look like an indirect way of reassuring him you are loyal in the marriage...like a stylish plea for him to see you are not cheating hoping he will turn a new leaf becaue I don't know why you decided to calm him down with this your right of reply or why exactly did you send this in?
It's her marriage allow her do with it as she pleases. It's good she's still making the effort what will be her gain if she doesn't. It is well with them.
DeleteThank you! She shouldn't have sent this in.
DeleteOkro for okro😅
DeleteWhy she shouldn't have sent it in? Is it not better to straighten things out instead of this their toxic living. I will rather divorce than lives in toxic relationship, since there is no child involved yet. And I hate cheating married men/ women. If you are married stop cheating, it is very disrespectful.
DeleteI agree..she just put his mind at rest..very annoying, arrogant and possessive man..see him having hbp on suspicion his wife is cheating, meanwhile he's the one cheating 😒 I just can't!
Delete17:57 straightened things out? Nothing was crooked before except his greedy , possessive mentality and immoral lifestyle. That's the genesis of everything, his heart palpitation, anxiety, suspicions, fear and headache etc...
Deleteand until he turns a new leaf, all these her responses changes nothing for her but for him. He is not going to break up with his side chicks and treat her as she deserves, he is just going to sleep well at night knowing she goes nowhere. The man who sent in yesterday's chronicle is a crass, shameless and entitled man-boy person and yes! I was hoping she divorces him, she should have done that the moment he was professing love to another woman in their matrimonial home at midnight. He sleeps around and shouldn't be married. Marriage is not meant to be endured but enjoyed and that's what she is doing.
i said it yesterday that this woman is dressing according to the standard of the new office. shikena
ReplyDeleteMadam please is your name bolanle? Cos I love the way you dey pepper 🌶️ him🤣🤣
ReplyDeletePepper dem, Bolanle pepper dem ooo 💃💃🩰🩰
DeleteWho no like better thing? Bolanle like better thing😂🤣
Oga allow her face her work in peace. Funny enough, I thought about the chronicle this morning.
ReplyDeleteMy type of woman
ReplyDeleteBravo
😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteAll I see are two emotionally stunted individuals who have no business in marriage. Una still think say na boyfriend and girlfriend Una dey do.
ReplyDeleteHow is she emotionally stunted? What did she do?
DeleteOga are you okay at all? You think it's your wife that you command around abi
Deletepoor men with poor mentality
Oga rest. Address the issue at hand and stop cutting through corners because na your gender dey misbehave.
DeleteOga dog, respectfully sir, don’t piss me off this sunny evening. I’ll leave the yeye man enter you o
DeleteGuys, it’s sarcasm!
DeleteI guess for her not to be emotionally stunted, she should be dressing shabbily to work to appease the man?
DeleteYou do well.
You say??👀
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteSisterhood is very proud of you 👏
ReplyDeleteWay to go,don't die or have hbp over a man
Nothing do you madam. It is obvious that your husband is being dishonest and rather than be accountable and take responsibility he is busy gaslighting himself and any other fickle person that can't read between the lines.
ReplyDeleteWow! Oga na you start,now body dey pepper you said she dey dress well go office,oga just apologize and have peace
ReplyDeleteDis ya answer no follow joh
ReplyDeleteYou’ve given him the peace of mind he needed
Now he knows you’re not cheating
Guess you want him to know because you don’t want to lose him sha
Abi? Guy will now be careful to hide his cheating ways..what a narcissistic man.
DeleteAnd that's why he keeps treating her the way he does. She doesn't even value herself
DeleteI supported you in the comments yesterday. However after this reply I will tell you both this. You two are being childish especially the husband. Man, put your pride aside and reassure your wife before the distance between you two widen further. Stop cheating on her, there's nothing in those women outside your wife doesn't have. If you think she lacks something, teach her, support her and talk to her.
ReplyDeleteMadam, you too, stop involving a third party (his sister) quickly into your family issues. It looks like he wanted you to dress the way you are dressing now to your former office but you refused and stated your reasons to him. As fair as your reasons may be, you could have chosen 1 day in the week to do that for your husband so he can admire your beauty and be proud of it. It wouldn't have taken anything from you.
Finally Mr. Man, you are the head of the family, act like it, if there is an issue, sit your wife down and solve it quickly.
Go and rest.. Stupid comment
DeleteAnon 17:40 shut up! Some of you are so uncouth. State your opinion and leave others to state theirs aswell. Stop displaying your lack of home training every where. There's nothing wrong with the comment above.
DeletePlay play go soon turn to divorce. Husband carry matter come social media, wife sef reply through social media. Abeg make una sort uma matter for house ooo...
ReplyDeleteOga apologize to your wife and work on how to win her trust back. Push ego aside.
ReplyDeleteMadam congratulations on your new position. All the best.
He came here because he knows you will see it
ReplyDeleteIf you know men,this is a subtle apology and an attempt of sheathing swords
Bvs have bashed him,e don do
This right of reply you’ve said your mind,e don do
It’s okay
Both of you should go ahead and settle
Abeg go and hug your husband
We don’t pray for loveless bland marriage abeg
God forbid
Oga abeg near madam
Madam bear oga
Let God have the final say
Let peace return
Let joy return
Madam congrats on your new job
Oga don Dey get hbp
Oga you don see say madam na market too
Abeg e don do
Two of you chase ten thousand
It’s better than a thousand
God be praised
You are right. Now is the time to resolve the issues. Peace in your home 🙏
Deletefirst to report no dey win case. Oga you better read and adjust to your life, make your marriage sweet.
ReplyDeleteHmmm. It is well. May God heal your marriage. Continue to take good care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteI hope u two find a common ground to resolve your issue
ReplyDeleteIf staying in my lane was a person. This woman just said fck you late night whisperer, I’m gonna live my best life with or with you.
ReplyDeleteI just love her. If I was a man I would marry this Wonder Woman with a strong backbone. Go whisper to your old cow and watch her thrive. Keep going sister!🎊🎉
My sister do you and never stop being happy.
ReplyDeleteNow he knows your mind and your intentions. He will see this chronicle and see why you do the things you do.
Hope it calms him down.
Husband man... biko if you see this,carry all those your investigative energy and invest it into making your marriage work.
I wish you and your wife Marital bliss.
My joy is that you don't depend on him for your up keep. Ride on, dear! So many women are taking nonsense from their so called husbands all because the same men treating them poorly are their breadwinner... The man is a manipulative pathological liar. Serves him right👍
ReplyDeleteYour husband is a gaslighted and manipulator. He is love with another woman? Aunty,take care of yourself and fashi the he goat
ReplyDeleteChildish couple.. Rubbish and misleading comments as usual. Adhere to at your own peril.
ReplyDeleteDo me, I do you..as if you're teenagers, but you are both here sounding pained. Luxuriate in the hailing and then when u get back home I hope you also enjoy the reality of the atmosphere that's been created.
A wise, not woke, woman BUILDS her home. Building also means mending cracks.
Not going to bother reading the previous chronicle.
Come take a hug darling ❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteLoving the energy. You rock girl.
ReplyDeleteI pray God restore peace in your marriage 🙏
ReplyDeleteMr. Man, see your life outside. You brought your private affairs to the public , and see how they are bashing you and your wife left, right and center. Pls man enough and stop all this nonsense. A man that is truly a man will not involve a third party in resolving issues with his wife. You have a lot of grow up to do. Go to your wife and resolve the issue with her and let peace and love reign in your home.
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