''After my last baby, I would wake up, see fresh pepper soup and yam before me and start cry.ing.
I mean full blown serious crying and I would reject the food.
Food that I asked for in the first place.
Pain was driving me ma.d; pain at my incision site,
pain deep in my stomach and hips,
pain from breastfeeding,
4th CS is brutal!
Baby blues did me dir.ty.
Listen to me young lady, pregnancy and childbirth are no jokes!
Oh yes, we make it seem easy by jumping and dancing during the child dedication party with corset dresses and professional make up.
That journey is 50:50 and only favours some while taking some to he.ll.
If you don't have a good man behind you, don't get pregnant!
Don't try it, except you have very strong support system in family and friends.
Angela Nwosu has Bell Palsy induced by pregnancy.
Imagine if she didn't have a good and supportive man beside her?
That type of thing can push a new mother to extreme depression and even psychosis.
Before you start thinking of being a baby mama to some rich man,
or getting pregnant for a married man for money;
sit down and ask yourself these relevant questions:
"What if I get Bell Palsy?"
Will the baby-papa stay with me and support me?
"What if I develop post partum depression?"
"What if I start having sui.cidal thoughts?"
Oh, you don't know that some new mothers kpai themselves or their babies?
"What if I go blind?" So, you don't know?
Pregnancy affects the eye too and some women go blind after giving birth.
Some lose their teeth.
Some develop high blood pressure.
Others even develop diabetes.
Our mothers didn't tell us everything because motherhood is like a cu.lt.
Na when you enter, you go see Aba!
Don't get pregnant just to flex!
Don't get pregnant for both an emotionally and physically unavailable man!
Don't get pregnant to prove to a man that you are fertile.
You might be biting more than you can chew!
You might not be lucky like Angela!
Respect the process!
Udo
#ghostwriter #nozactwriting
Adaugo Onuegbu Nkwocha
I mean full blown serious crying and I would reject the food.
Food that I asked for in the first place.
Pain was driving me ma.d; pain at my incision site,
pain deep in my stomach and hips,
pain from breastfeeding,
4th CS is brutal!
Baby blues did me dir.ty.
Listen to me young lady, pregnancy and childbirth are no jokes!
Oh yes, we make it seem easy by jumping and dancing during the child dedication party with corset dresses and professional make up.
That journey is 50:50 and only favours some while taking some to he.ll.
If you don't have a good man behind you, don't get pregnant!
Don't try it, except you have very strong support system in family and friends.
Angela Nwosu has Bell Palsy induced by pregnancy.
Imagine if she didn't have a good and supportive man beside her?
That type of thing can push a new mother to extreme depression and even psychosis.
Before you start thinking of being a baby mama to some rich man,
or getting pregnant for a married man for money;
sit down and ask yourself these relevant questions:
"What if I get Bell Palsy?"
Will the baby-papa stay with me and support me?
"What if I develop post partum depression?"
"What if I start having sui.cidal thoughts?"
Oh, you don't know that some new mothers kpai themselves or their babies?
"What if I go blind?" So, you don't know?
Pregnancy affects the eye too and some women go blind after giving birth.
Some lose their teeth.
Some develop high blood pressure.
Others even develop diabetes.
Our mothers didn't tell us everything because motherhood is like a cu.lt.
Na when you enter, you go see Aba!
Don't get pregnant just to flex!
Don't get pregnant for both an emotionally and physically unavailable man!
Don't get pregnant to prove to a man that you are fertile.
You might be biting more than you can chew!
You might not be lucky like Angela!
Respect the process!
Udo
#ghostwriter #nozactwriting
Adaugo Onuegbu Nkwocha
Well said 👍
ReplyDeleteMarry a Kind Man
ReplyDeletePregnancy is between Life and Death
Later, some MEN will ask what WOMEN bring to the table. Naturally, Women were never meant to be Providers but Country no good at all.
It’s now all hands on Deck
She is always on camera. Even this video is for likes and clicks.
ReplyDeleteAlways on camera ooo. Even her house helps were not left behind. I wonder where her former beautiful house maid is now.
DeleteShe has a husband who loves her though
She is a content creator and social media 'celebrity'.
DeleteAngela Nwosu...
ReplyDeleteThe one and only digital Ogbanje!
Ada Aniedo!
It is well with you Maami in Soundmind's voice.
I follow Angela on YouTube and I bless God for her husband always. She is lucky to have a very supportive man. Be strong Angie you would be fine. For the write up a thought provoking piece.
ReplyDeleteHer husband is very supportive and caring. I do see her posts, the man loves her unconditionally. It becomes easy when you are with the right, not only right but a good and intentional man.
DeleteThere are still good men.
You're really a strong woman. 4th cesarean section?? God's speed 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteThe journey is not an easy one. God has been good mennn!
ReplyDeleteI'll also advise that couples should just have like 2 kids and rest! It's not an easy thing for some women. 4 CSs? That's so major and heavy on the body. Abeg o.
May God bless and keep the ones we all have been able to have. Your life as a woman is so important eh! Have your kids and look after yourself, there are other things to do with yourself.
Well spoken 👍
DeleteWhen I saw 4th CS, i gave up! Some women go just kpai dor nothing, the man go continue him life, ode!
DeleteI tell you oh, I wonder why anyone would want to undergo a 4th CS, people no dey fear?
DeleteI understand too well how quick pregnancy/delivery can go south, that scares me silly, people Wey dey born plenty dey tryabeg.
I tell you oh, I wonder why anyone would want to undergo a 4th CS, people no dey fear?
DeleteI understand too well how quick pregnancy/delivery can go south, that scares me silly, people Wey dey born plenty dey tryabeg.
She has only two kids, the 4cs was not necessarily to have a baby. She had other health challenges that warrants surgeries hence the 4cs
DeleteNo truer words.
ReplyDeleteI remember my own PPD.
Even with a very supportive man by my side then, I will cry at the slightest provocation, became aggressive.
I remember crying and sleeping off one day with my baby sleeping by my side. The school bus dropped off my three-year-old baby, I did not hear him come in, little one was pressed, he went to the toilet, pooed, didn't/could not clean himself, and came and lied down beside me and slept off.
That was when I got a grip of myself and faced the reality head on.
Awwnnnn, I can imagine the sheer stress.
Deletei honestly cant pity this one....take a break you will not hear. her husband even defended her that her being on social media is to distract her from her issues....girl take a break....anyway money has to continue to be made so they need to keep their page active
ReplyDeleteTrue talk...
ReplyDeletePregnancy and childbirth is not a joke
It takes only the grace of God to come out of it alive and healthy
Oh!!! This brought tears to my eyes. The pains of my CS site, Lord!!! I would cry every time, I breastfed my baby.
ReplyDeleteTwo weeks after my CS last year, on one faithful night, I over slept and my bladder was so full, I couldn't get up to use the bathroom, my mom was fast asleep, I so pitied her, I didn't want to wake her up, so I summoned my body with force, and crawled to the bathroom, I crawled with tears in my eyes, took off my undies and peed on that same bathroom floor😭😭😭.
Is it the sadness that envelopes me anytime I get angry, it was so overwhelming, and my crying would start all over again. Oh!!!! I went through hell, I'm so happy for healing both physically and emotionally.
Hmmm it's well. Mhen it's. not easy and some men would choose this time to do utmost trash
DeleteAwwww Take Hugsss Dear
DeleteHello iya Boys
Hugs 🤗
DeleteSo sorry dear, big hugs from here 🤗🤗
DeleteAdunni
I hope you're fine now sis.
DeleteIt's not easy
ReplyDeleteHonestly, it's not an easy journey but we thank God for everything.
ReplyDeleteTwo CS and no issues, Lord I'm grateful.
Women really go through a lot.
Well said.
ReplyDeletePregnancy did me shege.
I lost all my edges.
Pele dear.
Her husband is very supportive. I usually view their video. More grease to your elbow Angela Nwosu , you're a strong woman.
ReplyDeleteIsn’t she the clout chaser
ReplyDeleteClout chaser with bells palsy? Are you joking ? Did you just learn the use of the word? You just put phone for front of your face dey type rubbish. Show empathy or skip commenting .
DeleteSkip my comment if you can’t be civil. She is a clout chaser period
Deletemay God keep blessings and protecting all mothers. I pray no mother will miss out from eating the fruit of her labour. Mothers are truly special. I pray that all female will experience motherhood at their desired time and season amen.
ReplyDeleteAmen o
DeleteAmen 🙏 Mothers are phenomenal beings 🥰
DeleteAdunni
It's on social media that they make pregnancy seems like one easy something.
ReplyDeleteIt's is well with Angela Nwosu.
My own is how did Angela move from digital ogbanje that sells fortified beads/bangles and juju to catch rich man to a full content creator, I still dey pity gullible ladies that spent their hard earned money to buy spiritual items from her.
ReplyDeletePregnancy and childbirth is not a walk in the park and May God bless and strengthen all mothers.
Child birth is no joke, it comes with so many complications especially CS. May God help all women.
ReplyDeleteI am pregnant and the things my eyes have seen in this 11 weeks are better imagined. Hyperemesis health with me till I finally landed in the hospital emergency last weekend. I am scheduled for cervical cerclage procedure next week and I have told my husband, no more. Thus is my fourth pregnancy but I have 1living child as I have suffered 2 miscarriages in the past after the pain and stress of hyperemesis. Honestly, I never even planned this pregnancy but well, here we are. My husband wishes for a girl because we already have a boy and says that if it is a boy, then we are not done. But I have told him I DO NOT CARE if it is a boy or a girl, all I know is that I am not going through pregnancy again after this. It is easy for some, but not all of us.
ReplyDeleteWow, e hugs to you and wishing you safe delivery.....if you have money, you can opt out for surrogacy with gender selection.
DeleteThat your husband no try at all see his mouth like "if it is a boy you are not done" let him carry the next pregnancy, some men are just so insensitive tueh.
DeleteChai sorry! You really don see shege! Going through pregnancy is one of the hardest most tasking things any person can do. I don’t blame the p pole who pay for surrogacy, pr Nancy changes you forever in all possible ways
DeleteAwwww, so sorry dear 🤗🤗
DeleteAdunni
Looll, some men think it's easy, make e run am if it's that easy, I wish you a healthy pregnancy and safe delivery.
Delete4CS wow
ReplyDeleteHe no Easy oooo Chaiiiii
It well With Women ooo..
Hello iya Boys
Angela like being on the news
ReplyDeleteWell said 👍
ReplyDeletePregnancy and birth isn't a joke at all
Pregnancy is not an easy journey. I had carpal tunnel syndrome when i was pregnant. I couldn't hold anything because of the sharp pain in my wrist. I gave birth, lost the baby and still felt that wrist pain for more than 8months before the pain subsided.
ReplyDeleteOh my God, I'm so sorry.
DeleteWomen are strong creatures. Motherhood isn't a walk in the park. God bless every strong woman out there.
ReplyDeletePregnancy wahala may God help us
ReplyDeleteAngela the first woman to do CS.
ReplyDeleteMechie onu gi
DeleteWhy should you talk like that
Pregnancy and childbearing is not a joke at all. It is well with her
ReplyDeletePregnancy and child birth is not a child's play. May God see them through it all.
ReplyDeleteAnother couple I'm admiring their love like this couple is Obi Cubana and his wife. He so much loves that woman.
ReplyDeleteHow he was celebrated on his birthday will show you that he is a good man .
May God heal you Angela
ReplyDeleteAnd some stupid ladies will.be jumping into married men just to bear BABY MAMA. The man no send you for night sef.
ReplyDeleteWell said