Pinky's CORNER

‎Wahala Dey oooooo
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‎Alot dey happen for this life shaaa. I now see why some are scared of marriage. They don't even want to hear it or ready to be under any man and the men now are so tactical.

‎There is this guy(say Chimeaze) who got married few years ago to a pretty lady(say Jacinta). Meze has an elder brother(Say Jude) who is so close to Jacinta and in fact, when Jacinta and Meze have any marital issue, Jude is always stepping in to help resolve any issue most especially when it has to do with disagreement between both.

‎Recently, the wife(Jacinta) is always acting up and not always giving the husband the chance to do the do. This has been happening for close to a year and the husband was kinda confused and never knew what to do. He opened up to his neighbor who happens to be a single mother and she advised him to try and speak to his wife to know if there was something he did without knowing which is making the wife act somehow.

 The husband did as advised, funny enough, the wife decided to play on his intelligence. The man apologised even without knowing if he has committed any offense. Nothing changed.

‎Later, the husband was tired of everything and decided to call his elder bro to help speak his wife to know if he has done something wrong to deserve all the treatment. That very afternoon, he was still at his shop calling his brother but it seemed there was network issue and he decided to go check his bro at home (Note:the bro lives alone but once married with two kids).. 

He then went to his brother's house, since that one is always at home because most of his works are online. he got to his brother's place to find out that, his wife and his own brother are not only dating each other but seriously flogging each other. He was confused. Baba fainted and he was rushed to the hospital.

‎Thereafter, when baba woke up to reality, after much back and forth which took them like weeks, baba decided to divorce his wife but family insisted that,he shouldn't divorce his wife but forgive his brother and continue with his wife.

 I was confused when i heard. I thought my source was just trying to paint it for me until, i met and confirmed from another person. This guy in question has left home without taking anything. He is no where to be found, and also switched off his line. He dropped a message for his family saying He would rather go stay in the bush with animals than his family.

. This is a gist that woke me up on a Saturday morning. Was interested in the gist and had to go to place. That was the same day the family came to his house to see the message the wife said the husband dropped before leaving home without telling anyone. This life is crazy ajeh..

‎What would have prompted such a family to make such a verdict? Is there anything attached to it? I wonder whenever i hear what some people pass through in the name of protecting their family name. What would have even prompted the elder brother to sleep with his younger brother's wife? Does that mean both have been dating before the two lover birds met or what? It's a pity though and for the sake of sanity, broz has left leaving his family and the wife to continue with their nonsense.

‎One thing I don't appreciate is, my wife having my friend or one person in my family that can talk to her. If we both has issues, we should be able to talk things out than me calling a friend or a brother to come speak to my wife because of wetin. This world is truly a SMALL WORLD and you can get knocked down by people or family member you think you trusted.

‎Men should also learn to stop engaging married women. It's so annoying thinking about your enjoyment without thinking about the emotional bad side it will bring to the woman's husband. No matter what happens, even if you guys have once dated, once she is married, please, cut off everything. Although, some women are also guilty of this, they tend to keep their exes even after marriage with thinking of the negative impact. When you know you won't be good to go with your man, why say yes? Why going into a marital vow with him and still having an affair with your ex? It's totally wrong.