MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

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MONDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

How is everyone doing today? The weather is HOT and you are advised here to stay at home ooooooh, I am scared for some old people cos this kinda weather fit kpai them...oh my goodness.!!!!

We are outside!

LOL...... I be Naija na an hot weather no fit pursue me at all, I say make i buy some fresh strawberries and watermelon put for fridge.

Its a beautiful new week and I refuse to look back at last week and the nonsense .........I know what some want me to type but i choose when i do my thing and note that nothing anyone on this blog does moves me,I am a master of this game and you CANNOT WIN me...You troll me, youcan bully me, you can take me to any site you like to post trash but I win my battles when ichoose them....read this again.......READ IT AGAIN!!!.

Make una enjoy una day and stay outta dramas way, its too early in the week....

Dante this explanation is for you, I reposted your comment yesterday as anon for fun, this is my blog and i dont fear anyone for me to go anon so know this...As for that person(s) always asking if it is me to some comments posted as anon, you need to buy a brain on temu as fast as you can.........

Make the comments less toxic today......

Kisses

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FOR LADIES TO READ

Dont beg him.
Don't beg him to communicate more.
Don't beg him for fast replies.
Don't beg him to listen to you and understand your opinions.
Don't beg him to treat you better.
Don't beg him to make time for you.
Don't beg him to write you a love letter.
Don't beg him to unfollow women on social media.
Don't beg him to take you to your favorite restaurant unannounced.
The right man will be willing to do anything for you and understand you without you having to beg.
Stop settling for the bare minimum.
You and I both know you're worth more than that.
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FOR LADIES TO READ AND KNOW.

When you’re choosing a partner, don’t be blinded by his charm, good looks, or sweet words, pay attention to their heart.

Choose someone whose kindness isn’t a show for others, but a reflection of who they truly are.
Someone whose love extends not only to you but to the people you care about.

Find the person who makes you feel safe, valued, and deeply seen.
Someone who doesn’t make you question your worth or beg for their attention.

Someone who treats your heart like it’s fragile, not because you’re weak, but because they understand how rare it is to be loved genuinely.

Be with the one who notices the small things, who remembers how you like your coffee, who texts you even on busy days just to say, “You crossed my mind, and I miss you.”

Choose someone who shows up, not just in the good times, but when things get hard.
Someone who doesn't just hear you but listens to the words you have to say.

Who holds your hand in public and defends you in private.

Who doesn't just say "I love you" out of habit, but proves it in how they speak to you when they’re angry, how they care for your heart even when they’re tired, and how they fight with you, not against you, during the storms.

Never fall for words alone.
Words can be beautiful, but they mean nothing if they’re not backed by action.

Don’t stay with someone who constantly makes you feel alone in the relationship, who promises the world but leaves you begging for consistency.

You deserve a love that feels like home, not confusion. A love that is gentle, real, present—and every day, reminds you why you never settled for less.
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IS THIS TRUE LADIES?

If your man isn’t posting pictures of you.

If he isnt acknowledging your relationship on social media, you need to stop brushing it off and really look deeper.
Because more often than not, that silence speaks volumes.

He’s either already cheating, flirting, entertaining someone else, or at the very least.....leaving the door open for other women to think he’s available.
And that "I just like my privacy" or "I don't want drama" excuse.

That’s the go-to script for a man who doesn’t want to be held accountable for how he moves when you’re not around.

When a man loves you, when he's proud of you, when he’s....serious about you, he won’t hesitate to let the world know you’re his.
He won’t hide you like a secret.
He won’t tiptoe around the idea of claiming you publicly.
In fact, he’ll want to show you off.

It’s a pride thing.

It’s a “look what God blessed me with” kind of energy.

He’ll post your hand in his, your smile on his feed, your name in his caption... not because you’re begging for it, but because it’s natural for a man who values his woman to make her feel seen.
A man who refuses to post you is either not ready to lose his “single man” image or still trying to keep his options open.
And if he’s telling you he doesn’t want people “in his business,” ask yourself ..
what business is he trying to protect so badly ...

Because healthy love doesn’t fear transparency.
A good man will protect the relationship, yes....but he won’t hide the existence of the woman he claims to love.
You deserve more than being kept in the shadows. You deserve to be loved out loud....not just in private, not just behind closed doors, but publicly, proudly, and intentionally.

If he’s not posting you, and if he avoids acknowledging you online while posting everything else, including his lunch, his sneakers, and his gym selfies... it’s not about privacy.

It’s about priority.

So don’t fall for the soft lies dressed up as emotional boundaries.
If he can show off his lifestyle, he can show off his woman.
And if he won’t... someone else will.
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Whoever wrote this has insecurity problems oh..If a man does not announce you on his social media he can still be crazy about you and not cheating abeg

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