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Wednesday, June 04, 2025

Motherhood Chronicles

Lets talk about your struggle with motherhood and/or where you are winning..
It is so easy for some and so difficult for some..
What are those it is easy for doing right that the ones it is difficult for not doing right? Is there a manual to motherhood or you just go with the flow...…. 

 

26 comments:

  1. Motherhood no get manual. I have days where I just awwwwn in admiration of my status, and days where I just want to disappear out of frustration. Sometimes it gets so tough and I sit down and wail to my satisfaction. September is coming and I can't wait to start sharing my son with his teacher. Shout out to teacher NK and Co, you guys are the real heroes. Toddlers will whine you and you might die inside of you 200 times... but don't panic.

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  2. Motherhood doesn't have manual, what work for A might not work for B.
    The stress there is none to other. It's a journey that takes almost age of your youthful marriage.

    Although I enjoy some part of it but in next life I don't think I will consider it.
    Sometimes, I wish to run away from it.

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  3. Muscles Pull Refuse To Leave Me Since I Had My Son ...
    Especially My Hand
    Sometimes I will just Be Typing or Doing House Chorus muscle pull Will Just Hold My Right Hand..
    I wake Up Early As 5am To Get The Kids Ready For School,
    I wash Three Times A week With My Hands o
    Cook Almost Every Day...
    Fridays I wash The Bathroom,Still Washes Clothes So I can Rest On Saturday..

    Hello iya Boys

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    1. Pele dear, it's not easy taking care of kids.
      But try & be resting o 🤗

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  4. It's not been easy for me, sometimes I wish I waited a little bit o

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    1. God will make it easy for you sis 🤗

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  5. we are here to read and learn. Soon we will share our own testimony.

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  6. Motherhood is not easy at all, whether u birthed them early or later in Ur life, it's not a child play. It's when they are sick that u will understand better, the sleepiness nights, visiting hospital and still take care of others.

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  7. Some days are overwhelming, some days are fulfilling and some days, you just want to be alone but it's not possible especially when you don't have helping hands around.

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    1. Some days are overwhelming 😦
      And some days they fill our hearts with so much joy 🥰 God's got our back dearie.

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  8. WINNER, YES I AM!4 June 2025 at 15:59

    I really cherish my motherhood journey because my husband makes it so easy for me.

    My advice is that when you are growing into your twenties, stop eating junks, eat healthily because this will help combat on set of fibroid in the future and it also gives you a great figure/shape even after birthing battalion of children (talking from experience).

    Don't be having sex up and down.
    As for me, I never had sex before marriage. I never had the fear of STD or pregnancy while unmarried. I was focused and people call me SU.

    My type is rare because I respect my husband and until now if I need his help, I use please and end with thanks.

    I thank God for my children, I take care of them very well that people commend me when they see them. They look very adorable that I give glory to the Almighty. I give my all into this motherhood of a thing because I love it so much.

    I cook every day decades into my marriage and up till today , I cook good food. My family hardly ever eat outside and the very few times they do, my children will say, it's too salty.

    Try not to forget yourself by taking care of yourself too. Trim where you are supposed to trim, don't tie wrapper. Look good for yourself and see people compliment you . Up till today, people look at me and ask if I gave birth to these children. In few years to come, I'll be celebrating my 50th birthday but people don't believe I'm even in my forties.

    My mantra in life, you reap what so ever you sow ( Galatians 6: 7-8).I allow my husband take care of his family especially his aged mother, he has never defaulted in any month till today by giving his mum her stipend because I want my children to do same for me and I also take care of my own family too.

    If you have conscience and a good mind, God will lead you through.

    I believe in God and He talks to me about the future. Yes, God talks to me and I see things.

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    1. For me, i am actually struggling because my children came in my late thirties and mid fourties.I have always been someone that has people around to help out while younger but now its a hard work but i am grateful to God.I am not complaining.

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    2. Insightful, thanks for sharing 🙏🏼

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    3. WINNER, YES I AM!4 June 2025 at 19:00

      I also married in my mid thirties and gave birth till my forties.
      My husband helps out too but I'm very hard working since my childhood that I'm so used to it now. Also teaching my children too

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  9. Where will I even start from. Some days are easy ish but some days ehn, I ask myself why I even want another kid!

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  10. Someone said ' Motherhood is seeing your heart walk around outside your body & hoping the world is gentle with it' 🤗💕

    This was me this past week with the heavy downpour 💦 I have been following my kids to school every morning because of the bad road. When am not around for closing hour, I beg the Nanny in school to let them stay till 5pm. Even when they assure me they'll be fine, I still insist on going with them 😀 How can my mind be settled when I remember that road...I'll be thinking all sorts.

    May God continue to watch over them for us 👏

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  11. I'm very new into motherhood and it has blessed me with a strong passion to work harder than before, My baby gives me so much joy and strength.

    He's 6 months old now , laughs alot, and now that he crawls, gosh, I now run from pillar to post to keep him from danger, I see alot of smart kids out there and I pray he grows up smart, God fearing and respectful, I will see it by God's grace, I don't know how, but I will do all it takes.

    It not always easy, being a Mother takes you, breaks you and makes you again, at the end, I pray every day in my heart, that I get it right enough for my son to be my pride and the pride of my family.





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  12. Hmm motherhood. The kind of frustration that comes with motherhood at times cannot be explained. Especially if there is little or no helping hands. Sometimes I ask myself if I'm even doing it right. Sometimes these kids act like their ears are just for decoration making you talk and talk. It is well o.

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  13. I became a shadow of myself, for almost two years ran on less than 6hrs of sleep mostly 4hrs and a point I almost thought I was running mad.She turns 3 in a bit ,and I'm thankful got held me.

    I had her out of wedlock and lost relationship with my siblings in particular however my baby has become my best friend.She's still a handful and I love my quiet but learning to take the day as it comes.I hope to get my groove back when she turns 5 by God's grace.


    In summary my throwback is sharper than my present.😭😊😁.

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    1. **Thankful God held me**

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    2. May God see you through.

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  14. May God make it easy for us when it's time

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  15. Mine is my kids going late to school. Even if I wake up by 4am, they're still late to school.😩 I don tire, be like we're not morning people. Their school have accepted us the way we are.😟

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