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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BREAKFAST SERVED
I caught my boyfriend of 5 years cheating with a woman on Facebook comment section.I trusted him with everything in me. I was really there for him and gave my all to him. Oh my poor soul and heart.
This beautiful lady people adore, is the one this guy has decided to stain my white. I left my suitors for him.
When I confronted him, he lied that she's their family friend and they are just making jest of each other.....by calling each other husband and wife. I told him I don't believe him.Next he sent me a message 10 mins later in his words "Am so sorry it has to be this way. Man propose and God rearranges. We have really come a long way, I know you are a good person but we can't continue this relationship. The lady in question is actually my wife, for I have made my intention formally known to her family. She is a good person and I love her. I know this will be a shock to you, I crave your indulgence to tamper justice with mercy. Please forgive me and let it go from your heart''.
Under rain; in the sun I was there for him. I lost my job last year and my boyfriend jumped into the arms of a widow with 3 children. I'm shocked.
What a wicked man!!!!
Please ignore him and try to get another job and live your life...He is obviously one of those men that use women.....So sorry about this heartbreak, you will meet a better man OK?
Dear Poster,
ReplyDeleteSorry about ordeal... He is truly not meant for you and you deserve better....how long did you guys date? Count it all joy that you saw it happen live and wasn't hidden from you....
Dry your tears; you deserve the best 👌 Those you put on pause or on hold because of him; go and start doing them for yourself...Please don't be tempted to do pepper pepper dem just to show you are doing fine; he is not worth proving anything...
Wishing you all the best
The right man is coming for you...
Oh just saw it 5 years...Now that's a long time to date...Anyhoo just learn your lessons, heal so you can be whole and right for your man...
DeleteAlways come as clean as you can. Who will date you,will date you regardless of status. Getting someone invested this way when you know you're deliberately misleading them is pure evil and just gives guys a bad name.
Delete@poster...Kpele. Hope you heal and completely too.
I'm so sorry dear...this can be so painful,cry,if you want and please dust yourself and CV and get something to keep you busy and occupied...may the best man find you my dear
ReplyDeleteWindow with 3 children over you? .no be clear eye dear
ReplyDeleteE fit be clear eye, may e be greediness, you know guys of these days are desperate to dig gold anywhere they see it, I believe he went after the lady because of money, not love.
DeletePoster see it as blessings in disguise, your own man will locate you very soon, and you will be glad your relationship with this guy didn't work out.
Na very clear eyes.
DeleteNa money bought over.
Be like you know no wetin dey sup for Men of these days.😁😁
His eyes is very clear. He knows what he is doing. Poster don't be too hard on yourself. On you must move. Don't allow him to meet you where he left you.
DeleteVery correct clear eyes,the guy is a gold digger and wicked
DeletePoster the Man meant for you will come,so sorry.
Na wa oh
DeleteWhat if he likes th widow more
Or you guys think he can only follow single mother for monte
The guy is red banner, poster book mass or do Thanksgiving for this rescue God did for you.
DeleteEven if it's jazz, they wouldn't have been able to jazz him if he didn't go tasting their kpekus. So, he wasn't allowed to come back to where he was when he stepped out because of long throat
DeleteSo sorry sis, you will be fine.🤗...
ReplyDeleteHe is a very selfish and wicked person.
Madam you be nysc? Dis one you were there for him under rain and in the sun
ReplyDelete😂😂which one be nysc
Delete😂😂with dedication and selflessness
DeleteLol.
DeleteCry all you want and pick yourself up. He is not worthy of you at all!! This man is an "anywhere belle face" type of man.
ReplyDeleteYou've lost a lot, I know. Your time, resources, sacrifices all down the drain. You didn't any wrong Loving and caring for him, it is his loss.
Delete all his contacts, block him everywhere.
If you want to curse him, by all means do that but what you should never do is take him back when he comes crawling back.
I'm so sorry sis, you'll be fine 🤗
How will you date someone for 5yrs sef.
ReplyDeletePlease move on and focus on yourself. Let your self investment and growth be your clapback
Dated for five years? Naaa. You guys didn't break-up. You graduated.
ReplyDeleteAny relationship that wasn't defined early enough is just a confluence of jokers and as such no one owes the other anything.
If it has exceeded 6 months and the man hasn't made firm steps towards commitment, then the lady is actively giving her permission for her time to be wasted.
I'm sure nah because of money him jump ship. Lazy men don dey turn to epidemic for this country.
ReplyDeleteTake heart dear, your own will come. With time if you look back you will even curse yourself wondering what you saw in the good for nothing man
Na gigolo
DeletePoster dear so sorry. I Know it hurts. Cry if you must but my dear after crying pick yourself up and rebrand you. When he comes back which I know he will cos people like him with deceptive spirits don't last where they choose to perch. When he returns let him meet you better and unavailable.
ReplyDeleteThank God he took his trashy self out of your life. I know how heartbroken you will feel especially for a relationship of 5 years. But dear, he doesn't deserve any of your tears. He has no love, no empathy, zero humanity and no joy. Please let him go with his emptiness and cruelty. Let him take the bad energy that has so eaten him and he's exhibiting away from you.
ReplyDeleteMove on dear. Now that he's out of your life, concentrate on yourself and build yourself.
Nice for him to have left, he's certainly not worth the trouble.
ReplyDeletePls cry and after that get a good grip on yourself. The future holds something much better.
Treat him like cancer and cut him off from everywhere.
You dodged a big bullet my darling.
ReplyDeleteYou have no idea how bad it is for someone to be with you for the wrong reasons.
What if you married him, and you're the financially responsible one in the home, while he leaches and cheats on you with others? Isn't that a bigger prob.lem?
In as much as it's hard, this is working together for your good. Ask God to help you heal, and on time too.
You need to forgive him for your peace sake and progress. Can't be wasting all that energy on a good riddance...
Your good deeds to him has been recorded by God and d rewards will come soon, with a spicing of a far better and worthy man, one who values you and appreciates the gift of you in his life.
An Odogwu Paranran
Just hand him over to God and tell God to forgive you.
DeleteSee eh, complain is allowed
Crying is allowed
Thinking is allowed but remember every good and perfect gift comes from God. Trust God for your own perfect gift.
Move on
So sorry dear. E-hugzz 🤗
ReplyDeleteHe's not meant for you. Just pray over and tell God to bless you with a man that will adore you.
Rejoice for the Lord has set you free, And you should be happy about it, You almost married a very wicked man.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteHonestly, I think this is all a blessing in disguise. If he has been stringing you along for five whole long years and not let his intention known to you or your parents then he would have wasted your time for another five years. Thank God for releasing that dead weight and thank that woman for opening a new door in your life.
ReplyDeleteYour heart may be broken but instead of sadness you should be rejoicing that the truth is revealed and you know he was only with you because he is a hungry belly seeking from where he can get a hot meal. He ain’t the one for you. Next time you plan to labour in the name of love make sure it is for someone who values, respects, honours and who Is labouring for you too.
Investigate the employment market and see where there is a need for workers. If you are up to it move to another city where work is easy to get and start fresh.
Ehugs to you poster, please wipe your tears and move on. He doesn't deserve you.
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine.
this one no be clear eye oo. them don use Jazz collect your boyfriend
ReplyDeleteFive Whole years !!! No commitment, don't try that Shi again with anyone else dear. Some people are just callous . Pele
ReplyDeleteDust yourself up and enjoy a whole life ahead of you💕
Some have married and given birth twice in the same five years. Time wasters will fck up your life and leave you at the drop of a hat. She better not let anyone waster her time like that again.
DeleteSorry poster, please try and move on, one day at a time.
ReplyDeleteHe is a wicked man.
Sorry dear
ReplyDeleteYours will come
Reading his message alone shows the kind of person he is.
ReplyDeleteVery heartless thing. No emotion or empathy.
I wonder why is very difficult for some ladies to read between the lines, because this man right here has left the situationship long before now.
What you should be doing now is to be reading up on the books that teaches you how to get over a heartbreak 💔 because you go really need it as it shows that you have been dating yourself.
Why are you even dating someone for 5 good years and even doing everything for him?? He's not your husband.
All I see here from your own side is desperation. Keeping blind eyes because you're desperate and got fu!ked last last.
I wish I can tell you sorry, but is not gonna heal you and this is like self inflicted pain.
You will be fine.😎😎
Is when you fall in love with a wicked and heartless person,then you will believe that devil exists.
DeleteI’m happy for you
ReplyDeleteYou don’t see it now but this is a good thing
You have not found husband
Pls move on
It is a blessing that things transpired as they did. You deserve someone of higher standing, and the divine will bring that person into your life.
ReplyDeleteThis individual will exhibit unwavering dedication and never consider abandoning you.
Although certain situations may seem appealing at first, they often prove disappointing upon closer inspection. Therefore, it is crucial that you avoid reestablishing the relationship, as his willingness to leave demonstrates a lack of genuine care.
Focus on personal growth and engage in activities that bring you happiness.
The right individual will come, and when he does, there will be no uncertainty or doubt.
They will sweep you off your feet, and only the divine can provide such a person.
You will be fine.
May The Lord Grant You Your Heart Desires In Jesus mighty name 🙏🫂
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
Ndo beautiful. You'll be fine. Ther are more male gold diggers now than females. Our last born entered into one of them hands ,though I warned her ,she didn't listen. Thank God,she came back alive with her only son.
ReplyDeleteHe was dating you for money and doing the same to her also.
ReplyDeleteYou should be happy that you're no more with him.
The guy na real bad guy after all mukeke on top 5yrs all ended by a text .Women develop yourself marriage is not an achievement;;yours is not strange somebody is also going through it .Better luck next time
ReplyDeleteI am so speechless
ReplyDeleteSo speechless dear.
DeleteLet him go, he was never meant for you.The one destined for you will find you.
ReplyDeleteCry as much as you can and get back up on your feet as much as you can. It's better now than later sis.
ReplyDeleteWhen I say men don't take you serious if you make the most sacrifice on their behalf you think I don't know what am saying. This is a well known fact, if you check around you will notice. Make sacrifices for them only if they have done so much for you and they will take you more serious but if you do more than they have done for you, my sister you are on a long thing.
ReplyDeleteGod just saved you from a leach, you should be happy.
ReplyDelete5 solid years that you should have used to achieve a degree abi more than one degree. Let the idiot go while you build your life, the right man will come soon.
ReplyDeleteGod saved you. If you had not caught him, he would have kept you believing that he was ready to wife you.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this! I think 5 years is just too long ...take heart and move on, even though it hurts...pls don't do a 5 year relationship next time...I wish you well
ReplyDeleteSometimes that heartbreak may be saving you from future tears, please try to move on okay. Your spirit guide is trying to save you, move on
ReplyDeletePoster, it is well. Story of my life. We make so much sacrifices and they jump on a lady that won’t do a quarter of what you’ve done. You should take it in good faith knowing God is preparing the very best for you. If that lady dumped him, you’d have been his plan B and you’d have ended up marrying someone that doesn’t love you. Pray and forgive him from your heart, pick up yourself, focus on bettering your life, be more intentional about who you date next. It’s not easy but God will help you. I pray you look back years from now and you’ll thank God and see His wisdom in all of this. Amen!
ReplyDeleteMy dear thank God that you have not married him mine after marriage he when back today he is with . married women tomorrow he is with divorce and he nos theere husband my problem now am on IVF treatment I don't need is stress. O God help me.
ReplyDeleteAah some men can be so heartless. Why do I feel like throwing him mitsimitsi. Evil man!! Poster sorry, wipe your tears, he doesn't deserve you.
ReplyDeletePoster, I'm so sorry for the pains and hurt, please don't accept him back when he comes begging you for a second chance,he never loved you,he was there because you were working,God will compensate you with a man you never expected.forgive him and move on.🥰🌹❤️
ReplyDeleteSo heartbreaking. I was even about to say you're overreacting till I read the whole thing. So sorry. I pray your ideal man locates you
ReplyDeleteForsake the foolish and live, and go in the way of understanding .Prov 9:6
ReplyDeleteSorry about what you are passing through Ma
ReplyDeleteBut am not sure he loves you. What were you people doing in a relationship for five whole years?
Better luck next time
I'm so sorry he hurt you. My boyfriend lost his job last year and I took care of all his bills but when his Ex girlfriend sent him money cuz I didn't have any more to give he left me and ran back to her forgetting all I did for him
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