Hmmmmm.......
ONE CHANCE BLIND DATE
I and someone started chatting on a Dating App,and he started by asking of my genotype which I answered...
He then asked if I had any child/children which I answered too, he claimed most women on the App are single mother's.
Then he initiated we meet, after few hours of chatting which i rescheduled to a convenient time.
Then he initiated we meet, after few hours of chatting which i rescheduled to a convenient time.
we agreed to meet for 2pm at an eatery but by 1pm, uncle was rushing me to meet up with him. I reminded him of 2pm as our agreed meeting time.
By 2pm, I called him saying I was at the agreed location, an eatery.(I heard a baby/child crying in the background but kept cool).
I wore a Denim(shirt and trouser paired with sneakers) then covered my hair with scarf.
Uncle showed up in Denim too, laff wan kee me(I kept my cool). He asked if i wanted anything to eat and I said I was okay and needed nothing. He said he would't have worn Denim if he knew i was going to wear same.(coming from someone who doesn't appear healthy).
Few minutes after he came, he ordered something for himself, he sat and was eating while asking me questions which I answered.
After a few minutes of eating, he asked me to excuse him for ten minutes then he left. As soon as I noticed he was out of sight, I carried my bag and left for my house.
At Exactly 2:30pm, he chatted me saying he won't be coming back to the eatery as he got a call from work and we will talk later(laff won finish me). I just read the chat and didn't reply and he didn't reach out afterwards.
It Seems there is a pattern with guys on the Dating App? Because they are always in a haste to meet whosoever that are chatting with.
I pray that Love finds me this year, because i am tired of being single.
At Exactly 2:30pm, he chatted me saying he won't be coming back to the eatery as he got a call from work and we will talk later(laff won finish me). I just read the chat and didn't reply and he didn't reach out afterwards.
It Seems there is a pattern with guys on the Dating App? Because they are always in a haste to meet whosoever that are chatting with.
I pray that Love finds me this year, because i am tired of being single.
Hahahahahahahah so who paid for the food he ate?...These men have a pattern ....
You should not have bothered to go since you already knew that he is a married man......Please next time dont agree to meet so soon again......I pray that love finds you soon.
M#d men on loose, he practically knew you're not the type of person to be played on, he ran. May love locate you my dear.
ReplyDeletePoster love will find and guide you to your God ordained husband...You are a sharp and smart girl...Leave these dating apps for now, most of the men there are moving mad...
DeleteImagine a married man act silly...Your man will find you..Keep being yourself, more outgoing
Poster, what are you feeling like? You tried to portray yourself as catching cruise with the date (with all your yeye phrases in parentheses). But you are desperate for companionship/love, so stop putting up a wrong narrative. Mtscheeeeeeeew!!! The guy showed up and you looked unkempt with your denim, just same way you felt the guy looked tardy and "unhealthy" with his denim too (according to you)
Delete21.52,are you the one she wrote about? Yeye
DeleteStella probably the poster went ahead with the date thinking uncle is one of those Rich married men in lagos they watch on TV lol
ReplyDeleteLove would find you ma, but while you wait. Be useful, and productive. The only time you are qualified for a relationship is when you don't really need one. Happy Sunday
ReplyDeleteHaaa. Having a meeting with him was too early abeg. Not even for someone like me wey dey fear fear. God will bring your lover to you this year.
ReplyDeleteHungry mucheche😂🤣
ReplyDeleteBut why did you wear a scarf to a first date nau? Haba! Please don’t do that again. I’m not surprised he felt a need to escape. You should look your best always. Not necessarily expensive Clothing or jewelry or makeup. But practice your A-game.
ReplyDeleteLike!
DeleteHave u seen the fashionable way Chioma of goodhair uses her scarf (that way the way the scarf was used to cover my hair, as i have a ghana weaving underneath)
DeleteCan someone please explain the denim thing? I sincerely don’t get it.
ReplyDeleteDenim =jean fabric
DeleteThey dressed alike .
Time wasters on the loose
ReplyDeleteYou must have looked boyish in that denim fit and sneakers. So not sexy
ReplyDeleteI actually tried to dress according to the Location and it was a day time meeting
DeleteDating apps? 😳
ReplyDeletePeople have no decorum these days. Even if nothing comes out of a date you can part congenially and even develop a longterm friendship. Thank goodness he was turned off that way he wouldn’t fake liking you to get a notch on his bedpost. Many men on those apps are seeking easy seck and some will even fake a relationship if they feel they will get it.
ReplyDeleteKeep dressing however you feel comfortable, who is for you will see beyond the exterior.
Just don't understand what this Chronicle is about or meant to portray.
ReplyDeleteBtw... Who ties a scarf on denim biko?
Dressing has rules. Some things are just no no.
There is nothing wrong with scarf unless the person tied it shabbily
DeletePls do not doubt or wonder how it's going to happen.Miracles still happen and to those who are able to overcome their fears and eradicate anxiety, they have the ability to steal blessings.
ReplyDeleteRelax and leave it to God.He will bring the man destined for you.
Love will find you soon dear anon 🤗
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm,date app no be for me.
ReplyDeleteAmen...thank u
DeleteVery weird and shameless encounter 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteThe men on dating apps are just not it, one claimed to be married and asked if I don’t mind mingling with a married man 😩the second one after chatting hello and hi for maybe a month just out of the blue chatted “I can make my way to your side” we’ve never even had a proper conversation just “ hello..hi..how are you.. etc which I was just indulging I responded”????” He didn’t reply.
ReplyDeleteOnline dating is a huge no most of the men there are looking for hookups and easy sex.
To find your soulmate these days ehn. Very draining. I'm so sorry for this experience
ReplyDeleteLove will find you dear 💕
ReplyDeleteDating apps can be suspicious but some have met their spouses there. Just be careful out there ok?
Adunni
I think i missed the gist of this. What is wrong with jeans on a date?
ReplyDeleteOr a scarf.
My spring uniform is white buttonhole French tuck into jeans ,kitten heel.
If the top of my car is open ,silk scarf to tie down hair.
Poster dont mind him. What a ninny
If you’ve not dated married men before love will find you, but if not….
ReplyDeleteMany girls see it as fun running after people’s husbands that particular action has rendered so many girls single and desperate at last.