Hmmmm.....
ADVICE NEEDED
Hi BVs! Please I need you guys honest opinion.
I work in an organisation that has eleven departments. So 5 years ago I got married to one the staff in my dept though different section (it's allowed) but the marriage packed up after a year.
Now another staff from different dept is asking me out and he's talking about marriage already. He's a widower and needs to remarry as soon as possible.
My dear I'm confused. Though the company is big but we the staff know ourselves. Please what should I do?
Why does he need to remarry as soon as possible and not becos you both are in love and wanna be together? This is a red flag....
Dont do office Romance, often times it never ends well.....If you ask me i would say, dont do it unless one of you leaves that Job.
Do it
ReplyDeleteStella, she is the desperate person. How can you even contemplate marriage with a 2nd guy in same office? Only a desperate woman that lacks wisdom and shame does that. Sorry for my harsh words but it is the truth
DeleteAnother 'marriage packed up', loading!!
ReplyDeleteThought you might have learnt something. It's obvious. Please stop office romance. 🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteWhy are you confused?? Why is he in a hurry to marry you sef???
ReplyDeleteLet him be the one to leave the company then you can marry him
ReplyDeleteWhat's the urgency
Poster.. though you have much more knowledge about this, you did not state your own opinion or desire and you are asking Stella and BVs that have little or no relevant information about your story to give you opinion on it.
ReplyDeleteNa wa for you o.
He is in a hurry to remarry, why?
ReplyDeleteYou poster, do you want to remarry now?
If yes,
Date and study each other well before marriage.
Pls don't rush in, so that you won't rush out.
Aunty, shine your eyes well, well....
ReplyDeletePlease why did the first marriage ended, hope is not because of office issues...... Don't reap entirely in that place again, especially this one that want a quick marriage.
ReplyDeletePls try another person outside your office.
ReplyDeleteYou sound like the one in a hurry. Are you trying to beat your ex down the aisle? Marry him if you so desire, but one rule of life to remember is that women should never sleep with men who run in the same circles. The day may come where they become friends and you will be the topic of discussion. If you end up divorced from the second marriage you will be the talk of the company and not in a good way. If the marriage is bad you may remain in it to save face and cause harm to yourself. So know all the possibilities before you jump the broom and ask yourself if it is worth it. Yes, it could be amazing, may God guide you.
ReplyDeleteSis, when it comes to marriage there’s no hurry. For someone who just had a failed marriage you should heal and reflect. Never see anybody as if I don’t take this chance it will go
ReplyDeleteDon't marry for the wrong reasons again . By now you should have learnt better.
ReplyDeleteMadam, face your job and look for love outside that organization! Don't let them recycle you o.
ReplyDeleteWhat should you do ke?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, why are you in a hurry to marry according to another person’s timeline? Do you want another divorce under your belt? In my opinion, you need to calm down, I don’t think you’re really thinking things through before marriage.
You don’t meet men outside your workplace?
ReplyDeleteSee problem o
ReplyDeleteAre destined to date men from your office or what?? Man no dey outside again
Nne biko look before you leap
She may end up becoming the office bicycle, where everybody gets a ride.
DeleteBeautiful friends while you watch his attitude, make sure you study him very well. Do not open your legs.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, I don't advise you date or even marry anyone else in that organisation before they'll turn you to limited company. Why the urgency for him to marry? He needs a nanny for his kids or what
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