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Hello Stella and bvs, pls I need help.
I'm a woman, married. Things have never been smooth financially for almost 18yrs now that we have been together, we are always struggling no matter how hard we work. Also, we have only one son who is now done with secondary school. Another child has refused to come despite all our efforts medically.
I'm a woman, married. Things have never been smooth financially for almost 18yrs now that we have been together, we are always struggling no matter how hard we work. Also, we have only one son who is now done with secondary school. Another child has refused to come despite all our efforts medically.
We are both in our 40s now.
The main issue is that I have been having scary dreams for years, I pray when I wake up, sometimes I fast too.
Recently the dreams are becoming more confusing.
Here are some of my weird dreams:
The main issue is that I have been having scary dreams for years, I pray when I wake up, sometimes I fast too.
Recently the dreams are becoming more confusing.
Here are some of my weird dreams:
I normally dream of seeing myself in my childhood house and neighborhood, primary/secondary school or higher institution. I would be walking along a familiar road and then get lost and struggle to find the way home.
I would be trying to climb up a mountain but very weak and slow.
I would see my late dad in my dreams living together as if he was still alive.
I would dream that I'm gbenshing or doing foreplay with my husband or almost making out with another man. This dream happens once in a while.
On a few occasions I have dreamt of carrying a new born baby, etc.
To the weirdest of the dreams that I had recently, in the dream, I was said to be married to two people - a male and a female.
In that dream, their names were even mentioned and the solution was given in the dream, that I should buy two rings, pray on them, break them and throw them away.
I was so scared when I woke, up. I had the dream around 6: am on Thursday.
This is me who have never promised any man marriage and failed him before I married my husband, I have never been involved in a lesbian relationship, never cheated on my man right from our dating days up till now.
Where and how did I marry a male and female?
In my confused state, I decided to attend MFM church and see their pastor for counselling as my own church is not so big on fire prayers and spiritual things.
The pastor told me that I have spiritual husband(s) that has prevented me from reaching where I should be in all aspects of life and that I have kids in the spirit world, hence the baby dreams and not having more than one child in real life.
He said the only solution is for me to go to MFM prayer city for deliverance and that he will give me a letter to take there. He said it is free, I will just buy a few toiletries.
He also said I will spend three days there.
The problem here now is that I live in another state. I will have to travel down there.
Also, my husband is against going for prayers and spending the night in any church. He is not a church man, he had seen pepper in the hands of pastors and church elders in the past so he now believes in praying for yourself, he doesn't attend any church but he allows us to attend.
My questions:
1: Is the interpretation given by the pastor correct? Or should I discard the whole thing and move on?
2: If he is correct, are there bvs here who had gone to MFM and got delivered from whatever problem took them there? This is because I have seen posts here where the bvs said they went for deliverance there several times and still no headway.
I want to know if it is worth risking the peace in my marriage for.
3: Is there a way I can fast and pray on my own and get delivered? Which Bible verses and prayer points or prayer book should I buy to do it?
4: Bvs pls which other solution do you have that doesn't warrant me to travel anywhere?
If the dreams are to be taken seriously.
Thanks as you respond. Thanks SDK.
I would be trying to climb up a mountain but very weak and slow.
I would see my late dad in my dreams living together as if he was still alive.
I would dream that I'm gbenshing or doing foreplay with my husband or almost making out with another man. This dream happens once in a while.
On a few occasions I have dreamt of carrying a new born baby, etc.
To the weirdest of the dreams that I had recently, in the dream, I was said to be married to two people - a male and a female.
In that dream, their names were even mentioned and the solution was given in the dream, that I should buy two rings, pray on them, break them and throw them away.
I was so scared when I woke, up. I had the dream around 6: am on Thursday.
This is me who have never promised any man marriage and failed him before I married my husband, I have never been involved in a lesbian relationship, never cheated on my man right from our dating days up till now.
Where and how did I marry a male and female?
In my confused state, I decided to attend MFM church and see their pastor for counselling as my own church is not so big on fire prayers and spiritual things.
The pastor told me that I have spiritual husband(s) that has prevented me from reaching where I should be in all aspects of life and that I have kids in the spirit world, hence the baby dreams and not having more than one child in real life.
He said the only solution is for me to go to MFM prayer city for deliverance and that he will give me a letter to take there. He said it is free, I will just buy a few toiletries.
He also said I will spend three days there.
The problem here now is that I live in another state. I will have to travel down there.
Also, my husband is against going for prayers and spending the night in any church. He is not a church man, he had seen pepper in the hands of pastors and church elders in the past so he now believes in praying for yourself, he doesn't attend any church but he allows us to attend.
I have not even told him about this development because it may backfire and affect my marriage.
My questions:
1: Is the interpretation given by the pastor correct? Or should I discard the whole thing and move on?
2: If he is correct, are there bvs here who had gone to MFM and got delivered from whatever problem took them there? This is because I have seen posts here where the bvs said they went for deliverance there several times and still no headway.
I want to know if it is worth risking the peace in my marriage for.
3: Is there a way I can fast and pray on my own and get delivered? Which Bible verses and prayer points or prayer book should I buy to do it?
4: Bvs pls which other solution do you have that doesn't warrant me to travel anywhere?
If the dreams are to be taken seriously.
Thanks as you respond. Thanks SDK.
Why dont you try the solution you were told in the dream? You heard the solution to your problems directly and you are running helter skelter......So your spiro hubby is always sneaking into your dream to gbensh you?nah wah!!1
Why do we have to go to certain places, before God 'answers' prayers??
ReplyDelete@Poster, I totally understand what you are going through. I too went to MFM for deliverance. I'll tell you that the prayer there is very intense. If you can, I'll advise you go.
DeleteGo into deep fasting and prayers for a specific period of time and then do as you were told in the dream.
ReplyDeleteScattering what you are trying to keep, "your family" will never bring solutions to your problems. I will advise you to become serious with God, fast and pray on your own with all seriousness, start reading the Bible, asking God to guide you. I bet you will find God.
ReplyDeleteI have heard of many who went to MFM and got results.
ReplyDeleteBut they operate in every state. So you mustn't travel to the headquarters.
Or Nsppd 7am every morning. Monday to Friday. Join via YouTube or mixer. Good nsppd mixer and join for audio version
Join NSPPD 7 am prayers and you will feel and see the hand of God upon your life and household. In case you don’t know how to join, type NSPPD on your YouTube search bar and join every morning, from Monday to Friday.
DeleteYou dreamt and a solution was given to you on a plater of Gold, you no believe am because no be prophet or man of God talk am.
ReplyDeleteNa the one your follow human being talk, you wan follow up, but the one revealed to you is irrelevant.
Some times, I think we are our own enemy of progress 😏.
WE MOVE!!
I think the poster doesn't know what prayer points to pray and break the alliance, from what she wrote above.
DeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteOur dreams and struggles are real.....many women silently carry this kind of pain........Dreams of being stuck, lost, married to unknown people, or carrying babies you never had can signal spiritual delay, emotional trauma, or suppressed desires........
But before fear takes over, pause.
1. Yes, spiritual warfare is real. But in a tough country like Nigeria, many delays are also caused by:
A. A broken system that frustrates effort
B. Poor choices we make or repeat unknowingly
C. Staying in routines that no longer serve us
D. Wrong partnerships or lack of planning
Here is what you need to do
1. Yes, spiritual warfare is real, but fear shouldn't lead your decisions.
2. If you feel peace about going to MFM for deliverance, go but talk to your husband honestly. Peace in your home matters too.
3. You can also fast and pray from home. God hears you anywhere. Use scriptures like Isaiah 54:17, Ephesians 6:10–18, and Psalm 27. Midnight prayer and fasting for 3–7 days can be powerful. Combine that with wise decisions and open-minded thinking.
4. Use targeted prayers like:
"Every unknown covenant affecting me, break by the blood of Jesus."
"I reject any spiritual husband or evil tie in my life."
Don't rush out of fear....Let God lead, not fear or pressure......Many have been delivered through MFM, others through personal prayer....The key is consistency, faith, and obedience.
You are not forgotten....This may be your breakthrough season, not your breaking point. God has not given you the spirit of fear but of love, power and of a sound mind....
All the best....
This sounds like the type of answer chat gpt would give.... was this advice AI generated?
DeletePoster JOIN NSPPD EVERY MORNING MONDAY TO FRIDAY 7AM NIGERIAN TIME.(Facebook or you tube search for streams of joy international on Facebook or PASTOR JERRY EZE ON YOUTUBE)
ReplyDeleteSEARCH FOR THE PRAYERS OH LORD SHOW MERCY AND PRAY WITH IT. DON'T GIVE UP FOR SURLY THERE'S AN END.
Stella please post thank you. The Poster needs to see it
Also poster even if you don't see results immediately continue to pray
ReplyDeleteJoin NSPPD 7 am (Mon - Fri), also pray about that solution given to you, no buy any ring o.
ReplyDeleteDreams of Childhood Places, Getting Lost, or Struggling: spiritual stagnation, battles from the past, or unfinished business spiritually or emotionally. The struggle to find your way home or climb a mountain but being weak might symbolize: Feeling disconnected from your spiritual path Fighting foundational issues.
ReplyDeleteSeeing Your Late Father: you need to break soul ties or spiritual inheritance. you can also send your father on an errand to settle some issues that you are facing that could be another reason why your father is appearing to you. You need to made a special prayer that next time your father appears to you in your dreams, you want to send him to take care of your struggles in life and make sure your financial doors are open.
Sexual or Romantic Dreams (with Husband or Others): A reminder to protect your marriage through prayer and intimacy, is possible you are drifting from your marriage because of too many challenges, the money challenge, emotional challenges too. You need to come back to yourself and work on your marriage.
If you like go and spend 10 years at MFM, it will solve nothing. Been there, done that!
ReplyDeleteI know the solution but you go gree do am?
Pls anon I'm also on the same struggle as the poster but in my case I don't have any child yet,as long as it is not juju things I will do it. Pls share
DeleteMy dear, i am tired of sharing because people will come under my comment to write rubbish.
DeleteTruth is with those dreams she will never make headway in life.
They are stagnation, setbacks etc.
You have to go the traditional way. That’s the only way.
Going traditional doesn’t mean juju, it means settlement.
Settle those that need to be settled and get your life back.
Settle Ndi
Otu ( Egbe), spirit husband etc.
Problem is getting a good traditionalist to help you make those sacrifices.
It will be like film trick to you once those sacrifices are gone.
Those dreams will disappear immediately.
And you will finally start living and thriving.
@ Anonymous 19:26
DeleteDasall!
Nothing more to add!
Traditional way or nothing!
Can u assist with a sure plug that knows the settlement job well pls i beg u in the name of God i have gone places spent momey yet nothing.am awake by this time because i just woke from a dream where i was making love and i got sad and asked myself when this will end. A lady someone introduced me to charged me so much almost 800k and i dont have such money she said the reason why I have gone to places and the spirit still remains is because they did not return my bride price please reach out to ma stella or if you can codedly drop a contact pls help.
DeleteYour problem is more of a knowledge problem. I think the meaning of this your dream is what you define it to be. You need knowledge more than anything else. Believe me. I would recommend books don't worry. But in the course of your write up. I hear you say your church isn't big on spiritual things. If that is true. What are you still doing there? I think they contributed to the state you are spiritually at the moment. A pastor that's is firebrand gives birth to believers of thesame breed. No true matured christain run around churches looking for miracles. It is the vibes of orphans who have never found their place in a local church. This is a fact!
ReplyDeleteDon't forget. The distance to God is shorter than the distance to a man of God. You have Roman's 8:37. Acts 1:8. Luke 10:19. Colossians 1:13. What have you been doing with your bible? You don't read it i guess. It is probably under a pillow all your life. Reason you don't even know common prayer verses. I am not judging you ma. Forgive me if it sounds so. But it didn't tell well of your spiritual state. You really need to do better. The shildren of the world knows BBN housemates, the hosts/sponsors and when it is starting. When a believer don't know the constitution of the kingdom. It is a shame.
These are some materials to help in your journey.
While Revival tarries. Leonard Ravenhill.
Touch the world through prayers. Wesley H Duewel.
The rules of engagement. Dr Cindy Trimm.
Commanding your morning. Dr Cindy Trimm.
How to pray effectively. Rev Chris Oyakhilome.
The power of a praying wife. Stormie Omartian.
The power of a praying woman. Stormie.
Satan get lost. Bishop Oyedepo.
Tongues beyond the upper room. Papa Hagin.
The art of prayer. Papa Hagin.
Mountain moving faith. Papa Hagin.
The believers authority. Papa Hagin.
The price of spiritual power. Robert Liardon.
Prepare for war. Rebecca Brown.
Daughter of destiny. Kathryn Khulman.
When heaven inades earth. Bill Johnson. etc.
I hope this meets you well.
Thanks for the books recommendations
DeleteMy pleasure 🤜
DeleteLet me add to the list.
DeleteThe power of simple prayer. Joyce Meyer.
Understanding the purpose and power of prayer. Dr Myles.
On Prayer. EM Bounds.
Those dreams were revealing the set back you experienced. The sex dream is keeping you from reaching higher heights.
ReplyDeleteYou should join Pastor Eneche of the dunamis every 11pm for commanding the day prayers. YouTube is available for you. You will get your breakthrough from there. Also , buy the rings and make pronunciation upon it and break it. Any cheap ring will do. Breaking the ring is breaking any covenant you unknownly entered even in the spiritual reign or entered on your behalf by your parents.
Sorry about the ordeal madam. Buy this book title " prayer Rain by D.K olukoya.
ReplyDeleteIt contains different prayer points of deliverance... For better results pray with it at midnight @3.
YOU WILL TESTIFY!!!
God will help you .Why didn't you just look for MFM in your location and attend power must change hands on first Saturday of every month 9am.Yes power is not the same but we have the same authority in Jesus that is why you need somebody anointed .
ReplyDeletePoster God gave you the solution in your dream.... follow the advice and back it up with prayers, fasting and FAITH.
ReplyDeleteYou can also go to MFM or NSPDD, I personally prefer NLP but what these men of God do is stir up your faith - you have to be the one that takes/claims the breakthrough that is available. That is why it works for some but doesnt work for others.
May your life tell a beautiful story.
Think positively and be thankful at all times.
Keep seeking God by reading the word of God........ More you read and pray understanding and revelation will be made.
ReplyDeleteThanks all
ReplyDeleteThanks for posting it SDK.
I will buy cheap rings and pray on them while doing 3 days fasting and prayers using the Bible verses given. I will break the rings on the last day and throw them into the bush.
Pls I will appreciate more Bible verses to pray with.
Thanks
Madam your problem is poverty
DeleteIt’s the same problem faced by over 70% of Nigerians
You’re dreaming your circumstances
Start to actively imagine a better life
You’re struggling and most people in the world are struggling too
21:24, thanks for your input but we are not poor, I'm not in poverty. Struggling financially doesn't mean we are poor. We are comfortable to an extent, not just where we should be considering how we work hard. So I don't think about poverty that will manifest in my dreams.
DeleteYou had really big relevations o. I suggest you make your husband understand that you need to attend the prayers for the benefit of the family. I had a friend who attended the fast one mfm and got a breakthrough after. I wish you all the best
ReplyDeleteMost of our fore-fathers never served God and they involved majorly in traditional activities which were totally against God's practices and invited foreign gods upon their lives and generations yet unborn.
ReplyDeleteSome of these spirit husbands/wives are from foreign gods our fore-fathers served and dedicated their lives to, after they died, their offsprings had to suffer as a result of negligence.
You can win this battle with the words of God, spend time praying at night with these psalms 18, 24, 51, 91,121 and also pray in the holy spirit (speak in tongues). These foreign spirits can't stand it because God's power will fall mightily upon you. God will deliver you and your family from satanic oppressions.
HE is God all by HIMSELF
Your dream has already shown you the way out
ReplyDeleteYou can listen to apostle Joshua Selman preaching on total deliverance and other warfare prayers.
ReplyDeletePlease don’t beat yourself up. Dreams don’t mean anything. They are typically things that we think a lot about when we are awake. They stay in your brain and manifests as dreams when you are in deep sleep. Don’t trust anyone that tells you they can interpret your dreams. They just want to scam you.
ReplyDeleteHello Poster,
ReplyDeleteYour narration is quite emotional, and I sympathise with you. So, is your plight defined by spiritual warfare? Maybe. But not everything symbolic is demonic. I believe you need clarity, not fear-based action. Also, I'm very sure that when you go through the comments, you'll find what may work for you.
But in my little way, I opine that your case cuts across spirituality, emotional trauma, marital tension, fertility grief, and existential confusion; a single path won't help if you are not resolute in defining what you want.
Again, if you proceed with fasting, praying, and ring-breaking, you shouldn't do it in fear or secrecy. God is not a God of confusion. Let His peace guide, not your panic.
Please, you must also avoid church-hopping, and build a quiet, stable spiritual rhythm you presently lack - whether it's NSPPD, MFM, or your own war room. The presence of God is not geographical or in any definite site.
Since you asked for prayers and have chosen to go solo, I have developed a structured 7-day faith and emotional detox plan she can follow at home - including prayer points, Bible verses, meditation, and spiritual mental exercises. Kindly extend your 3-day fast to 7 7-day fast. Except your 3-day fasting and praying is going to be an Esther Fast.
7-DAY FAITH & EMOTIONAL DETOX PLAN
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Theme: “I am not forgotten. My life will yet testify.”
DAILY STRUCTURE (Approx. 60–90 mins/day)
Each day includes:
1. Opening Prayer & Worship (10 mins)
2. Scripture Reflection (15 mins)
3. Targeted Prayers (20 mins)
4. Emotional Reset Exercise (15 mins)
5. Journal Reflection (20 mins)
6. (Optional) Ring Breaking Ritual (Day 7)
DAY 1: Break the Silence, Stay Calm To Hear Your Soul
ReplyDeleteFocus: Identify and confront the confusion
Scripture: Psalm 139:23–24, Proverbs 4:23
Prayer Point:
“Lord, search my heart. Expose every hidden fear, lie, or spiritual fog clouding my clarity. I surrender my confusion to you in the name of Jesus.”
Emotional Exercise:
Sit quietly with your hand over your heart. Whisper: “I am safe with God. I am allowed to feel confused.” Then write down everything on your mind - fears, regrets, frustrations, and unanswered questions.
Journal:
“What am I most afraid of right now, and why?”
DAY 2: Covenant Audit
ReplyDeleteFocus: Break spiritual agreements and soul ties (known or unknown)
Scripture: Colossians 2:14-15, Isaiah 49:24–26
Prayer Point:
“I renounce every spiritual covenant - known or unknown - contrary to God’s will. Let every ungodly soul tie break now by the blood of Jesus.”
Meditation (Emotional Exercise):
Write names of people, places, or past experiences you encounter in your dreams and those you suspect might be spiritual entanglements. Speak over the list:
“I break every tie. I walk free. My soul is mine. So says the Lord”
Burn or tear the list after prayer.
Journal:
“Who or what might I still be spiritually connected to? Why?”
DAY 3: Restore Intimacy with God
ReplyDeleteFocus: Rebuild your connection with God outside of church drama
Scripture: Jeremiah 29:13, Psalm 91
Prayer Point:
“Father, draw me into real intimacy with You. Teach me to hear You clearly and walk in Your truth. IJN”
Meditation:
Create a quiet corner of worship. Play soft worship music that lifts your spirit and speak to God out loud (moderately) as if you’re speaking to a friend. No rituals. No begging. Just connection.
Journal:
“What do I want my relationship with God to feel like?”
DAY 4: Heal the Womb (Spiritually + Emotionally)
ReplyDeleteFocus: Let go of fertility trauma and womb shame
Scripture: Isaiah 54:1–5, Luke 1:37
Prayer Point:
“I speak life into my womb - spiritually and physically. Every child meant for me will come, by the power of resurrection. I reject spiritual children occupying my destiny in the name of Jesus.”
Meditation:
Place your hand on your lower belly and declare healing, even if you don’t understand what’s wrong. Cry if you must. Then rest.
Journal:
“What pain do I carry in my womb (physical, spiritual, emotional)?”
DAY 5: Peace in My Marriage
ReplyDeleteFocus: Restore marital unity and reduce secrecy
Scripture: 1 Corinthians 13:4–7, Proverbs 24:3
Prayer Point:
“Lord, restore peace, communication, and trust in my home. Remove every wedge - spiritual or emotional - between me and my spouse, in the name of Jesus.”
Meditation:
Write a letter to your husband (don’t send it yet) explaining everything - your fears, your dreams, your intentions. Read it out loud to God as if He’s your husband’s heart. Affirm your faith.
Journal:
“What do I truly want from my marriage, and how can I rebuild it with wisdom?”
DAY 6: Fire Without Fear
ReplyDeleteFocus: Build confidence in prayer, not superstition
Scripture: Ephesians 6:10–18, Isaiah 41:10
Prayer Point:
“I put on the full armour of God. No dream, altar, ancestral bondage, or darkness has power over my destiny. I will not fear, I hold on to the promises of God, in the name of Jesus.”
Meditation:
Stand tall, hands lifted. Pray aloud as a warrior, not as a victim who has given up. Walk around your space declaring Scriptures over yourself.
Journal:
“What spiritual lie have I believed about myself for too long?”
DAY 7: The Ring Breaking & Declaration
ReplyDeleteFocus: Symbolic closure and fresh spiritual alignment
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 10:4–5, Isaiah 43:18–19
Prayer Point:
“By faith, I sever every covenant not planted by God. As I break this ring, I declare a new beginning. The glory of God shall manifest in ..... (use whatever)”
Dreamed solution:
Buy 2 good rings.
Pray over them using all prayer points from Days 2, 4, and 6.
On the 3rd day of your fast (or midnight of Day 7), break the rings with authority.
Wrap them in black nylon and discard in a trash bin (outside your home) or bush (if you have any nearby) not to feed the rite, but as your closure.
Final Declaration:
“Yes, I was lost. But my destiny is restored. I will flourish. I will testify, according to the purpose of God concerning my life. My heaven open by fire, in the name of Jesus”
Journal:
“What do I see now that I didn’t see before this spiritual detox?”
Build your faith with the following:
Books:
Prayer Rain – Dr. D.K. Olukoya (Make this your daily companion)
The Believer’s Authority – Kenneth Hagin
The Power of a Praying Woman – Stormie Omartian
Streams to Join:
NSPPD (Pastor Jerry Eze)
Dunamis Commanding the Day (11pm, Pastor Enenche)
MFM Power Must Change Hands (1st Saturdays)
*Read the Bible and master how to craft prayers from it.
Thank you so much Ebony Oge, I appreciate you
DeleteYou are the only one who can deliver yourself. If you like go to mountain fire, they may deliver you but it will soon come back double and stronger. Deal with your subconscious thoughts. Mind the kind of preaching you listen to. Stop listening to those messages that talks about how satan can hold you captive, spiritual husband, eating in the dream, etc. Stop paying attention to those dreams rather focus on messages that talks about the authority you have in Christ as genuine of God. You can't be a child of God and still have another spirit sharing your territory with the almighty God. Don't depend on pastor, depend on the undiluted word of God. Read your Bible to know the effects of God's promises in the life of His Children. Constant reading and studying the Word will change your mindset and your subconscious thoughts with births all these bondage kind of dreams . Meditate on the Word of God everyday. Fill your mind with the Word to the extent that you will be able to recite some of the valid points that give you hope even without opening the Bible.
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