Let us talk about Marriage today as one of una dey engaged and the days are ticking until the Marriage holds.....
Please the other gender avoid this post...
Guys make una thank God for una fellow BV Teejay life...
His wedding proper will be announced soon.Make una begin give am advice about married life and what to expect from women once them enter house...... I mean what do men tell each other when they want to get married?
This should be interesting without the interference of ''them them''
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Congratulations in advance my bro.
ReplyDelete1. Don't let ANYONE meddle in the affairs of your home
2. Your wife is you, and you are your wife. She's TOP PRIORITY!
3. Don't be a traditional African man. Do chores at home and have time for your kids. You don't do your wife a favor by doing these. You are being a responsible husband and father.
4. NEVER hit your wife. Never!
5. Women often talk, before they think. Kindly ignore her shenanigans and ramblings. If it's too much, just walk out, clear your head and return much later when you're calm.
6. Be open with your wife. Hide nothing from her. Down the line, this advice will help you. Trust me!
7. Never speak ill of your wife to anyone. The way you present your wife, na so others go see her too.
8. Spend time with your family as much as you can. They are all you got!
9. Endeavor to be RESPECTED by your wife and kids, not FEARED.
10. RESPECT is earned not forced!
Marriage is a very beautiful experience. But it takes 2 committed peeps to make it work.
I wish every bachelor on this blog, great success in their quest to get married. May yours be among the Best! 🙏
Thanks bro! I appreciate this a whole lot. Always something to learn from you.
DeleteIts being a busy day for me. Just coming back now from today's hustle.
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Abeg, no long epistle on marriage
ReplyDeleteNa short one -
Marry a woman you share or have same values with and who is of value to you.
Or
Marry a woman you want to marry and be ready to carry her Pan because of any reason you see or think she has to be your wife.
QED
Now the long part
All these wash eating plates and spoons, sweep floors, lick her this, are all ....
Some wives are not looking for husbands as plate (of any type) lickers or washers.
If that is all you are what are you going to do?
When you earn solid gbem FX per minute .
Are you going to spend those minutes sweeping floors and cleaning windows?
What pays you do.
That is where the share values matter. There are traditional wives. they understand traditional men. If simping pays you, simp. B
My pastor will always say marry the opposite of you. please avoid an abuser. verbal and physical
ReplyDeleteplease don't marry a helper. someone that's bringing something to the table not liability because the economy is harsh
check the background of the woman is important
Don't focus on beauty. ogbanje full everywhere
learn to keep quiet. na Man you be
learn to appreciate. women value little things
ReplyDeleteDon't put everything a woman tells you to your heart. learn to ignore their words because their strength is on their mouth
endeavor to take major responsibilities at home. women are built to be helpers
Be a romantic man even if it means to pretend. They like Romans
Be prayerful so they don't bring you down. na them devil they enter pass. that's why the bible call them weaker vessels
Ensure you provide for your family before you give to outsiders. for peace to rain, seek her consent before you give out the money she is aware of. The only money you can give without her content is the one she doesn't know about. please do it codely.
ReplyDeleteplease try as much as possible not to cheat on your wife. Abeg if you know say you like Big nyash and breast, don't marry the opposite and put in the house and start looking for your fantasy outside. women have learnt to cheat back oo. na wetin dey break marriage
ReplyDeleteMy little take I usually share with my peers about marriage.
ReplyDeleteIn my 14 years of marriage, I've learned that the advice and books about marriage don't always reflect the reality of this beautiful institution God Himself made. Early on, I listed certain qualities in a partner for myself—such as being a bookworm like me,fair and beautiful, and also settling down with a woman from a different ethnic background. Interestingly, my wife embodies all of these qualities, although she proudly identifies as an Igbo goddess.
What I've come to understand is that what works for Abu may not work for Obi. Each marriage is unique and requires its own tailored approach. In my home, the pillars that uphold our relationship are love, faithfulness, and trust. These foundational elements have proven to be more critical than any checklist of attributes.
Additionally, I've realized that financial stability is vital in a marriage. While love and emotional support are crucial, women often find it challenging to endure long periods of hardship without the assurance of financial security, however a successful marriage is about understanding and adapting to each other's needs, rather than strictly adhering to preconceived notions or societal expectations.
Mr Teejay congratulations in advance, remember to put me in your men in.....😁
Happy weekend from coal City..✌️
Thanks Sir. I appreciate this a whole lot. How's your stay in Enugu? That New heaven axis you mentioned used to be my residential area as a student.
DeleteYou'll enjoy Enugu. Make sure you eat Okpa before you leave.
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Ezege Nwanmama!
ReplyDeleteOkosisi.. the great iroko tree😁
Omo I have been out since early morning running up and down, still busy sef but a short break, I come say make I see wetin dey play for ya..
Congratulations brother..
Don't be like my married friends that likes amebo oh😂.. I don't know what it is with married guys and always calling to ask for update whenever they see you with any babe.. them go dey ask how e be,. Whether the motion was denied or granted,. How e go and all.. I go just dey look them dey shake head.. no be me say make Una go marry o😂.. make Una leave me alone abeg..
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Omo body count won ja scale o.. how man go take marry like this.. when Ezege said his body count is below 10 I shock o.. cos mine is zero😁.. I don't know how any man can sleep with a babe that he isn't married to and not feeling guilty 😁 haba! Babe that you didn't pay her bride price, you go come nack am and expect another man to pay price and marry am.. may God forgive you these men.. yes men,.. I blame all of you,. Women are very lovely and naïve creatures and you take advantage of them,. They are angels, they can do no wrong and if they do any wrong is cos you ev!l men pushed them to do what is not really them😂..
Happy weekend o..
#NoGirlsAllowed.. make I no see any babe for this post o, you know you people are gentle and obedient lol
Boss Man,
DeleteYou always crack me up. Thanks a lot. I appreciate. I learn everyday from here.
© TEEJAY
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DeleteCongratulations I dey available for rice and stew oooo
ReplyDeleteCongratulations brother.
ReplyDeleteMarriage isn't easy at all ooo, but it's a learning process.
Remember that what works for A might not work for B. Go with the flow, and make amends were necessary.
Wishing you a lifetime of martial bliss.
As King Jerry said above, we are available for the rice and stew 😁
Teejay, I hope you get to see this.
ReplyDeleteMarry a woman that you flow with in terms of your moral values, religion and denomination(if you are Catholic, marry a Catholic), political views(Obidient), food, sex(if you love giving head, she should love it too)etc. A woman that you are on the same pedestrial with in critical areas. Someone you can communicate with freely, you can talk for hours on phone, laugh and crack jokes with her, someone that won't make you feel less of yourself if you commit a grammatical blunder. Marry someone that loves you for who you are. Also, let her have a source of income so that she can support, especially if things are tight on your part.
Don't ever let any relative come between you both.
Marry your friend.
I married my friend and I don't regret it. In high and low periods, our friendship keeps us strong. People see us and think we are lovers, as in having an affair, not knowing we are husband and wife, cos of the way we relate with each other on public.
Thanks. I appreciate this a whole a lot.
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