STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
PREGNANT FOR SUGAR DADDY
I'm a 26 years old lady, and I am dating a 55 years old married man.
We have been dating for the past 5 years now. He is very good to me. He got me a good job, bought me a car and pays my rent. I go on vacations with him. I won't even lie, he takes very good care of me.
Now the problem is anytime I get pregnant for him, he will order me to abort it. I have aborted 13 pregnancies for him in the 5 years that we have been in this relationship, now I'm pregnant again but, I am scared of telling him because he will order me to abort again and I don't want to abort again.
What if this is my last chance of having a child. I don't know what to do. I can't even travel without him. He's with my passport.
HUH!!!!!..........13 pregnancies??? ARE YOU REAL?????Is he using you for rituals or what? The only advice i can give you right is that you should not abort that child cos it might be your last chance......Na so una go do now marry person pikin and be ttcing not knowing that you have damaged your uterus with abortions!
13 abortion is wild. Poster pity your body nau.
ReplyDeleteJust know that if you keep the pregnancy then you will turn to Nigerian Helen crying all over social media for a dna test. Onye oshi amu
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣 @ onye oshi Amu
DeleteBia this nonsense and ingredients poster better carry that pregnancy till birth ,is better you cry like Helen oo
Besides for this 5 years you no get savings plus your job please you can do it 🙄 you don't need husband again sef as you don enjoy husband finish wetin remain again 😉
13 pregnancies???? Why do you hate yourself so much?
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!! Sorry no advice for you today because you know what you are doing but don't want to bear the consequence....
Bye Felicia!!
You have not heard of family planning before?
ReplyDeleteLike? Gosh who is this girl!
DeleteYou cannot build a relationship with a man off of building a cemetery off the children your bodies created. How much will you give of yourself for a car, some vacations, money, your rent being paid and living the supposedly good life? You are not living a good life, you are right in hell and your babies have been sacrificed on the altar of your vanity. Not only that, your entire reproductive system is being fckd up and your spiritual life is being decimated, it may take thousands of years for you to get back on track spirituality if you continue down this path. Worst, your soul gets destroyed forever and you go into the realm of forgetfulness, having never existed. You have made this man a god in your life and it is his words you worship and it is him you seek your survival through. You are living in a hell of your own creation.
ReplyDeleteI am 100% pro-choice but this chronicle just pissed me off. I cannot see any rationalization for these abortion, your refusal to use contraceptive is moronic. This is madness!
13 abortion in 5years?
ReplyDeleteYou started at 21 years old.
Don't you have intention of getting married or having children.
He doesn't even rate you to make you a baby mama na mistress without value.
You get heart for real. He has children to inherit his wealth but you are there for use to dump. Anyday you misbehave, you are out in the streets.
If I were you, na to run . Gather the money and change location. Go to your village and birth your child. Pray that you were not placed in any secret room for occult gains.
Congratulations to the wife in the house
ReplyDeleteGod bless her
At 26 years of age. You still don't know a good man. You deserve each others beautiful. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeletePoster, to start with, what are you doing with someone's husband for 5 years?
ReplyDeleteDon't you love your life? Aside from the material gifts and vacations, do you have peace with this lifestyle?
13 what!!!?
There's more to life dear poster. Do not destroy your life just for material gains.
Poster please do not abort the baby.
ReplyDeleteAre you going to suffer with her?
DeleteIs 13 abortions not enough?
DeleteNaaaa, this one off me.. I hate to judge people for their actions because whatever happens, happens.
ReplyDeleteBut babe, 13 is wild common. You have a job, keep it.
I hope he won't take the job from you, if u decide to keep it, but if I were to be your sister. I'll tell u to keep it.
You fertile o.
ReplyDeleteWhat!!!!!
Wait a minute.
ReplyDelete1.So you are 26.
Started dating at 21. And you didn't see any guy within your age range.
But your daddy's range?
2. Let's say you have daddy issues ,no single,widower nothing?But a marred man.
3. 13 abortions?Girl,what happened to yue body being God's temple.
Just steadily suffocating children.
Miss me with we sin differently. I don't want this l. You know why you will keep aborting? He probably has children way older than you. Just using young blood to feel himself.
You are nothing,just a cum bucket. He offers you those so hecan have his way with you easily. He has paid his dues,now he deserves some wild thoughts.
Gosh. 26 years . 13 abortions in 5 years.
Soon you will stay looking for a God fearing man to lob8yoh as you dream,a lover boy, who is faithful and all.
The past is the past.
God of justice is on the throne.
Nobody should annoy me. Don't write rubbish under my moment.
And yea ,I'm a judgina. And I'm a woman. And I'm not bitter .
Thank you.
Abeg you nor judge her at all.. she's clearly stupid
DeleteJudge you kè. Poster is idiotic.
DeleteAh!
ReplyDeleteThirteen ke..... please don't abort this one....
What are you doing with someone's husband na? This is not right.
ReplyDeleteAsk God to forgive you, leave him alone, go and have your baby and take care of your child.
What are you doing to yourself? 😳.
ReplyDeleteDid he establish you? Because if you can take care of yourself, then you should keep your baby, Hy do you want to tell him? Na wa o. 13 abortions. 😱
What happened to using protection?
ReplyDeleteHow can you date a married man for 5 yrs???? Nawa o
13 abortions??? Can’t you pity your body?
Why is he holding your passport??
Are you a baby???
13 abortions??
ReplyDeleteYou already have a good job, can’t you bounce? But no you want to keep going to vacation with someone’s husband.
And he’s holding your passport.
Abeg this chronicle off me🥴
13 aborted pregnancies. My goodness! Are you for real? Don't you have a conscience anymore?
ReplyDeleteA man in his 50's doing well for himself financially, yet he's not ready for marriage? Like a man of that age dated you for good five years? What is keeping him from marrying at his age, he's not searching, he's in a committed relationship so why is he not thinking about marriage?
ReplyDeletePlease go back to read very well, this time slowly. HE IS A MARRIED MAN!
DeleteLearn to read Slim Shady
DeleteDidn’t you read that he’s married???
DeleteHe's a married man
DeleteDid he promised her marriage ?
DeleteWhy can't you just use contraceptives? What is the significance of the pregnancies and abortions? Maybe they make you feel important to him and you love the attention.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how long you've been with him, he will make you regret it if you have a child for him. Children don't keep a man. If they did, he wouldn't be cheating on his wife.
The only people successfully dating married men avoid pregnancy and have no serious plans with them. I would advise you to end it with him but it's clear that the abortions are keeping you stuck. Forgive yourself and leave him.
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26yr old fool. How much is contraception sef. Find a way to collect your passport from him.
ReplyDelete13 what?
ReplyDeleteGet your act together and get out of this nonsense
ReplyDeleteAbort it. Don’t have a child with him
He’s a fool and evil and he has groomed you from when you were younger
You do not love your life at all, 13 pregnancy aborted? Nne nawao.
ReplyDeleteContraception please
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteIt's funny that it's the people that broke shame men here and push for women to follow men for money that'll judge this 'ahewo' the most hehehe
If Una like continue taken advices from w!tches online,. Something you know is wrong and even your conscience tells you it's wrong,. No, you'll instead choose to follow bad advice using it as an excuse for your greed..
When e set.. na you go learn the lesson alone..
13 abortions..
13 souls..
Omo!
Men if you like don't look well.. go and marry rubbish filled with curses as your wife..
Nothing beats a virgin bride..
You no go begin fear if your wife dey hide terrible things from past when you read this kind fearful stuff online.. you no go dey suspect am as the bad luck when life happens..
You go get peace.. unless she gets bad character,. But forget that thing,. Na this ahewo babes dey bitter and get terrible characters the most.. the virgins own, most time na just conji dey worry them and it's understandable 😁
It's not everyone that is ttcing that has damaged their uterus.
ReplyDeleteVirgins too ttc....
you mean you have aborted for 13 times and some people are here looking for just once to get pregnant yet they cannot have it but God has showed you mercy still you refused to learn from your past and kept on opening your legs for a man that you are not even married to. That man will still ask you to abort that pregnancy because you don't have good character to mother his child, he cannot spoil his marriage because of someone like you who he does not value. If he values you he will not be using you the way he is using you, imagine if you die in the process of abortion will he care about you?
ReplyDeleteYou have to end things with this man, birth your child and face front. He doesn't trust you the reason why your passport is with him. If you cannot travel out of this country why don't you travel to a state he cannot find you and go have your baby there. Please do not abort this baby no matter whatever he tells you.
You can come up with the fist you want him to marry else you are ending the relationship, get some more from him or ask him to sponsor you abroad so that you can leave him with his family alone since he cannot marry you. All these is just to make sure you run away from him to have your baby. You can start cheating on him with another guy, you may not really cheat on him but have a guy you take pictures, hang out with. He will get fed up with your attitude and let you be.
Lastly, find away to collect your passport from him before he find out your plan to walk away. Make una leave married men alone even when they no want allow una breath.
how can God allow you to get pregnant 13 times minus this one? you have been aborting them yet God still shows you mercy and gave you another one even when you are not married or need it. Lord i am crying that you show me mercy and bless me with the fruit of womb, i did not have abortion up to two times but i am here waiting on you for the fruit of the womb. I was raped by a church member, i got pregnant, out of fear that my elder sister who was staying with will kill me. I had an abortion which i regrated my act till date.
ReplyDeleteI have never gotten pregnant again after that incident, i got infection from the abortion, till date i am still fighting to get free from it. I have fibroid which i am currently using herbal medication to cure plus the infection. Here i am reading that someone has had abortion for 13 times without any infection or stop conceiving. Lord i need to become a mother, bless my womb, heal me of anything and forgive me of all my sins. You are such a luck young lady, please do not take it for granted because you may not have more opportunities in the future. The fool who raped me is married and have two children, while i am married but still waiting on the lord. Why did i have to suffer for what i was innocent of, is God not partial here?
lord i judge you faithfully, if that is how you treat your children then let it be else do what only you can do amen. Keep this baby or transfer it to me, tell God to transfer the baby to me since you are not ready for it.
It is well
Delete@Anonymous 17:19
DeleteIs your husband aware of the rape, abortion, and infection?
If your answer is a yes, then I want to offer you a free upublication that MIGHT help.
"UuuBe Thou Fruitful"
As a woman self preservation is key, 13 abortions within a time frame of 5yrs isnt just unhealthy but crazy. contraceptives exist for a reason you know, and what do you mean by he has your passport ? are you an indentured slave?
ReplyDeleteif you really want to start over again just take pictures (make photcopies) of your passport biodata, all the visa , stamped pages and file a police report that the passport is missing and get a new one indicating your previous travel passport.
Also do you really want to leave ? because you will lose your apartment, car and job if you leave this man so plan your exist properly
You’re a stupid human being, you don’t even love yourself, see the way you’re putting your life on the line because of soft life.
ReplyDeleteYou sha wan get baby for your sugar daddy now, right? I hope you prepare yourself for a miserable life ahead, because the wife will make your life a hell.
Congratulations
You Comot Belle Reach 13times
ReplyDeleteHope You Dey Alright...
Why Dnt You Use Protection After Una Meet
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Na wooo
Hello iya Boys
This is absolutely preposterous! Thirteen abortions? It’s clear this man will never marry you. Why haven’t you walked away from this relationship already? Everything about this is wrong — from dating a married man and secretly destroying someone’s home, to taking the lives of children so casually. And now, you expect us to support your ill intentions? Let me be honest: if you go ahead and have this child, you will be miserable, and it may become your deepest, lifelong regret.
ReplyDelete@ stella please where your e-slap? Give his murderer 13 biko
ReplyDeleteContinue there is punishment for evil
ReplyDeleteBiko is this story even real?
ReplyDelete13 babies 😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteBecause of money..
Because of vacations..
Because of car and rents..
God abeg oh..
I have heard of similar scenario. Live! This was even the First wife, she'd had over 9 miscarriages. But wen she went for serious prayers, she was made to know that those feotus are the what the husband uses to renew his booming wealth.
ReplyDeleteLas las, the woman left the man unnotified. But till date she hasn't birth any child again.
All the money you're enjoining are the returns from the abortions.
In fact I don't even have any advice for you at the moment because the man already knew that you're pregnant. If you run away, he will chase after you diabolically. In fact, anything can happen. But if you can go to the Lord in truth for serious prayers, perhaps God can have mercy on you.
You really get liver I must confess. Haba!
@KSB Truth
Omooooo!!
ReplyDelete@poster, if you were not jazzed or brainwashed by that man, then I will say aye e ti ba je (your life don spoil).
ReplyDeleteLike only you, 13 abortions?
No contraceptive, no protection, no nothing?🤷♀️
Assuming it's STIs too, that's how you would have contracted it.
Some of you live a care free life just because of material things.
I raise hands 🙌 for you. Na wah🙄
Terrible decisions women make when they are male dependent. "Got me a good job." "Bought me a car." "Pay my rent" etc.
ReplyDeleteThe knowledge and ability to make money doesn't come with a penis ✍️
ReplyDeleteThis is why I tell young ladies to hustle and close your legs to men. You are nothing more than a play thing to him, an object to be used and abused. You are even cheaper than a regular ashewo because he got you very young and cheap. Proper ashewos will at least demand houses and land in their name. I bet that even that car is not in your name and on top of it all he has your passport. Madam, those 13 abortions are to prolong his life while yours is being devalued. Cut off that relationship and run for your life.
ReplyDelete13 aborted pregnancies. You are very strong. And you are still asking questions
ReplyDeletePls pity yourself small
ReplyDeleteVery soon you will realise that all those things that mattered to you does not matter. Car. Rent. Vacations etc are things you can give to yourself. Enjoy your pregnancy. Congratulations.
ReplyDeleteIt's well with you poster,I hope he's using you that for ritual.
ReplyDeletePoster, if you live in Benin city and your sugar daddy's name starts with F, so sorry for you, because he is using you for rituals, that what him and his group of friends do, they belong to a cult group.
ReplyDeleteGood for such girls! Let them ruin their lives for material things.
DeleteGod's ways are past finding. Imagine the millions of women praying to have even if it's one child. To call their own, to be called mom. Including those who married as virgins too ooo. And here is this one.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what your parents might have done in life for God to show you such mercy and goodness, but know that this fear you have now, don't take it lightly.
It could be your last warning. Not just for babies, but for your life too..
But omo your heart nah stone ooo. You ki.lled (yes ki.lled) 13 innocent souls. You cut off their destinies and ended their lives before it even started.
How can a young girl like you have such a heart?
How do you even sleep at night?
For mere "good life" in this transient world? God forbid.
Chai cloth dey cover many things for body ooo.
Nahwah
Advising some people is just waste of someone’s time
ReplyDeleteSince you know he will never allow you keep any pregnancy why didn't you opt for Family planning rather than subject your life to these much abortion.
ReplyDeleteDo you love yourself so less that you allowed a married man who has his life and family soughted out to keep ruining you.....?
I hope you know he's NEVER MARRYING YOU......?
What is the use of contraceptive again?
ReplyDeleteIf you keep the pregnancy, just be prepared to cater for that child on your own.