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BROKEN TRUST
The people that are supposed to make my life easier are the ones making it difficult for me. My husband owns a bar but there is no money to stock it up with drinks and I'm also looking for money to start up a food business.
I borrowed 200k from LAPO. I gave my husband 100k to stock up the bar, while I use 100k to start the food business.
We're suppose to contribute 16k each to pay LAPO weekly. My husband managed to pay for only 2 weeks and he stopped paying. Claiming that business is down.
He spends the whole day sleeping. When he wakes up, he comes to my shop and eat like a hoodlum, immediately after eating he goes back to sleep.
I never knew I married such a lazy man.
I am struggling like a single mother.
School is about to resume. I will have to pay our children's school fees .Feed everyone and still pay LAPO every week.
When we went to the village for my grandmother's burial in July I practically did everything because my elder sister does not have money.......
I borrowed 200k from LAPO. I gave my husband 100k to stock up the bar, while I use 100k to start the food business.
We're suppose to contribute 16k each to pay LAPO weekly. My husband managed to pay for only 2 weeks and he stopped paying. Claiming that business is down.
He spends the whole day sleeping. When he wakes up, he comes to my shop and eat like a hoodlum, immediately after eating he goes back to sleep.
I never knew I married such a lazy man.
I am struggling like a single mother.
School is about to resume. I will have to pay our children's school fees .Feed everyone and still pay LAPO every week.
When we went to the village for my grandmother's burial in July I practically did everything because my elder sister does not have money.......
After the burial she begged me to take along with me her 11 year old daughter because she doesn't want her to stay in the village and get impregnated by a village boy.
I explained my struggles to her. I told her my plate is already full but, she begged me so much, I had no choice than to take my niece along with me. I have already enrolled her in school.
I explained my struggles to her. I told her my plate is already full but, she begged me so much, I had no choice than to take my niece along with me. I have already enrolled her in school.
My niece is a good girl very humble and hardworking. Fridays are one of our best days because it's a market day and we are so busy with sales. We sold off everything before 2pm. My niece was suppose help me pack something's inside the compound but she was nowhere to be found.
I thought maybe she's tired and has gone inside to sleep. I carried the things myself, as I opened the kitchen door inside our compound, my niece was sitting on the ground in the middle of the kitchen counting a lot of money that was in front of her.
She was so shocked to see me. I asked her where she got all this money from? She opened her mouth but she couldn't form the words to speak. I had to threaten her with pepper before she started talking.
She said her mother my only sister in this whole world, told her to be stealing from me and send to her through one lady that comes to the market from our village every Friday.
My niece has been living with me for a month plus now and she has sent her mother a total of 28k.
When we counted the monies in front of her it was 17,800 in different denominations.
My elder sister knowing fully well what I'm passing through still sent her daughter to steal me blind. With all this debts on my head.
I didn't beat my niece. I told her I will send her away, let her go and do whatever she likes in the village and raise money for her mother.
My niece has been crying and begging me that she will never steal from me again.
My husband said if I send her away, I've destroyed her life. Should I allow her stay?
Allow her stay!!!....NO NO NO......let her go because a thief is a thief... she will graduate to steal something bigger and you will wish you had sent her away.....most people that get killed and kidnapped? na insider job!
My heart breaks reading ur story! A lazy husband plus a thieving sister!!!! Please send ur niece back to ur sister because if you let her stay, you will never trust her again and you may just start maltreating her!
ReplyDeleteAs for your husband, I don’t just have words. Let me not say what is on my mind before those nonentities jump on that part!
Why is your sister teaching her 11 year old such wicked act…
ReplyDeletePlease send her back!
The part where she said her husband eats like a hoodlum got me in stitches. 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteOP this one no be chronicle na. You are just venting. When you ready, you know wetin to do. Your sister wey send her pikin to come thief from you, you never get mind address her but you confidently dey call your husband hoodlum.
Your husband na hoodlum. Your niece na bandit. Una all dey act skit.
You are a savage🤣😂
DeleteShe said he eats like a hoodlum. She didn't say he is. Those are 2 different things.
DeleteSend her away madam.
DeleteIf you don't, your husband will start sleeping with her and she will still continue stealing.
Bundle her Back fast.
I would let her go. Forgive my sister and help my niece from afar. The trust has been broken at such a level that I am not sure how it will be repaired. You are stressed out and someone has chosen to add more to your burdens when you are looking to lighten your load. No, let her mother raise her anyhow she wants to, that is a violation of everything sacred and pure. Not to mention the values and morals you are trying to raise your children with how will she influence them?
ReplyDeleteCharacter building takes time and patience if she is already used to doing what is wrong it will take lots of time to correct it, time you who are in bills up to your neck don’t have. You are not evil for sending her home, even God had to send His son Lucifer out of the house. This child is going back to her mother, you are not putting her on the streets so no guilt. However, remain a positive influence in her life, be there for her but just not under your roof.
I agree 💯, please send her back to her mum, it's her responsibility to raise that child.
DeleteGod has revealed your enemies and you still want to keep them close. Next she’ll be told to steal your husband and better believe she’ll succeed. Sister pls be wise I know she’s your blood but do not be sentimental let her go under the guise that you are struggling and need time to balance with all the burden you have at this time as business is not moving so well for your husband. If you keep her, the mother’s influence in your home will never stop she would seem compliant for a season while they plot more unimaginable things in your home and ways never to be caught again.
ReplyDeleteSteal which husband?
DeleteThat one that contributed to her expenses, he had better be stolen abeg. Abi poster how you see am?
Except maybe he is good in bed(like all lazy men). He will be oiling your engine anytime you are horny. If he is good in bed and doesn't sleep around (maka gonococus) let them not steal him o. Lol
Seriously poster, send that girl back for the sake of your own children. She is bad influence. Who knows what other vices she has and has been teaching them.
Next your sister may tell her to poison somebody in your house.
Abi oh Medusa, make dem steal am away, at least that's less mouth for her to feed.
DeleteGod has indeed reveal your enemies and you are asking WAEC question. No matter the begging, send her back.
DeleteHer mum is so shameless sha. I don't even know what to say. I am shot of weds. Truly a man's enemies are those of his own household
ReplyDeleteHer mother is evil but you see your husband he is reserving her for his penis. You better send her back she has damaged the girl
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteAhn! Ahn!! Ahn!!! Jesus Christ of Ndi Arab!! What is all this I am reading? I can only imagine how you feel right now.......From an irresponsible husband to a stealing niece; it’s almost like what else have your eyes not seen?
You are clearly a good person, but please be careful so you don’t burn yourself out in your bid to help everybody. Even your husband, who is not giving a helping hand, is gaslighting you into keeping the girl....That ₦28,000 would have gone a long way to offset debts or cover a pressing need at home.....
Please, report to your elder sister what transpired but don’t tell her what your niece said about her encouraging the stealing......Simply let her know that you don’t tolerate such behaviour and, with your financial struggles right now, you cannot accommodate your niece for now.....Make arrangements to send the girl home safely and without drama.....
As for your husband, start reducing how much you’re doing at home......Attend first to your own and your children’s needs.....Let him take responsibility for other things at home........You’re giving him the impression that you can handle everything, which is further emboldening his laziness and selfishness.........
Be wise, Poster.....Who kpai don lose kpata kpata.....Your husband unfortunately does not care sam! sam!! You must protect your own health and sanity....
All the best...........
The heart of women is desperately wicked. A woman's enemy is in his household.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind my specifics. it has been your sisters plan all the while
it wasn't your plan to take her until your sister begged. please stick to your original plan. let her go
The heart of women, or the heart of human 🙄. Y'all never cease to insult women sha
Delete@straight guy, heart of humans, abi men no dey commit crime, the heart of man desperately weekend, man in this context means humans, beggy, beggy take note!
DeleteHi poster,
ReplyDeleteKindly forgive her , but let her leave. A word is enough for the wise. After stealing, next thing is to start sleeping g woth that lazy horseband of yours. Let her go. Let her go. Just let her go.
Let her go back to her mother. She may continue and you will never know. Your sister is a very wicked human being, return her child to her let her train herself. If you keep her she may truly change or become a weapon fashioned against you.
ReplyDeleteBy all means send her AWAY else, she will do something that you will regret and that time it will be too late and your dearest sister might even say things you ears won’t believe.
ReplyDeleteLET HER GO NOW!!!
Please I want to ask you one question madam,
ReplyDeleteIs she still staying with you?
Azin, she dey your house reach now?
Bundle that ekperime to her mother before you run mad.
Imakwa taking care of your household, lazy husband and a tiff niece can send you to an early grace.
Suffer no dey tire you?
Meanwhile, what are you doing about that lazy husband of yours.
Btw, I doubt if her mother can send her to that kind of mission. Is your sister that heartless and mean? You know her better shaa.
Even if she cries blood, SEND YOUR NIECE BACK. Your sister is evil, this is how she repays you abi. Wicked soul. Then about your hubby, let him pay you what he owes you o.
ReplyDeletePoster, return her to her mother ASAP! You have enough immediate issues you're already struggling with. Let her mother carry her load. You can always support from afar.
ReplyDeleteDon't keep her with you as you even have a lazy husband. Your sister is a wicked mother who has destroyed her daughter's life .
ReplyDeleteLet her hustle and train her child.
How does a mother advice her child to steal???
ReplyDeletePoster send her back asap.
Her husband will start sleeping with her soon.
DeleteAnother chronicle is coming...
Since u have found them out, it would be dangerous to keep her n be staying under same roof wt her. Ur sister can tell her to start poisoning u gradually, when you become incapacitated, ur sister will come over in the guise of caring for u, to take over ur business since her daughter has been the one helping u out, m sure she is alrdy learning the nitty gritties of the business. Pls send her bck to her mother, better safe than sorry.
ReplyDeleteSend her back
ReplyDeleteShe has proven she is not your niece. She is her mothers child
Some people can be both but you see some have no one pity in their eye for their aunty
If she was truly your niece, she will refuse to steal the money
When people show you who they are for the first time please believe them.
ReplyDeleteI have an 11 yr old daughter if I tell her to steal she would never, she will finish me with her sharp mouth , I know her mother sent her but is like mother like daughter.
And you should also be worried about your husband telling you not to send her away.
poster do not keep that your girl in your house for any reason, arrange her very well and bundle her back to the village. Person way born make e train wetin e born, you cannot displease yourself because you want to help your family member or not allow a spoil girl get destroyed. Since her mother have an evil mind towards you but want you to take care of her daughter. Just send her back before she will graduate to sleeping with your husband.
ReplyDeleteImagine you did not see her counting those money, she will continue to steal your money till you have nothing left. You can help your sister from far but do not keep she and her daughter close to you again. Take her for shopping, buy her nice things and prepare to return her back. Do not tell her and her mother anything till you get to the village and hand her over to her mother. Make sure you watch her closely the few days she has with you in that house. Do not put her in any vehicle and ask her to go to her mother alone, except you have a trusted person you can hand her over too. She may drop on her way to the village and that will be another case between you and your sister.
Please send her back. If you don't, she will find a better strategy to steal without you knowing and you won't have rest of mind cos you'll keep wondering what your next move will be.
ReplyDeleteStop taking loans for anyone. Whoever needs a loan should go to the bank and get it themselves. This way, they will sit up.
From all the comments I know you would send her away, don't inform her about your decision, just wake her up that day and tell her to carry her thing and follow you, if possible don't even tell your husband
ReplyDeleteYou've proven yourself to be the problem solver. Na so you like suffer head reach ? That lazy and cunny man uou call husband will keep draining you till you reset your brain ma
ReplyDeleteFor your niece, send her back.
The husbands own maybe different
DeletePoster was your husband always lazy
The “need” to sleep all the time might be a symptom of a medical condition
You loaned him the money cause you thought he could do well, now he just wants to sleep
Encourage him to go for medical check up ASAp
Send her away ,your husband is a he goat next is sharing your bed with her because your lazy husband can blackmail her that he was the one that made her stay in order to be sleeping with her
ReplyDeleteStop feeding your husband and send your niece back to the village, anybody that's advising you otherwise is your greatest enemy and evil, don't listen to them.
ReplyDeleteIf I were you, I won't even wait for any advice before I do what's right by stop feeding a lazy ass man and sending a wicked niece back to her thief mother.
What!This family people no dey try o
ReplyDeletePoster, please do not send the little girl away. She's innocent. Her mother influenced her to do what she did, she also confessed to you and is remorseful. Please train her right and God will bless you for it. Remember, she's your niece. Do not listen to the evil advice that you should not forgive her and send her back to the village. That girl is a child and does not know any better. Please forgive and forget. God bless your good heart.
ReplyDeleteIs the village hell? Didn’t the poster come out of the village too. God has blessed the poster already, she didn’t harm the child when she discovered what was being done. She is a blessed woman who gives from her little and does good for others even though nobody around her is doing any good for her. She is a blessed woman.
DeleteMe just wondering why your husband didn't take the loan himself.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, lessons have been learnt, once you offset, no try am again.
IF YOU CAN, let your niece school from her mother's house.
I am really disappointed in your sister and the woman who takes the money.
I wonder why your husband wants your niece to stay, suspicious
Reading this chronicle, it is now clear why most of you are generally disrespectful of men here. You apparently judge most men by the standards of your husbands and siblings, especially brothers.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, some of you have husbands traditionally worthy of the title. But being typically never satisfied, you trawl the social media and neighbourhood gossips for faux tap points that pressure your marriages. After reading this chronicle, may you have the largeness of hearts to return home always with appreciation to your husbands.
Some wives need to read chronicles like this one to really know how blessed they are. Unfortunately, among them are found the chief marital complainants – those who drug husbands to near deth to steal from them; those who pad bills to steal from husbands under the flimsy alibi that their husbands are stingy; those who are well catered for but claim wife, not …; those who do not know there are no feminist rights in marriage; and those who …
This chronicles, though sad, gives some men a sliver of assurance that they are doing well in their marriages. For a as man once said, his mother told him: "Son, do not to worry about not being called a good husband because when a wife tells her husband he is good, he is done and only the pasting of his posters and ceremonies are being awaited."
Stealing at 11 ?. Naa that's too much for that kind of amount within a short time. Please take her back to her mother
ReplyDeleteBack in the day when my only baby as at then was about a year old, my niece-in-law came to stay so we could send her to school and she would act as a nanny for my boy. This girl was a thief and a liar like no other. Ill keep it brief, was it the stealing of meat from the pot leading the soup to sour and making my husband quarrel with me, hiding the soap claiming it had finished and then collecting money to buy a new one , only to sneak back to use the supposedly finished one, or the day the mistress in school came to report because they wondered how such a little girl ( she was about 11 ) was spending so much money in school on snacks and drinks to the extent of buying for her friends.I could go on and on. The last straw was the day i caught her teaching my just learning to speak toddler how to lie and then on another occasion encouraging him to come steal money from my bag. That was the day i, and with the agreement of my husband decided to send her back home. I don't know how old your children are but i fear she will end up teaching them bad things. My children are young adults now and one thing i can proudly say is that my children do not steal. We have never had incidences of missing money or articles that cannot be explained. If they want anything , they ask. I too, am not a stingy parent towards them , if i say i don't have... they accept it. Pls let her go. If care is not taken envy for your children will set in and lead to something else. She can stay with her mother and you send what you have, when you have. Imagine how you are struggling and still paying debt( Lapo people that don't have joy) and your sister encourages your daughter to do such. If she too was not a thief , she would have told you and then told her mother no. She must have already been stealing in the village. As for your husband.... pls i've typed enough. A man who is not assisting with the extra mouth you are feeding is trying to have an opinion on this. Me too i suspect the man.
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