Friday In House News....

 Hailings.....

WEEKEND MEMO

I wish you all a great Friday and hope to see you all in the comment section of the Friday night post......

The miracle i was talking about sounds like a lie ...Thank you awesome God...This is my testimony and thanksgiving, that you would bless me a sinner that is not worthy of your love or mercy or blessings....I know that it isnt by my power or might but by your Grace....Thank you Lord....

I repeat what i said yesterday.............. That those of you who go anon to cuss out and call peoples children ugly for them to read, read and assimilate, may God given you children with issues that will humble you and keep you busy.....Children with issues are also created by God and sent to special parents to take care.....May God single you out as special parents and bless you with one of his special child so that you will learn to see beauty where there is none...AMEN

If you like go under anon to reply me and say that i am not innocent and my prayers will not work...Yes i am not innocent but i do not go calling God creation ugly, i put my hands in his eyes to mock him........I have tried my best to show love to people but when i refused to be insulted, lied on or disrespected i become a bad person........

Please reply with your full ID to activate the PRAYER...Thank you

Yes i am petty and i love it!

My first fruit, my big Bambino will be a year older in a few days....My six foot three inches son with tanned skin and curly hair THAT looks like he walked out of a magazine.. My handsome respectful son with a heart of gold.........

The smelling agegey that should be busy fixing his smell has been commenting that I am ugly.....You Monkey, my ugliness got me everything a woman needs....I am a six footer, you are short like a lizard with diarhea on the ground but looking up to insult me, if you see me physically fear no go let you talk, i carry GRACE dey waka, dey roll with ego in my wallet, no cap......

 

Abeg make una enjoy the day...i have a lot to go through and post but need to first do some mama time around the house..my ocd antenna is u......

Use this space to bless your kids born or unborn....send out the words of blessing to envelope them.......... 

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MADAM AMEBO CORNER

Good day SDK BVs....

 Longest time, abeg make una no vex for me, e get as things dey with me...

I visited my Cousin and his wife that live in a different state, I attended a program in their state, so I begged them to stay at their house, Stella I saw hell, this program na one week thing but that was the longest one week I have known in my entire existence...

Before I came, I begged this woman, she agreed wholeheartedly and told me to inform her husband which I did, he accepted too...

After some weeks, I came, she was so nice the first day cos it was on a Sunday and her husband dey house....

The next morning I woke up and went straight to the kitchen to clean up, after cleaning, I went to her to ask if there's anything that I can warm or cook for breakfast, she asked if I wasn't going to wait on God on fasting cos of the program I came for...

I shyly agreed that the breakfast was for them, she said okay, she made sure she sat in that kitchen till I finished cooking, she asked me to excuse her from the kitchen so that she can dish food for her husband and kids..

She emptied the pot and told me that we will cook something else by the time I finish by 6pm, Jesus Christ!! 

I swallowed spit and kept calm, I decided to sleep to distract myself but my eyes no gree close, around 11am, she came and asked me to make lunch, with the excuse of "you know you love cooking"(you and who)...

 I finished cooking around 4pm cos I made fresh moimoi and jellof rice....
Them no still give me chop because I wan pray God come down from heaven...

She showed me some clothes to help her wash with washing machine, I didn't know how to use washing machine, so I used my hands to wash that heap of clothes, around 6pm she came again to tell me that I should go to the fridge and take the soup in a plate to warm and that she kept garri in a plate for me to make and eat after I have prayed and closed my fasting....

but I made a sumptuous meal naa.....

I got to the fridge and met a very lonely helpless soup that looks like it was cooked for prisoners, there was no obstacles inside, I dragged it out and warmed it, na so food take enter my mouth that day...

 I was so weak cos my stomach was on fire, I decided to dress up and attend my program, I came back around 10pm or past 10, I knocked and knocked and got no response, till past 11pm, they managed to open...

 I came inside, I took my bath and was about sleeping when they started midnight prayers, clapping and singing, i stayed back in the room, she came and said i must join....

Stella this prayers went on till 3:30am, she and my cousin spoke in tongues for over an hour, by the 6am this witch came and woke me up again..

This was the rubbish I had to put up with for good six days in the hands of a woman that was married into my family right before my eyes......ulcer has been dealing with me since i came back, I couldn't even go outside to buy something to eat cos all i had left was my transportfare back home...

 I ate eba and that lonely soup for six whole days without tasting crayfish talk more of fish in it, but kept making delicious meals for them, it somehow looked like she personally made the soup for me...

When I was leaving, my cousin walked up to me and told me that "hope I enjoyed my stay?" , I said yes Sir, he said he would've given me something to buy bread for my kids but he exhausted his pocket trying to make sure that I feed well when I come and that he's glad that his wife took care of me well, and he hope I enjoyed her cooking and the different delicacies, I said yes sir (na thunder go fire you and your wife)..

Stella I have never pretended that much in my life before, the man is bragging to whoever cares to listen that his home is always open to families and that his wife is a home keeper, did I tell you people that the wife was always putting off the ceiling fan in the room i slept because she said it disturbs the solar, heat was dealing with me (her children's room cos she took them to the Masters bedroom cos of me, guess am too dirty to sleep beside her kids or I fit suffoca8 the children for night, husband family too de suffer)...

But what I really don't understand is why she would be lying to her husband that she was taking care of me and that man who was hardly around believed her, I no go ever try that nonsense ever again make I no go kpaii, even the program wey I attend, I couldn't concentrate cos hunger be wan write my name into the book of life...

Is this not why God gave us mouth?You were the one cooking, you should have eaten yours since you know she wont give you, let her fight and raise hell if she wants......This was really annoying to read. please next time stand up for your stomach....

We return your column to inside in house news, i think its more fun here and especially since it is not constant again.....


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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.

My first boy is growing up, we are hitting another developmental phase for him, and I am really trying to find my feet with this one. 

So last week we went on a walk, he was cycling right in the middle of the road, I was already tired and cranky from the days activities so I snapped at him to move away and cycle closer to the kerb.

I was distracted for a minute, and by the time I looked up, this young boy was riding so close to someone’s gate and almost hit the gate. I shouted at him ( not my proudest moment) and asked why he couldn’t just ride his bicycle by the kerb.

This boy broke down in tears, raising his voice and asking me why I just wanted to ruin his day. I was shocked at his reaction, his raising his voice and using the words “ruin his day”. He was so upset and asked me why I was so difficult to please. Why would I be so mad at him when all he was trying to do was stay away from the middle of the road like I instructed.

I was shocked, I didn’t even know he could express himself like that. Back in the days, I would have been slapped for such outbursts. I had to remind myself that for him to react like that, I must have been nagging at him all through the walk, and since I was cranky, I might have been very snapish.

I apologised profusely and felt bad when he kept on repeating that he was having a good day, but I was bent on ruining it. The use of the word ruining his day was really getting me aggravated, but I just had to accept that was what I was doing, and he was being honest with his feelings.
Since then, it was as if I had opened a floodgate. This boy has become so vocal that now I am trying to teach him the difference between being rude and expressing oneself politely.

Nobody explained this to me when I was younger. Smart retorts earned me a slap.
Now I am trying to do things differently by not resorting to violence and managing my emotions while being triggered, abi is it the other day when I was fiddling with the remote and he walked up to me and said “mommy please don’t mess up the television settings let me do it”. I felt like me as in me, this small boy is saying I should not spoil something he will fix it.

Guess what? he fixed it perfectly while I couldn’t figure out how to navigate the TV apps. It is well, oooo

Heheheheheheheehhehehhehehehehheheehehehhehehehehehehe you dey talk? mine had once asked me to calculate how much rent he needs to pay for staying nine months so that i can stop using it to blow his ear drums.........lol

Just look on the bright side and enjoy every moment ojare! #motherhoodrocks

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

My husband had left for a short trip and promised to be back before night, but plans changed, and by evening, he called to say he wouldn’t make it back. I woke up the following morning to see that the light suddenly blinked and the fan stopped. The prepaid meter had run out of power.

I ran to WhatsApp and quickly dropped him a message, he responded swiftly and sent a new token through chat and asked if I could load it. I replied affirmatively.
I picked up the courage, went to the prepaid typed in the numbers, and pressed the button.
“Error.” ! Three times I tried.
On the third try, I wiped the screen and pointed my phone’s flashlight to see better. Still nothing. I almost gave up. I was sweating, frustrated, and upset. "How do we pump water now", I murmured.
But something in me said, "Try one last time."
I looked at the token carefully and typed carefully. Then I pressed “Enter” and waited.
The green light blinked and then the hum of electricity returned.

I stood there and was smiling like I had just won a battle.
When I texted him “Done,” he replied with a heart emoji. and "Smart girl"..

I replied, "What a man can do, a woman can do better", but kept away the part that I tried nearly five times. Emi Engineer *winks*.

LOL

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WHY GOOD PEOPLE ATTRACT BAD PEOPLE

1. Empathy and kindness Are Easy to Explore
Good people tend to be empathetic, forgiving and patient. These traits, while admirable, can be seen as vulnerabilities by manipulative or self serving individuals who seek to take advantage of others.

2.Rescuers Draw in people who want saving
People with a helper’s or rescuer mindset often attract those who are broken, toxic or looking for a latch on to this energy, knowing the good person won’t walk away easily.

3. Non- Confrontational Nature
Many good people avoid conflict, which can embolden manipulative individuals. If someone knows they won’t be called out or confronted, they feel safer pushing boundaries.

4. Bad people Seek Control.
Some bad people thrive on power and dominance. They may target good people who are trusting or submissive to establish control over them .

5 . Goodness Reflects what they lack
Sometimes, bad people are drawn to good people not out of love , but envy . They want to be close to what they cannot embody themselves, honesty, compassion, integrity perhaps to mimic it. Absorb it , or ultimately destroy it .

WHY BAD PEOPLE ATTRACT GOOD PEOPLE

1. The Desire to Heal or save
Many good people believe in second chances and may see the good hidden within a bad person. They think, I can change them or they just need someone to love them right.

2. Charisma and manipulation
Bad people are often charming and confident _ at least at first. This charm can mask toxic behavior and draw in a good people who mistake charisma for character

3. Good people see potential
Good hearted individuals often look past surface level flaws. They believe in growth and transformation and may stay too long harmful situations hoping for change.

4. Unsolved trauma or patterns
Sometimes, good people have unsolved emotions wounds eg from childhood, that unconsciously draw them towards unhealthy partners or friends in an attempt to redo the past .

5.opposites create intensity
The contrast between good and bad can create intense emotional dynamics. While not always healthy, this push pull dynamic can feel intoxicating especially if the good person mistakes intensity for love or passion .

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