Monday In House News

 Hailings.......

 MONDAY MEMO

 How everybody dey? hope your groove is grooving? My day is going on well and i am in a good mood........In case you are wondering why i am in a good mood, it is because God loves me and so many good things are happening to me all at once!

BIG SMILE

Ehen those of you fighting inside the comment section, una get time oh....

Una dey make me laugh..Are you people adults or babies? Make una grow up!

Lets keep this place positive and full of laughter.......

Today i am making one kind of oyibo soup as appetizer and then chicken filets and farmers salad.....You say Hilda Baci is a chef?I be master chef and i better pass hilda when e reach oyibo food.....

What are you cooking today especially? I am interested..

I am attending a Nigerian event in two weeks and i praying that i will see peppered snail...I will finish what i see..lol

Hugs to everyone.Have a nice day and dont gossip too much!

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
THE MYSTERY BEHIND THE DISAPPEARANCE OF SISTER DUPE.

My husband pastors a small but vibrant church.
We knew most members closely, like family.
One of our women leaders, Sister Dupe (not really name) was especially active in ministry.
Then the scandal broke.
Her husband found dirty messages, including nude pictures she sent to a man on Facebook for money. The news hit like a storm but we didn't escalate it.

Her husband who was not a member of our church or any church was furious, then decided to throw her out.
The woman ran to my husband and we visited, hoping to calm the fire. The woman wept, begged, and promised change.
After hours of prayer and counsel, my husband convinced her husband to forgive her. It took time for him to be pacified but we finally succeeded.
After a while, things seemed to settle but it was shortlived. Bitterness has a way of hiding in shadows. 

The woman grew cold toward my husband. She began to avoid church meetings and ignore his calls. Rumors started, quiet whispers floated that she was angry with “the pastor.” 

We never knew why. Suddenly, without a word, she left the church entirely.
It was as if she erased herself from our lives.

Honestly, some rescues don’t make you a friend, they make you a target. And sometimes, the ones you help the most are the first to walk away.

So what was heer reason for being angry with the Pastor? Didnt she run to him to help save her Marriage?Mscheeeeeew!

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MADAM AMEBO CORNER

I saw raw undiluted wickedness....

A teenager that was hawking tomatoes last year, she usually brings tomatoes for me to buy, you need to hear this girl speak, but according to her, she dropped out of school because their Dad left their Mom cos she was not giving him peace of mind.

The Mom decided to withdraw the 4 of them from school, even the dad didn't care too, she showed up recently with about 7 months old pregnancy, I asked her a lot of questions but she only had answers to a few of my questions.

She will come, beg me to buy her food, once she's done eating, she will stand up and go home, I noticed she will keep some of the food,, wrap it in a nylon and go home with it, she also has some cane bruises on her body...

I asked her one time and she said it was her mom that flogged her cos she woke up late, the mom feeds her only once a day, mostly in the mornings, I really don't have a problem with that cos any soul wey sin should kpaii for it, she know as things be and yet she decided to get pregnant for someone she has refused to tell me about and yet she wasn't forced...

I didn't meet the Mom cos I don't know her but I asked one time if she's her biological Mom, she said yes 100%, so I too was being careful and minding my business.

One morning recently ,immediately I finished displaying my goods, one small boy came and told me that Mercy wants to see me cos she de bleed, I followed the boy immediately, took my phone and my wallet, then informed my daughter where I was going even though I didn't know the address...

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At getting to their house which is not far from my shop, I saw this girl struggling on the floor, wailing, I rushed outside and got keke, we took her to a nearby clinic and she gave birth to a cute son...

While we were waiting for them to bring her out, this young fine guy walked in looking for her cos I got her mom's number when I was told that she saw her reeling in pain and decided to leave for her business, so I called her and she was so rude to me, she even told me to take her to my house after she put to birth...

I asked the young man who he is to her, he said he is the guy responsible for the pregnancy, my eyes was filled with tears, I asked him why he abandoned her, he said he didn't, that from the day the Mom got his number and called him, that he's been sending huge amount of money to her to take care of her cos he travelled to Kuwait, he only came back a few days ago because of her, that the mom told him that the girl was taken to the village where she had no access to phone but that she takes money and stuff to her from time to time, that he was surprised when she called him that morning that she was in labour and later informed him about the name of the hospital, he said that even the iPhone he sent for her was being used by the Mom..

My head was hot for a second, I still didn't say anything, then they brought her out, this guy cried, the girl started narrating everything to the guy, how her mom told her that he denied the pregnancy and told her that her daughter was wayward, she said she became upset cos she didn't expect such from the same guy that deflowered her, after all the promises he made to her, so she decided to never contact him again, that she even begged the mom to stop contacting him cos anytime she contacted him, she would always come home very angry and will be flogging her legs..

He showed me the 400k debit that he sent to the girls mom that morning for hospital needs, he said he didn't abandon her, that he was sending her money every week, the mother didn't visit that hospital till I left later in the evening, it was the guy that was running around, bought food for her, bought pads, paid for the clothes they wore the child and delivery stuff cos she bought nothing neither did she visit the hospital during her pregnancy days...

His friends filled the hospital and were all over the girl and the baby, I know say the boy na Yahoo boy but his Mom raised him well, he is too caring.....

A part of me wants to confront the girls mom but I don't want troubles and seriously it's not my business but when you ask a teenager to leave school and start hawking tomatoes for you, what do you expect? Especially a child whom you despise cos of their father's mistakes, she wasn't loved at home, so every love available became love to her, some women are stone hearted.

The guy called me this morning that they will be discharged the next day and he has called some agents to get them an apartment, he said he's taking them home, I told him to sought the mother's consent or if possible, reach the father,
I no get this kain heart abeg

Did you say seek the mothers consent? Is something wrong with you Madam amebo? Cosi feel like insulting you...All the advice wey we give you from that your trip to your cousins house, you never still open eyes abi?Please dont angry me you hear? See as i dey vexs on top this matter!

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WORDS OF ELDERS

1. “Beware of the naked person who offers you clothes!

2. “When one’s goat get missing, the aroma of a neighbor’s soup get suspicious”.

3. “The future belongs to the Risk takers, Not the Comfort seekers!"

4. “A deaf husband and a blind wife are always a happy couple!"

5. “The first person you think of in the morning, or last person you think of at night, is either the cause of your happiness or your pain!"

6. “Be careful who you trust! Salt and Sugar are both white!"

7. “Kindness is like butter, it works best when you spread it around!"

8. “The walls don’t only have ears, they now see!"

9. “Sometimes, you have to play the role of a fool to fool the fools who think they are fooling you!"

10. “If you have a mom, there is nowhere you are likely to go where a prayer has not already been!"

Let us resolve to heal the world by making it a better place. God bless you richly today.

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WEIRDFACTS

----Sunglasses were originally designed for Chinese judges to hide their facial expressions in court. Sunglasses were originally made out of smoky quartz in 12th century China, where they were used by judges to mask their emotions when they were questioning witnesses.

----Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Never give up when you can still take it. Never say you don't love them when you can't let go.

---Coffee has been found to protect liver damage (cirrhosis) by up to 65%.

----Around 50 million people are drunk right now.

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