He warned that the bible advocates hard work and not dependency.
He said: “It never favours you. That thing was a cultural idea. It’s not biblical.
“That a man should take care of a woman. It’s not biblical. What the Bible says is that he that does not work should not eat. Okay, before you marry, how were you surviving? Before you had a boyfriend, before you had a fiancé, how were you surviving? That’s the question.
“Like I said, all this talk is poor people talk. Look, somebody that has a well-to-do parent that raised them well,
they will send you to the best schools.
''You’ll finish the best schools, you’ll get one of the best jobs. They won’t leave you to roam around with one boy to pay for you. A boy that buys you puff puff, the way he will squeeze you like puff puff.
"And the way some of you are being treated is because of how you have rated yourself. If you don’t buy me popcorn, I won’t come. Then the way they will pop you like corn. They are disgracing your family.”
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“That a man should take care of a woman. It’s not biblical. What the Bible says is that he that does not work should not eat. Okay, before you marry, how were you surviving? Before you had a boyfriend, before you had a fiancé, how were you surviving? That’s the question.
“Like I said, all this talk is poor people talk. Look, somebody that has a well-to-do parent that raised them well,
they will send you to the best schools.
''You’ll finish the best schools, you’ll get one of the best jobs. They won’t leave you to roam around with one boy to pay for you. A boy that buys you puff puff, the way he will squeeze you like puff puff.
"And the way some of you are being treated is because of how you have rated yourself. If you don’t buy me popcorn, I won’t come. Then the way they will pop you like corn. They are disgracing your family.”
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DeleteNa morals we need now pls. 10-19years kids need to learn morals.
DeleteThen women should start advocating that every child they birth should bear her own father’s surname not her husband’s surname.
ReplyDeleteThe wife is clearly taking care of the household
DeleteAnon 14:45 thank you
DeletePastor Kingsley!! Please leave all these social media inspired preaching abeg....Let's go back to the old time religion....Teach people on studying the word and follow the teachings of Jesus, how to be better humans and the foundation of all truths which is the word of God......
ReplyDeleteDidn't even know he's a pastor
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ReplyDeleteThe other day in the In House News, a BV said that she believes the purpose of marriage is that the man should feed the woman for life. My jaw hit the floor and has remained there since.
ReplyDeleteIn my mind, I asked myself is it the brain that BV used to come up with that conclusion that she uses to cross the road?
We need to strongly address this culture that raises women to be programmed liabilities. That limits their ability to fully develop their potentials all because of a misguided belief that a man somewhere will take care of them.
My guy that lady wey collect SUV after giving better head don collect ring o.
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Regardless of your beliefs or convictions, life will still dole you the consequences for your choices. Expecting the man to feed you till death is not the problem, the treatment that follows being dependent and fed is. Can you stomach that treatment of a spectator at the table? No matter how you think about, reality is an unlike expectations. Ask every woman in this shoe if their ever after is a happy place
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ReplyDeleteDo I have the luxury of time to comment?- No
Will I still comment even though?- Hell Yes😁🌚
After them don pop the corn with hot fire and anger, them go come dey except innocent me that didn't pop anything to come and go and go and kneel for their family and beg to wife them, the family that knows how much their daughters have been popped like champagne will still go ahead to nack you bill like say na chassis.. you go come dey beg make them reduce cost and list.. Tarrrh! 😂😂..
Babe wey dem suppose dey beg you to marry so you go cover her shame Lol
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DeleteThis take feels incomplete. Scripture calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and teaches that anyone who doesn’t provide for their own is worse than an unbeliever , Provision is biblical, but it’s not just money,it’s care, protection, and respect. Let’s build each other up, not shame people for their expectations.”
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ReplyDeleteI believe him , same way I believe a woman is not meant to be cooking for a man, cleaning for a man , praying for a man ,baby sitting a man .
ReplyDeleteThat one na lazy people talk
A man who cannot provide for his family is worst than an infidel is in Quran I guess not the bible
What was God's punishment to man again, before sending them out of Eden ,
Some of this pastors just say things to trend just to advertise their church
I meaaan, they just say things that sooths them. Sometimes quoting bible incomplete.
DeleteA man who cannot provide for his family is worst than an infide
DeleteThis part is in the Bible too but he didn’t add it
I’m not an advocate for men taking care of the bills alone but the Bible does seem to put it on them. The end
It's boldly written in the Bible.
DeleteSo what of the unmarried women cooking and washing for their men, running chores and all that, there is no biblical reference for it. Did you forbid your now wife from doing anything personal for you when you were courting? I’m sure you sat down and ate her meals without batting an eye.
ReplyDeleteFight go soon start. Most women suddenly become handicapped once they enter a relationship. They are the people who would be offended by this post.
ReplyDeleteI agree but then the reason for the culture of men taking care of women is age difference. If men marry their age mates they will meet more independent women. Cos I don't know a single Nig woman who has nothing doing, either a job or side business.
ReplyDeleteBut on the other hand too, young ones flee fornication. The devil will lie to you, steal from you and make you pay for it.
I've never heard this Pastor Kingsley preach the gospel of salvation in Jesus Christ since he started his ministry in Festac years ago.
ReplyDeleteI've also never heard him give motivational teaching on how men should be good husbands and responsible fathers.
This leaves one to wonder what was missing in his upbringing.
Thank you! Always attacking women. The other time he said men don't kneel to propose. He is always veering off. Who made him the rule maker?
DeleteI don’t know why people fight this
ReplyDeleteDo what works for your home
I’m a woman and I’d rather go to work than be in charge of cooking and cleaning the home and getting kids ready for school
If I see who is willing to do that, I will pay the bills
Some men complain about paying bills as if they actually think domestic chores are nothing
Let’s be honest pls
I need to like this comment 1000 times, house chores co easy oh
DeleteThis is the second time this man is ticking me off.
ReplyDeleteThe first one was when he said that men don't apologise. That women need to get over it and take gifts instead, if he so presents.
Now he is talking about women not depending on men, if they so agree.
I hope someone warns him to stop preaching from his emotions and preach with godly logic. We have seen many pastors go down when they start veering off. E go do am lile film trick.
I would give him one more chance before I start skipping his messages. He is not the only marriage pastor in the world.
Same scripture said anyman who fail to provide for his relatives and his family denied the FAITH and is worse than an infidel. Hello pastor Kingsley,are you still there??
ReplyDeleteI, m not condoning laziness sha, everybody suppose hussle.
Most people don't have an issues with God. They have an issues with the people that represent him.
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