Hailings to you !!
Please eh those of you who go into the comments section to be ordering me not to post certain stories, please get your head checked cos there must be something wrong with you to be making such yeye comment....Do you go to other blogs to display such irritating behaviour? Or is it because i made here like a community that your common sense is failing you? ...Abeg make i just leave you, because what is this?You see that Yinka and Linc storyß I will continue to post until she takes Lincs advice and leaves the Internet for Tiree years!
Enjoy the rest of your day and please make data worthy comments....
Since this week, i have not been eating well cos of dieting and i have not been so strong.....One nurse told me i might faint soon if i am not careful and it actually almost happened on Saturday, so like this eh, we in the kitchen boiling basmati rice....make i chop small today and continue in two days.....
I hail oh......
Aside from Akara and moin moin, what else is beans used for?
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LADIES PLEASE DATE A SAFE MAN
If you're healing from a relationship that left you questioning your worth, or if you're dating again and wondering what kind of love is safe, this is for you.
Please, marry a man who respects you even when he's angry.
Anyone can be sweet when things are easy.
Anyone can be charming when they’re getting their way.
But the real test of a man’s character isn’t how he acts when he’s happy, it’s how he behaves when he’s hurt, frustrated, or upset.
Love is not proven in the good times.
It’s proven in the tension, in the conflict, in the moments when emotions run high.
Because anger is never an excuse for disrespect.
Being upset doesn’t give him permission to raise his voice
Being frustrated doesn’t justify calling you names.
Being angry doesn’t excuse cruel or demeaning words.
Being hurt doesn’t make it okay to use your insecurities against you.
Let that be clear ....
His emotions do not give him the right to harm yours.
His worst moments should still show his love.
Even in disagreement, he should protect your dignity.
Even in conflict, he should be kind.
Even when he’s hurting, he should never want to hurt you.
A good man doesn’t weaponize your vulnerability.
A mature man doesn’t punish you with silence or threats.
A safe man doesn’t storm off or blow up when things get hard.
He talks. He listens. He stays. He respects.
You deserve to feel safe in love .....
Because a safe love never raises its voice at you
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WEIRDFACTS
----The ancient Babylonians used a base-60 numerical system instead of base 10
This is why we have 60 seconds in a minute, and 360 degrees in a circle
----If you are truly “1 in a million,” then there are roughly 8,140 people just like you
----Technostalgia (noun):
A nostalgic longing for old, outdated technology
----Before you give up, think about why you held on for so long.
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WORDS OF ELDERS
-- “A harsh man tells a woman to stop talking, but a wise man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful, when her lips are closed!"
-- “No matter how long the night, the day is sure to come!"
-- “A woman’s greatest perfume is the fragrance of her man’s success!"
--. “A wise person knows that there is something to be learned from everyone!"
-- “It requires wisdom to understand wisdom.
-- The music is nothing, if the audience is deaf”!
- -“None of us is as smart as all of us. Work together to achieve!!
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12 THINGS TO ALWAYS REMEMBER
1. The past can't be changed
2. Opinions don't define your reality
3. Everyone's journey is different
4. Judgements are not about you
5. Over thinking will lead to sadness
6. Happiness is found within
7. Your thoughts affect your mood
8. Smiles are contagious
9. Kindness is free
10. It's okay to let go and move on
11. What goes around comes around
12. Things always get better with time
*Reflect on everything, you will note that life is not bed of roses*
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Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteStella, o baje gan ni. You think you will be happy if you come here and don't see comments on your posts consistenly? Yes,you have made the blog a community of some sort but it doesn't give you the right to talk anyhow just because some people choose to air their opinion and you don't buy it. These options aren't shut down your dry throat so chill. You are loved and you have loyalists but don't over do it cos people turn and people get cancelled!
Delete@16:26,why on earth will she get cancel,so u can air your opinions and she can't air hers..?
DeleteSome of you thinks without you this blog won't function..lol
Joke on you dear.
Stop telling her not to post things that brings traffic to her blog..
If you don't like them, kindly go to the next post.. simple
Anon, Stella post whatever she thinks is appropriate for the blog, there are some news no matter how trendy they are that will never make its way to this blog. You can easily jump over the ones you don't like.
Delete16:26 calm dan.
DeleteUgba and Ukwa: One of the delicacies in most Igbo events, that tells you where you belong, in case it didn't get to you when served, it is an indication you need to work harder 😀. The same delicacy they will tell you it has already finished but will always surface at the arrival of another.
ReplyDeletewetin man do man 😆
You are very right about this.
DeleteSome people don't even bring it out until the arrival of the MMVP while some will outrightly tell you it is not for you 😂
Wetin man do man 🤣🤣
DeleteUgba with thick kpomo is yummy 😋
Nothing but the truth 😂
DeleteI lost some money today, though the money is not that plenty but it's painful especially when I knew it could have been avoided, e pain me . My darling 15k 😭 how I miss having you in my pocket. O ti lor
ReplyDeleteTo enter Facebook these days just dey fear me, I can't enter Facebook without seeing RIP on people's photos especially young people. God please oo, may we not die young,may God comfort those that loss their loved ones too.
Their this love Dr on one ekiti radio, he posted just 3 days ago, he was in a farm hale and hearty but this morning people are flooding his TL with Rip . God abeg oo
Eeya, sorry about losing your money.
DeleteMariam
Ehya so sorry about your money. That thing can pain eeh.
DeleteEayaa sorry about your money, to lost money dey pain ehn.
DeleteThe rate at which people are dieing is alarming. May God keep keeping us.
Eyah! So sorry about that 🤗🤗
DeleteHonestly the rate at which youths are dying now is crazy and scary 😨 my former classmate died in August and earlier this month, a pretty young lady that we work in the same building but different company just died like that 🤦♀️ God rest their souls 🙏
Eeya... Owo yen po die naa. Olohun a fi ofo r'emi.
DeleteSorry about your money GM
DeleteChai!!! 15k tan tan? Pele, mai dia! May God replenish your pocket.
DeleteSorry about your money.
DeleteKpele..15k,,😭
DeleteSorry about your pepper. God will provide much more than that.
DeleteThanks sisters. I really appreciate your concerns. I feel better now with your comments 🥰 may we not surfer any kind of loss. It's painful but mo Ka sara
DeleteGood afternoon everyone.
ReplyDeleteStella abeg chop o...😂
Beans is used for beans soup, gbegiri, adalu and ekuru
ReplyDeleteChai I love gbegiri soup with Amala 😋
DeleteBeans soup is yummy 😋
DeleteI saw one IG video where the vendor used eggs 🥚 in place of egusi ..normal process of making egusi with all ingredients oh.. she called it eggusi and used eba to eat it
Im not an egusi fan, I would have tried it
A Calabar lady I know uses eggs to make her egusi soup. Sometimes she mix it with egusi other times, she uses just eggs.
Delete@osundi, gbegiri with ewedu plus eja kika and ponmo on top Amala😋
Delete@paris, very sweet. I can't do without cooking it
@justyswt, yes, I've done that before when egg price was still cool, can't try it now o cos it doesn't swell up like egusi
Wellcome in House Newsssssss
ReplyDeleteIya Boys Abeg Eat Well oo And Relax 🫂
Hello oooooo
Hello iya Boys
Good afternoon my people, how are y'all doing?
ReplyDeleteIs been a while, am stronger now by the grace of God. God has been faithful.
Stella eat oh abeg.
WE KEEP MOVING!!
It’s well with you 🤗🤗
DeleteHallelujah!
DeleteAbionah please wetin be the English name for Aju mbaise let me look for it here cos they have plenty types of tea here
DeleteStella, I don't know the English name for it oo. I woke up to meet it being called Aju Mbaise. Maybe you Google it and take the picture to African stores to check.
DeleteStella I doubt if it has English name, it is made up of local herbs and roots.
DeleteSaw this movie and enjoyed it.
ReplyDeleteFake world- this one made me laugh
Till the dust settle- loved it.. Sonia uche and Eso dike..
Naija movies and night in shining amour kinda stories, one rich man go just marry one poor girl, they should stoppiit abeg. E no dey too happen like that.
Some dey find food them no see, Stella see food dey avoid am. Irony of life. Chop make u no faint😊
About the beans, I'll read comments.
I just dey hiss @that fake world, must they always date/marry?!
DeletePOS lady married dying millionaire abi@till the dust settles? Saw it a while back.
My son will say "you keep complaining and still watch". What can I do now, support naija, grow naija 😉
Honestly the make belief is too much... sometimes I will say I won't,but it's already downloaded and I'm just helping there ministry too😁😂😅
DeleteLora, aswear mesef dont know why I dey download sef🙄
DeleteSometimes I do have free gig for YouTube. I dont want to waste it so I'll just download.
Mor, abi jor. Lets help their ministry. 😊
Some of their story line is not realistic jare.
DeleteTiri Gbosa to the one and only S to d D to d K.
ReplyDeleteI am so so blessed to be seen by you.
I am very grateful for your support, encouragement Ginger. Patronages. Referrals. Love, Kindness, Goodness and generosity to me.
Words fail me...
God will forever bless you and your household.
And you will keep riding upon the high places of the earth.
And eat the goods of the land.
Thank you so much ma for ALL YOU DO.
God bless you
Massive sale..
DeleteAmen
Wishing you plenty sales
DeleteWishing you bountiful sales.
DeleteYour bags are beautiful. Massive sales 🎉
DeleteThank you all lovely people 💕🙏💕💕💕
DeletePlenty sale in Jesus name. Thanks SDK
DeleteMy lovely people please come support this bag launch. It is far greater value for money.
ReplyDeleteThe prices I sell are a giveaway compared to the quality you are getting.
It's the same bags you see in the big stores ooo.
Hurry ooo cos it's been back to back sales. Before you hear SOLD OUT
May plenty customers come to you. I wish you massive sales.
DeleteMore sales beautiful 😍🙏🏿
DeleteAmen. Thank you so much
DeleteGood day dear, you get beautiful things plenty,wishing you massive sales oo😘
DeleteYour bags are beautiful 😍 I wish you plenty sales.
DeleteMassive sales sis.
DeleteWell said @footnote. Good afternoon my people ☺️
ReplyDeleteIHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
"Let today be a reminder that progress doesn’t always come in leaps, sometimes it’s in the small, consistent steps. Keep moving forward, you’re closer than you think." 💪🌸
A side from Moin Moin, u can made Gbegiri soup from beans,, u can also made Adalu [ beans and corn].
ReplyDeleteBefore u give up , think about why u held on so long.
A woman greatest perfume us the fragrance of her man's success.
Thanks for these.
SDK do small giveaway this week na abeg. Your giveaway dey really help me I swear.
ReplyDeleteLOL
Delete💯 true.
DeleteE dey help
The Lord is ur strength beyen
DeletePresidio is in Lagos.
ReplyDeleteKings ways Road Ikoyi Is on Lockdown!!!!
God Abeg,I might Consider Leaving Dear Husband and Relocate to Cana like this ooooooh
Hahahahaha... Eku traffic o!
DeleteEpele
DeleteHaha, abeg no leave my brother o🤣🤣🤣. It's for better for worse🤣🤣. Doh 🤗
DeleteThe presido is in Owerri too today, to commission some road and we are to close shop come out to welcome him.l
DeleteStella, Aju Mbaise can help with weight loss. When I took it, it was only my voice people started hearing. They didnt see me. I was disappearing, like I was getting so slim, all my clothes were dragging. I liked the "flushing" but my friend had to beg me to stop it. No nyash to hold again. Lol.
ReplyDeleteOmo Ologo, when I hit it from the back ....
Welcome IHNs.
Aju Mbaise? is it not the one they use to tighten totoh?hw do i get it? can i get it here?
DeleteStella aju mbaise is use for weight and belly loss. It is very effective if you get the original one.
DeleteAbi abeg🤣
DeleteHahhahahahahahah @ tighten toto. I learnt about it on your blog. One lady was even advertising and selling here on your blog. It is used for weight loss, especially for women who just gave birth. E go slim you well, although my own fat is soft so e no dey hard to slim down.
DeleteIf you are not battling insomnia, taking green tea last thing before bed also helps a lot. In the morning, lemon with the skin, as in just wash, cut into bits and pour in hot water. Allow to simmer and drink. Shikena.
DeleteThe way that aju mbaise was talked about then ehn, didn't know it was going to stop. People really bought that thing ooo
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I thought Aju Mbaise is only for nursing mothers.
DeleteAsides, belly fat loss, it also works for hormonal imbalances in women. I actually used to think only nursing women need it till I see other's testimonies on a page I followed on Ig.
DeleteYes you're right @ Omotola. It can be used to correct irregular menstruation.
DeleteYou took it much then.
DeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY 🌹🌹
ReplyDeleteBeautiful bags. More customers 👏👏
Good afternoon bvs
ReplyDeleteso Nigeria will be 65 tomorrow. so Nigeria is mums age mate. Anytime I want to remember my mum's age. I first find out Nigeria's age
Cheers everyone
Speaking of Beans,I prefer the beans(honey beans specifically) made as Porridge,cooked extremely soft;then you eat it with soft bread and Akamu(Pap),sprinkled with liquid peak milk.
ReplyDeleteGod bless whoever discovered beans in this life😊.
@MARTINS
Yes Sir Martins. Honey Beans to the World!!!??
DeleteMay God Continuously Bless Whoever discovered Beans.
That's my favourite style of cooking beans. And I learnt it from you years back. Nothing beats soft beans prepared with good palm oil and plenty onions.
DeleteHehehehe.
DeleteYou know as e dey go.
I just know I will see you here 🙄🙄 see as you describe am like better food? Hian 😏
DeleteBeans is bae. I love beans anyhow it's cooked.
DeleteBeans and plantain is bae
DeleteSoft beans is yummy 😋
DeleteBeans is bae! I never thought it would grow up to like beans so much judging by how I detest it growing up. Now, if I no chop beans in a week, I will dream of myself eating it. I don't even like eating rice without it. I enjoy all forms of beans combo.
DeleteAboki, if you wan come scatter everything, as in make them dey lick pot, fry the pepper and onions before pouring into the beans. Chai.....
DeleteI love honey beans too.
DeleteI love my beans with ripe plantains 😋
Abiona !!! You wan burst my head . Beans prepared in that method is bae
DeleteSDK, apart from akara and moimoi, we can use beans to make ekuru(it's like moimoi without any ingredient, eaten with sauce), we can make gbegiri soup and lastly beans pudding.
ReplyDeleteHF emporium, your bags are neat and beautiful. Great sales I wish you.
Cool weather....
ReplyDeleteBut everywhere dull
12 things to remember....
ReplyDeleteSo apt
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteIHN o'clock
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 💕
Aside moin moin and akara, beans can be use for beans porridge, ekuru, gbegiri etc
Good afternoon sis 💞
DeleteGood afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon sis 💞
DeleteThose bags are really lovely.
ReplyDeleteThose bags look really lovely.
ReplyDeleteEven in conflict he should protect your dignity and be kind..this line is the ultimate..
ReplyDeleteSo many delicacies showcased at our cultural display. Food dey this kontiri sha. See how I don ready to chop Ukwa today only to be disappointed by a colleague 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteUkwa na your mate ? 😂A derica #2500 heheheheh, Tuale 🙌🏻
Good afternoon,God is good.
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHN, una good afternoon
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone and happy Tuesday
ReplyDeleteStella bikọ eat before you disappear and no body should tell you what to post on your blog
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
Hello beautiful people 😍
ReplyDeleteBeans can be used to make White moi moi also known as Ekuru, it can be eaten with palm oil Stew
Bean porridge
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. It's a rainy Tuesday here. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteThis life!!
ReplyDeleteLast night my kids went to bed because nothing to eat..
Presently at a building site doing labour job to be paid so l can feed my kids.. life of a single mom...l wouldn't give up
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Stay strong Big STELLA.... Even while dieting they are multivitamin supplements thaaat you can take and they will boost your immune and give you enough nutrient...... ( absorb from anything u take)check them out & try it.
ReplyDeleteGoodluck
Reading the ARISE TV staff death story got Me reminiscing since today. This life na Grace of God we dey live on
Queen May supporters are :
ReplyDelete1 legit wives
2 faithful men
3 single ladies who don't want to end up with a cheat or polygamist as husbands
4 repentant home breakers/ husband snatchers e.g Nuella
5 happily divorced women
Yul and Judy supporters are:
1 subsequent wives
2 cheating / polygamous men
3 side chicks who are hoping they will upgraded one day
4 home breakers/ husband snatchers
5 bitter divorced women who are wondering why Queen May is getting all the support while no body send them, saying,is she the only one to be divorced?
Who and what you support says a lot about you
Anon, let me add.
Delete6.Those whose mum's are the side chick and second wives who married the married man not by nativity but intentionally and out of despiration. (Remember, some women were deceived into marrying without knowing that the man already has a wife, so I exempt them)
7. Those whose sisters are husband snatchers.
@Anonymous 15:45, while your view is striking and memorable, some of us stand as neutrals simply seeking perspective - so I’ll beg to differ.
DeleteYou’ve reduced a complex matter into neat boxes of stereotypes. Witty, yes, but also a bit harsh. People don’t always fit cleanly into those categories, and in the process, real conversations about marriage, loyalty, and polygamy risk getting drowned in the noise.
That said, you were spot on with “Who and what you support says a lot about you.” Still, that truth is subjective - conviction differs. A person seen as bad by some may be cherished as good by others, and vice versa. Our reactions often depend less on absolutes and more on how someone’s choices and actions touch our own feelings.
Good day everyone 😁😊.. nothing to complaint about..cos God is working tirelessly for me
ReplyDeleteGood day everyone hope we are doing good today
ReplyDeleteMammi Stella please make sure you eat well maka energy abeg
Beautiful bags up there😍
Massive sales Asa
Cook beans and fresh corn.very yummy.
ReplyDeleteCook beans and fresh corn.very yummy.
ReplyDeleteHi people
ReplyDeleteSo many wise words today
Good afternoon beautiful people
ReplyDelete"DATE A SAFE MAN" so on point 100%
ReplyDeleteStella abeg chop o😀
ReplyDelete@ HF Emporium, your bags are really lovely. I wish you massive sales.
Weird Facts and words of Elders, just 🤏
ReplyDelete@LADIES PLEASE DATE A SAFE MAN is indeed a moving piece - one of those that people instantly call “shareable wisdom.”
ReplyDeleteAlthough written for us, women, the truth is that safety in love applies to both sides. Men too deserve partners who don’t weaponise vulnerability. Everyone needs their peace. Infusing real, lived experiences from both perspectives would have made the message more impactful.
I do find myself cringing at the line “never raises its voice.” It feels too absolute. The reality is, voices may rise in heated conversations, yet without disrespect. Tone doesn’t always equal harshness - sometimes raised voices simply carry the urgency of emotion without crossing the line.
That said, the strength of the piece is clear. It shines light on everyday realities many ignore, setting a needed standard: emotions are not a free pass for unkindness. And in an age where people often confuse intensity for intentionality, it reminds us that intentionality is not love - it can be a conceited manipulation. And safety in love is not about avoiding conflict, but about keeping respect at the centre of every disagreement.
Beautiful bags up there
ReplyDeleteBeans can also be made in gbegiri form
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteBeautiful bags you've got BV HF, may plenty sales fall on you🙏
Sign out meme so true 💯
Hope you feeling better dear, don’t let your iron and b12 get too low. One of my favourite bean dish is Cuban style black bean stew with rice. It’s a healthy meal and full of nutrients. If I wasn’t a lazy cook I would make it weekly. It’s a great dish if you want to have a meatless day. Bean salad is also popular, five bean soup, and bean burritos. There are many different bean dishes out there.
ReplyDeleteGood evening my fellow SDK lovers. How una dey?
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