WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings!!!

WEDNESDAY MEMO

Shout out to yall normal people who dont go around cussing and trolling....

BV Anuty King Jerry, please post the list that you have of ten blog visitors for 10k each.......My say is final though.

We will talk inbox later....

Yesterday we all talked about cooking everyday and i can see how stressful it is for some of us....

Please lets share a one week meal plan and see if your meal plan can help someone out.....I am also looking for a one week meal plan that can work for me and my family........Everyone can take part in this fun stuff.....I have not said that this is a giveaway so let everyone breath you hear? Nobody go fit scam me for this blog again and if you are a scammer and i give you, please pick your slippers and run......

My Wednesday meal plan is grilled chicken filet with roasted potato and broccoli, carrot,corn and beans salad..it is so delish!

Enjoy!!!

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MUST READ NARRATIVE

I woke up to a surprise notification on one chilly sunday morning like that and discovered that an unknown man had cleared every single dime on my account, it was a lengthy figure in naira.

And while I was still in a confused state of processing what had happened that day, i got another debit notification towards the same evening by same account, same man, he came to clear out the last Five hundred naira that he'd left in the morning.

I didn't know how to explain such length of wickedness that someone would possess towards another human.... maybe if I was doing yah○○ i won't have been so pained, i would have taken it as karma, but this one was my genuine work.

And since i couldn't do anything as at the time, i let it slide, Closed my account with that bank (despite their plea), deleted all i could delete, email, everything & started afresh.

But that period of my life, i made the vow that I must start my journey on ethical hacking, not because of the ev!l side of it, but for the fact that if I was more knowledgeable as at then, I would have tracked the fellow down to either bring him to book or try other means to frustrate his career maybe with sms bomber script, link spoofing or other numerous means.

Fast forward to a couple of years after that experience, I privately began my journey with one of the best cyber security tech agency in India and then migrated to another top agency in Nigeria, and even with my specialities, I’ve always just love picking up a lot of random and unrelated skills, to pay and learn either for the fun if it or to just get a personal knowledge on that field, but you see this one......

I've never seen!!!!!!!!

It's has been series and series of epiphanies, on both the dark web and surface web 
I may not be willing to share so much in details , but I could be a bit generous from a surface level in informing you of one of the major lurking threat that could set you up big time, but apparently it’s one of those things you're familiar with and probably even addicted to... and that's your "camera"!

Some of you may already know this, but for the majority that may not know, I’m letting you know today that, every single device that has a camera in it, is already a vulnerable tool and can be hacked easily, things like your doorbell cam, baby monitors, phones, tablets, laptops, your smart tv’s with it's secret inbuilt cams and even your cars ,

It’s not like they’re “just” fancy cameras, they all have IP addresses which are designed to transmit data through a network using DHCP process & to add to that this is just one of the very many numerous ways our lives(privacies) gets to be exposed.

And whilst it's quite understandable that we may have no idea or control over their schemes, we also from our end play a pivotal role in setting ourselves up sometimes through some of those

sites we visit with our system, that secretly captures your face or whatever is happening in your environment without your consent, hence the reason it's has always been advisable to leave a black tape on your laptop cam, whilst also being extremely careful of apps you allow into your

phones, else you'll easily be leaving a backdoor for these malicious apps/ sites which would furthermore grant them full access to your cameras, microphone, locations, files, messages, emails, banking informations, passwords and even your conversations,

And then the funny part to this is that the things you feel are privates or think are just for your eyes, it's actually an opposing fact to that assumed reality...

And so, if you're fond of using your device for documenting your private stuff or your partner's spicy n○○dles, in images or videos, you're not just documenting your vulnerable moments,

but exposing your vulnerabilities to an already vulnerable device that are being accessed at the backend by developers,

who may not care to make it public yet (if you have premium access to search engine sites like shodan•io like myself, you probably must have also seen some activities of people you don't even know, even pictures of babies peacefully sleeping on their crib, cars moving on the road, people's celling or any random activities a cam could capture without concent & every of it directly uploaded by their webcams to random places)

Hence why you may want to start rethinking some actions, especially if your personality is on a journey affiliated to greatness or has already arrived that destination, in order to not set yourself up for unknown future blackmailers.

Here's a couple of ways I figured out you could at least maintain some high levels of privacy on your part.

• Change your default usernames and passwords asap.

• Never expose your smart devices directly to the Internet.

• Disable any remote access if you don't need it.

• Keep your firmware and software up to dates, and also consistently take out apps that you do not remember installing.

• Stop installing every apps you see, especially ones from unknown sources.

• Be sensitive to not give access to apps that ask for your permissions ( example, a calculator requesting permission to access your camera or games requesting for access to read your sms)

• Also ensure you're using reliable mobile security or firewall to secure your network.

• Monitor your battery usage (malicious apps often drain batteries as they are always running in the background).

• Lastly, (for android) if you intend stoping your phone camera from spying on you/ your background activities.......

Then go to settings, then to app, to camera, then to mobile data, switch off "allow background data usage" , then go back, tap on battery & set it on "restricted", go back again to click the appear on top option then switch off the "allow permission"

For Apple (the story is loooong, as they claim to have an integrated security system but the phone comes with a mini eye connected on one of those camera at the back, one of these days I may talk about it, causeeeeee ehn!

This article was written by Happy Alfred who is a Cybersecurity expert. We thought to share for information and educative purposes.

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WEIRDFACTS

---Going through sad experiences actually makes us smarter and through that, we become better thinkers.

---When someone smells good, it automatically makes them more attractive

---"Fast” is its own opposite: It can mean “to move quickly” or “fixed, unmoving”.

---A new study finds delays in texting responses may indicate the other person is lying.

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I am number 31 and 32 but initially wanted to be number 4

Paragrapgh? wow!

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WOMAN, WHAT SHOULD YOU DO IF YOUR HUSBAND DOES NOT ALLOW YOU TO CHOOSE A FAMILY PLANNING METHOD?

Simple!

Do not tell him anything!
You have the right to choose what is best for your body.

You have the right to choose how you spend your time on yourself, health, career, finance, etc.

Birthing and raising a child that you cannot care for is your fault and not your husband's even if the law can still help you drag him to care for the children you birthed together.

"Màmáa Yẹ́misí, pikin no come?"

"Yes o! Pikin no come ni o! Bàbá Yẹ́misí, bóyá you should go to church for men looking for fruit of the blokos!"

Women are the ones always sleeping in church for their inability to birth children when the men could be the ones with fertility problems.

As I was saying:

- You are the one that will carry that child for nine months.
- You are the one that will bear labour pains.
- You are the one that will spend time meant for building your career, hobbies, philanthropies and life to care for children that you may not be able to care for.

- Even if you both agree on four children before marriage and your health cannot carry the burden of another child after your first child, you are free to say, "No, I cannot do this again!"


Once he threatens you with, "I will have children with other women," and you give in, wàá fẹ́ẹ̀ẹ́ lá! 

This is why you must put exceptions to your agreements before marriage that peradventure your health is at stake and you cannot have more children, what will happen?
So that you will know whether to walk away, phone a friend or ask the audience to link you up with a better man because that one that you want to marry lacks empathy.

He only wants children from you to build his business empire at the cost of your life.

Women must learn to birth children that only they can care for even if they marry rich men in case they are not able to work, their husbands do not provide for them at all or adequately and in the cases of separation, divorce and death.

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Dear Singles, READ THIS Before You Get Married

-Discuss bills
-Parenting styles
-Credit
-Debt
-Religion
-How to deal with family
-What believes will be instilled in your children
-Childhood traumas
-Sexual expectations
-Partner expectations
-Financial expectations
-Family health history
-Mental health history
-Bucket list
-Dream home
-Careers and education
-Political views and whatever else comes to mind cuz it will save you a lot of stress..

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