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Sunday, October 05, 2025

Pastor Bolaji Idowu Tells Women To Stop Trying To Act As Relationship 'Builders'

Nigerian cleric, Pastor Bolaji Idowu of Harvesters International Christian Centre has advised women to stop acting as “builders” in their relationships.


Speaking during a recent church service in Lagos....
He said: “You are not called to build your man; you are called to support your man. Some of you have turned into Bob the Builder ‘My car is bad,’ and you say, ‘I will fix it.’ ‘I can’t pay rent,’ and you respond, ‘I’ll pay for you.’ You are meant to support, not to be the builder.

“Once you become Bob the Builder, you also turn into Mother Theresa always correcting and trying to manage him. You pick up a struggling man, build him, and when he gets better, he tells you, ‘I don’t see us that way.’ That’s because you weren’t building the romantic side; you were busy fixing him.”

5 comments:

  1. Tell them sir, tell them.

    You for talk this thing quick before your daughter marry na

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    1. My Pastor does not have a daughter, except you're talking about yourself being his daughter sha

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  2. 🎶Bob the builder,can we fix it
    Bob the builder,yes we can🎵🎶
    Keyword:support👌👌👌

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  3. That's what some pick me women don't know. They want to bring so much to the table

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