THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS.......

 Hailings.....

MONDAY MEMO

I salutiliciously you all greetiliciously---LMAO!!!

I hope that everyone is doing OK?I say make i salute una.....

May your day be as nice as you treat others.....

I am making grilled chicken as snack as demanded from the Bambinos.

See you in the comment section.........

Sandra i was deliberately post late so that you go shout..hhehehehehe

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 WEIRDFACTS

---Scientists have figured out a way to unboil an egg.

----Didaskaleinophobia is the fear of going to school.

-----Plenty of people miss their share of happiness, not because they never found it, but because they didn't stop to enjoy it.

----Eating spicy food releases "feel good" endorphins, making it one of the reasons why people enjoy it so much.

-----Regular exercise changes the way your DNA functions

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FOOD THAT BVs WILL COOK FOR SDK

Many of you did not follow instructions..If na WAEC or Jamb, Please see massive failure ooooooo...If you see green, please send your account details to Waju data seller, she is my new go to person..She will forward all accounts to me..please include this screenshot...

Those in red, next time una hear?

Here goes!!!

1.Nnukwu Nwanyi:  will make goat meat pepper soup with body odor. She will roast the goat very well before using it and you will love it honestly! - The word pepper will not go with me abeg....even if it is the goat with body odour i no go chop

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‎2.Glory O: since maami Stella doesn't like swallow and no salt, fish. She will make a complete salad with enough cooked eggs plus puf puf....Salad and puff puff? hahahahahahaahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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‎3.pretty Girlie: Stellz I will cook vegetable soup for you. ...I love veggie soup

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‎4.Kosidumzy: anytime you enter naija, holla  will welcome you with 10k curry rice prepared same way as fried rice but there is no liver and too much mendemende added. Chicken 5k, rice and vegetable oil at home use 5k to buy the rest ingredients. YES

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‎5. straight guy:  will cook better edikaiko soup with enough periwinkle and Pomo. He hopes you like periwinkle.- To eat it with what?

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‎6. The Beloved one:  will make a pot of spaghetti and beans Jellof. ... Jellof beans ?NO NO NO

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‎7. Teejay: said " I won't cook for you but will take you out to a nice eating outlet and give you babygurl soft life treatment. You know say we men that always attack badly behaved women are the most lovable men you can ever think of in this life. We dey love die."- Baby girl soft life treatment how? You should have mentioned what kinda treatment and where....Na asawo man dey drop this kind comment, abi You wan carry me go short time joint?

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‎8. Game mistress: said she will prepare ofada stew with goat meat. Perishables are very cheap now so with 1000 she will get: green bell pepper, green tatashe, very little green pepper to give it scent. Onions, crayfish #500 mangala fish #2000 #3000 goat meat rice #800 oil #500 oil and Maggi 1k ........

I was almost agreeing until i goggled mangala fish..please i dont eat snake fish oooo

‎9. Chika: said "I WILL SURPRISE YOU WITH OHA SOUP AND VERY SOFT SEMO - I am not a fan of swallow

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‎10. Mor: said she will prepare spaghetti with enough pomo well spiced chicken with chilled Pepsi. -spag and pomo? hahahahhaahahhaha

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‎11. Gloglo : "SDK i will prepare Abacha for you (African salad) - no oh

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‎12. Emerald :  "I'll make you pepper soup with little bit of pepper, with shaki and orishirishi will add few cubes of yam. Just for you" -No

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‎13. Pretty patience: said "Stella, I will welcome you with Coconut Rice with Pomo & Plantain -OK

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‎14. Shuga: will prepare better isiewu without adding salt and pepper and it will come out nice. - no abeg

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‎15. MercyBee: said "Stella na goat meat pepper soup you go chop o....Peppersoup?

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‎16. Medussa (Savage): will make nice pot of yam porridge. Plenty ugu and crayfish. - no

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‎17. Valencia: abacha . no

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‎18. Chinazaekpere: "Stella, I will serve you yamarita( yam coated with egg and flour and deep fried) with chicken sauce.

‎It's a banger." - Well i have not eaten yam in 10 years, i dont know if i will like it oh....what is chicken sauce oh

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‎19. Tango: said "SDK,i Will give you pasta (spaghetti) with sauce and fried chicken wings , Then, I will make peppered delicious pomo meat for extra enjoyment . You will now step it down, with my delicious cold zobo drink, boiled with cinnamon and orishishi. -Pasta with fried chicken? who does that?

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‎20. Tochi: said "rice and beans with goat meat,scent leaf,etc." -Beans? You are joking!

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‎21. Lora: "fried rice and air fried beef. You won't taste pepper at all and the seasonings will make up for the salt." - boring

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‎22. Icefishseller: salad and fried fish -God forbid

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‎23. Babe Kaima: Afang soup - YES!!!

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‎24. Mariam: Asun rice - Asun rice? I no want cos i have never heard of this before

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‎25. Sarah Bakare: spaghetti and chicken  - No

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‎26. Talita: "coconut rice and fried chicken or meat, well seasoned not with pepper with a can of cold malta Guinness."- I want

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‎27.Babyboosky: "barbecued catfish with potatoes and plantain with coleslaw specially for you." - catfish that is someones cousin?

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‎28. Goldenqueen: "Stella I will welcome you with a mouth watery cow head yam pepper soup. (Miri OKu ji)" cow head? please i dont want oh

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‎29. Justyswt: "Stella, I will make nsala soup for you with goat meat, pomo and dried fish." - I want ooooooh

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‎30. Miss H: "SDK. I will welcome you and prepare just one big chicken (6k) green pepper sauce and fresh fruit zobo drink" - No i dont want

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‎31. Poshscents: "will welcome you with roasted guinea fowl, ijebu garri, milk and sugar with ice cubes ‎You will love it" -Roasted guinea fawul? please no

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‎32. Xhlrted P: make beans pizza -You dey play?

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When a Father Is Silenced Chaos Raises His Children

The fastest way to destroy a generation?
Mute the fathers.

Because when a man can’t speak, can’t discipline, can’t lead—
his absence isn’t physical.
It’s functional.
And the void he leaves behind is filled with chaos.

1. Silence Isn’t Peace—It’s Permission

A father told to “calm down” eventually shuts up.
Not because he agrees.
But because the system has punished his voice.
The problem?
When Dad is silent, rebellion gets loud.
Boundaries vanish.
Respect disappears.
And the children grow up mistaking disorder for freedom.

2. The Court Turns Fathers Into Ghosts

A man can love his children.
He can pay every bill.
He can show up to every game.
But one divorce filing—
and suddenly he’s a “visitor” in the home he built.
Every weekend with his kids feels like charity.
Every dollar feels like ransom.
And his voice? Deleted from the script.
Not because he was unsafe.
But because silence is the system’s way of control.

3. Schools and Screens Replace His Authority

He tells his son “Stand tall.”
TikTok tells him, “Be fluid.”
He tells his daughter, “Respect yourself.”
Instagram tells her, “Sell yourself.”
And when the father pushes back?
He’s labeled controlling.
Toxic.
Outdated.
So the kids obey the algorithm—
and ignore the man who fed them.

4. Wives Who Block Leadership Raise Orphans in Spirit

A man can be present in the house.
But if every correction is mocked,
every rule is overturned,
every decision becomes debate—
Then he’s not a leader.
He’s a paycheck.
And children raised in homes where Dad has no authority?
They’re already fatherless.
Even if he never left.

5. Chaos Fills the Space Fathers Vacate

Without Dad’s discipline, boys become criminals.
Without Dad’s presence, girls become reckless.
The stats are brutal:
-90% of homeless children come from fatherless homes.
– 85% of youth in prison come from fatherless homes.
– And every rebellion on the streets can be traced back to a muted man.
Chaos doesn’t arrive on its own.
It’s born in silence.

Final Word

A silenced father isn’t a neutral figure.
He’s a loaded gun left on the table.
Because when men stop speaking,
children stop listening.
And when children stop listening,
society starts collapsing.

So fathers—don’t give them your silence.
Give them your voice.
Give them your discipline.
Give them your truth.

Because when a father is silenced—
chaos raises his children.

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PEACEFUL LOVE IS NOT NOISY

It is beautiful to feel special and passionate about someone. If that feeling or passion will make you lose your sense of reasoning then you don't need such kind of love. Many people started their relationship or marriage with intense emotion that they ignored all the red flags, cautions, warnings, advice and they are paying dearly for it today.

I am not saying you should not be in love; I want you to be sound and healthy in love, I want you to be safe and peaceful in love. Some people don't know the impact a bad relationship has on their health. Insults, lies, manipulation, cheating, lack of communication just to mention can affect your health negatively.

Health is not always about going for medical checks-up or taking the right diet and medication. Many at times health is what comes from your mind, soul and heart. A relationship that makes you overthink is toxic to your health. A relationship that puts fear in you or makes you worried is likely to end your life.

A healthy relationship puts your mind, heart and soul at peace. You have great conversations, laugh your heart out, create and share beautiful memories. If your current relationship is having a negative impact on your life, you don't need it. If your relationship cannot help your growth then you are better off without it.

If you want to find love in peace, you should be ready to disconnect from any chaos in your life. Let go of the people, things and places that create all the noise in your life. For love that is peaceful is not found in noise.
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