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I hope that your day is going on well?Mine is wow wow wow!!!!
Aint got much to say......
Enjoy the rest of the day and come into my inbox if you have money to dash me!
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.
My boys are in their insect collecting phase. They are always searching for grasshoppers, dragon flies, crickets, and any weird insects they can find, ten they throw in a mix of frogs and toads. I let them be most of the time and even allow them to go out in the night in search of crickets, but sometimes I just say no.
The other as I was about to sleep right by my head was this huge brown praying mantis, I forgot my no screaming rules and screamed at them not to drop their bugs on my bed or in my room again, as they picked it up and ran out of my room apologetically I remembered being in this same scenario with my mom.
There was a time we lived in the same compound with our church when we were little, there was a large field of grass and I would go bug hunting with my friends, who ever caught the highest number of bugs at the end of the day was the winner. I was really good at sighting and catching grasshoppers that I always end up at the top three.
My mom would have a fit anytime she found them in my hidden spots. One time my dad told us that we had this large Edible cricket we eat in our village and showed us one, barely three days later on the way to my home around a bush path, I saw this crickets every where, went and called my friends and we picked them up. We got a pretty sizable quantity.
I dropped them in the kitchen covered in a basin, waiting for my mom to come back from work. She got back, and I showed her my catch proudly. I can still remember the shock on her face and how much she freaked out. She shouted at me, warning me never ever to bring insects into her kitchen. She made me throw it out, and I had to.wash the basin myself because she wouldn’t touch it.
It was so funny to my siblings and I, and I kept mimicking how she freaked out for a while. Now I understand her perfectly. Stepping on squishy bugs let loose by the boys gives me the jives. I dislike it with passion.
LOL...I was also an insect picker and i used to set them under pillows of anyone who annoyed..... I used to go far and wide to look for insect, until i went to a canal.......dry and very beautiful with hot brown sand......Then i saw the snake and it bit me and i ran.....
I never went back to that hubby and i still freak out even seeing snake photo...that movement on the ground gives me bumps on my skin when i remember......
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15 Unhealed Wounds Adults Carry Because of Their Childhood -
Here are 15 unhealed wounds adults often carry from childhood, wounds that, if left untreated, can damage relationships, marriages, and even parenting.
1. The Wound of Rejection
A child who constantly felt unwanted, ignored, or compared to others grows up with a deep sense of rejection. As an adult, they may become overly sensitive, suspicious, or desperate for approval. In marriage, such a person may misinterpret every silence as abandonment.
2. The Wound of Neglect
Children who were not given attention, affirmation, or care often feel invisible. As adults, they may struggle with low self-esteem, believing they are undeserving of love. A wife who never felt valued as a child may unconsciously expect her husband to “overcompensate,” while a husband who grew up neglected may be emotionally unavailable.
3. The Wound of Harsh Words
Words spoken in anger “You are useless,” “You will never make it” become inner voices that follow a child into adulthood. These wounds often resurface in adulthood as insecurity, self-doubt, or perfectionism.
4. The Wound of Physical Abuse
Children who were physically abused may grow into adults who live in fear, anger, or mistrust. Some become overly aggressive, while others withdraw into shells. In marriage, they may either lash out or avoid conflict entirely, damaging intimacy.
5. The Wound of Emotional Absence
Some children grew up with parents who were present physically but absent emotionally. Such adults often struggle to connect deeply with their spouses, finding it difficult to express emotions or offer empathy.
6. The Wound of Comparison
When parents constantly compare one child to another “Why can’t you be like your brother?” it creates lifelong wounds. Adults who were victims of comparison often live with feelings of inadequacy and competition. In marriage, they may never feel “enough” for their partner.
7. The Wound of Favoritism
Some children grew up seeing their parents love one sibling more. This fosters resentment and bitterness that lingers into adulthood. Such wounds often show up in marriage as envy, suspicion, and unhealthy competition.
8. The Wound of Over-Criticism
Children who were never praised but constantly criticized grow up feeling they can never do anything right. As adults, they may struggle with perfectionism or fear of failure. In marriage, they may either become overly critical of their spouse or unable to accept correction.
9. The Wound of Abandonment
Whether through death, divorce, or desertion, a child who grew up without one or both parents often carries a sense of abandonment. Such adults may cling too tightly to relationships or, out of fear, push people away before they can be left again.
10. The Wound of Broken Promises
When children constantly hear promises like “I’ll be there” or “I’ll buy it for you” that were never fulfilled, they develop deep distrust. As adults, they may find it difficult to believe their spouse’s words, even when sincere.
11. The Wound of Lack of Affirmation
Every child longs to hear, “I love you, I’m proud of you.” When they don’t, they grow up searching for affirmation in unhealthy places, through excessive achievements, material possessions, or unhealthy relationships.
12. The Wound of Poverty and Shame
Children who grew up in deep poverty often carry the shame of lack into adulthood. This wound may make them overspend to “prove a point” or become excessively fearful of financial loss in marriage.
13. The Wound of Forced Responsibility
Some children had to become “adults too early” caring for siblings, fending for themselves, or carrying family burdens. As adults, they may struggle with resentment, burnout, or difficulty receiving care from their spouse.
14. The Wound of Unexpressed Love
Some parents loved their children but never expressed it. No hugs, no kind words, no tender touch. Adults from such homes often struggle with showing affection, leaving their spouses feeling unloved despite their good intentions.
15. The Wound of Dysfunctional Family Models
Children who grew up in homes where fights, abuse, or unhealthy patterns were the norm often carry those same behaviors into their own marriages. They may repeat what they hated, simply because it is all they know.
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I entered a tricycle that afternoon, hoping for a peaceful ride. Then the driver stopped to pick up another passenger.
She came in with a big bowl of ponmo.
At first, I didn’t mind, until the smell hit me.
It wasn’t just ordinary ponmo smell; it was stubborn, offensive, lingering.
Before I knew it, the bowl was rubbing against my body and clothes. I shifted, but the woman shifted too.
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15 Unhealed Wounds Adults Carry Because of Their Childhood -
Here are 15 unhealed wounds adults often carry from childhood, wounds that, if left untreated, can damage relationships, marriages, and even parenting.
1. The Wound of Rejection
A child who constantly felt unwanted, ignored, or compared to others grows up with a deep sense of rejection. As an adult, they may become overly sensitive, suspicious, or desperate for approval. In marriage, such a person may misinterpret every silence as abandonment.
2. The Wound of Neglect
Children who were not given attention, affirmation, or care often feel invisible. As adults, they may struggle with low self-esteem, believing they are undeserving of love. A wife who never felt valued as a child may unconsciously expect her husband to “overcompensate,” while a husband who grew up neglected may be emotionally unavailable.
3. The Wound of Harsh Words
Words spoken in anger “You are useless,” “You will never make it” become inner voices that follow a child into adulthood. These wounds often resurface in adulthood as insecurity, self-doubt, or perfectionism.
4. The Wound of Physical Abuse
Children who were physically abused may grow into adults who live in fear, anger, or mistrust. Some become overly aggressive, while others withdraw into shells. In marriage, they may either lash out or avoid conflict entirely, damaging intimacy.
5. The Wound of Emotional Absence
Some children grew up with parents who were present physically but absent emotionally. Such adults often struggle to connect deeply with their spouses, finding it difficult to express emotions or offer empathy.
6. The Wound of Comparison
When parents constantly compare one child to another “Why can’t you be like your brother?” it creates lifelong wounds. Adults who were victims of comparison often live with feelings of inadequacy and competition. In marriage, they may never feel “enough” for their partner.
7. The Wound of Favoritism
Some children grew up seeing their parents love one sibling more. This fosters resentment and bitterness that lingers into adulthood. Such wounds often show up in marriage as envy, suspicion, and unhealthy competition.
8. The Wound of Over-Criticism
Children who were never praised but constantly criticized grow up feeling they can never do anything right. As adults, they may struggle with perfectionism or fear of failure. In marriage, they may either become overly critical of their spouse or unable to accept correction.
9. The Wound of Abandonment
Whether through death, divorce, or desertion, a child who grew up without one or both parents often carries a sense of abandonment. Such adults may cling too tightly to relationships or, out of fear, push people away before they can be left again.
10. The Wound of Broken Promises
When children constantly hear promises like “I’ll be there” or “I’ll buy it for you” that were never fulfilled, they develop deep distrust. As adults, they may find it difficult to believe their spouse’s words, even when sincere.
11. The Wound of Lack of Affirmation
Every child longs to hear, “I love you, I’m proud of you.” When they don’t, they grow up searching for affirmation in unhealthy places, through excessive achievements, material possessions, or unhealthy relationships.
12. The Wound of Poverty and Shame
Children who grew up in deep poverty often carry the shame of lack into adulthood. This wound may make them overspend to “prove a point” or become excessively fearful of financial loss in marriage.
13. The Wound of Forced Responsibility
Some children had to become “adults too early” caring for siblings, fending for themselves, or carrying family burdens. As adults, they may struggle with resentment, burnout, or difficulty receiving care from their spouse.
14. The Wound of Unexpressed Love
Some parents loved their children but never expressed it. No hugs, no kind words, no tender touch. Adults from such homes often struggle with showing affection, leaving their spouses feeling unloved despite their good intentions.
15. The Wound of Dysfunctional Family Models
Children who grew up in homes where fights, abuse, or unhealthy patterns were the norm often carry those same behaviors into their own marriages. They may repeat what they hated, simply because it is all they know.
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That number 15 is a big problem for some people cos they recreate what they grew up in.....
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
PONMO RIDE
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
PONMO RIDE
I entered a tricycle that afternoon, hoping for a peaceful ride. Then the driver stopped to pick up another passenger.
She came in with a big bowl of ponmo.
At first, I didn’t mind, until the smell hit me.
It wasn’t just ordinary ponmo smell; it was stubborn, offensive, lingering.
Before I knew it, the bowl was rubbing against my body and clothes. I shifted, but the woman shifted too.
I turned my face away, but the odor followed. Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore.
I told her to be careful and keep her ponmo to herself. Instead of apologizing, she snapped, “Don’t you eat ponmo?”
That was when the quarrel started.
I asked her to apologize; she refused.
The driver tried to defend her, saying she paid like I did. I reminded him that I also paid for comfort, not suffering. But nobody was listening, ponmo fight had won the day.
By the time I got down, I was already smelling like her merchandise. I wished I had alighted the very moment she entered.
That quarrel wasn’t worth the ride at all.
I told her to be careful and keep her ponmo to herself. Instead of apologizing, she snapped, “Don’t you eat ponmo?”
That was when the quarrel started.
I asked her to apologize; she refused.
The driver tried to defend her, saying she paid like I did. I reminded him that I also paid for comfort, not suffering. But nobody was listening, ponmo fight had won the day.
By the time I got down, I was already smelling like her merchandise. I wished I had alighted the very moment she entered.
That quarrel wasn’t worth the ride at all.
Some pomo smell nice shaaaaaaaaaaa....Dont you like pomo soaked in tomato stew?Arrrrrgh!
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FROM THE SECTION
Make una dey give advice....
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Before Attacking, Remember You May Be Prey One Day
20. Every act has a return.
21. Choose peace over revenge.
22. Choose calm over anger.
23. Real power is patience.
24. Silence can speak louder than attack.
25. Self-control is a greater victory.
26. Forgiveness protects your heart.
27. The strong who forgive stay stronger longer.
28. Aggression burns bridges.
29. Mercy builds them back.
30. What you give is what you’ll meet again.
31. The world remembers kindness more than cruelty.
32. The cruel are feared, but never loved.
33. The kind are respected, even in absence.
34. A soft word can end a hard fight.
35. A calm spirit wins the longest war.
36. The wise think before they strike.
37. The foolish attack and regret later.
38. Time repays every deed.
39. Karma never forgets.
40. Life is a circle — what you throw out comes back.
41. Help when you can.
42. Forgive when you should.
43. Be humble in power.
44. Be patient in pain.
45. Lift others, don’t crush them.
46. Speak truth, not hate.
47. Remember, life turns tables fast.
48. No one stays on top forever.
49. Be the hand that heals, not the one that harms.
50. Because someday, you may need the mercy you denied.
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FROM THE SECTION
HR ADVICE NEEDED
''My HR people, please advise me.
If you having spent 6 months in company doing well and providing verifiable value, while awaiting confirmation and then you're called into your confirmation meeting only to be told it has been extended for extremely spurious reasons. I'm even embarrassed for the person speaking at his level to give such empty reasons. Please what are the immediate next steps because I don't plan to sign that I have agreed to their rational for the extension.
How do I respond and do I have to sign anything?
Please advise me thoroughly.
Thank you!!''
Make una dey give advice....
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Before Attacking, Remember You May Be Prey One Day
20. Every act has a return.
21. Choose peace over revenge.
22. Choose calm over anger.
23. Real power is patience.
24. Silence can speak louder than attack.
25. Self-control is a greater victory.
26. Forgiveness protects your heart.
27. The strong who forgive stay stronger longer.
28. Aggression burns bridges.
29. Mercy builds them back.
30. What you give is what you’ll meet again.
31. The world remembers kindness more than cruelty.
32. The cruel are feared, but never loved.
33. The kind are respected, even in absence.
34. A soft word can end a hard fight.
35. A calm spirit wins the longest war.
36. The wise think before they strike.
37. The foolish attack and regret later.
38. Time repays every deed.
39. Karma never forgets.
40. Life is a circle — what you throw out comes back.
41. Help when you can.
42. Forgive when you should.
43. Be humble in power.
44. Be patient in pain.
45. Lift others, don’t crush them.
46. Speak truth, not hate.
47. Remember, life turns tables fast.
48. No one stays on top forever.
49. Be the hand that heals, not the one that harms.
50. Because someday, you may need the mercy you denied.
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Fever is Dealing with me.
ReplyDeleteI need Chocolate and Whiskey in my System But....
Let me drink water and Sleep.
Hello Everyone.
Eayaa sorry, get well soon.
DeleteSorry o. Get well soon.
DeleteNot only you. I also have a slight fever with runny nose. I will get Procold tablets on my way back home and take, it will disappear like breeze. I hate runny nose especially.
DeleteI’m so sorry babe 🤗🤗 get well soon but you don’t need whiskey in your system tho, it’s medications you need
DeleteEhya so sorry dear 🤗 please take care of yourself.
DeleteSorry, do take care of yourself..
DeleteSo sorry. Speedy recovery to you I pray 🙏
DeletePls just drink a lot of water.
DeleteWater is life.
Wishing you speedy recovery mama.
Sorry, you'll be fine
DeleteGood afternoon everyone.
Ndo nne 🤗😍
DeleteSorry and be strong....
DeleteMake whiskey 🥃 go holiday small
Take medications and rest.
DeleteSo sorry dear 💙
Get well soon dear
DeleteI want to give up alcohol from now till the year ends
DeleteSo help me God
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteMy day is going well ,Alert of 10k received,God bless you Stella.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy
DeleteCongratulations 🎉
DeleteCongratulations 👏👏
Delete10k received thanks alot...... Big STELLA
DeleteCheers 🥂
DeleteIHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
“It’s Friday! Finish strong and step into the weekend with gratitude and good energy.”
Good vibes 😎
DeleteCute doggy Coco. I need some good ice cream with nuts. Thank you.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone. Happy weekend.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon beautiful people ♥️
ReplyDeleteThese write up is deep!
Very deep write up..this world eh
DeleteI have been so emotional all week🥺 I have been seeing missed calls on my late Father’s phone for a while now..I decided to call back the number on Sunday and it was an elderly man that picked asking where is the owner of the phone
I told him he’s dead, the man screamed..I told him he died few yrs ago and he told me he was his senior, he said he lost his phone and don’t have his number to reconnect with him..he said he’s grandchildren came recently to visit and in the process of cleaning his room, he found his old notebook where he wrote people digits ..and has been calling but no response, he said he thought his phone was lost until I called back
My dads phone has been on since he died, I charge it once a week and sometimes I go through his messages and contacts ☹️☹️ honestly I don’t know why im keeping the phone on but this call on Sunday just made me sad all again 😢😢😢 it’s well
I miss you my sugar Daddy 🤦♀️ keep resting in Gods bosom 🙏💙
I'm just speechless, please stay strong.
Delete@ Paree dear...
DeleteIt is well with you 🤗🤗
Daddy is at peace 🕊️
Paris hugs 🤗 dear, that was how my dad's best friend sent a message and it read; "what did I do to you that you don't pick my calls again?" My elder bro called and told him that my dad was dead, that he had been very sick, that was why he couldn't pick his call. His friend was so shocked to hear that. It is well ❤️🩹
DeleteMay your Daddy cont to rest in peace @paris Savanna.
DeleteSorry about your Dad, Paris darl. 💓May God continue to rest his soul and comfort you.
DeleteNdo Paree Paree. E-hugs.
DeleteYou didn't have to switch off his phone. He had banking transactions while alive, No?
Allow people reach his spirit when they remember him.
Monitor his records from it too, you never can tell🤷
Xhlrted P
Oh! Dear Paris Nwa, it's well with you ok just hold your peace inugo
DeleteIts well
DeleteBe strong.
Papa is in a better place dear, na we wey dey still dey stress our life. Cheer up sweetie🥳
DeleteThanks my darlings ❤️❤️❤️❤️
DeleteBeautiful day
ReplyDeleteI Was at a function last weekend. Table of 7 ladies. We all know each other somehow, not like we are all friends but we all vibe.
ReplyDeleteBefore I go out, I always eat well and I'm not used to taking stuff from events home except everyone is given a take home pack.
Well, I wasn't surprised but somewhat unsettled when two ladies that sat with us took the wine and other drinks at the table when we were about leaving, after we've used some for toast.. put them in their take home pack. Stood up, went to the table opposite ours, took the wine there, the guys left before us and didn't drink much... so there table was still full. They packed all.
I've been thinking, if they didn't take it maybe the hall owners would have after the event but again, it was somehow that they packed stuff like that.
I no fit do am, they can. Live & let live abi how do they say it but again i no fit do am.
Hahaha 🤣🤣 there's hunger in the land.
DeleteI was sitting with a mother and her grown up daughter in a wedding. They were so angry with the little food served that they took the wine cup used for toast. I had to tell them to drop it and the Mama said she thought it was a souvenir.
Osundi plastic cup as souvenir 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this one strong ooo.
DeleteHow person go dey Vex for free food?
Lol...naija party style
DeleteI also picked insects shah
ReplyDeletePonmo smell no be hia
We should always control our anger, though.not easy but with God all things are possible.
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteToday is going well Stellz.
Enjoy the rest of ur day
DeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. Happy weekend. Be stronger than your excuses. 👍👍👍
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend Bb.
DeleteGood afternoon beautiful BB 😍
DeleteGood afternoon Darlyn 🤗
DeleteGood afternoon bvs
ReplyDeleteAlert received from the cookathon give away
I appreciate madam Stella. God bless
Congratulations
DeleteFinally I should allow us drink water keep cup.
DeleteCongratulations Straight guy
DeleteEnjoy jare
Hello beautiful people 😍
ReplyDeleteMy day would have been perfect if not for Rider palava...
I don't think a honest rider really exist
I don't know why they behave like this
A customer reached out to me last night to get some perfumes and roll on
He did not stress me at all
The kind of customer every vendor pray for... Immediately, I packed his order and gave it to a rider at my junction since it was within Ibadan
You will not believe that since 8am till now as am typing this, my customer has not received his package
Rider is not picking up but luckily, the Man is not a first time customer, he knows that his money is safe...
Will I ever patronize such person again, some people are the cause of their problems
Meanwhile, I am still your legit SDK perfume vendor
Contact me for all your perfume needs
My prices are very affordable
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Stick to one faithful rider.
DeleteGo on your state WhatsApp groups and collect contact of a good rider.
You shouldn't have given your delivery to a random bike man, some of them are not faithful, next time give your delivery to someone that you know very well, that people also know everything about him, including where he stays.
DeleteHello everyone...
ReplyDeleteThis economy requires two hustlers working together...not a hustle and a leech..it's too expensive to be out here carrying dead weight 🙄
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon beautiful people
ReplyDeleteHiii boys and girls
ReplyDeleteHR Advice PART 1
ReplyDelete******************************************
Before taking any action, the first step is to assess the facts:
Do you have evidence (emails, reports, task trackers, feedback notes, deliverables, etc.) that demonstrate you achieved the KPIs or met expectations over the past 6 months?
When you resumed, were your goals, deliverables, and performance expectations clearly communicated by your line manager?
Were KPIs documented?
Were timelines stated?
Throughout the probation period, did you have regular check-ins with your line manager to review your progress and confirm you were on track?
Look closely at the probation extension letter:
Does it clearly state the reason(s) for the extension?
Do the reasons match what has been previously discussed with you?
If the reasons in the letter do not align with prior feedback or if expectations were never clarified, do not sign immediately......
Request a discussion with HR and your line manager......You have the right to understand how your performance was assessed......
Good afternoon blog fam
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ReplyDeleteGood afternoon!
The following BVs have been gifted 10k each by Stella for participating in the last SDK Cookathon:
1. Esther Okoro
2. Game Mistress
3. Straight Guy
4. King Jerry
5. SHUGA
6. Iya Nimi
7. Bennycoco
8. Excess3code
Thank you Stella.
Thank you Bvs.
My 10k cookathon alert entered gbam! God bless you Big Stellz. No better yesterday in Jesus name. 🙏🙏
DeleteEverybody in the Maruwa was begging me to calm down, I didn't, I lost my cool that day and I felt really bad arguing in a public transport.
ReplyDeleteWhen I got home, I thought over the issue and I concluded I didn't handle it maturedly. My friend said she should have chartered a car towards that cause. She left me with a Ponmo effect.
@NFJ
My weekend don set💃. Thanks so much SDK for the alert,I really appreciate. God bless you maami
ReplyDeleteThanks waju , I appreciate you.
Am I the only one who finds it easier to pronounce convenant instead of covenant? If I don't afford that "n" e no dey sweet for my mouth. God abeg o, don't let me disgrace myself with it one day
*if I don't add "n". I don't know how add turned to afford 😆 autocorrect dey do wonder
Delete🙏🙏
DeleteHR Advice PART 2
ReplyDelete************************************
Option 1: Accept the Probation Extension
If you agree that improvement is needed and the feedback is valid:
Ask for a written Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) or clearly documented KPIs for the extension period.
The plan should specify:
Duration of the extended probation (e.g., 3 months or 6 months)
Clear KPIs / deliverables
Support/resources the company will provide
Ensure you, your line manager, and HR sign the document.
Schedule monthly review meetings to monitor your progress.
Option 2: Consider Your Exit
If the Expectations were never clearly communicated,
Appraisal was not properly discussed,
The extension appears unjustified,
Then it may be a sign that the environment may not support your success....
In that case, it is reasonable to begin planning your exit.......
Good afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone, happy weekend.
ReplyDeleteThe ponmo that has that smell is the one that has been soaked for days.
ReplyDeleteFresh roasted ponmo has a very nice aroma.
Peppered ponmo is bae💋
I blocked someone from my old neighbourhood on Facebook years ago for always posting death news. The last straw was when he posted a pic of his mum's corpse the day she died. He sent me a friend request via a new profile few days back, 1 accepted and and guess the first post i saw? "Death have take my darling brother" mo ti block werey very fast!
ReplyDeleteGod abeg🤣🤣. Made me remember my former colleague He always complained that he has a friend back in Uni who always has a bad news to deliver each time he calls. It's either death news or break up news involving their mutual friends' relationships or someone got picked up by the police for a crime. Any bad news you can think about.
DeleteHe was always complaining to me. It even made him always scared each time his phone rings and he sees the said guy's name as the caller😅.
That's how I told him to cut him off for the sake of his mental health. Some people shaa
Good day everyone
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteHi everyone 👋
ReplyDeleteTrust your day is going on well 😊
Today's IHN is really short
Me too I picked insects when I was at that age 😁
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
Few weeks to the end of 2025, we shall see the end of this year and beyond
ReplyDeleteWhen I nor get belle. I dont understand this craving oo. Na flour i dey waka go buy so to make pancake 🤣and spread jam on it with hot tea dey hungry me this afternoon.
ReplyDeleteSomebody come n check my temperature o 😂
You like enjoyment like me👍
DeleteIt must not be pancakes 🥞.
Mix your dough to be extremely tender, soft like mayonnaise.
Sprinkle flour on clean surface, spread it, use a round tray or cover pot to cut it to a round circle dough.
Divide into 4 like sign of the cross. Divide sideways to get 12 pieces. 6 up. 6 down.
Then. Melt chocolate chips in warm water, add a drop of vanilla extract. Turn well to get a sticky paste.
Place Choco paste in the middle of each 📐 you got.
Keep Choco a little away from the sides.
Start to roll in abi fold from the back of the triangle to get a 🥐 croissant.
Bake halfway and bring it out.
Lace it with whisked egg and take it in again.
Bake for few minutes and remove from fire.
A bv talked about local gas with a stove. I think Candy/ Paris or Cynthia. Forgotten. They'll give you tips.
Do your croissant and chop life.
Me I'll bake tomorrow. Orishirishi.
Some don book down 6 chicken nuggets, if I dey bake dem go dey chop 😂🤭sharp sharp as e dey hot.
Xhlrted P
Will definitely try this on a very good day.
DeleteLife na once oo💃🏻if I no enjoy, na when ?
Enjoy Xp Momma 😘
TGIF🤸🤸🤸🤸
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I so hate any crawling insects, I can't even
ReplyDeletestand the sight of snakes or lizards😱😱
Hope your day is going on well people?
My day is going well
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 💞
Enjoy the rest of the day
Good morning guys, what's happening at your end?
ReplyDeleteDone cooking for the burial over, waiting for the burial to round up abeg😩😩. My tired is tired rite now 😩
WE KEEP MOVING!!
Lovely afternoon to you all. Have a fab weekend
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon family,welcome to IhN.Main,the whether is fire..
ReplyDeleteLol@pomo fight.
ReplyDeleteThat was how I went to the market to buy soup things. I bought iru, freshly made. The smell strong gann. As soon as I entered keke, the woman by my side started clearing throat, spitting. I don even forget say I bought iru. I was like what is smelling naaa, abi my village people don dash me body odour. I was carrying a bagco bag. If I put my nose by the bag, the smell will be so strong. Not until I got home and started unpacking and found the iru, that I understood why the woman was spitting. Lol.
Ijebu pomo has very horrible smell. Whatever they used to dry and shrink it so much that when you put a small piece in water, it turns to a big heavy piece, is horrible. Allow me buy my normal fresh pomo, abeg.
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I know it’s not Thursday but I was very busy yesterday, please I am 34 but look older than my age I have like 2 colors on my face. I am dark skin, oily and a little sensitive. What can I use on my face as well body to glow and get my spark back. Any supplements too and again my fashion sense is not there again, I don’t want to follow trend but I want to look good on a budget. Thank you guys
ReplyDeleteI don't know if this will help you. I started using try me collagen face mask ,the one that has deep cleansing on, it really works. It gave me a clean and uniform colour.you can try it too. Just one pack and the result is encouraging.
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Goodnight Tika. You did rewrite the entire dog story.
Poster...all you listed is correct, one thing is kids who suffered a lot tend to struggle more and make it in life. They buy over properties of rich men children 🤷
@Ikeja local government area.
This for sure📌
Ponmo...that's how I was doing stingykoko, me and a friend, we entered bus from Ikeja to Costain before boarding a yellow taxi to a ceremony in Ikoyi, they rubbed me with basin of fresh fish. The odor eh. We beat a detour to a good salon at Post Office Oyingbo in Ebute Metta, washed my buba lace small and they used hand dryer on me for several minutes,I sprayed better perf and we now boarded a taxi straight to adekunle turning fiam into Island jare.
That was my last time entering public transport with full costume. I come dey use Estate cabs.🤭
And besides,you enter some places with your ride, you can't sneak out when you want😉☺️
Stella...you just making Xmas in the villa to hungry somebody. I can bet you will not cook these foods but we drop regardless.
And if Omono Oboli has not paid you,holam collect your money, this is not the 1st or 2nd time she's using our comments here to draft her scripts 😂 Hol am.
@Wedding Party. 1 and 2.
Let me drop Xmas cooking tips ,this one is shared on the fire once it is ready.
Ogbono feli feli💃
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It's been long, my phone is acting all this month. I no fit shout, how u na dey
I missed you guys and al
Shout at Sdk TJ, Dante, eka joy teacher nk and all
Longest time Onichabor 👋🏻
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ReplyDeleteAgharagha Óka🌽is the dish.
This is a Xmas cooking that many come before it starts its process , hanging around with their own plate.🤭😂
Items. Ingredients.
For 6 people.
1. Smallest "ite ona"🧉, or any cookware with ceramic inside.
2. Long turning stick.
3. Firewood but you can actually place that pot on the gas cooker and use it.
4. Plantain leaves. (Cut the white stalk at the back, cut into 4 parts, blanch it on fire to shrink to golden green that way the poisonous pigment dies, wash and set aside).
5. Steamer. Use metallic sieve not rubber. Cookware comes with steamer.
Then;
1. Real dry corn. 3 full plates.
(Grind it loose not smooth. Set blender on pulse please. , just like small loose sand)
2. Real dry mangala fish. One plate.
(scrubbed and washed with salt. Rinse well)
That type they talked about in the Wedding Party 2😘😂
3. Dry akidi. 3 full plates.
Peel and throw away the skin. Wash the greenish brown beans inside with water ,well).
4. Vegetable. The Anambra State own called Ininë or GREEN.
It's not ewedu and it's not shókoto.
Please, stick to Ininë. E get why👍
Wash and dice. Not slice. Dice into chunks. 2 full plates.
5. Red oil. One full plate👍😂
6. Salt to taste. 🧂 No Maggi.
7.Fresh 🌶️ 🫑 peppers.
Ose ókpö(ground paprika).
Ose Nsukka(Yellow pepper)
Habanero (Ose India. This one is only 2 pieces. Dice with a fork and knife 🗡️. Do not touch,if not eh. And it comes last in the cooking).
PLEASE SKIP THE PEPPER SINCE YOU DON'T LIKE IT 😁
8. Azu ókpö (Dry and deboned bonga fish/asa/azu uno)
You can mix them.One plate too.
9. 3 big reddish 🧅 onions
10. Full plate of aromatic ugba.
Step;
Boil the dry fishes for 20 minutes till very soft with ONLY WATER. Enough water.
NO SALT. NO SEASONING CUBE*
Then drain the remaining water off the pot.
Mix the ground corn with the fish water first then some salt and half of red oil. Turn it well. Set aside.
Set pot on fire.
One bowl of water. When it boils.
It must boil 1st*
Pour the akidi and cook for 5mins.
Open pot. Add half of vegetable and spread it even.
Place the blanched plantain leaves on it. Place the sieve on it. Then cover the pot.
Steam all like that for 20 minutes on low heat so the akidi doesn't burn.
The akidi will steam more and now yellow corn will get done.
While it's cooking.
Dice into chunks and fry with the remaining red oil.
Onions first, then all ugba with remaining salt. Stir well then add ugba, seasoned dry fishes and stir for 2 minutes.Bring it down
Open pot on fire. Remove sieve. Take out the plantain leaves. Throw away*
Scrape and turn the akidi with the now brownish Ininë.
Pour everything into oil mix, sprinkle more salt. Turn well.
Finally add the remaining vegetable and peppers if any.
Turn well, spread the habanero. No need turning and serve. Piping hot.
Bon appetit 💃 💃
MEN EAT THIS SHIRTLESS, WOMEN WITHOUT SCARF.
Edey enter brain 🧠 😂🤭
*Some days we change the date of cooking because our neighbors are not smiling 😊 😁*
Mummy in-law be like "bia bia okwa Nwanne echi bu oka agharagha, e change gom the date"😂🤭
Other English dishes will come tomorrow.
Xhlrted P
Ngwanu bye.
*After turning ground dry corn with the fish water, salt and red oil, pour it into the sieve and place inside pot*
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I'm grateful ma'am Stella,God bless you 🙏🌹❤️Waju thank you very much 😍 Baba God na you play am, I'm grateful 🙏
ReplyDelete@motherhood lady, I hated insects As a child and I don't know how I will feel if my kids get to that stage if wanting to pick insects. I don't know if I can take it
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