She said;
“ Social media has become an integral part of our lives, and unfortunately, it has also become a platform for spreading false narratives. On a recent Sunday morning, I woke up to numerous posts that were intentionally targeted at my lovely daughter and trying to portray a false image of her well being. As a fiercely protective mother, my initial reaction was emotional, but I knew that I had to stand up for my child.
It's important to note that my daughter is a happy, healthy, and well rounded child. Anyone who has met her in person can attest to this.
To further emphasize my commitment to my daughter's well being, I have been her primary caregiver for the past five years. I have handled all of her expenses except for school fees, which her paternal grandparent has kindly covered for the past three years. I have not received child support from her father, but our child knows no lack. She is growing in a healthy environment and is very happy.
In an effort to reaffirm my commitment to her happiness, recently waived all outstanding child support payments and relinquished future claims. This decision has left me fully responsible for our child's financial needs, which i welcomed development by both parties.
Family is important to me, and I believe that it's essential for my child to have a relationship with both parents. Just as I had with my late father, who I had cherished memories of, I have never denied her father access or a relationship.
Instead, I prioritize her safety and structured schedules.
I am grateful that my daughter has a loving relationship with both parents.
Moving forward, I kindly request that my innocent child be left out of false narratives and stories. Let's channel our energy towards things that are more profitable and healthy. “
Thank you
TSM
It's important to note that my daughter is a happy, healthy, and well rounded child. Anyone who has met her in person can attest to this.
To further emphasize my commitment to my daughter's well being, I have been her primary caregiver for the past five years. I have handled all of her expenses except for school fees, which her paternal grandparent has kindly covered for the past three years. I have not received child support from her father, but our child knows no lack. She is growing in a healthy environment and is very happy.
In an effort to reaffirm my commitment to her happiness, recently waived all outstanding child support payments and relinquished future claims. This decision has left me fully responsible for our child's financial needs, which i welcomed development by both parties.
Family is important to me, and I believe that it's essential for my child to have a relationship with both parents. Just as I had with my late father, who I had cherished memories of, I have never denied her father access or a relationship.
Instead, I prioritize her safety and structured schedules.
I am grateful that my daughter has a loving relationship with both parents.
Moving forward, I kindly request that my innocent child be left out of false narratives and stories. Let's channel our energy towards things that are more profitable and healthy. “
Thank you
TSM
Do what makes you happy
ReplyDeleteI remember vividly when Imade was born, it took the combined effort of Dele Momodu and their entire family to coerce Davido to accept the baby, So all these shenanigans is for what. Everyone knows that Davido is not a non bad Dad.
DeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteSophia you have my love any day or time. TSM I saw on RHOL is super level headed and intelligent. You know what is good for your daughter and I applaud you. Imade is your priority and I know you will protect her at all cost.
ReplyDeleteThey should leave this lady alone
ReplyDeleteSince the arrangement works for her, then no issue, welldone Sophie👍🏻
ReplyDeleteNawa!! Sophia, this is not classy and it's definitely not maturity.
ReplyDeleteI'm one of those who argued that protecting your child should be the paramount importance to you. And applauded you for not allowing your child be at the recent event because in a world where a girl child is vulnerable you shouldn't be comfortable she goes to a place you cannot supervised.
But my dear, you see this post; " You have goofed". David is not the one that attacked you for that matter you should handle the trolls not him. The world has no business knowing what the child support you both agreed on is.
This press release comes across like you are looking for his reaction and reply. At this point it looks like you are angry and have " a bone to pick with him". Move on Sophia, you are dragging yourself back by allowing this bitter feelings. Move on and stay on your grind. Forget all about him and release him. Let your soul breath, and make space for another connection.
If the burden is too much for you then renegotiate with his family peacefully and keep the media out of it. If the family refuses to support further, then my dear, cut down on your expenses, live within what you can afford and move on. They are not God. Stop allowing your feelings and happiness attached to this one man. Come on Sophia, we all know David is not a "catch". Stop pulling yourself because of a community penï§. You have lost nothing losing David.
Well said but Davido should support his daughter financially whether he gets on with Sophia or not. I have a baby daddy who supports my daughter financially and we don't see eye to eye. His transfers is even more regular than my salary and not that he got it like that! 8yrs and he has never missed a payment! Point is you can never be taken seriously as a father If you wont even provide for your child.
Delete"she has lost nothing losing David", then what is all this cry about solely taking care of her own daughter?. If she doesn't who will?
DeleteShe was 27, consciously got pregnant for a boy of 21yrs. After denials and conflict she had the baby. Why can't she take care of her baby?. Nigeria has a lot of problem now, go and sort your own
DeleteWell done Sophie 👍 keep protecting your lil princess
ReplyDeleteIt is well!
ReplyDeleteI like how she is putting it out here that she isn't receiving any child's support.
True...before everyone thinks she is living on David's dime!
DeleteI also support how she's letting everybody knows that she's not receiving child support, so that frustrated and bitter people will not be thinking that Davido is the one bankrolling her and her child, and start trolling her and her daughter anytime they appear on their timeline or social media.
DeleteSee wetin fiercely protective mother wear
ReplyDeleteLmao….
DeleteYour hate on her though. She's living her life, face yours
DeleteWeldone Sophia 🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteSophia my 💕...dnt mind them..u are a great mom and I applaud u for dat👍
ReplyDeleteSophia, you mustn't respond to every Tom, Dick, and Harry.
ReplyDeleteYou said you've been her primary caregive for the past 5 years and handled all her expenses and with the same hand you type you RECENTLY waived all outstanding child support payments and relinquish future claims.
That means you were getting support or have gotten and it stopped.
Madam relax and enjoy your life
Is it the "waive" that is difficult for you to understand or what?
DeleteIt simply means she RECENTLY let go of the backlog of child support he refused to pay.
It is well with you ☺️
ReplyDeleteWell done Sophia.
ReplyDeleteTo think she hasn't been living large on Davido's benevolence like his fans claim.
1. Both you and her father gave birth to her and she is the responsibility of you BOTH. If school fees comes from her father's family (I see it as coming from him still), while you take care of other needs, I think that's fine. Cos Lagos school fees ain't small.
ReplyDelete2. For rent - they offered you an apartment years ago which you rejected, so that's not their fault.
3. For other forms of financial support, you and David have been fighting online since I knew you guys, so that's nobody's fault but BOTH of you in not being mature to let go of emotions and court/lawyers to figure out what works best for this child. 4. You are the older parent and the onus is on you to act more matured. He may be richer but money is not everything. Thus, I think child support info is too much info for the public but also, trolls should pls leave this babe naa. Abeg.
5. To young people out there- I beg you, hold unto Jesus and flee fornication. There is not a thing you will gain. From heartbreak, rejection trauma, broken homes, stigma, mockery, STDs to unwanted pregnancy, it's not worth it. Especially ladies - know you will be more affected than the man. Learn from others...
The world has changed. Both in religion and culture- Pregnancy won't make anyone marry you, not anymore. He will someday marry and you won't be his priority. Your child won't get 100% parenting cos his new family will be his priority (and rightly so). Even married women struggle if we're being honest..talkless of single ones. It is what it is. Understand male privilege vs female privilege and make decisions very carefully...
You're a strong mother.
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