Monday In House News

 Hailings.....

MONDAY MEMO

The shopping for Christmas here will get crazier from Tuesday...In fact you would stop and wonder why people would be rushing to buy everything.....I cant stand the stress eeeeeeeeeeh, especially at the point you pay....

From 12noon on Wednesday 24th the shops will close and reopen on the 26th........

So i would like to clarify and reveal the two blog visitors who got engaged recently and are getting married......Blog visitors Black slimzy and St Phoenix elsewhere met on my whatsapp group and started dating their traditional wedding is about to hold after their engagement held two Sundays back....... I got my info from a BV they confided in,so i am not officially aware of anything happening as i was not told but hey its OK, its not by force to tell me..I have moved on from the shock and disappointment oh...It is not to get married that it the issue, it is to stay married.....

As for their no longer commenting, i don't know why and its honestly not by force to comment as no ones placenta is tied here...Everyone is free to come and go,here na Barracks.....

To the person who dropped a long comment on the clapback post on Sunday on the things i need to change here concerning some posts and how i blog and blah blah, I am acknowledging that i read half of it but did not post it...Thank you for the advice but you never hear say human being no dey gimme advice when i dey take? I only listen to God and he always uses the errors you talked about to bless me.... but thank you all the same....

Is there any BV that met via Stellas single mingle or vis the Blog and are almost headed to the altar? Please let me know for blessings oh,I be Dibia......

One love to everyone and keep the positive spirit on repeat.

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
DIFFERENT VIEWS.

I am currently on low cut and I'd usually use my husband's barber for cutting.
The last time I was there, I took my son, and after we both had our hair cut, the barber reached out to the woman selling provisions beside his shop, bought a candy, handed it over to my son before stepping out briefly. While he was outside, I saw my son struggling to open the candy so I helped.

The barber stepped back in and asked if I helped my son or he opened it himself.
I told him I helped and he started to go on about how he never helped his daughter do basic things. He talked about how they are the same age and how his daughter is smarter. I allowed him to get his shine and thereafter, lectured him about the importance of helping your children beyond unwrapping candy sticks, but also in this cold world.

My son is very active but I won't let him struggle. If I'm here, then he can rest in the confidence that Mum will always be here to help.
I understand that whatever he was trying to imply was from a psychological and egotistical point of view, and for whatever reason he must have carried that mentality, I needed to rid him of it.

"Firstly, Your child and mine are not the same, secondly, you cannot judge this brief incident with the whole of my son's upbringing, Thirdly, My kids are not in this world to compete, I do not compete or let my children compete, because life is not a competition, I let me children develop at their own pace and not comparing them to other people's children. Fourthly, There is nothing wrong with helping my son unwrap his candy. He is just a three year old." If I am here, then my kids will not struggle, I will give them a soft landing.

Hmmmm both of you are correct...You see two people can be correct but the manner, timing and place of delivery can make it wrong...


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WEIRD FACTS

---When feeling down, do some cleaning. Straightening out the physical aspects of your life can also bring clarity to the mental one.

----It's funny how you can do nice things for people all the time and they never notice. But once you make one mistake, its never forgotten.

---Inhaling helium from a balloon can kill you.

----You can "rewire" your brain to be happy by simply recalling 3 things you're grateful for every day for 21 days.

----Your bed is a magical place where you remember everything you forgot to do.

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Christmas Is When People Ignore Symptoms the Longest

I will go after the holidays.
I don’t want to spoil Christmas.
Let’s finish celebrating first.

These words sound harmless.
Sometimes, they’re fatal.

During Christmas, people delay care more than any other time of the year.
Chest pain becomes “gas.
Breathlessness becomes “stress.”
Bleeding becomes “normal.”
Weakness becomes “tiredness.”
The body gives warnings… quietly.
Celebration drowns them out.

Families are together.
Travel is planned.
Money is tight.
Hospitals feel inconvenient.
So symptoms are postponed.
Until they can’t be postponed anymore.

Some emergencies don’t announce themselves loudly.
They wait.
They worsen.
They strike when it’s too late.
This is why hospitals receive the sickest patients after the holidays.
Not because illness started then….
but because it was ignored before.

Christmas is beautiful.
But your body doesn’t know it’s Christmas.
Delay is not faith.
Delay is not strength.
Delay is risk.

If something feels wrong, don’t wait for the calendar to change.
Save this.
Share it with someone who says, “I will go after the holidays.”
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LEGAL TIPS and ADVICE…

10 Legal Tips you should NEVER live without.

1). Never Sign Anything Without Getting a Copy or Taking a Picture.

2). Protect Your Family and Business from Legal Risk.

3). Don’t Delay Preparing for the Unexpected... Create a Will or Trust. No matter what stage of life you are in, you need some form of a will, trust, or estate plan.

4). Do Not Admit Liability Until You Talk to your Lawyer.

5). At the Scene of Any Incident – Get Information. The information available immediately after an accident occurs is very important.
Of course, the health and welfare of those involved is the most important thing to address immediately following an accident. But once those who need assistance have received it, then you must get information eg, Take pictures, get the names and contact info of bystanders, and take notes about conditions such as weather, lighting, etc.

6). Get Agreements in Writing: All agreements that you make should be in writing if possible.

7). Consult Experts to Help You Ask the Right Questions. A wise man once said, “Even death is not to be feared by one who has lived wisely.

8.) Employers and Employees Are Both Protected by the Law.

9). You Have Rights as a Landlord and a Tenant.

10). Use Professionals: Get or consult with a Lawyer. Consulting with a lawyer is not a difficult thing to do. Many lawyers will provide free or very economical consultations and you can take comfort in knowing that a trained professional Lawyer will look over your issue as well as keep the issue confidential.

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