How many of you here got help or getting help from your man......
Oh my man was an Angel when the Bambinos were little and he still helps out although now I have to complain first...LOL
Wednesday, January 14, 2026
Motherhood And Fatherhood Chronicles
Do men really know the importance of supporting their wives in the home with house work and making sure she takes rests when the babies start coming? Once you know this as a man, your home will full of Joy and laughter because a well rested wife will give you peace.....
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I help out with chores and other activities with my wife. Even though my boys are handful now. I enjoy helping out because it creates bonds with plenty time for gossip #sideeyes. It also plants an image in the kids to know it is ok to do so with their wives when they all grown. Lately my boy was having lunch, and he told me Daddy give me water. If u see the look from my wife's face #Asinhow now. I just laughed and got water for him. If u see the look from my wife face with serious warning to my son. She told the little man. Oga I am the only one #Mummy that is allowed to send Daddy and next time use please. See my smiling. Wetin concern me. I sha love my food with two meats now ...
ReplyDeleteYou're doing well 😄
DeleteBefore I got married, I knew the importance of an integrated family life, so it wasn't a big deal when I got married and started having children.
ReplyDeleteI wake up early and cook for the family irrespective of whether madam was strong or not.
I would clean, wash dishes and bathe my children. I wasn't told to do them. I did them naturally.
Although my kids are all grown up now, and I'm around 60, I still do these things.
And many of my friends did similar things in their families. This I know. There's no need over emphasizing it or wrongly assuming this to be the exception.
You are a good man and you surrounded yourself with like minded friends. Many families were not so fortunate at that age.
DeleteGod bless you 🙏
DeleteMore blessings on you 🙏
DeleteYes o, I agree. A well rested woman will give you peace.
ReplyDeleteMy ex husband hardly helped with house work. He said women will always take advantage of it 🙄
This topic go cause a lot.......
ReplyDeleteNo be only female child needs training..The male child also needs to be trained. I learnt to do house chores and I have never for once seen it as my wife's duty. We do things together..
Is either she is busy cooking while I'm washing, or she is cleaning the house while I'm busy cooking.
It safes time,
Gives rest of mind
Reduces stress
And gives partners opportunity to vibes
It's true. A wife who's not constantly stressed out will most likely be a very peaceful wife.
ReplyDeleteI thank God for my husband. May God continue to bless that man for me. He has been helping, and even now that the children are grown and can do a lot, he's still helping. He doesn't like an untidy environment. He's always cleaning this, arranging that without calling on anyone. With him and the girls at home, i don't do anything other than cook, and that's if it isn't something i want to leave to the girls. I love to cook though, so I don't see that as a big deal.
This mostly happens with men who were well trained in house chores while growing, not the ones that were exempted because they were boys. May God help parents do well in this regard.
Very true. Support at home between couples is about partnership, not in a charitable way.
ReplyDeleteI am grateful for my husband—he has always been hands-on, right from when the children were younger, till now. And it brought real peace into our home. I have also seen the same with some of his friends, men who are fully involved at home and whose families are better for it.
That said, it is also important to be honest: some wives unintentionally discourage this support. When a man helps and is met with control, criticism, subtle belittling or total disrespect, it bruises his ego and slowly shuts him down. Appreciation matters. Respect matters. No one thrives where their effort is undervalued.
On the other hand, some men simply choose not to help, often because of how they were raised, cultural conditioning, or a fixed idea of gender roles. In some cases, it is fear of being judged, mocked, or seen as “less of a man” by families, friends, and neighbours.
Homes work best when both partners feel respected, valued, and safe to contribute without pride or power struggles but with absolute regard for one another. When appreciation and gratitude flow both ways, partnership becomes natural, not forced.