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May God heal families.
ReplyDeleteEnabling parents cuddling badly behaved siblings is usually a factor in such stories.
Exactly!
DeleteToxic parents especially mothers that do divide and rule always reap the division they sow
DeleteThe backfire na fireworks
My elder sister tried seducing my then suitor now husband,that i have luck more than her,that i will see another man.I stopped talking to her for two years.My dad begged me last year that i should call her and reconcile before he dies.I did and now we are in good terms but i lost my dad 5 months later.
ReplyDeleteShe will still try again, Just keep her at arms length.
DeleteWow
DeleteAt least you made dad happy
Nawa o, this kind of sister sef.
DeletePls protect your nuclear family & don't bring her too close.
I stopped talking to my immediate elder brother for 3yrs and still counting.
ReplyDeleteMy husband's shop was razed down by fire and he lost everything. It happened on a Saturday. I was devastated and crying. My other siblings called me and were consoling me, he didn't call. The next day being Sunday my other brother called him to tell him what happened and he said he shouldn't disturb him he's getting ready to go to church.
I have me two weeks to see if he'll call and he didn't turn I deleted his number from my phone.
We had this wassup family group he created and he's the admin. He's the one that was always posting there. So after some months he came to the wassup group to announce his promotion. When the message popped up on my phone I went to the group and exited. He was now telling others that I exited because he shared his promotion news. You're my brother and such a thing happened to me and my family you couldn't even place a call to me. People were coming even people I wasn't talking to showed their sympathy. Even when we traveled to the village and I met him I didn't talk to him. Our overall elder brother called me and said I should let go but it's difficult for me.
He is a terrible human being
DeleteGosh
Ha!
DeleteOr is he angry with your hubby? Even at that, for as long as you're affected, h a supposed to show care.
So sorry about this dear 🤗
DeleteHe really did you wrong & didn't behave like a brother at all.
But forgive him because of God 🙏
Forgive and forget him
DeleteShit is real
ReplyDeleteHow will you feel when your younger brother brought land, he didn't tell anybody in the house except his girlfriend and she was the witness that sign . Meaning, she next of kin.
ReplyDeleteI'm not angry, I'm not jealous I'm just surprised, is like he truth her more than us. Wish him all the best.
Abi am overreacting?
*trust*
DeleteYou are not
DeleteIs he planning to marry her
Why are you putting eye in your brothers property?you are jealous and hurt. Leave the man alone and face your life.
DeleteMind your business oo. His girlfriend is not the cause of your problems oo.
Delete@Gifty yes.
Delete17:29, which property? Do you know if I have more than him?
See eh, every family know each other.ok, if I want to do something today I mist tell them in case of anything. They will have my back. I love my siblings so much. We have pass through alot in life.
I'm just scared of the unknown. I no want small things way e done get one woman go come collect am from am.
Abeg before you talk pass your mouth dey think we'll.
I pray for Heavens healing to every hurting soul
ReplyDeleteI pray too cuz these stories break my heart
DeleteWahala
ReplyDeleteSiblings from hell!
ReplyDeleteImagine leaving your own brother in coma & squandering money meant for his health 🩺 May God forgive them.
It's so hard. , my younger brother that's I gave a contract to supply sharp sand when I wanted to build a hostel in the village. He went and dropped 4 trips of sand instead of 10 that I paid him for, and this is not the first time he is doing it. Like k he has done it for like 4 times , when I was renovating the family house and several other times. Only for him to go and be gossiping that I am jealous of him because his wife gave birth to 3 boys while mine gave birth to only girls.i cut him off forever. I have built my house without him.
ReplyDeleteMy other brother started avoiding my calls just because I bought a land and built my house without informing him and his evil and demonic wife. I cut him off immediately at least I no borrow money from anyone , he was shock to see me prosper after calling me poor .
Na wa o
DeleteThings dey occur
Good you cut them off.
DeleteGood you cut them off.
DeleteBut how will you buy land and build house without informing your brothers no matter how bad they are. You are part of the disunity in your family.
DeleteAnonymous 20:11... so he owes them that information because of what exactly? Ode ni e.
DeleteMy elder sister told our mother that I'm busy gathering wealth up and down after all I have only one son while she she has 3boys. My mom told me and it pains me so I distanced myself from her. I stopped calling her and I don't take her calls.
ReplyDeleteAt least you have a boy (if male children are a must in your village) . You should not have taken such drastic steps. You can just keep her at arm's length but not keeping malice. Now your mum will not yell you stuff anymore, how will you know your enemies, going forward?
DeleteBe wise please
Can you imagine
DeleteJealousy
Gathering wealth for your only son, soooo. What is she gathering for her 3 boys na? Abeg, she is a jealous person.
DeleteWow..
ReplyDeleteFamily squabbling is really dangerous
ReplyDeleteAnybody wey do anyhow, go see anyhow. Na Bible talk am.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing to gain in keeping malice.
ReplyDeleteMy elder brother beat me till I blacked out a day after we buried my dad. After the burial I wanted to buy oil to take back to Abuja, but because of the activities I forgot and I was to return the next day, there was 25 liters of oil remaining from the cooking of burial food, so I told my brother's wife to give me 5liters and I will pay her (my brother lives in my dad's house) she was telling me oil is now expensive, I should know that I will pay the current price and I responded are you "joking abi you are serious" na so my brother storm the parlour punch me and kept pushing till I blacked out. It's been 2years now, I have forgiven him but I don't have anything to do with him.
ReplyDeleteHmmm... May God step into the situation. This is so unfair.
DeleteTiv people can be crazy nawao. Sorry about that. Just focus on your husband and kids and leave family people to do their thing. Best of luck to you dear
DeleteGod please🙏
ReplyDeleteGrowing up with my elder sister I Love her so much. We have normal kids banter. So one day she was angry at me ans said "Is it because they said you are the one that will lift the hands of the family thats why our mum is treating you better"
ReplyDeleteI was shocked but I was a kid didn't take it serious but as we grew up boiz see money and I was taking care of everyone including her.
The moment I came back to Nigeria and things bot working my Sister said to me "Whenever she see me I reminds her of Nollywood films characters that has money before that dont have anymore.
I now told her Oga I didn't do ritual Im just facing life challenges like everyone.
She doesn't like my wife, dont pick my calls.
When we had our daughter she refused to carry her saying as a Muslim we must cut her first hair before she can carry her. After this incident I stayed away from her
Hmmmmmmm...
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad 😭
My elder sister bullied me so much as a kid that I became depressed at that age a very young age say 10,low self esteem and all. I’ve forgiven her but we don’t have a relationship anymore
ReplyDeleteSame experience but with my elder brother.
DeleteHe beat me so bad growing up, I hated him then
I have forgiven him, we speak but nothing deep
If we keep counting all these without forgiveness, no one will see Jesus.
ReplyDeleteI haven't spoken to my mother's eldest daughter for over a year.
ReplyDeleteOur eldest brother died unexpectedly and she refused to show up for his burial. She lives in the same state he was buried. She has not called our mother or gone to see her since. She has been to the village twice now for the burials of other people who are not directly family. She goes about telling people she does not talk to her mother, for reasons best known to her.
I cannot bring myself to speak to her.
So sorry for all...But Please lets try our Christian best not to keep enermity.
ReplyDeleteLets not make our children inherit this. Our children have a longer 2morrow. BEST WISHES TO US ALL. CHEERS
In most Family, the key factor that plants the seed of Disunity is the Mother. If you have a good Mother, you are already living in Paradise on Earth
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