
She wrote;
"Hmmmm, this is an example of what life shows me in my late 20s, and how life wants me to look, but thank GOD for the strength and grace because it could be worse than this, but GOD didn’t leave me a bit.
Thanks to my families who didn’t leave me through thick & thin, trying not to let me be depressed and thank GOD I’ve never be and I will never be by GOD grace.
Do people know not wanting to think about some particular things/situation is worse than thinking,and crying it out ? I’m telling you for free that it is.
Sometimes you just have to cry it out & let go.
Internet: smiles, a platform where people judge others according to their own perspective, forgetting that even if we wear the same shoe size, it will fit differently. Blame is easy, understanding is wiser.
My carrier: I worked so hard for years behind d camera building my name as a filmmaker and a script supervisor, sleepless nights, brain storming, hardwork and consistency was how goggle recognized my name at first,” Ashabi simple” life happened, sudden change that made me switch to a full time actor, it wasn’t easy at all, I shot many movies with my hard earned money which Didn’t yield well.
I started calculating loss than gain, and this drained me financially, mentally & physically.
Home: dating a narcissist is the worst thing that could happen to someone; you can’t predict their next move, especially when he’s a jealous type and has an anger issue. I wake up every day of my life thinking of how best to manage this soul, how can u be a liar & manipulator.
Love is a beautiful thing, but loving someone who sees you as a competitor or who doesn’t want your growth, who supports you with their mouth but not their heart, is the opposite. Now, it’s complicated how you think on a daily basis about what to do next, like leaving. Will there be a breakthrough? Stay ? Can it ever get better? What if it get worsen? It’s complicated again when children are involve and you’re open to different people advice.
GOD, this new age I’m about to start, make it a new phrase, help me, see through my heart and heal me, I’m going 2ru alot physically, spiritually, mentally, financially and psychologically come through for me oh lord"

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Sha do not go back to him.
ReplyDeleteWgat do you mean? She’d typing this long story from Portable’s house, I can tell you that for free, just wait for a week. Person with ZERO self-esteem! When you raise your girl child in this life, teach them self worth, it’s important
DeleteI sincerely wish this young woman peace. Ashabi, may the true and living Most High God hear your heart’s cry and put you in a new land, in a prosperous land, and with abundant peace💜
ReplyDeleteTrue Most High God that gave simple instruction, she refused to follow, none of u admonished her and reminded her to adhere to those instructions, yet u r here calling Him to give her peace. Ok ooo.
Delete13:28, what should we do, push the children back up inside of her and undo the seck? Even if we were to curse her inside out what will it achieve? Didn’t God transform Rahab and redeem her? Ppl can learn from their mistakes and change, it happens everyday. Since you are perfect you don’t have to worry about the rest of us imperfect folks, just live your perfect life with your perfect self in peace. Let those who feel like giving her positive words do so in peace! I will never kick someone who is already down.
DeleteNobody has time and energy to kick someone that is down, but don’t forget to tell them it is the consequence of their action in case they don’t even realise it, because it is hard to see the frame if you are in the picture. And the people you claim will learn from her mistakes, these young ones that don’t even know what they are doing? What do you think they would learn? That when they are fornicating upandan no one says a word because those that would say it would be termed ‘judginas’? And when eventually they are down, people with ‘kind’ words are there to give her ‘positive words’??? So pls at what point would we ever call a spade a spade? At what point do we ever get to admonish the wrong doers without being termed as ‘people living perfect lives’? At what point do we not ‘spare the rod’??
Delete15:16, you still don't get it. How many times will you tell them? so, you're one of those that peck on ppl daily and nag them for every mistake they make daily? Some of you claim to be coming from Godliness but dole out verbal abuse and slowly destroy ppl, not a dose of love or forgiveness. I'm not telling you to accept anything that goes against your morals, but when children are already here, there is no reason to mention to a woman that she fornicated and brought it on herself, there is literally nothing you or anyone else can do when children are already born. Some of you would prefer ppl to kpai their children after being born or send them off to live in the village so you can live in your make believe world. God knows what to do with these children even if you have contempt for them. God also knows how to turn anyone's life around no matter how awful it may look. Equally, God knows how to humble the proud and bring them low.
DeleteThe woman has made a post baring her soul and still you want to mock and beat her down. Problems know everyone's doorstep and stop judging ppl who sin differently from you. So you have mastered not fornicating or committing adultery, but what are you struggling with? When you think you are sweet you are stink and so says the Word!
Know who you indulge in genital meet and greet with. Shey they said spirits are transferred during the act.
ReplyDeleteToh, who knows whether it's the supposed "side cock " that is driving her nuts.
She'll be fine
It's well!
ReplyDeleteMay The Lord hear your heart cry🙏
Continue to move on.🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteI wish her the best
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear, I just sincerely hope you don't go back to portable.
ReplyDeleteThis one thinks we’re acting movie, aunty you brought it upon yourself. Onye oshi amu
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Fan, someone up there is shouting i claim to be living a perfect life because i said it the way it is. She brought it upon herself. Pls ppl should learn to be accountable for their actions.
DeleteIt is well
ReplyDeleteWhy don't I feel sorry for her??🤔
ReplyDeleteYimu
I pray God give you sense to do better. You clearly saw a pit and fell in, thinking you will gather plenty. When you still saw nothing, you refused to leave but wanted him to wife you, thinking you will gain through it. Lets watch and see if you’ve finally made up your mind to leave. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteMove on and leave portable alone. Will you?
ReplyDeleteI sympathize with you. May God help your weary heart.
ReplyDeleteMadam Ashabi, first you need to leave the married man alone,children or no children, he belongs to another then dedicate your life to doing the right things requested by God and see your life changing positively
ReplyDeleteAll the best.
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