Wednesday In House News....

 Woman Crush Wednesday!

WEDNESDAY MEMO

How una dey? I salute everyone and wish you all a nice rest of the day......The 

day is not so bright here and it is so cold....This weather e tire person but wetin we go do nah?
My Madam Sandra, you don check? Please oh i hope that XP is OK?She has been missing outback and inbox and una know say Trump dey disturb people, i just pray that she is not affected at all...Please if you have her contact, check up on her for me......
To everyone else in a bad space, or in a bad place or that things are not going on well.....I pray that God sorts things out for you

If you are someone reading this blog and you have an ID i can identify you with and you feel 10 kay can do something for you...message me........I know some people will not need this but will still message me oh....
Let me look for food to eat oh...I am hungry for indomie and eggs....

Enjoy the rest of the day eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh.

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TEACHER LIFE

Some things that happen in schools don’t make the headlines, but they stay with teachers forever. Early childhood can be messy , emotionally, socially, and sometimes… unexpectedly complicated.

A while back, one of the teachers in my school walked into the restroom and caught a KG1 girl leading a boy to explore private body parts. Shocked, the teacher shouted. The little girl panicked, tried to run, slipped, and hit her face on the washbasin. Blood, everywhere. Tears. The nurse rushed in.The Head Teacher was informed. Parents were called.

It wasn’t the first time this child had been involved in similar behavior. And in safeguarding, patterns matter.
Closing time came. Most children had gone home when shouting erupted from the Head Teacher’s office:
“Where is she?! Where is she madam?! You have not seen madness!”
The girl’s aunt accused the teacher of hurting the child, while the child herself said:
“Mummy, she beat me! She pushed me! I was just using the toilet!” The whole narrative had changed immediately.
The calmer mother quietly asked her sister to leave and told the Head Teacher, “Sorry ma, I need to talk with her father. We’ll come back tomorrow.”
The next morning, the mother came with her husband, calmer but defensive. When I was called in as Safeguarding Lead, the father asked:
“Aunty, where did she learn this thing una dey talk from? You let your teacher to injure my small girl and you tell she touch boy, you no dey touch your boyfriend” I was shocked.
They refused to acknowledge their child’s behavior, even after previous incidents were listed. Their only focus was on the injury
Fast forward two years. The child is now in Grade 2. And it happened again.
This time, another girl reported being invited to the restroom and asked to remove her underwear. She refused.
When the children were questioned, the same girl’s name kept coming up as the ring leader.

When finally spoken to, she admitted to watching explicit videos on her parents’ phone, and that an older cousin (the daughter of the aunty shouting the other time) living with them had also taught her some behavior. She had even been luring other children from other classes.
We sat the parents down again. This time, the parents were quiet. Ashamed. The Head Teacher told them:
“You’re gradually losing your child , not because she’s bad, but because of carelessness at home.”
We don’t talk enough about this side of early childhood:
* Digital exposure
* Unsuspected influence from relatives
* Boundaries and supervision
We rush to shout at teachers. We rush to defend our children. But sometimes, the child is not the problem , the environment is.Early intervention isn’t about shaming a child.
It’s about protecting all children involved, including the one acting out.

This is such an eye opener and very Educative..I hope those who schoolwards learn from this and treat teachers better when such discoveries are made...I love this column!!!................Who else loves this column and the knowledge she is imparting?

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

I remember how when our daughter was little, she had a big boil on her head and we took her to the government hospital. Note that she was active without a temperature and we just wanted the boil to go away, and even though we knew an antibiotics would do the magic, we didn't want to self medicate, we agreed to take her to the hospital.

At first we met a corper doctor who was literally using the Internet to check possible medication. Haa! 

My husband and I quickly exchanged a shocking glance. Next he recorded her symptoms in a file, handed it to my husband to take to the counter while the nurses chatted away. That was where my husband nearly lost it. 

My husband clearly told him it was not his duty to carry file but the responsibility of nurses who clearly knows their job descriptions but chooses to ignore and rather chat away. He echoed how disrespectful it was and the doctor apologised before carrying the file over by himself. 

It seems that after all, the young doctor was scared of the older nurses. How can a nurse come to work and gist when patients are trooping in, even to the point that it is the doctor that was moving files? I wondered.
Anyway.
When the episode was over and he wanted to prescribed medicine, his supervisor I guess, a woman in her 40s approached him and forbade him to prescribe medicines unless they admit her and put her on drips.

My husband refused, said, she does not require admission for ordinary boil. We left and went to a private hospital and the doctor we meet only laughed and laughed when we showed him the boil. He calmed us down and insisted it was a minor issue. He instructed to wash the place because it was simply dirt then gave us antibiotics worth just #250. That was how by the third day, the boil had disappeared.

It was later it occurred to us that the government hospital wanted to profit off us. There are hardly heroes in our hospitals anymore, many of the doctors have lost their conscience.

I do not agree with the mindset of you and your husband...Antibiotics should NEVER be given to kids except under supervision. The private hospital you went to is a quack and you should be careful....Also hospitals here eh, nah you go carry your files from one department to another oh...That time i had my myom surgery, when they were doing all the tests before the surgery, you will carry your files yourself in the big hospital from one place to the other..

NOBODY will do it for you.

Please if una still dey do am stop giving your kids antibiotics oh..... Its really not good to self recommend when it comes to that...

Here in Germany you cannot buy antibiotics off the counter,  DOC must write a prescription for it.....

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WHAT MOST COUPLES LACK

Many couples don't have communication issues but rather maturity issues. It's not that they can't express themselves but that someone can not contain correction...

Some people have such a fragile ego and volatile emotions that a conversation that's not going their way must end in arguments and exchange.

You should find someone who can withstand the uncomfortable truth without running. Not every dialogue in marriage is a massage for your ego. Some are whipping.
Can they take a whipping without whining?
The most lame excuse I've ever heard about why someone married such an emotionally unstable person was, 'It felt so right. We were in love.'

Love may be blind, but marriage is not. Marriage requires mental stamina to withstand uncomfortable communication without running.

Running is shutting down or ghosting when they're challenged or called to account....
Running is going offline when they know they have something to explain.
Running is postponing issues that they need to face and own up to.
Love alone can not build a marriage. Maturity and emotional capacity to accept feedback and grow are equally important. Without it, your love will only become chains binding to an impossibly toxic union.

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15 years for Marriage is the Biological age for Marriage ?Who wrote this? Nah werey.....

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WEIRD FACT

---- Steel is roughly 1,000 times stronger than iron. It is the primary material used in the world’s tallest skyscrapers.

--- Olive oil has different grades. Extra virgin is the least processed and most nutritious.

----Termites never sleep

----People with ADHD often have the ability to hyper-focus on things they find interesting
However, it can’t be reliably controlled and can make switching tasks even harder

----The literal meaning of “Once in a blue moon” is once every 2.7 years.

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READ THIS

If you’re still in the habit of doing the following , it will be very difficult for your life to be positive in 2026 .....

1. Hating someone who has never wronged you.
2. Recruiting others to hate someone simply because you don’t like them.
3. Allowing yourself to be recruited to hate someone.
4. Letting greed control your decisions.
5. Feeling entitled to someone else’s money or property.
6. Being ungrateful, no matter how much someone has done for you.
7. Holding an unforgiving spirit.
8. Constantly posting negative content that spreads bad influence.
9. Trying to pull others down in order to rise.
10. Engaging in unnecessary gossip, rumors, and unhealthy competition.

Growth requires self-reflection, humility, gratitude, and peace.
Drop these habits if you truly want a better 2026.
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