Good afternoon house please i have something bothering me so i want to share it here for advise and suggestions , anytime i have something i always want to share it with people no matter how small that thing is i must want to share with someone . Now my issue is that when it is my turn maybe say i need something all i get in return is excuses mind you i dont do these things for repayment . I dont know if it is a weakness but i just always want to give .
Give if that is who you are;and if that's what makes you happy.
But know that being good or kind to everyone/anyone doesn't mean others would give you that same treatment;you fit dey jam ungrateful/obiakpรณ people till the end of the world.
Don't give because you want others to do same for you if you are ever in need;it's a cold world and we humans are more about self interest;hence many don't mind giving you various excuses to ensure they are never inconvenienced because of your own convenience.
Also understand boundaries;there is a very thin line between being a kind person;and trying to seek everyone's validation by constantly giving;so they would think you are a kind person.
You alone truly know which category you fall into ☝️☝️☝️
It is more blessed to give than to receive. Always have this mindset that it's not the people that you have helped that will help you to avoid disappointment.
One thing is sure, whenever a need arises, help will come cuz givers never lack.
If you follow the way some humans behave you will start to act out of character. Please be yourself❤️๐๐๐
Doctors, nurses, pharmacists, or anyone who is under the medical line can have an input. Please I want to know if I am over thinking things or is normal. I had surgery in 2019 after some complications i discovered that i have infections, i started treatment but along the line everything looks okay and i gave up on it. I should have gone for test from time to time to check if my body healed from.the infection or not but i forgot about it. In 2022 i started experiencing heavy bleeding, pro long period and watering discharge. I was told the fibriod has regrown. So the discharge is due to the fibroid, i was asked to take out the fibroid but was sacred since rhe first one was not easy, it may regrow and i was not married as i was told only pregnacy ould calm ir doen. I refused ans started managing it with some supplements and the size reduced, i only bleed once during my monthly flow, it last from 3 days heavy while 2 days is just a lightdrop. So i still discovered that the discharge was still heavy, then i visted another hospital and found out it was yeast infection, they gave me medications and i was better. After few months the discharge continued , but i stopped the supplements to see if the supplements was rhe main thing, the discharge became heavy. I told my now husband about it because we meet during that process and he was ready and willing to go through the pricess with me. Since two hospital declared me infection free but i was still having heavy discharge, i just reluctantly visted a new bye laboratory where i was diagnosed of having moderate syphilis, my whole world crashed rhar day Could it be thay the infection has been there have but the wrong thing was done the reason why i have been having serious discharge. Few weeks to my wedding. I went for a test and some medications was prescribed, I started taking them but I and am my husband has met before the time because when I was sure of the marriage I requested we test to be sure is what I can handle, I don't want to cry later that his thing is not working or is too small blah blah. I know the infection was from me because mine is even stronger than his.
My question is I took the treatment and got married but didn't go back to redo the test before we started meeting again. Mind you when I was taking those antibiotics, he was also on treatment but we both never went for test to be sure we are okay before we started meeting when we got married. I have been preaching to my husband we should abstain while we treat the infection and be sure everything is okay before we continue but he is not buying that ideal. We have done like 4 test since we got married all showed moderate infections, we have taking injections for 14 days, taking oral, I took drip, we have taken herbal still the infection has refused to go. I feel because we keep meeting while on the medication that is why the drugs are not working but my husband insist we must meet as he is not ready to cheat on me.
That if we don't meet for one to two mo ths in the name of treatment, is not easy what a man sees outside on daily basis. I don't know what else to say as he keep claiming the Doctors, his cousin that is a pharmacist told him meeting with me is very okay while on treatment. I feel the reason I have not taken in was because of the infections as everything comes out after meeting. It comes out heavy, from the moment we meet, a day or two days after meeting everything keep coming out. He has been complaining of waist pain so I tot this could do the magic to stay off me till we are completely okay but no way he cannot stay a day without meeting with me.
I want to know if I am the one thinking too much that the reason I am still battling with infections is because we still meet, I pick it up from him after meeting or meeting is stopping the medication to work properly. I am tired of taking medications since we cannot abstain. Thinking of refusing any test or medication until he is ready to abstain so that we can be treated once and for all.
I want to ask if I am saving enough money or I should save more from my monthly salary. My salary is paid twice in a month (we have bonus paid middle of the month while salary comes end of the month). The bonus is 50k while my salary is 141k. I do 60k contributions in a month, send my mum 30k monthly. My dad is late so is just my mum and a small girl staying with her, apart from the monthly 30k I do for her. I also buy raw food of 60 to 80k like quarterly or any time she complains of no food.
I also have my other siblings who do send her money from as little as 5k to 20k monthly basis too. We pay the girl's school fees, uniform, textbook, school bag, sandals and any vital need from the girl.
I want to know if I should save more or go ahead to spend the balance of 81k from my salary. I am married and my husband is also working, his income comes huge some time depending on contracts. I support with my balance to keep the home and still contributes bulk when I collect my contributions.
Was just thinking like I don't save anything, my corporative savings is 20k monthly.
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Good afternoon great minds.
ReplyDeletePlease does the size of mammary gland determine the quantity of miliki?
Thank you
No it doesn't....smallest size can even surprise you with the flow of excess "miliki";na God go determine;not size.
Delete@MARTINS
Good afternoon house please i have something bothering me so i want to share it here for advise and suggestions , anytime i have something i always want to share it with people no matter how small that thing is i must want to share with someone .
ReplyDeleteNow my issue is that when it is my turn maybe say i need something all i get in return is excuses mind you i dont do these things for repayment .
I dont know if it is a weakness but i just always want to give .
Sha know where to draw the line, so people don't take you for granted.
DeleteGive if that is who you are;and if that's what makes you happy.
DeleteBut know that being good or kind to everyone/anyone doesn't mean others would give you that same treatment;you fit dey jam ungrateful/obiakpรณ people till the end of the world.
Don't give because you want others to do same for you if you are ever in need;it's a cold world and we humans are more about self interest;hence many don't mind giving you various excuses to ensure they are never inconvenienced because of your own convenience.
Also understand boundaries;there is a very thin line between being a kind person;and trying to seek everyone's validation by constantly giving;so they would think you are a kind person.
You alone truly know which category you fall into ☝️☝️☝️
@MARTINS
It is more blessed to give than to receive. Always have this mindset that it's not the people that you have helped that will help you to avoid disappointment.
DeleteOne thing is sure, whenever a need arises, help will come cuz givers never lack.
If you follow the way some humans behave you will start to act out of character. Please be yourself❤️๐๐๐
Doctors, nurses, pharmacists, or anyone who is under the medical line can have an input. Please I want to know if I am over thinking things or is normal. I had surgery in 2019 after some complications i discovered that i have infections, i started treatment but along the line everything looks okay and i gave up on it. I should have gone for test from time to time to check if my body healed from.the infection or not but i forgot about it. In 2022 i started experiencing heavy bleeding, pro long period and watering discharge. I was told the fibriod has regrown. So the discharge is due to the fibroid, i was asked to take out the fibroid but was sacred since rhe first one was not easy, it may regrow and i was not married as i was told only pregnacy ould calm ir doen. I refused ans started managing it with some supplements and the size reduced, i only bleed once during my monthly flow, it last from 3 days heavy while 2 days is just a lightdrop. So i still discovered that the discharge was still heavy, then i visted another hospital and found out it was yeast infection, they gave me medications and i was better. After few months the discharge continued , but i stopped the supplements to see if the supplements was rhe main thing, the discharge became heavy. I told my now husband about it because we meet during that process and he was ready and willing to go through the pricess with me. Since two hospital declared me infection free but i was still having heavy discharge, i just reluctantly visted a new bye laboratory where i was diagnosed of having moderate syphilis, my whole world crashed rhar day
ReplyDeleteCould it be thay the infection has been there have but the wrong thing was done the reason why i have been having serious discharge. Few weeks to my wedding. I went for a test and some medications was prescribed, I started taking them but I and am my husband has met before the time because when I was sure of the marriage I requested we test to be sure is what I can handle, I don't want to cry later that his thing is not working or is too small blah blah. I know the infection was from me because mine is even stronger than his.
My question is I took the treatment and got married but didn't go back to redo the test before we started meeting again. Mind you when I was taking those antibiotics, he was also on treatment but we both never went for test to be sure we are okay before we started meeting when we got married. I have been preaching to my husband we should abstain while we treat the infection and be sure everything is okay before we continue but he is not buying that ideal. We have done like 4 test since we got married all showed moderate infections, we have taking injections for 14 days, taking oral, I took drip, we have taken herbal still the infection has refused to go. I feel because we keep meeting while on the medication that is why the drugs are not working but my husband insist we must meet as he is not ready to cheat on me.
That if we don't meet for one to two mo ths in the name of treatment, is not easy what a man sees outside on daily basis. I don't know what else to say as he keep claiming the Doctors, his cousin that is a pharmacist told him meeting with me is very okay while on treatment. I feel the reason I have not taken in was because of the infections as everything comes out after meeting. It comes out heavy, from the moment we meet, a day or two days after meeting everything keep coming out. He has been complaining of waist pain so I tot this could do the magic to stay off me till we are completely okay but no way he cannot stay a day without meeting with me.
I want to know if I am the one thinking too much that the reason I am still battling with infections is because we still meet, I pick it up from him after meeting or meeting is stopping the medication to work properly. I am tired of taking medications since we cannot abstain. Thinking of refusing any test or medication until he is ready to abstain so that we can be treated once and for all.
I want to ask if I am saving enough money or I should save more from my monthly salary. My salary is paid twice in a month (we have bonus paid middle of the month while salary comes end of the month). The bonus is 50k while my salary is 141k. I do 60k contributions in a month, send my mum 30k monthly.
ReplyDeleteMy dad is late so is just my mum and a small girl staying with her, apart from the monthly 30k I do for her. I also buy raw food of 60 to 80k like quarterly or any time she complains of no food.
I also have my other siblings who do send her money from as little as 5k to 20k monthly basis too. We pay the girl's school fees, uniform, textbook, school bag, sandals and any vital need from the girl.
I want to know if I should save more or go ahead to spend the balance of 81k from my salary. I am married and my husband is also working, his income comes huge some time depending on contracts. I support with my balance to keep the home and still contributes bulk when I collect my contributions.
Was just thinking like I don't save anything, my corporative savings is 20k monthly.