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I hope and pray that your day is going on well?I wearing very warm sweater and have the oven on and opened in the Kitchen, rain beat me today and its icy cold outside........CAN SUMMER PLEASE COME! I 'yam' sorry i complained last year that it was too hot!!!
Those of you in Nigeria, I am told that everyone is sick and symptoms are almost the same everywhere......And from the symptoms i was told, its the same thing here...Its wither IJGB gave una there or they carried it back here....lol
I opened telegram account to check up something and boom the first person to find me and message me is my former Blog worker Eesah!...LOL..his photo looks nice, he is now a father of kids and now a herbal doctor oh...He dressed with long cap sef fear catch me...When did Eesah learn herbal medicine?LOL...I didnt know say nah babalawo dey work for me then..LOL
Well, i thank God for his progress.
Enjoy the day...I am trying to make fried ram peppered sauce for this people oh.....the basmati rice will be easy, nah the sauce fit get as e be.......
Hugs to you alll
*******************THE NATURAL FISH EATER AND THE CULTURESHOCK
Was ëätïng my fish hëäd when I remembered the first time I äté a complete fish the African way in front of my French in-läwś…
I nearly caused an international íncident.
Back home, ëäting fish isn’t about “tasting” it.
We experience it. We honor it.
We extract every blessing inside it.
By the time we’re done, that fish has fulfilled its destiny completely.
Some of us; like me,
wey no like to leave evidence for crímë scene chew and swalló the bónës.
The first time my husband saw me ëát fish
while we were still dating, I could tell from his face;
“Should I continue this relationship?”
He just sat there, watching me
like I was performing súrgëry.
This girl can wake up the morning and ëàt me up leaving no evidence!
But love is love;he adjusted quickly.
embraced culture… with a smile.
Fast forward to France.
First official family dinner with my in-läwś.
The table was perfectly set.
Napkins folded .
I was ready.
Fïsh was served.
Everybody ate calmly, gently separating the flèśh, leaving the bönës neatly on the side… like museum exhibits.
Me? African babe. Original version. No software update.
I focused.
I choop the fish completely. Slowly. Respectfully. Thoroughly.
I reached the center,
handled the isi Azu with confidence.
Nothing wastèd . Every nutrient appreciated.
I didn’t even raise my fäcë
because I already knew they were watching
And I wasn’t letting anyone discourage me.
When I finally looked up…
Silence.
My in-làwś were staring like they’d just witnessed a live cultural documentary.
My husband laughed to break the tension.
My mother-in-läw , sweet woman, said:
“This is the right way to ëät fish.”
I smiled and said,
“Yes. This is where the real goodness is.”
Then came the chïcken.
I finished mine, looked around, and saw everyone had pushed their bönës to one corner.
I cracked mine and they clutched their chest
E be them like film that day
I maintain my steeze; while at it.
lol but now they are used to it
So; the same way I experienced culture shöćks in France is the same way foreigners see our culture;
it can feel surprising at first.
And that’s perfectly okay.
We learn to coexist, to love, and to respect each other… without losing ourselves
All of us just dey shöćk each other for this abroadlans las everybody go dey alright
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THE PAIN NO ONE TALKS ABOUT
Some pain isn’t loud.
It doesn’t shout.
It doesn’t leave bruises.
It hides in your chest,
tightening with every smile you force,
every “I’m fine” you lie,
every step you take pretending it’s nothing.
It’s the ache of being invisible
to the people who should have seen you first.
The loneliness of giving everything,
and receiving silence in return.
The grief of hoping someone will stay,
only to watch them leave without a word.
It’s the kind of pain that follows you into the night,
into the bathroom mirror,
into the conversations you’ll never have.
It sits on your shoulders like a stone,
pressing, heavy, relentless.
Some of us have learned to hide it behind laughter,
behind small achievements,
behind words that mask the bleeding inside.
But here’s the truth no one dares to say:
you can carry it quietly,
you can smile anyway,
you can survive.
Because survival doesn’t mean the pain disappears.
It only means you’ve become strong enough
to walk forward
with it still inside.
And maybe one day, someone will see it.
Or maybe not.
And you’ll keep going anyway.
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Hmmmm!!!
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Make una check and if your man now does at least three of these things then you know say wahala dey...
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WEIRD FACTS
----Washing your hands makes you more optimistic.
---The true mark of maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back.
---Recipe for relaxation: exhale completely, inhale for four seconds, hold your breath for seven seconds and exhale for eight seconds.
---Dead people fart right after dying.
-----85% of people have experienced a dream so real that they were not sure if it happened in real life or not.
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Good afternoon everyone
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DeleteHi beautiful Esther 😍
DeleteChai, Stella that cold must be something else ☔
Pls avoid the rain ehn, sorry 🤗
Any good thing someone did for you, there is a receipt for it. Please don't mess up bvs
DeleteGood afternoon everyone 💞
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DeleteOne lady told me that she has fancy quality plates in her kitchen drawer she hasn't used for like years.
ReplyDeleteIt's only when she has special guests.
Then what she does these days is,whenever she cooks,she will bring those tagged 'special' plates and use them to dish her food.
She was like ' I don know when I go die, make I begin dey use them".
Some of you have sets of plates ,pots in your kitchen, even clothes and shoes in your closets that you haven't used for years.
Why do you keep them?? Abi you want to leave them as inheritance..
I don't keep anything for later. As I dey grow older, I don see say nothing dey this life. Enjoy as you go, na e I dey now.
DeleteShe get time for iranu...
DeleteNothing special for house.. everything must be used
Lol 😁 all my small small properties I use them to my satisfaction.
DeleteLife is for the living 🍹
I don’t keep anything anymore, Im using or wearing the next day i buy anything new…lemme enjoy it by myself, no time
DeleteLife is unpredictable. Everyday is special and make every moment count.
DeleteWho says her way is the best? So if I die today, my regret would be that I didn’t eat with special plates? Plates? There is nothing wrong with having special plates to serve guests with. I can assure you that when one’s dead, plates are the least of their problems.
DeleteAnon 17:15
DeleteSo your guests are more special than you?
That sounds more like low self esteem.
18:07 good question
DeleteThank you for this,in my undies box,I have a lot of things I haven't worn.(Pants,nighties,singlets,bumshourts.) Will start wearing them.. my mom has a cabinet full of unused breakables, including cutlery.
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ReplyDeleteHi NN dearie 🤗
DeleteThat my French lady, very funny babe @we extract every blessing inside it 🤣🤣
That's how I eat my fish & chicken too o 🍗
Hola Nne 💕
DeleteE get one guy wey they do skirt for Instagram, the guy name na zobo, Omo that guy funny reach teeth.
ReplyDeleteHim skirt with Toyin Abraham, funny die.
The guy tell Toyin say her daughter Tope give hm, infection and to treat himself nah 100k, so him come if Toyin or the husband or Tope go help balance the money cos na 15k him get for treatment. LOL.
Skit**
DeleteZobo skits are funny with max audacity 😂 but he should change his shorts already abeg, the thing don over worn out and looks dirty
DeleteWith his Red torn Shorts.
DeleteHe is always holding his TJ..
Funny Guy
His red shorts ehnn...very funny. He changed them for his valentine skit sha. Me sef shock.
DeleteI didn't find the ones he did with Ucha Nanna funny
DeleteToday sun did not come to play
ReplyDeleteThe sun be hotting up 🥵
DeleteSDK Pele 🤗🤗🤗 Im sending you plenty sun + heat
The sun is dramatic today..haba..
ReplyDeleteThanking God for the gift of life
Fact 2.
ReplyDeleteMaturity is Hard then.
Easy Weather Today.
Hello Everyone!!
Marie baby 🤗
DeleteThe sun is up now o, I just drank 2 glasses of water at once now 😊
Hello Darlingg,
DeleteMy End is Cool
Here harmattan came back.
DeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY 🌹❤️
ReplyDeleteBeautiful afternoon B.M
DeleteSome things no longer interest me anymore.
ReplyDelete#Loss Passion.
©️ TEEJAY
Teejay, anything wey no dey give you money no suppose stress you o. The only passion we are permitted to have this year is passion to make money.
DeleteLike what and what?? ,
DeleteIt must be something that you have seen or have experienced before.maybe the diminishing return has set in.
You will enjoy it when you try new things.
Smiles @DOGgedity.
Delete@ Anon 16:25,
They were things that once got my interest and liking. You're actually right.
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The weather is so cold and dull..like it wants to rain but wouldn't
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone ☺️
I laughed at the chicken story. When I got to SDK part , 😂😂😂😂 she was trying to help your bone ministry nah 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteWhat a thoughtful woman
- Dead people fart right after dying.
ReplyDeleteNot only fart. The dead can pass excreta and urine. This happens because the muscles or sphincters around the bladder and bowels relax at death. Pretty weird shit.
Not only reason person..
DeleteWhen my broiler died, the idiot still dey make noise..🤦🤦🤦
Lol 😊 Pinky, you say wetin?
DeleteDogg, my Dad was eating when he passed on 😰 This weird fact just brought up unpleasant memories.
Sdk you are so funny eh! Babalawo biti wa? Good afternoon everybody.
ReplyDeleteWhat an interesting read @fish eater post. I am team don't leave evidence in crime scene, especially with original titus fish.
ReplyDeleteSummer still far oh Stella, sorry about the rain.
A church recently raised ₦960,000 for a member who was very sick. His hospital bill was ₦210,000 an amount he and his family could not afford.
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During a service, the pastor announced; “Our brother is hospitalized and needs ₦210,000. Let us support him.”
Members began donating generously and by the end of the service, the total reached ₦960,000.
Afterwards, the pastor counted the money, gave ₦210,000 to the sick man’s brother to pay the hospital, and deposited the remaining ₦750,000 into the church account.
The problem started when the family became upset.
They argued that all the money should have gone to their brother, not just the hospital bill, because people donated out of compassion to help him with recovery, medicines and daily needs.
The pastor, however, said he only requested ₦210,000 and once that target was met, any extra money belonged to the church.
The way this situation is now..
What is your take on this?
Who do you think is right in this situation? copied
Has the thief been arrested? I mean the so called pastor.
DeleteEven if he'll take something aside, why not give the ailing man 500k? He just used the man's situation to raise money for a new phone. Onye oshi.
The money should be given to them because, it was raised for them not in the name of the church. That pastor is greedy
DeletePastor should have added something to the #210k. After they pay the bills, they'll be more expenses to cover 💰
DeleteMoreso, I think the remaining money should be reserved...in case something of that sort comes up again.
Na wa for that pastor o.
DeleteHe's supposed to give the man all the money raised after all it was donated for hiim. Pulpit bandits everywhere.
Honestly, if we’re being technical about it, the pastor could argue he was right. He mentioned ₦210,000. That was the stated need. Once that amount was met, you could say the objective had been achieved.
DeleteBut church isn’t a courtroom. It’s a community. It runs on trust, conscience and moral responsibility — and in this case, that part wasn’t clearly addressed.
Depositing ₦750,000 into the church account without first explaining what would happen to any surplus doesn’t sit well. Even if the intention was an administrative order, it leaves room for doubt. If the plan from the beginning was that anything above ₦210,000 would go back to the church, that should have been said before people started giving. Clarity beforehand would have protected everyone. Silence after the fact only breeds suspicion.
So emotionally and relationally, I understand the family’s reaction. Their frustration makes sense. In a faith setting, perception carries just as much weight as policy. The moment people begin to question how compassion is being handled, confidence starts to thin out. And once trust is shaken, the damage goes beyond money.
When members gave, they weren’t doing maths in their heads. They were responding to a cry for help. And naturally, if almost five times the needed amount is raised for someone who couldn’t even afford basic treatment, most people would assume that extra support would help with recovery — medication, food, transport, follow-up care, and the days he can’t work. Compassion doesn’t usually stop at the exact hospital bill.
This could still be resolved with humility and openness. A simple, honest conversation can restore confidence. But if it’s ignored or handled defensively, it becomes the kind of story people remember for the wrong reasons.
Even with GoFundme if the amount raised is above the target then it all goes to the person. A church should be operating on stronger ethics than those in the world. The entire amount raised on the cause should have been turned over, let them give back to the church.
DeleteAs for me the pastor can take 10% as agent, since Na business man him be.
DeleteThe pastor suppose to deposit the remaining money to the man account, because the family will still need money for drugs and food items
DeleteThat pastor is not a good person. He should have given the family 500k and use the remaining for other members in need of charity.
DeleteThat pastor is a complete thief, the money was raised for the man, as in people contributed money solely because of the man, why did he have to divert the remaining one into church account?
DeleteHaba, the Pastor no try. All the monies should be given to the sick man.
DeleteIts all his and should be given back to him. Silly pastor
DeleteI don’t like fish or chicken bones, flesh does it for me, A wonderful afternoon to you all
ReplyDeleteWho likes bone?
DeleteNothing dey there.
You’re probably a steak person
DeleteGood afternoon guys, how are y'all doing?
ReplyDeleteWE MOVE!!
Good afternoon beautiful People 🥰
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon house
ReplyDeleteLol see me practicing 3rd weird fact 😁
ReplyDeleteDe@d people even pee or sheet after dying sef..
Lol funny @ fish eater
Keni nice day 👌
Good afternoon everyone,it's IIHN
ReplyDeleteSign out post on point 📌
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Stella and fellow bvs.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥰 😍
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ReplyDeleteThe kalo kalo wey these agbada men and women dey use nija people head play ...
It is disheartening to witness how politicians often act with impunity, taking the people for granted. The recent case involving the former governor of Kaduna State, suddenly picked up by the EFCC, raises serious questions. Where was this urgency all along? To some of us such actions are not about justice, but about political rivalry—targeting those not aligned with the government of the day.
This pattern erodes public trust and perpetuates a cycle of selective accountability. However, the day of reckoning draws near. Sooner or later, the truth will catch up, and those who think they can hide or flee the country will face the consequences of their actions. True justice may be delayed, but it cannot be denied forever.
We deserve better—leadership that serves with integrity, not vengeance or opportunism.
Good day people....✌️
What are you even saying? Didn't El rufai rule Kaduna state with the same impunity? I don't give a fuq about any of these demons. Na turn by turn. Who im turn reach, make e enjoy.
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ReplyDeleteThis Weather Is Very Good For Zobo Selling oooo🏃🏃
Wellcome Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo
Hello iya Boys
I leave the gills when I eat fish, everything else disappears and when it's hard boned like croaker,the bone stays. There's now Caviar-like meat nugget. Yuck!🥵🤢
ReplyDeleteChicken and Mango...I don't eat outside, resorted to takeaways to avoid prying eyes. Na abolo skin I dey give mango.
France...they eat meat that has blood and munch Camembert 🥴🤯😲
They should chill please.
Weird...Yeahhh🙆I wash my hands probably 5 times in a day because I'm always munching something as little as pecan or cashew nuts.
Now I understand the optimism. Ahaa.😂😚
Eesah...he's been at it consistently for years. You forgot he's finer, fairer too.
Lock your media files, in fact your entire gallery when logging into telegram. Hmmm 🤐😶
Sign out.. definitely. Too many besties mehnn.I stick around the right circle. Many decades on.👌💋💞
Chau!
Them say make we nor drink cold water today.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon blog fam
ReplyDeleteCulture shock, I'll do same ooo🤣,
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon, everyone.
Good afternoon beautiful people
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon all, I met one guy, Oghenekevwe, the guy is so fine. Hmmm
ReplyDeleteWow!
DeleteLol 😆
DeleteHmmmmm
DeleteShooter dearie 😂 I mean it. Guy so foineee. I'm just shy jare, cos I've got his deets.
DeleteHello beautiful 🌹🌹 people 😍
ReplyDeleteHow una dey?
Good afternoon guys. Enjoy the rest of your day.
ReplyDeleteI love eating Bones as well. Good afternoon my people
ReplyDeleteI pity your teeth.
DeleteI remember BV Eesah
ReplyDeleteHe has been doing his native medicine thing for years now. I remember he changed his blog ID to herbal doctor at one point.. Consistency does it.
Seriously?
DeleteGood afternoon blogfam. Sign out post so on point. God please fight my battles because if i do it myself i will get wounded.
ReplyDeleteGood evening SDK and BVs. Very sunny Tuesday. I am very happy for Eesah. Progressive is the watchword.
ReplyDeleteThis is how I eat my chicken. I separate the skin and keep aside, eat the meat and the bones and lastly eat the flesh. For fish, I eat the titus including the bones, but not the gills.
ReplyDelete@THE PAIN NO ONE TALKS ABOUT
ReplyDeleteSpoke to me in ways I cannot fully explain.
Thank You, Lord.
It feels good to be back.
Jewelu say she no know say na Babalawo dey work for her 🤣🤣
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ReplyDeleteGood evening everyone 🥳🥂
Una good evening oo
ReplyDeleteMy day was a successful one
What about yours?
I'm only here to close doors and windows,wait mk i peep fess😅
Fish/chicken bone eater 😂😂😂. I eat like you too but indoors.
ReplyDeleteI wouldnt have found it funny with chicken bone thing. I eat tasty chicken bone not bones that have cooked for tasteless chicken broth. those should go in the bin. I wouldnt crack chicken bones and fishhead at a dinner either. I hate dinners.
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