MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

Monday Hailings.....

Monday Memo

Good day to you!!!...It is such a beautiful day......

Shout out to my alleged special rich BVs that i always only greet on this Blog...

Una dey crase!

I go leave Journalist work wey i dey do come turn to Musa for gate begin salute una up and down to massage una ego?

If na you dey complain, you no serious oh...come out of anon and tell me t mention you instead going bitter on it........

Blog wey sweet like this nah you wan turn to National assembly complex with your nonsense...

if you are not part of the building process, dont try to tear it down cos if you succeed you will break, tear,collapse and diminish in the process........

That said, I have supported a lot of hustle on this blog so it would not be out of place to ask that you also support mine by sending news you feel would move here to me to post or send me a link to cull...You can do it as yourself or as anon....Thank you.

Ehen , those people wey dey cuss me say i too dey wear cheap wigs, I am about to debut two cheaps wigs i ordered from temu ooooo...One is according to temu original human hair for 50 euros and the other is so beautiful and long and curly for 17euros......

I cant wait to receive them and go live on Instagram for ya all to see...yipeeeeeeee!..

LOL

Have a great day!

BV Sandy , BV Isaacbaba has collected his 10k..I hope you are aware?E be like u forget. 🤣🤣🤣

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Testimony of Thanksgiving From the comment section

I Lost my job 5 years ago. 

Out of the blues, someone asked me to send my CV to her sometime in January this year. I did and I forgot about it. 

A month later, the same person asked me to add one or two details to the CV and resend to her. I did that and to my greatest surprise, I got a text message later telling me to come for documentation. 

I got my appointment letter without any interview or application. I travelled with my appointment letter for my documentation and concluded everything smoothly without stress.
Before I got this job, I remember I made a prayer one day that I want a job without interview or application. This was after listening to a testimony of a lady that said someone forwarded her CV to a company without her knowledge and they called her and offered her a big job without application or interview.

 I keyed in to the testimony and asked God to do the same for me. 

I had totally forgotten about this but God reminded me after I got my job that this my job is the result of that prayer.
I'm encouraging someone now that GOD hears and answers prayers. 

Don't give up on Him. For that situation/prayer request, HE WILL COME THROUGH FOR YOU.
I've been believing God for the fruit of the womb. When I remember my job testimony, my heart is strengthened. I mean God gave me a well paying job on a platter of gold, just like that. So is it children that He will not give me? Ko possible naa.
I cannot thank God enough. Please join me and thank this great GOD for me. And also thank Him for your own expectations cos HE can never fail you.
GOD CAN BE TRUSTED.

WOW I am so excited for you!
Thank you Jesus, as you have answered her prayer , please answer mine...Only you know what i asked you for.... AMEN!!!


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WEIRD FACTS

---That dizzy feeling you get when you stand up too fast is called "postural hypotension".

---Listening to music for at least 5-10 minutes a day strengthens the mind, making it easier to deal with emotional stress.

---A study found that before finding the man of her dreams, the average woman will experience four disaster dates and two heartbreaks.

---People tend to confuse being mean with being honest.

--- In Switzerland, it is illegal to own just one guinea pig. They get lonely, so you must own at least two.

--Ketchup didn’t catch on as a popular condiment until the late 19th century. Prior to that point, it was sold as a cure for indigestion.
--The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts while the stupid ones are full of confidence.

-- Coffee has been found to protect liver damage (cirrhosis) by up to 65%.
-- Laughing for 15 minutes has the same health benefits as getting two extra hours of sleep.

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

I teach on a platform as a Tutor and one time I met a man from Israel who wanted to take my classes. We started on a good note and he signed up. 

However, one thing I noticed is that, no matter how nice I tried to be to him, it was never reciprocated.
Note that he's 63, and has older children. One time, he had an eye surgery and I made it my responsibility to continue to check on him till he recovered.
Another time, he had to travel to visit his daughter in Rome because she was going through a divorce. I allowed him to reschedule his classes by making my availability visible. He was my only student at a time and misused the opportunity by continually rescheduling, thereby disrupting my calendar.

His behavior that began to show that he's not ready to show kindness the way I have extended such grace was when I had given him an assignment and he ended up sXxualizing me in the entirety. Another time, we had a lesson and he never stopped talking about how he thinks that a black woman's body is the best. 

I'd feel embarrassed but struggle to caution him because of the strict rules of the platform.
He would disrespectfully refer to me as "You Africans", whenever he's trying to describe my race.
A day had come when I turned on my generator to give him a lesson and he ended up complaining that the lesson wasn't good. He had given me a good rating that he ended up deleting. I felt pain. This would have helped me attract more students.
One day, he had a two hours lesson with thirty minutes break between both, but I got confused because of his rescheduling attitude and the short time frame, so I showed up late. To my shock, he had furiously logged out of the classroom and cancelled his subscription.
Without further Ado, I realized what mistake had happened and immediately messaged him with an apology. Few hours later, He activated the subscription again but left me with a disrespectful message with the most disrespectful tone on how he wants to be treated henceforth. He gave me strict instructions. You know, how in a typical classroom, the teacher is in control and directs the lessons, he wanted the role reversed.
At that point, something sparked in me. He doesn't deserve a good tutor like me. First, I was training him for a measly price of c$3 per hour which was a whole disservice to me because native speakers of that language earned a hundred times better, but because I was African, I couldn't go beyond a certain rate, so it was more like teaching him for free.

 Second,he enjoyed sXxualising me and berating my race. 

Third, he refused to show understanding about my reality, and cut me some slack.That I am from the part of the world where electricity was luxury and I had to make do with an alternative power source, generator.
So I quietly apologized to him once again but told him I will not be teaching him again, and encouraged him to find another tutor because I no longer consider us a perfect match.
I prefer learners who are respectful, empathetic and long term. That incident taught me that I am not obliged to accept disrespect, either or not, I'm under any rules bidding men. My worth as a teacher will be decided by me and I can filter who to accept or reject, whether they are respectful or otherwise.

Disgusting thing.....Thats how on from that same side told me outrightly that black women would be sweet and asked me ''Right?''......Right what? sweet how??

He was a friend of a friend so i reported him immediately to our mutual friend and she cautioned him and cut him off with plenty apologies and told me something that sounds now like she said the truth...she said that a lot of people from that side are fixated on gbenshing black women...She says they also treat women with a lot of disrespect....


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TEACHER LIFE ALERT

Darling Miss C ....

Your folder is empty and I am hoping you get to see this and send....If not I will ring you up soon...

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MEN SHOULD MAKE A CONSCIOUS EFFORT TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT WOMAN

If you choose a working woman, you must accept that she cannot manage the home full-time. If you choose a housewife who handles every domestic detail, you must accept that she does not bring home a paycheck.

If you choose a humble woman you must accept that she may "turn the other cheek" letting things slide for the sake of peace and dignity even when you’d prefer she fight back.

When you are with a brave woman you must accept her independence. She will take risks and chart her own path, often without waiting for your permission or lead.

Those who choose a beautiful woman must accept that she will naturally attract attention. If you cannot control your jealousy, you cannot handle her beauty.

If you are with a strong woman, realize she may appear gentle, but she is solid as steel. Her indomitable spirit will often defy social stereotypes and your own expectations.
If you choose a sensitive or insecure woman, you must step up to make her feel safe or be extra transparent. It can be daunting and stressful for the unprepared.If you don't, her anxieties will manifest as "ghost stories" haunting the relationship with questions of who, what, and where.

The Reality Check
No woman is perfect, nor does she need to be. Every woman has a unique architecture of values and personality that makes her special. Just like every man.
So Before you let physical attraction or ego settle the matter, sit back and ask yourself:
Which of her strengths is a blessing?
Which is a threat to your ego and social expectations?
Which can you truly accommodate?
Decide if you have the depth to be in the boat with her, not just the version of her you imagined.
"She frustrates me" or "she is stubborn" is not an excuse for maltreatment. 

What you find attractive because it rubs your ego the right way is exactly what you will have to live with when the "newness" fades.
Like a fine perfume, there is the top note, you feel when you first spray it, the heart note as it settles, and the base note that stays
Be sure you can handle every stage. Be man enough to handle her evolution.... or be a man enough to know this is not for you,and gently let her go, so the right man can have her.

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SAME ACT; DIFFERENT INTERPRETATIONS

If a man is eating, and the wife packs the plates afterwards, the man sees it as respect.
When a woman is eating, and the husband packs the plates, the woman calls it love.
The same act, but different interpretations. Respect is important to a man, while love is a major factor for a woman.
A man's reaction to a wife that disrespects is always distance. He may be present in the marriage, but he is emotionally unavailable.
A woman does not like a husband who doesn't show love. She's not emotionally connected in the marriage.
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Ask DIRECT Questions About Your Partner's SXxual Expectations 

You have both prayed but ask real questions that needs sincere answers before yu decide you want to get married ooooooooo.
Even if he or she claims to be a "virgin". You see this oral and every other sXxual pleasure aside what you have ever heard or seen in your life.

Ask o. Especially in this age and time

An intact hymen is not totally innocence, people are seeing and doing w1ld stuffs
We don too see and hear a lot even some church people.
That he never had carnal knowledge of any woman in his life does not mean you shouldn't know if there are other things o.

Self pleasure nko? Know his or her mentality about it.
You should know these things not because you want to judge them but assumption can be costly and dangerous.

You need to be informed so that you can both find a common ground.
If that sXxual expectations you think is sin is their own everyday fantasy.
If that's what he or she use their free period to feed their eyes when alone.
Their cases might even be so serious that would need professional help like psychologist that's if they are willing.
All these little things Christians overlook in courtship is causing more issues these days and it's alarming.
There's a clear difference between sXxual purity and intact hymen. And last last, the level of our exposures are really different.
Make reality wey you no fit adjust to no go hit you for inside marriage.
Mind you, I am not telling you to do testing o. I said ask important questions.

Don't use all the time to eat shawarma. 50% word is enough for the wise sha....HAHAHAHAAHHAHA

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