I salute............Terrific Thursday!!!
THURSDAY MEMO
Nothing broken, nothing missing so na yourself you dey do....Only trolls and online haters will understand what this means..
How una dey?I am doing great oooooooooh.
Enjoy your day abeg, I wan enter Sun now now....
I never see that my fake cousin comment since, abi e don repent?lol
Hugs to everyone....
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SDK VERSUS BV DANTE WILL NOT HAPPEN
I see the mocking comments towards me in Wednesday Spontaneous post comment section and I am confused.....Did i announce that Dante and i fell out?I didnt like his comment and i reacted to it...I no get time to carry anybody for mind..I dont know anyone here personally and it ends here....
I noted that Dante has been agressive towards me since his book launch and i wonder why Is it cos i brought down the post announcing the book? You requested for it to be brought down and i did just that, so where is all the negative energy coming from?And the anons celebrating saying i enabled him...Enalbed what ?He is free to air his comments as long as it does not cross the line...
Those of you celebrating what i dont know can continue doing so..............I love drama!!!
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EVERY PARENT NEEDS TO READ THIS
I said to my Daughter.... "If you reach 18 and you are not solving problems, then you are becoming a FOOL."
I might have sounded harsh abi? Maybe.
But was it necessary? ABSOLUTELY.
Currently, most Wealthy parents are busy destroying their children by loving them too much.
You know there's a special kind of poverty that only affects rich people's children. We are not talking about financial poverty but COMPETENCE POVERTY.
I see it everywhere:
You see a 20-year-olds who can't negotiate a price at the market.
25-year-olds who panic when their phone screen cracks because "Dad always handles these things."
30-year-olds who have never had to solve anything or do simple house chores because Mummy and Daddy are still solving their problems.
And we call this "love."
We call this "taking care of our children."
IT'S NOT LOVE. IT'S SABOTAGE.
In case you dont know.... business is NOTHING but problem-solving.
Marriage is problem-solving.
Leadership is problem-solving.
LIFE is problem-solving.
And if you raise a child who's never solved a problem by age 20..... you have raised an adult baby who will collapse at the first real challenge.
I know some wealthy parents don't want to hear this, but when you solve every problem for your child, you are not protecting them, you are crippling them.
I keep telling my daughter that.....
At 18, you should be solving problems I don't even know exist.
Problems your friends have.
Problems in your school.
Problems in our neighborhood.
Problems you see on social media.
Small problems. Big problems. ANY problems.
Because every problem you solve develops a muscle in your brain.
That kind of muscle is called COMPETENCE.
And by the time you are 25, that muscle should be so strong that NO PROBLEM scares you.
But if I solve all your problems until you are 20... By the time you are 25, you will be weak and scared of challenges and would be dependent on others.
You will be unable to survive without someone holding your hand, and I would have failed you as a father.
This is because you can't inherit problem-solving skills. You can only develop them.
And if you spent 20 years avoiding problems while Daddy solved them... then you are finished when Daddy is gone.
It's my prayer that we raise a generation of PROBLEM-SOLVERS, not PROBLEM-AVOIDERS
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I might have sounded harsh abi? Maybe.
But was it necessary? ABSOLUTELY.
Currently, most Wealthy parents are busy destroying their children by loving them too much.
You know there's a special kind of poverty that only affects rich people's children. We are not talking about financial poverty but COMPETENCE POVERTY.
I see it everywhere:
You see a 20-year-olds who can't negotiate a price at the market.
25-year-olds who panic when their phone screen cracks because "Dad always handles these things."
30-year-olds who have never had to solve anything or do simple house chores because Mummy and Daddy are still solving their problems.
And we call this "love."
We call this "taking care of our children."
IT'S NOT LOVE. IT'S SABOTAGE.
In case you dont know.... business is NOTHING but problem-solving.
Marriage is problem-solving.
Leadership is problem-solving.
LIFE is problem-solving.
And if you raise a child who's never solved a problem by age 20..... you have raised an adult baby who will collapse at the first real challenge.
I know some wealthy parents don't want to hear this, but when you solve every problem for your child, you are not protecting them, you are crippling them.
I keep telling my daughter that.....
At 18, you should be solving problems I don't even know exist.
Problems your friends have.
Problems in your school.
Problems in our neighborhood.
Problems you see on social media.
Small problems. Big problems. ANY problems.
Because every problem you solve develops a muscle in your brain.
That kind of muscle is called COMPETENCE.
And by the time you are 25, that muscle should be so strong that NO PROBLEM scares you.
But if I solve all your problems until you are 20... By the time you are 25, you will be weak and scared of challenges and would be dependent on others.
You will be unable to survive without someone holding your hand, and I would have failed you as a father.
This is because you can't inherit problem-solving skills. You can only develop them.
And if you spent 20 years avoiding problems while Daddy solved them... then you are finished when Daddy is gone.
It's my prayer that we raise a generation of PROBLEM-SOLVERS, not PROBLEM-AVOIDERS
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IF YOU ARE MOVING FROM NAIJA TO THE US; PLEASE READ THIS
If you’re moving from Nigeria to the USA and you’re confused about which city matches your personality, here’s the easiest comparison you’ll read today
New York City = Lagos
Fast life. Pressure. Endless movement. Multicultural madness. Everybody is chasing something bigger
Washington DC = Abuja
Clean, organised, political energy, planned roads, and everybody looking important
Atlanta = Owerri
Young people everywhere. Party life. Hustle. Business. Vibes. A city that moves confidently on its own
Houston = Warri
Raw hustle energy Oil money vibes, hard workers everywhere, and everybody trying to secure the bag.
Chicago = Ibadan
Strong identity. Deep culture. Big influence without making too much noise.
Los Angeles = Port Harcourt
Soft life mixed with expensive living Entertainment, luxury, traffic, and everybody trying to “make it”.
Dallas = Benin City
Strong Naija community. Family-oriented. Cultures mix easily. Settling feels softer.
Minneapolis = Kaduna
Quietly important. Practical people. Calm lifestyle. Mostly work and real life.
Seattle = Enugu
Creative crowd. Calm energy. Tech people everywhere. Expensive but peaceful
Philadelphia = Ilorin
Underrated. Affordable compared to bigger cities. Strong community feel.
Miami = Aba
Trade, enjoyment, nightlife, money movement, and hustlers everywhere
Denver = Jos
Peaceful. Calm weather vibes. Quietly solid and underrated.
Detroit = Onitsha
Busy movement. Hustle spirit. People grinding hard every day
Beverly Hills = Nnewi
Money. Luxury. Rich people avoiding stress
Boston = Nsukka
Book people everywhere Academic pressure and intellectual vibes.
San Francisco = Ile-Ife
Prestige. Tech brains. Old influence. Intellectual bragging rights
Las Vegas = Festac
Everybody came to enjoy life No explanation needed.
Baltimore = Mushin
If you know, you know.
Charlotte = Akure
Balanced lifestyle. Quietly underrated. Young professionals love it.
New Orleans = Calabar
Culture, festivals, food, music, enjoyment
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WEIRD FACTS
-----The rush of euphoria after a long run comes from the same chemical compounds found in cannabis
----- One year on Uranus is roughly 84 years on Earth
----- If you drank 42 cups of coffee in one sitting, the caffeine overdose would kill you.
----- Coca Cola kills insects.
---- Don’t broadcast every high and low of your life. Just live. Don’t try to convince the world you have a life.
-----The rush of euphoria after a long run comes from the same chemical compounds found in cannabis
----- One year on Uranus is roughly 84 years on Earth
----- If you drank 42 cups of coffee in one sitting, the caffeine overdose would kill you.
----- Coca Cola kills insects.
---- Don’t broadcast every high and low of your life. Just live. Don’t try to convince the world you have a life.
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Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to Crystal Palace for winning the Conference League last night.
ReplyDeleteAs the world is preparing for the biggest club competition finals on Saturday.
I say make I use this opportunity Remember Stella her promise to me, when Dortmund qualify to play the Champions League final against Madrid in 2024.
Stella, you promised me a complete Set of Dortmund jersey, with Face cap and mofula, say anytime you they come Nigeria you go get them for me, I say make I remind you, incase you don forget.π.
You still fit convert shaaa.
LOL ππ
Welcome IHN. Being a while.
ReplyDeleteYesterday's Eid was so Rammicious....as I dey eat fried meat.... them dey serve me pepper soup cow meat...... same time suya for my front..............
ReplyDeleteone of my church member " passerby " saw me where I dey, dey eat... she said isn't that brother Jeremiah? she just dey shout my name brother Jeremiah.... !!!! Brother Jeremiah!!!!!! Mo ya look away...... I dnt talk while eating.......... as I say make I look left small I saw our Assistant pastor..... sitting beside me& he greeted Me “As-salΔmu ΚΏalaykum Jamilu : i replied ,he was even answering the name ismilah.....with a straight face..... he said dnt worry all of us na one God we get,!!!!
Ephesians 4:6
May God accept all our sacrifices...
Greetings
Lol πππ
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I have one sweet amebo that just 'appened ryt nau.
ReplyDeleteTo type long story na the problem. Even thinking of typing sef, my hand go dey pain me.
Una wey sabi type, I raise my portable backside for you.
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Soooo, una don see meat? Me I never smell am. As just to SMELL I never see. I will go out later and buy suaya for myself, let me console myself. If I was in Abuja now, na so meat go dey rush me for office and fresh dates.πππππ kai!!!!
Sign out post on point π
ReplyDeleteGreetings to the esteemed readers of SDK blog π«Ά
Hi Best Baby
DeleteHello beautiful people π
ReplyDeleteHope your day is going well π
Sleepy π΄ stressed...
Who wants Sallah meat??
Send a DM if you are in Ibadan South region
Have a wonderful day
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteI'm making my hair now. My classmates and I will be hanging out/clubbing tomorrow ππππ.
I've eaten enough sallah ram for this yearπππ
I love this weather. It's just so cool. ☺️
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteToday's sun can roast o
ReplyDeleteI agree/love that comparison of usa to Nigeria, again ayra star has said something similar to it too..