Hailings.......
TUESDAY MEMO
I salute!!!
How is everyone doing? I just read something that tells us to forgive but never forget...Very funny, whats the use of forgiving if we cannot forget the harm done to us?I want someone to explain this nicely to me cos we have too many bitter people in the comment section that do not want to forgive or forget whatever crimes I and a few others here committed to them.
I love to fight and I love drama, so I also need to understand how to navigate these people...…
I had a good laugh yesterday concerning my temu wigs that I ordered for but I will only react when it arrives....I have seen temu wigs on people here and they look unbelievably good and that is what encouraged me...Fortunately for me,i can return the wig within a 90 day period so I am not shaking or I can gift it out......
See eh, the truth is that i can never use plenty money to buy wig ooooo. my mind no go gree me at all...I am not that classy to want classy wigs, instead i will face caps........................WAIT A MINUTE!!!.........................I saw braid face caps on temu, e be like i go buy am
Enjoy the rest of your day....................
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MEMO TO MISS H.....
Enjoy the rest of your day....................
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Vanishing from the comment section is not the solution to your lies......I woke up this morning with prayers from the other nurse in the UK and i remembered you and your deceit........I feel bad that you think you won..
I watched the fake hypo drinking video again and i have decided that on woman crush Wednesday I will post your photo to see if someone knows you and can give me all the details i need....I will not post your whatsapp number but i want to get to the bottom of this so that i can find closure......
You think say you wise? I be street!
I am so shocked that it is you i am doing this memo to............like still shocked!!!
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MEMO TO BV BACI AND EKA JOY
You both should not let evil BVs under anon jam una head...Please better ignore each other than dropping shades and having them clap for you...both of you are beautiful strong women that should not fight at all...dont let them win....
Baci you are so talented with words...dont fight with it, its a gift......
shame to headjammers...
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MEMO TO BLOG LITTLE SIS ....
I dont like to put our business out here and you know it but you don dump me? you want make those wey wan overtake you laugh me? please oh my enemies and friends help me beg my little sis.......I hope say una sabi the little sis i mean?abi two dey?LMAO!!!
Me and drama eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh
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CHEATING IN MARRIAGE
Cheating in marriage didn’t start today, It has been happening long before our time. But these days, the rate at which married women are found dead in hotel rooms or at a lover’s house is becoming alarming. Some leave home to meet a partner on the side, get declared missing, and later are found in tragic circumstances. It’s heart breaking.
I don’t rush to judge, because in some cases, the situation at home pushes them there. Some men are not truly husbands, they are just “horsebands”: present in name, but adding no real value to their wives or children. A real husband provides support, financially, emotionally, and physically. But what do we see?
The truth is, not every marriage is a safe or supportive place. Some women are married, yet they live like single mothers, handling school fees, feeding the family, and carrying responsibilities alone while the man they call husband is absent physically, emotionally, and financially. He comes and goes as he pleases, offers little or nothing, yet still demands respect, attention, and intimacy.
He contributes nothing but still demands everything.
In such situations, it’s not hard to see why some women seek support, companionship, or comfort elsewhere. Loneliness, neglect, and frustration can push anyone to make poor decisions. Sadly, some good women are changed by the way they are treated in marriage.
That said, cheating is not the solution.
If you find yourself in this kind of marriage, don’t risk your life or dignity sneaking around , You cannot eat your cake and have it. Instead of covering one wrong with another, choose a better path, leave. Walk away with your self-respect. Move on with your life.
You deserve peace, support, and genuine love. And sooner or later, you may find someone who truly values you and your children.
You deserve a partner who shows up, who cares, and who stands by you, not one who disappears and leaves you to struggle alone.
Don’t let a bad marriage destroy you, or cost you your life.
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WEIRD FACTS
--French fries are from Belgium not France.
CHEATING IN MARRIAGE
Cheating in marriage didn’t start today, It has been happening long before our time. But these days, the rate at which married women are found dead in hotel rooms or at a lover’s house is becoming alarming. Some leave home to meet a partner on the side, get declared missing, and later are found in tragic circumstances. It’s heart breaking.
I don’t rush to judge, because in some cases, the situation at home pushes them there. Some men are not truly husbands, they are just “horsebands”: present in name, but adding no real value to their wives or children. A real husband provides support, financially, emotionally, and physically. But what do we see?
The truth is, not every marriage is a safe or supportive place. Some women are married, yet they live like single mothers, handling school fees, feeding the family, and carrying responsibilities alone while the man they call husband is absent physically, emotionally, and financially. He comes and goes as he pleases, offers little or nothing, yet still demands respect, attention, and intimacy.
He contributes nothing but still demands everything.
In such situations, it’s not hard to see why some women seek support, companionship, or comfort elsewhere. Loneliness, neglect, and frustration can push anyone to make poor decisions. Sadly, some good women are changed by the way they are treated in marriage.
That said, cheating is not the solution.
If you find yourself in this kind of marriage, don’t risk your life or dignity sneaking around , You cannot eat your cake and have it. Instead of covering one wrong with another, choose a better path, leave. Walk away with your self-respect. Move on with your life.
You deserve peace, support, and genuine love. And sooner or later, you may find someone who truly values you and your children.
You deserve a partner who shows up, who cares, and who stands by you, not one who disappears and leaves you to struggle alone.
Don’t let a bad marriage destroy you, or cost you your life.
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Some people are in very good marriages but still cheat ooooooooooooo...E dey their blood or them inherit am
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A MEMO FOR MEN TO READ AND LEARN
A young woman identified has reportedly been sentenced to six years in prison after refusing to marry a businessman who had sponsored her education since 2015.
According to reports, the two started dating in 2015.
By 2018, they allegedly made an agreement that they would marry, and based on that understanding, the man reportedly took responsibility for her education and general welfare.
For eleven years, evidence reportedly showed that the man supported her financially until she graduated.
But in 2026, when the businessman proposed marriage, the woman reportedly refused.
The matter was taken to Rukungiri District Court, where evidence was presented about years of financial support and prior agreements.
The court reportedly found her guilty and sentenced her to six years imprisonment.
WARNING TO MEN:
Stop investing in women who are not your wives.
Stop paying school fees for girlfriends.
Stop funding lifestyles you don’t legally belong to.
Stop behaving like a father to a woman who is only dating you.
You are not her father.
Taking a girlfriend to school, paying her rent, and carrying her responsibilities like a parent — then expecting loyalty later — is a gamble many men are losing.
Too many men are learning this lesson the hard way.
If she is not your wife, maintain boundaries.
If there is no legal commitment, protect your finances.
And if you must help, do it without expecting marriage as payment.
Stop that nonsense.
Be wise with your resources.
Invest where there is commitment — not assumptions.
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A MEMO FOR MEN TO READ AND LEARN
A young woman identified has reportedly been sentenced to six years in prison after refusing to marry a businessman who had sponsored her education since 2015.
According to reports, the two started dating in 2015.
By 2018, they allegedly made an agreement that they would marry, and based on that understanding, the man reportedly took responsibility for her education and general welfare.
For eleven years, evidence reportedly showed that the man supported her financially until she graduated.
But in 2026, when the businessman proposed marriage, the woman reportedly refused.
The matter was taken to Rukungiri District Court, where evidence was presented about years of financial support and prior agreements.
The court reportedly found her guilty and sentenced her to six years imprisonment.
WARNING TO MEN:
Stop investing in women who are not your wives.
Stop paying school fees for girlfriends.
Stop funding lifestyles you don’t legally belong to.
Stop behaving like a father to a woman who is only dating you.
You are not her father.
Taking a girlfriend to school, paying her rent, and carrying her responsibilities like a parent — then expecting loyalty later — is a gamble many men are losing.
Too many men are learning this lesson the hard way.
If she is not your wife, maintain boundaries.
If there is no legal commitment, protect your finances.
And if you must help, do it without expecting marriage as payment.
Stop that nonsense.
Be wise with your resources.
Invest where there is commitment — not assumptions.
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Share your favourite Bible verse....
Isaiah 41:10
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand"
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WEIRD FACTS
--French fries are from Belgium not France.
--Scientists have found that there is such a thing as an "emotional hangover," or a brain state that persists long after an emotional event.
--Mindfulness meditation adds more gray matter to the part of your brain that makes decisions, which can help you stop procrastinating.
--Michael Jackson requested his wine be served in Diet Coke cans during flights, because he didn't want his kids to see him drinking alcohol.
--Mindfulness meditation adds more gray matter to the part of your brain that makes decisions, which can help you stop procrastinating.
--Michael Jackson requested his wine be served in Diet Coke cans during flights, because he didn't want his kids to see him drinking alcohol.
---Talking to yourself helps make your brain more efficient
--Loud sounds can hijack our attention and interfere with the brain’s visual processing, which is why you turn the music down when looking for an address or parking spot
---Sleep deprivation causes the brain to remember events incorrectly
--Loud sounds can hijack our attention and interfere with the brain’s visual processing, which is why you turn the music down when looking for an address or parking spot
---Sleep deprivation causes the brain to remember events incorrectly
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon sis. Good afternoon fam.
DeleteHeadjammers ntoor 👅 unu
Little Sis kindly forgive and forget your Big Sis 🙏🏻 .
@weird facts, I talk to myself a lot. Sometimes when I'm alone in the room, I share myself into 3 and hold a conversation with me, myself and I and it's always fun lol 😂. Crazy
MJ🕴🏻with sense
Sending you good vibes to brighten your afternoon.. good afternoon House..
ReplyDeleteRight back at ya! 😘
DeleteWhat actually happened to the almighty PDP???
ReplyDeleteLike play,like play it's fading away.
Sometimes it's not your prayer or mom's, But a Stranger that said "God Bless You"..
ReplyDeleteBe Nice to People ❤️✌️
Word,
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
Sign out is dope
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeletePost the Frauds Number make dem draaaag am! or post the video on your insta handle! The "19" year old girl too small to do this nonsense, she dey crase!.
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi...
Post the Frauds Number make dem draaaag am! or post the video on your insta handle! The "19" year old girl too small to do this nonsense, she dey crase!.
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi...
Stella, you see that Temu wig, start preparing to return it oh!
ReplyDeleteI bought from SHEIN before. Read reviews and even saw pictures from supposed buyers oh.
I come but two. One Afro and one straight. The Afro is still in my house and I wear it on my head when I want to do funny contents 😂.
The straight one, I gave it to someone that didn’t mind managing it, as per ‘half a loaf is better than buns na’.
So just dey prepare to return it but abeg try show us when e come so we can have a good laugh 😂
Content wig 😂😂 Atleast its serving a purpose.😂
DeleteThere a kind of hurt/betrayal that you'd forgive, but NEVER let them get close to you.
ReplyDeleteOn another note, The Miniature Wife (series) looked interesting, but naaaa, not feeling it again.
Let me go and remove it from my "to watch list"
Delete😘
Don't mind Eka Joy.
ReplyDeleteShe feels to better than everyone here that's why she talks down on people here.
For her mind everybody here is for giveaway or to lick ass.
I used to admire her love story here,but ever since she came to attack my comment unprovoked by calling herself ' onye oshi',balawo,thief.
That was when I knew that she has nut and is irremediable.
So true @ today's footnote 💯
ReplyDelete@ SDK... JEWELUCHUKWUOZI FOR A REASON 📌
Good afternoon lovelies 😊
Enjoy the rest of your day.
How can I dump my happy place ... I'd call you this evening when we are back from you know where 😂😂😂💗❤️
ReplyDeleteGoodafternoon
ReplyDeleteWellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss
Hello iya Boys
Life can flip in a second.
ReplyDeleteOne phone call. One diagnosis. One unexpected moment and everything changes.
Nothing is guaranteed.
Not time. Not health. Not the people you love.
So love louder. Appreciate deeper.
Because what feels normal today could be the very thing you pray for tomorrow.
©️ TEEJAY
Teejay, please put copied. You know this is not your original quote. I had this on my wall last week. SDK please intervene
DeleteMy favourite bible verse is Exodus 14 vs 14 The Lord shall fight for me and I shall hold my peace.
ReplyDeleteStella can't you see the kind of bully Miss H has been receiving here for going to weeks now and you want her back to the comment section to do what??
ReplyDeleteIf you were the person won't you dodge before they kill you.
She sent her apology note to you, what else do you want her to do?
If you feel that you cannot forgive her, then tell her to refund all your money.
Na help you dey help her,she no thief you.
Listen,juged, before you act.
Good afternoon blogfams ♥️🤎💓💜🩷🖤💗🧡🤍
ReplyDeleteHello everyone....
ReplyDeleteMabasi! STELLA. You are so sweet 😘
ReplyDeleteIf I no appreciate your acknowledgement... wetin I gain?
Thank you very much ma. I am humbled.
IHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
"Forgive but never forget"
To my understanding it means if someone betrays your trust or did something bad to you, you forgive them so you can move on with your peacefully without grudges and resentment, but you should not ignore what they did in the first place so you don't put yourself in the same situation again.
Stella, I don't think baci is the problem here. eka Joy is. All she does is troll baci who oftentimes ignores and still type nice words to eka joy under her comments until baci lost it last week and gave her a piece of her mind. This is my own observation.
ReplyDeleteNa waoo so upon all the people wey dem don catch for this blog as scammers, some people still dey shook head dey device means to scam. Miss H na wa for you ooo, una get mind no be small.
ReplyDeleteStella and BVs I want to understand, what do you want Miss H to do??
ReplyDeleteStella doesn't want to let go.
Miss H said that she couldn't capture her mum on the camera and the mom doesn't want to talk to Stella .
So why is this matter getting long??
What happened to our electricity power supply? For over one month now we have not had power supply that lasts over an hour. My bill at the shop is 15thousand naira per month for just electricity. When they came with this new bill towards end of last year, they promised us at least 15hours power supply per day but now they have abandoned us. Pole is functioning well so I don't understand why they had to be stingy with the supply.
ReplyDeleteAs at January last year my bill was 1k then in February, they increased it to 3k then towards the end of the year it skyrocketed to 15k. Who does that? Wickedness of the highest order.
Baci is only standing for m her rights pls, everybody go Dey alright las las
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
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