STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
My marriage is not up to a year but I have had sxx only once..... I was pregnant when we got married and my baby is 7 months old npw but no gbenshing since i got pregnant:........
I love gbenshing but Oga keeps complaining of money ...He says that his mind is not there because he is always thinking of money.
I am tired at this point and I really need advice...
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You be remodelled vargin? If you have gbenshed only once, how come you love gbenshing.....Nawah!
Please just take it easy with him, he is broke and thinking of how to make money and whats on your mind is gbenshing? Na wah oh.......Please just remove it totally from your mind and face the baby.....
Instead of outrightly demanding for gbenshing you can spend time massaging each others tensed spots...discuss the way forward with finances for the sake of your kid....Hope you are not another stay at home wife Cos he may be scared of you falling pregnant again and he has to carry the load alone.
Meanwhile, please send in your chronicles and stop using your stories to interview with the posters stories..it prevents them from getting advice...Thanks
Please send in your chroncles...folder ti empty
Maybe he doesn’t find u attractive anymore..truth is u can’t force him; codedly buy sex toy ; watch porn to satisfy urself… don’t mention sex again to him
ReplyDeleteHonestly, marriage is overrated, cos wtf
how are you helping the man with all the bills/ hope you are not a sit at home mom and expect manner to fall from heaven. You both should sit down and talk things out, he should not hide under the umbrella of no money instead of him to perform his marital duties. If he is afraid of you birthing another child, there are better ways to handle that and not totally stop his wife from enjoying what she should enjoy.
ReplyDeleteI hope when you get used to staying without him, he will not come out one day to cry that you are cheating on him/ he should find away to balance every thing. You too find something doing to support the family, do nit just birth babies anyhow before you increase the stress. Make sure you speak with him because this is a very serious matter to handle well in marriage, if he is not giving you good vibe you can involve family members and those who came for your hand in marriage. Please never you go outside to get what your husband should provide for you.
Some men don’t like zx
ReplyDeleteWhen it’s time for another baby he will do again
Sit him down and have a food conversation
Even Bible says don’t deny each other so what’s this nonsense he’s doing
This is why I laugh when people cite sexual compatibility test as an excuse to engage in fornication. The man that was obviously doing it well before me marriage ( she says she like s,x and was pregnant before marriage which means she was enjoying what she was testing before marriage) has changed suddenly . Imagine having s,x once in her marriage
ReplyDeleteIf you married with pregnancy and your baby is seven months now yet your marriage is not up to a year then that means you were almost due when you guys wedded. does that mean he married you because of the pregnancy? His excuse is watery and doesn't seem to love you. .
ReplyDeleteHave you added weight beyond normal? Your hygiene, is it top notch? Do you still keep yourself attractive? Or you've let yourself go? Not too many men fancy nearing lactating women.
ReplyDelete7 months is too long for any man to stay without sex. If your husband hasn't touched you in months, that is by no means an ideal situation. As much as financial pressures exist, relief of sexual tension is still a worthwhile pursuit for most men.
Sit your husband down and pointedly tell him how his actions are affecting you. He should draw up a schedule to accommodate your needs. If he doesn't find you attractive anymore, he should be bold enough to say it. On your part, make sure you aren't deficient in any of the issues I mentioned in the first paragraph.