Read my memo down there and let me be........I am now savage and i no send anybody again..I am no longer the Stella who used to be me..know that vanish from this place!...It is enough....gtfoh and go to Instablog and expect an apology from them...I wont go in the gutter with anyone anymore, i dont need here....Know this and respect yourselves!
And those of you thinking trolling me is the key, your papa no born you well....bastards.....!!!
Addressing the Sandra and Black Slimmy Brouhaha
Strong word...I hope that i am not the Bloody swine being referred to????? Because excuse me, what for????
Enjoy a good read and dont keep quiet when anyone is trolling you...
Eka Joy please take it easy when you see a comment replying you.if the person didnt inuslt you, why insult them when they have a different opinion..I saw the person you insulted and i deleted...Take it easy, life is not so hard..my opinion is mine and yours is yours, we must not agree!!!
Hugs to you all.
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
Exactly fifty eight days to my birthday, I got a word of knowledge from someone close to me about ingratitude on my part and I was shocked because I felt I have always been grateful for every thing God is doing in my life.
She said something that's struck a chord. She said that I was so focused on the pursuit of more, that it was preventing me from appreciating my “now”.
She said I was always looking out for what’s next and I was not staying and sitting in the moment to appreciate everything God was doing for me.
For example “ If I have always wanted a particular thing and I get it, fine I am grateful for it, but the next minute I am already complaining to God about something else”. So I am constantly caught up in a cycle of anxiety instead of being content and joyous.
I prayed about what she said and Psalm 103 kept coming to my mind, Psalm 103:1-2 Praise the Lord, my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits—
Psalm 103:3-5 who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.
So I made up my mind each day to take time out from that moment till my birthday to just reflect on how much God has blessed me and just thank him, doing this has made me speechless so many times before God because I started to think back from my earliest memories has a child I have lost count of how he has saved me from harm growing up.
I remembered a time in university, I was around the school park in the night and I was on the phone with my mom gisting her about a group of cultist in the school and their activities. It was later I learnt that the said group of cultist were behind were I was calling and had vowed to deal with me.
One of them was my classmate and knew me personally, he pleaded on my behalf and paid them off to leave me alone. In his words when he told me years later, he said he told them that I was a mummy’s girl who was just silly. That’s how clearly they heard my conversation.
And God saved me without me knowing at all.
It is less than a week to my birthday and I am filled with joy and a deeper sense of gratitude because truly I am alive today by his mercies. His grace covers me.
I dont believe all those people ho always say God sent them or that they heard a word...They work with familiar spirits to penetrate someone...God can talk to you directly!
If you are around me for a week or we stay in communication, i can tell you things that will shock you too.....
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
My daughter's school asked every pupil to bring ₦1,000 for Higher Education exams and a broom. Those who didn't bring them were flogged by the vice principal. Unfortunately, my daughter was among them, even though we didn't owe any school fees.
When she got home and told us, we were very furious. My husband immediately called the school owner, who apologized and instructed the vice principal to drop the matter completely. Even after that, my husband still transferred the ₦1,000 to the vice principal that same day.
To my surprise, the following day, the vice principal still flogged my daughter. She told him her parents had already paid, but instead of calling to confirm the payment, he ignored and beat her anyway. This left me enraged.
The next day, my husband went to the school. The vice principal admitted he hadn't seen the transfer alert before flogging her and apologized for his mistake.
My husband believes we should accept the apology and move on, but I feel cheated. How can you collect my money and still flog my child? In fact, the issue isn't the ₦1,000 anymore. It's the fact that my daughter was punished without proper verification, despite the school owner's instruction that the matter should be dropped. Do you think I'm overreacting?
Your husband should have gone back to that school and flogged him back...Nonsense...Why beat peoples children? You cannot try that abroad at all.....You cannot traumatise a child and make dem hate school and you get away with it...I hated maths so much cos the teacher always flogged us, always flogged us
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Addressing the Sandra and Black Slimmy Brouhaha
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
I am only coming forward with this explanation because if you think you defeated me by causing drama here, you are actually feeding me. I am black, and I do not crack. I will never crack because of jealousy or hatred. If you are commenting on this blog, you are in my space. This is my space.
Now, concerning the Sandra and Black Slimmy issue. I did not even know they had contacted each other outside the blog until the entire brouhaha started. And who else would have revealed that in the comment section under anonymous except the person himself or the person he told? Probably the one he married, because more than one name was mentioned, and it looked like he had contact with them. I am not saying he slept with them.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
When Sandra stopped commenting, someone kept coming to SP and In House News almost every other day to say she could not handle the fact that Black Slimmy slept with her and married someone else, and that she would not be commenting again. I kept deleting these comments. Something was posted that made me reach out to Sandra’s inbox. I emailed her to ask why she was no longer in the comment section, and she replied almost immediately that she had been ill. I wished her well and left it at that.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
When I made the comment concerning Baci, I meant to say that this is how they will contact her and then come into the comment section to claim they slept with her, just like they did with Sandra. I did not say Sandra was slept with. I said they would do to Baci what they did to Sandra: either sleep with her and come to talk, or not sleep with her and still come to claim they did. Sandra, who had stopped commenting and was supposedly sick, suddenly showed up to defend herself. That was a good thing, so whoever had been posting and alleging nonsense would see the curses.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
What is all this talk about her stopping comments because of what I said? She had already stopped commenting. Even when I asked her why she was no longer commenting, her excuse felt weak, but I still announced it so that the person alleging things would see it, while I kept deleting their comments.
Someone else whom I know dated Black Slimmy was also dragged, and I kept deleting that as well. The intention was to drag all the women he had something with, to shame them for not marrying him. Who could be doing that? Do not ask me.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
I have connected so many people on this blog who are dating now and some already married. Not one of them will come forward to accuse me of anything. I do not poke my nose into anything unless you tell me.
Black Slimmy and Phoenix were both in my WhatsApp group, and they met at the several hangouts I organise four times every year. I knew some months after they started dating, but I did not ask her because at that time I was recovering from surgery. I felt she would tell me when she was ready, because what is dating him that she would not tell me? I know things about her and used to advise her. I had introduced her to several people in the past, but those connections did not go beyond the talking stage, and I encouraged her not to give up.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
What am I supposed to be jealous of? I am happily married and living well. Jealousy does not live around me. I am a wicked person when I need to be, and I pay back an eye for an eye when necessary. But I am also someone who will do everything possible to make life easier for anyone who comes my way. No hatred.
So all this rubbish talk of me being envious is too funny. Nonsense.
This entire drama of Phoenix turning against me must have come from Black Slimmy, who worked for me when he lost his job and approached me for help. I took pity on him even though he could not deliver, and I kept paying him. Sometimes I would send him angry mails out of frustration because of the things he would send. Spellings and everything would go south. Sometimes he would reply telling me not to insult him, and I would apologise and explain my outburst, and we would move past it.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
We fell out because just when I was preparing to go into surgery on a weekend, he woke up on a Sunday and said he had found a physical job. I told him that is not how it is done. You give notice, even if it is one week. You do not collect the last salary and run. I was really upset and ignored him and his calls.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
He became angry and wanted to leave the group. The person he had a conversation with asked him to stay, and he did, but with malice and wicked intentions to pay me back. When he started dating her, he quietly recruited her into his revenge scheme. I noticed it but crossed my fingers, hoping she would remember our friendship and not let it happen. I was wrong.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
You all know that someone always talks where you think there is secrecy. I knew all their plans, but I kept quiet. I sent Nonye a message once, asking her why she did not check up on me after surgery, which was unlike her. She said it was work. I smiled and left it.
I only let them know that I knew of their plans that same week, and that was when they reacted. Their plan was to wed and shock me with a clapback, but I beat them to it. What is your concern if you are marrying someone who is fighting with me? Note also that Nonye was trolling me on his behalf on the blog while they were dating. HISSSSSSSSSSSSSS
When Nonye found out I knew, she messaged me, and I told her my mind privately. She told me she would inform me when to announce it on the group. In my last message, I told her that since she did not inform me, she had no right to demand anything of me. (Like why will you now want me to announce anything?) The next thing I heard was that I said they should not expect any money from me and all sorts of nonsense. I said demand OF, not demand FROM. A big difference. 
Black Slimmy had dated someone else in the WhatsApp group, and it ended very messy. I only found out when I was told he was dating Nonye, and I said, “Oh my God, not again.” I was very worried that she should not be hurt again. That was why I said I wanted to be told when anyone was dating, because I know how many of my BVs have dated serially on the blog, and I am always told when things go south and expected to correct it...I know how many people MM dated and propsed marriage to and gbenshed them well well...it was all on me and stressed me emotionally when it went down and after then i became alert to blog gbenshings and relationships......HISSSSSSSSSSS
So my wanting to know was from a good place. But when someone has an evil mind, they will always twist things. Those supporting them, did you know when she was on the phone with me constantly? Did you know when I gave her gifts? Did she tell you she confided in me? So why is she running me down and you are believing it? If I was a bad person, why was she in my corner for so long and only turned when she started dating that serial lover boy?HISSSSSSSSSS
I left out a lot of information that is not good to put out regarding why I was against her not telling me, but it is all good. It ended well. So who still comes to the blog to laugh at me that they got married and curse me out? Can they not move on? Is it because I delete some comments? I give fire for fire. If you will not leave me alone, I will not leave you alone. HISSSSSSSSSS
This is my last statement on this. If you do not let me move on from this, I will continue to drag both of you. Leave me alone. Losing Nonye hurt me because she was like a younger sister but I am over it. I have moved on. Please leave me.
HISSSSSSSSSSSS
Messy nonsense..Loook at what I am even talking about!
Both of you should be glad you ever got to know me::i am priceless and i know my worth, na una lose.......
I am only coming forward with this explanation because if you think you defeated me by causing drama here, you are actually feeding me. I am black, and I do not crack. I will never crack because of jealousy or hatred. If you are commenting on this blog, you are in my space. This is my space.
Now, concerning the Sandra and Black Slimmy issue. I did not even know they had contacted each other outside the blog until the entire brouhaha started. And who else would have revealed that in the comment section under anonymous except the person himself or the person he told? Probably the one he married, because more than one name was mentioned, and it looked like he had contact with them. I am not saying he slept with them.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
When Sandra stopped commenting, someone kept coming to SP and In House News almost every other day to say she could not handle the fact that Black Slimmy slept with her and married someone else, and that she would not be commenting again. I kept deleting these comments. Something was posted that made me reach out to Sandra’s inbox. I emailed her to ask why she was no longer in the comment section, and she replied almost immediately that she had been ill. I wished her well and left it at that.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
When I made the comment concerning Baci, I meant to say that this is how they will contact her and then come into the comment section to claim they slept with her, just like they did with Sandra. I did not say Sandra was slept with. I said they would do to Baci what they did to Sandra: either sleep with her and come to talk, or not sleep with her and still come to claim they did. Sandra, who had stopped commenting and was supposedly sick, suddenly showed up to defend herself. That was a good thing, so whoever had been posting and alleging nonsense would see the curses.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
What is all this talk about her stopping comments because of what I said? She had already stopped commenting. Even when I asked her why she was no longer commenting, her excuse felt weak, but I still announced it so that the person alleging things would see it, while I kept deleting their comments.
Someone else whom I know dated Black Slimmy was also dragged, and I kept deleting that as well. The intention was to drag all the women he had something with, to shame them for not marrying him. Who could be doing that? Do not ask me.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
I have connected so many people on this blog who are dating now and some already married. Not one of them will come forward to accuse me of anything. I do not poke my nose into anything unless you tell me.
Black Slimmy and Phoenix were both in my WhatsApp group, and they met at the several hangouts I organise four times every year. I knew some months after they started dating, but I did not ask her because at that time I was recovering from surgery. I felt she would tell me when she was ready, because what is dating him that she would not tell me? I know things about her and used to advise her. I had introduced her to several people in the past, but those connections did not go beyond the talking stage, and I encouraged her not to give up.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
What am I supposed to be jealous of? I am happily married and living well. Jealousy does not live around me. I am a wicked person when I need to be, and I pay back an eye for an eye when necessary. But I am also someone who will do everything possible to make life easier for anyone who comes my way. No hatred.
So all this rubbish talk of me being envious is too funny. Nonsense.
This entire drama of Phoenix turning against me must have come from Black Slimmy, who worked for me when he lost his job and approached me for help. I took pity on him even though he could not deliver, and I kept paying him. Sometimes I would send him angry mails out of frustration because of the things he would send. Spellings and everything would go south. Sometimes he would reply telling me not to insult him, and I would apologise and explain my outburst, and we would move past it.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
We fell out because just when I was preparing to go into surgery on a weekend, he woke up on a Sunday and said he had found a physical job. I told him that is not how it is done. You give notice, even if it is one week. You do not collect the last salary and run. I was really upset and ignored him and his calls.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
He became angry and wanted to leave the group. The person he had a conversation with asked him to stay, and he did, but with malice and wicked intentions to pay me back. When he started dating her, he quietly recruited her into his revenge scheme. I noticed it but crossed my fingers, hoping she would remember our friendship and not let it happen. I was wrong.
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
You all know that someone always talks where you think there is secrecy. I knew all their plans, but I kept quiet. I sent Nonye a message once, asking her why she did not check up on me after surgery, which was unlike her. She said it was work. I smiled and left it.
I only let them know that I knew of their plans that same week, and that was when they reacted. Their plan was to wed and shock me with a clapback, but I beat them to it. What is your concern if you are marrying someone who is fighting with me? Note also that Nonye was trolling me on his behalf on the blog while they were dating. HISSSSSSSSSSSSSS
When Nonye found out I knew, she messaged me, and I told her my mind privately. She told me she would inform me when to announce it on the group. In my last message, I told her that since she did not inform me, she had no right to demand anything of me. (Like why will you now want me to announce anything?) The next thing I heard was that I said they should not expect any money from me and all sorts of nonsense. I said demand OF, not demand FROM. A big difference.
Next thing, Nonye went on the group and everyone and started insulting me. Everyone tried to stop her, telling her it was wrong. She then insulted everyone, saying they were jealous, and even called a BV “dingbat” for no reason. It was a tough time, and I told them I would not remove them, but they should exit the group, which they both did. HISSSSSSSSSSSSS
When I was doing my December giveaway shortly before all this started, Nonye messaged me that she had sent me twelve thousand naira to add to the giveaway. I told her I did not see anything and wondered why she would send me twelve thousand. It later dawned on me that she was trying to gaslight me into saying something I will not mention here. HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
When I was doing my December giveaway shortly before all this started, Nonye messaged me that she had sent me twelve thousand naira to add to the giveaway. I told her I did not see anything and wondered why she would send me twelve thousand. It later dawned on me that she was trying to gaslight me into saying something I will not mention here. HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Black Slimmy had dated someone else in the WhatsApp group, and it ended very messy. I only found out when I was told he was dating Nonye, and I said, “Oh my God, not again.” I was very worried that she should not be hurt again. That was why I said I wanted to be told when anyone was dating, because I know how many of my BVs have dated serially on the blog, and I am always told when things go south and expected to correct it...I know how many people MM dated and propsed marriage to and gbenshed them well well...it was all on me and stressed me emotionally when it went down and after then i became alert to blog gbenshings and relationships......HISSSSSSSSSSS
So my wanting to know was from a good place. But when someone has an evil mind, they will always twist things. Those supporting them, did you know when she was on the phone with me constantly? Did you know when I gave her gifts? Did she tell you she confided in me? So why is she running me down and you are believing it? If I was a bad person, why was she in my corner for so long and only turned when she started dating that serial lover boy?HISSSSSSSSSS
I left out a lot of information that is not good to put out regarding why I was against her not telling me, but it is all good. It ended well. So who still comes to the blog to laugh at me that they got married and curse me out? Can they not move on? Is it because I delete some comments? I give fire for fire. If you will not leave me alone, I will not leave you alone. HISSSSSSSSSS
This is my last statement on this. If you do not let me move on from this, I will continue to drag both of you. Leave me alone. Losing Nonye hurt me because she was like a younger sister but I am over it. I have moved on. Please leave me.
HISSSSSSSSSSSS
Messy nonsense..Loook at what I am even talking about!
Both of you should be glad you ever got to know me::i am priceless and i know my worth, na una lose.......
HISSSSSSSSSSSSS
I wish the blackky never worked for me, i wish Nonye joined my whatsapp group and i wish that she never got into my skin , i wish none of this ever happened and i wish i never met them...This is closure for me.....If you drag me and i look back, I will not become salt, i will become pepper!!!
I wish the blackky never worked for me, i wish Nonye joined my whatsapp group and i wish that she never got into my skin , i wish none of this ever happened and i wish i never met them...This is closure for me.....If you drag me and i look back, I will not become salt, i will become pepper!!!
HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
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SIT DOWN AND READ THIS CAREFULLY...
And let me offend some people today.
Stop calling constant humiliation LOVE.
Stop calling repeated betrayal LOVE.
Stop calling emotional abandonment LOVE.
Stop calling suffering LOVE.
Some women are carrying a relationship on their heads like a trophy while carrying depression in their hearts like a burden.
Every day, they cry, Every day, they complain.
Every day, they pray, Every day, they are disappointed, Yet they keep calling it LOVE.
My dear, at what point do we become honest with ourselves? A man embarrasses you repeatedly, you forgive. He cheats, you forgive. He lies, you forgive. He neglects you, you forgive and I am not saying forgiveness is wrong but he keeps choosing everybody else’s happiness over your peace and you keep forgiving. Then society applauds you for being a “good woman”.
No. A woman should not have to lose her self-respect to prove she is a good woman.
Some of you are attending prayer meetings for men who are busy planning their next betrayal.
You are fasting but He is flirting.
You are crying before God but He is entertaining side chicks.
You are asking God to change him but He is asking his friends to cover for him. And somehow you have convinced yourself that this is what love looks like.
No My Dear, Love should not constantly make you feel unwanted. Love should not make you compete for attention. Love should not make you beg for basic respect and Love should not make you feel like a visitor in your own relationship.
Some women have become so addicted to hope that they no longer recognize reality.
The man has shown you who he is repeatedly.
But you keep falling in love with the version of him that only exists in your imagination.
Listen carefully, Not every relationship is a blessing. Not every marriage is worth saving.
Not every man deserves another chance.
And not every woman is called to spend her life carrying a grown man on her prayer list while he is busy destroying her peace.
One day you will realize that the greatest act of SELF-LOVE is not finding a man.
It is refusing to LOSE yourself trying to keep the wrong one.
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And My GOAT, CR7 is the Oldest Player (41) Ever to score in the World Cup knockout stage.
ReplyDeleteOmo after Ronaldo retire from this Portugal team, my hand, my leg, my spirit and soul is off from this Portugal team, those guys almost gave me BP last night, my mind was hanging at my junction.
We fought through Principalities and Powers last night.
Just imagine. So this thing you write is more importantly to you than what Stella posted up there
DeleteWellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss ooooo ❤️❤️
ReplyDeleteI Greetlicious Everybody ooooo
Hello iya Boys
Chika baby, I greet you too 😘
DeleteStella, it's good you poured out your mind and moved on. You have really tried for many bvs here 🤗🙏
One thing I know is that God rewards everyone according to their deeds 🙏
Muah 💋
DeleteDear lord......
ReplyDeleteNo let make them use food catch me 🙏...... na beg I dey beg......
Honestly, A lot of is going on here...
DeleteWTF!!
King how are you my baby bobo?
DeleteSometimes you need to be serious man. After reading all that up there this is all you could come up with? Grow up
DeleteWhich of the food ooo king?😂 knackadimous 😂
DeleteAnon, don't mind him. Always dropping dry jokes. He doesn't act sensible.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHowz the go dey go
What a freaky fabulous Friday
Stay strong and positive
Stella, there was no insult in that comment and you know it! Saying the truth is now insult? If you make excuses for a pedo, you are simply a pedo or capable of being one!!!
ReplyDeleteOnly you will defend a cheat, only you will defend a child molester and still have the audacity to come under my comment for calling out people supporting a convicted child molester!!!!
WTF!!!
Nna, a lot of people are so full of shit and it smells!!!
Tufiakwa!
Only in Nigeria 🤮.
Lord, thank you for taking me out of there and ensuring I’m not raising my girls in anywhere remotely close to people with such mindset!
Eka Joy abeg leave me!!!
DeleteUr body too dey hot......that comment would have started another war and you know it, u for ignore!!!
I don't know that living abroad is an achievement.
DeleteEka, I'm happy for you, that you have left the country and you are not raising your kids here.
DeleteBut sincerely, the place we raise kids doesn't have more influence on our child than peer groups and what they learn in their immediate and remote environment.
We all should just pray to God to help us train our child properly coupled with our own effort.
MC pinky, thankfully, where I am, there’s no one celebrating, rewarding and defending sex offenders.
DeleteSo, yea, I thank God for that!
Eka Joy you are living in abroad yet nothing has changed about you here.
DeleteAlways sounding bitter.
Yes, I’m bitter! It will still not make me support and defend a pedo
DeleteAnon yes o living in abroad is an achievement, a very big one.
DeleteEka I have screenshot your comment to baba ijesha wife. If they slam you lawsuit. You will feel alright better you hide your head in that your small abroad where the white sees black as second hand items. I travelled alot to your base and I have family. So no big deal where you are there my friend.
Delete16:31 if they don’t slam me that lawsuit, it’s God that will punish u
DeleteMadam Eka, you see am dey molest the child? What evidence do you have to prove he molested a child? Anakogheri.
DeleteOsundi, you have poverty mentality. So living abroad is an achievement? Nonsense! I live in an upscale province in Canada, purely cos of my family cos my wife chose to live and work here. I am just a responsible husband and father being with them, 6mths in a year.I will rather live in Nigeria where I am a 1st class citizen than living abroad where I am a 2nd class citizen. When you live abroad, you now know it is an illusion, after a while - boring and lonely. You only work, live on credit, pay taxes and bills , then sleep, routinely. I am retired, so just enjoying myself and making snide comments on SDK blog daily, to kill boredom. Life is Good.
Delete@Anon1950, oil dey your head. The abroad talks be boring as hell.
DeleteAbeg who go help me to travel abroad? I wan travel o, God rem me.
DeleteBTW, some of the things that happens here, looks so childish.
What happened to being matured mentality?
Take it easy all. Stella be ignoring some certain things here.
Sandra, congrats, enjoy your home and return back to commenting.
Stella if I were you, stop all these your WhatsApp group things and focus on Jesus. This is distraction and God frowns at it.
Jesus fix it
Good afternoon my people, how are y'all doing?
ReplyDeleteIs been raining since last night over here ooo, no hustle for today😔.
God has been faithful.
WE MOVE!!
Sometimes comment on what is concerning the post and stop all this your everyday announcement
DeleteIt has been*
DeleteKeep moving now
DeleteDetailed write up
ReplyDeleteLet's all just move on past this.
Years from now, all these won't matter.
Na anons dey fan this fire pass and I don't know what they stand to gain. Look into the mirror and ask yourself.
Even you in your mind knows that Stella is very difficult to work with but we understand why you're doing this
DeleteThank God for today's weather!
ReplyDeletePortugal, what was that this morning? Make Una take time o.
So nothing concern you with the memo or other things that Stella post up there abi
DeleteAnon, are you the blog police? What is the color of your problem, with BVs ignoring the wahala?
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteIt's been rain and rain..no sun today
Just like you said @stella...best you've moved on from this drama...so peace can be restored and everyone moves going forward 🙏
There's absolutely nothing in this life,all the dramas,drags,bite biting and name callings isn't necessary..let's live and allow others to live
Peace to every troubled hearts and homes
Wow!!!
ReplyDeleteThis Memo is alot but why do some people treat those who stood for them in a loving and kind way in an unfair manner when things go south.its okay to not want to be in the person's corner again, trolling and saying bad things about them isnt nice.
Mhen alot is really happening here and i am so scared of having any form of relationship outside here with both men and women.
It is well.
Goodafternoon everyone.
Don't be scared. Just do any relationship with your head and not your heart.
DeleteMe too
DeleteI am so not interested in any kind of contact with anyone here. It never ends well
Never trying that nonsense of making contact with someone outside the blog o. I have had encounters with blog people but it was only via my mail inbox.
DeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. Happy weekend. 💃💃💃
ReplyDeleteSuch a long read! Amebo is work .
ReplyDeleteSandra's drama with you was clearly a misunderstanding. I hope she understands your explanation and not hold grudges.
as for Nonye, I wish her a blissful marriage because omo, if that marriage no sweet, it would be a very shameful something.
So, everybody cease fire abeg. E don do!
Yes o, bear no grudge. Let there be peace ✌️
DeleteMy colleague will have cash and will be looking for whom to give it to and collect transfer. Two days later, he will be looking for PoS to collect 5k. I will be like, why you no keep that cash wey you get and he will be like, I go chop am finish. Na to just dey collect am small small like this, na him better. Na wa oo.
ReplyDeleteThat person lacks monetary discipline..
DeleteI can keep 200k with me for months without taking out any dime from it
Most people are sitting on this table.
DeleteHow about normalise the use of kobo for naira? Instead of saying dime! When it is not dollars. Sometimes I wonder if some Nigerians with the habit of saying dime actually know what they are talking about? Realise; kobo,penny, dime e.t.c all mean lowest of denominations of currencies. I am not sure an American would be saying kobo when referring to his dollars- irrespective of the weakness / strength
DeleteWhat?@ Pinky? 200k for months? You really do have monetary discipline.👍 I no fit
Delete@Simply Divine.. 😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteU no fit buy am for market, na character or habit wey don master me. This is why some friends prefer to keep money with me.
Presently, I've someone who has over 120k with me since 4months and it's in cash. Infact, the last time I check, the money don get dust for where I keep am. He needs it for something by September 1st
It's possible @MCPinky. I am not a spendthrift and can save very well too. My late dad even said something about me knowing how to manage whilst I was an undergrad. Haha
DeleteOooooh dear Me,
ReplyDeleteA lot was really going on and down beyond the blog. I can really Inagine how bewn stabbed in the back by someone you took in and trusted. A very painful hing Indeed.
Sad!
All I can say is Jewelu you have tried !
All you did came from a good place. Keep being YOU .
God will always fight for you and vindicate you. Anyone fight you will go down .
Pleasant Afternoon 🎉🥳
*Imagine
Delete*Been
*Fighting
BeiNG. Mrs teacher
Delete*Being
DeleteGood afternoon beautiful people .🌹♥️
ReplyDeleteBV Vincent, the speed you take dey lick ass here is supposed to be checked.
ReplyDeleteLike how dare you condemn and abuse those you are not better than in character.
Don't forget you were once in the blog black book so why this sudden change and licking ass,abi you want to use that to confuse us?
Hahahaha. Vincent come and answer this anon. I hope you brush your mouth and tongue whenever you finish licking the ass
DeleteDon’t mind him! There’s no insult on earth he didn’t dish out to Stella, suddenly, he’s calling out people insulting Stella like he’s capable of ever changing 🤮
DeleteDon't mind him, he is just jumping like a frog in the comment section acting like a saint, he forgot that his foot print is everywhere in the Internet for insulting Stella's family members..
DeleteShush up your smelly mouth. It's not asslicking but throwing in support. You must be really bonkers to think that I am scared of call outside like this nonsense you put up here. Get to a hustle, anonymouse!
DeleteI like how y'all are restless and it makes for some good drama. Dolts!! Check your freaking dictionary that's if you have one, deplorable!!
Anon 15:27 Don't drag everyone into your fight, you sef rest.
DeleteIt all increased especially when aunty Stella dash him free money for his dady burials. Is been Long he see such amount for free so he increases his asslick so that Stella money to dash him will increase likewise. Kuni man
DeleteSupporting who? Who begged for your support? This guy na serious Clown! You forced yourself here, are you that daft to have forgotten? You can comment o, after all nobody kuku send your akara comments, but never in your life drag anyone here, in the scheme of things, you are worse than Phoenix! Like totally worse! Stellz can still forgive her tomorrow, after afterall they forgave your stupid self, so just behave and stop being a Kangaroo! Support kill you there, Ewu oshi!..
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi....
Don't mind the dense gecko. He is one to talk. Suďdenly he has become a saint. I blame stella for allowing this prick in her space after everything he said, and did.
DeleteMary can you just disappear with your fake love where did you see dragging everyone ehn I must support gang
DeleteKe nke bukwanu Akara oku??😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteVincent na FFK and Omokreed combined.
DeleteAnywhere belle face.
Senior brother of Esau.
Mtshewwww
I greet una...Have been so down since morning because I'm at a friend's mum burial ceremony at ikorodu. A very good friend to me.
ReplyDeleteComing online to read all these things again makes it worse.
We should all move past this. SDK, you owe no one an explanation. One thing I believe in life is, circumstances will always open up the truth one day.
You are doing a great job.
Ire ooo
Always hopping about, don't you stay in one place?
DeleteThis is really really sad.
ReplyDeleteOne thing i hate most is betrayal. ..i can't deal.with it and that's why i resolved to stay in my lane.
Sandra, hope you are better.
I hope she is better. One of the sane ladies here, always minding her business.
DeleteSpeedy recovery
DeleteFor the Sandra and Black Slimzy post, all I will say is Nonye Agbaraonye aka Phoenix Elsewhere is a witch!!!!!! She is the one posting all of that. Jamming people's head. That's how and what she does right back in FGGC Shagamu. Abi there is trouble in their paradise?
ReplyDeleteA big green snake and two faced she is. Mtchewwwwwwww
Why she won't let this issue die a natural death and move on is what I don't understand. Why always bringing it up? It seems she is a cantankerous woman, I hope she have peace at home.
DeleteI like how she's being exposed by insiders for the kinda person that she really is.
DeleteAbsolutely cantankerous, I tell you @1519.
Vincent you should keep quiet. You have suddenly forgotten how you trolled stella on blogs right. You are one to talk.
Delete@14.51 Are you sure she attended FGGC Sagamu? What set?
DeleteBv SLIM SHADY, I'm asking this out of curiosity. Are you the same as the Bv Stunning Slim Shady that used to comment with a valid blog IID 10yrs ago here?
ReplyDeleteHave you collected your giveaway??? Hahahaaaahahaha
DeleteAny which way is way. Drop link of the comment of 20 years
Please drop the link to the comment 😃 I don't want to reply, not that I am provoked at your question. I want just give una job.
Delete
DeleteSlim Shady, I didn't mean my comment as a confrontation or in a negative way. We no get fight before nau. I was just wondering if you were the same person, that's why I asked.
Here is the link to one IHN where the person commented and one of the person's comments is attached for those who cannot go to that post.
https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2017/04/friday-ihn.html?m=1
"Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady 21 April 2017 at 14:09
I have been a blog visitors here for close to 4 years yet am not "'Firmous"', .wot do I do?
Reply"
Back to myself.
I had nostalgia when I saw some old bvs who no longer comment, this place na barracks true true. I saw people like Oluwadarasimi, Viva Ciara, Cinnamon apple, Sandy, corper W, Kidjo, Becky naka, pastor sexy daddy, Sky, Chikito, weed chick, Doppelganger, etc
I even saw our active Bv excited courtesy, I never knew she has been here for this long o.
Slim shady, abeg I no wan fight, if it's not you, no cuss me biko, I didn't say it was you, I only asked without insults or accusation.
I myself hate false accusations.
I even saw one face on that particular IHN, the caption said she was "Hauwa from the North".. I was like "which Hauwa?
DeleteBV meyjay. I do admire you but ever since you started referring yourself as olodo because of that nonsense comment XP dropa here is beyond you, that's when I don't rate you again.
ReplyDeleteYou can't be speaking English without sensible comments and you call that intelligent. Na so you dey reason?
I was also disappointed in her. Trying to make people see her as meek while downgrading herself to the lowest low.
DeleteYou lot rate Mejhay? kwakwakwakwakwakwakwa. Someone that uses Ai? Have you checked the way she writes from the time she resume commenting to how she comments now? There is a Ai somewhere supporting her. She use to write gibberish with errors.
DeletePray that that XP woman do nor remember you. .una sha like trouble
DeleteOya oya I don hear. Make una pardon me. I don see my 🍴 up
DeleteBia 17:56, if I use AI nko? Isn't that what it's meant for? Talk another thing jor
The self hate and low self esteem na helele
DeleteGood afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteSign out meme is true 💯
ReplyDeleteTGIF💃💃💃
And that's all that concern you? You didn't see Stella memeo
DeleteThank God is Friday, blog visitors good afternoon how is everyone doing, thank God we are alive and well,Stella how are you doing I pray God shall increase you on every side amen
ReplyDeleteWhat a long memo!
ReplyDeleteOmoh a lot is going on behind the scene.. it is well..
Y'all enjoy the start of the weekend ✌️
A LOT!!
DeleteMy sister, e plenty o
DeleteStella doh 🤗
Hmm!
ReplyDeleteIts well. Let there be peace.
As you have written your own, they deserve a right of response, approve their own when they post. Let's hear both sides please
ReplyDeleteright of response where? I have moved on..let me do my job please!!!!
DeleteGtfoh! (in Stella's German accent and tone)
DeleteSee this irritant! Stella na you this worm mouth o! And e dey vex me, you, Gaylord, you dey insult person? I never thought I would see this day Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa, what an imbecile!, you wey dey beg to join Blog, Stella, the day this bastard turns on you ehn, chai! I just pray you let us know, this is where you should be wary of him TF!!!?.
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi....
Vincent oooooo IKWAKWAKWAKWAKWAKWAKWA 🤣
Delete😂😹 @Baci
DeleteBlom blom, get to a hustle. This is my last reply to you!
Vincent have repented like repented boko haram bandits but he won't be reinstated back to the Stella's workers. Hahaha hahaha
DeleteExactly I need to hear both sides before judging.
DeleteHow will someone you claim you didn’t offend suddenly turn their back on you bcos of a man ? Na so she mumu reach ? No nau something is amiss.
IHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
I wish you all abeautiful Friday and an amazing weekend 🥂🥳
Hello IHN
ReplyDeleteCheers 🥂 to the weekend 💕
Jummat Mubarak folks
Have a great weekend
A long read. I don't even know what to say, most times I don't know what's happening here. I am surprised Black Slimmzy is this evil and wicked, he seems calm with his comment. Imagine sweet Phoenix turning to something else as soon as she got married, it is well. I don't know anybody outside this blog na just to read comments, comment too and move on. No time
ReplyDeleteParis, how are you doing? It's been a while.
Good afternoon good people
Sweet phoenix ke?? You people are truly gullible on this space
DeleteIf she was intelligent as she claimed or as bvs thought, she no go dey zuzu on top Pr**k.
Why is it that when some people have sex they take leave of their senses???
Gifty, are you judging from one side of a story? Haba mana!!.. If she's sweet to someone, then let it be! Everyone can't be on the same boat na! Kai!!!...
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi...
Gifty, are you not the bv that said sometime in the past about not judging people?
DeleteOk, in this narrative how did Phoenix become evil?
Do you have a personal problem with her?
You didn't even hear her own narrative and you have passed judgement that she is evil.
Avoid me kelvin, you dey hear me so??
DeletePhoenix is evil. I saw through her then. Oya, come and beat me.
DeleteI said what I said o!!! I have been on this blog long enough to see same shit play out all the damn time.
DeleteIt be the ones that everyone loves that keeps disappointing
From sexy daddy to hauwa( I saw through her bullshit btw) to what's that her name( she was a supposed widow that sells food, her own shock me pass) to a whole lot of peeps that no longer comment.
See phoenix was one of my favourite bv at some point and I stated it here. I think she was herself when she used to comment as "What else bitch", over the years I am not exactly sure what she was trying to prove with all that goody too shoes nonsense, very irksome!!
I just hope it was worth it for them
But gifty, kelvin didnt mean any harm.
DeletePhoenix face your marriage and forget all these unnecessary comments. Marriage fit humble you.
ReplyDeleteFacing her marriage abi typing XP XP XP all over the comments section?
DeleteStella's write ✍️ up is quite insightful.
Phoenix ? I saw through her many years ago when she started crossing out every good comment directed at appreciating my person.
Chic has never been anywhere na. What inferiority complex will cause when. Na wa
What I know is minding my business, you cross my lane, I drag you out, judiciously.
See how they're queuing to torment bv mehjay, these guys are sick, embarrassingly frustrating Les Miserables.
God forbid bad thing.
I just love this phrase - The greatest act of self-love is not .........
ReplyDeleteIN House is loaded❤️
And this is all you have to say after reading Stella's long memo?
DeleteComplete am jor. Who wan complete am for you?
DeleteGood day Stella and fellow bvs.TGIF.Happy weekend.
ReplyDeleteSome of una no get level sha bcos what was the attraction to Black Slimzy?
ReplyDeleteMaybe she is into dark, lanky guys😬
DeleteSpec you mean 😆😆😆
DeleteLOL!
DeleteBut the few handsome guys on the blog are chop and clean mouth guys. So maybe reason she settled.
DeleteIkwskwakwa don't forget that everybody have spec even dwarf and aki and pawpaw
DeleteMy sister, help me ask.
DeleteIs your own any better?
DeleteWhy do you women like to do this to yourselves? You left the matter on ground and started being condescending. Phoenix and the husband treated Stella very unfairly and betrayed her despite everything she did for them, yet you left that matter to be talking down on your fellow women from your presumed high horse?
DeleteDo you know some people would see that your husband and say you don't have level the same way you are saying it to others? Do you know how many ladies your husband wooed but they turned him down, ignored the heck out of him to marry other men they fancied because he wasn't their level nor what they were looking for so he had to come for you?
In the end, Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so let that aspect be. 'What's the attraction to black Slimzy?' Is he not a human being?is it because the guy is assumed to be broke? Because that's the only attraction some of you women only see.
He is a human being like you. This comment of yours wasn't necessary.
DeleteMrs Aboki, are you aware that the way Black Slimzy isn't your "level" is the same way you and your husband ain't some people's "level" but you guys married because you are both on the same "level"
DeleteIn life, most times people become what they mock.
Focus on the issue at hand and not "level"
See Ms Aboki o, seamstress for rural Lafia or GwaGwa! How can you denigrate a human being like you? That your husband na low class guy, for him to marry you, low class tailor/seamstress
DeleteAll these grammar for miss Aboki wen no go school?
DeleteIdonbelievit.
Shhhhuusshit all of you,she will read,she will not understand. Trust her level 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aboki wey the tray she dey use hawk banana still dey under her bed.
DeleteIkwakwakwakwa kikikikikiki
Xp make you enter heaven make I see. She do Aboki wetin no good for hia 🤣
One thi about XP is that once she mess, she disappears.
ReplyDeleteOnly cowards do that
Restart since last week you're crying
DeleteKeep crying goatie.
DeleteNo go train your children.
I'll keep putting pepper in your eyes.
Some people are funny even in anon mode you will still know the person that is behind the anon comment. Hahahaha
ReplyDeleteBV Eka Joy
ReplyDeleteWhy are you always on the defensive? Where is your joy?
You are at a settled stage in your life now. Please be still and let everything you speak spring forth from a place of peace rather than defensiveness.
I hope nothing is wrong with you? I seriously hope so!
DeleteShe isn't named "Blog Angry Bird" for nothing.
DeleteStella you are such a softie!! I am glad you have finally addressed this issue and I hope you truly find closure after this expose!!
ReplyDeleteIt be the supposedly quiet ones and alledgely goody two shoes!!! Yimu
Sandra and Candy please come back my dear sweet hearts.
If Sandra is vexing because of Stella's comment please what is candy vexing for.
DeleteBitter leaf gifty you think everybody is mean like you. Anonymous candy is ashame to comment because she's regretting why she called Stella swine
DeleteAnno 16:35 don't put fuel in the fire please. Candy cannot refer to Stella like that. It's for the anonymous.
DeleteI see you read that comment upside down, cuz I don't think candy is referring to Stella
DeleteThe way I see it the whole Sandra/candy saga Is one big misunderstanding
Now go kick rocks
Omo this Friday is not "Friyaaying" abeg
ReplyDeleteWhat is weekend without money
Hello ihn 🥰
ReplyDeleteI salute you all ♥️
Motherhood poster, we are always carried away by our wants that we forget all God has been and still doing for us. Good you retraced your step. Happy birthday to you in advance.
NFJ poster, you are not overreacting at all and I wish you go back to the vice principal and tell him how you feel. Infact he should apologize to your daughter on the assembly ground.
After reading SDK's long memo, I've to say this, Stella you are a good person with a beautiful heart and your intentions are pure even though you are misunderstood most times. Please keep being you.
The sign out meme says it all 📌
Y'all enjoy the rest of your day.
E go surely be ✌🏼
Asswiper new entrant/club member!
DeleteUna good afternoon ooo
ReplyDeleteChei,i came late today
Grabbing my pop corn and Zobo😅
Hello, beautiful people! Another day, another great SDK blog post.
ReplyDeleteBut....Omoh!
mewa n'sele lori blog yi sha 🤔 Ojo wo la fe se eleyi tan bayi ni tori olorun?
Okay o. Hugs to you too, Stella.
Sign out post 📌💯
#udokamma
#tgif
#loveoverhate
#inogetthattime
#bestbaby
Motherhood poster, I have learnt to be grateful to God for my little wins. And I thank him always.
ReplyDeleteStella you are very kind person, na people wey no know go argue. God is always fighting your battles for you. That's why those with evil intentions against you are always exposed at end.
Nonye and wife, please move on from here.😠
Aarrgghh 😳😯
DeleteYour last sentence.🙆😭
Omo things dey happen for here o. God have mercy
ReplyDeleteI have seen that black slimmzy on Linkedin, honestly being handsome doesnt make a man, because he is black and ugly as f! But he has gbenshed female bvs here, he must be good at his game! But why gbensh them while dating, exchanging bodily fluids up and down! Phonix enjoy your blacky ooo...hold am tight!
ReplyDeleteIf he was handsome and wealthy a lot of women wouldn't mind. They would even be dragging him. Didn't you see the Chronicle sender of yesterday, wanting to date her friends ex boyfriend talking about he is ugly but dresses well from a wealthy home? Everything boils down to money.
DeleteUnattractive people do not deserve to be in a relationship?
His face is in one of the IHN news posted sometime ago
The only thing they did bad, was being mean to their benefactor and still refusing to let her rest.
Stella I'm sorry for all you see in this your job. The Lord will always be your strength
ReplyDeleteLong read and interesting too
ReplyDeleteThank You Stella for addressing this issue finally .
God continue to bless your kind heart..
The betrayal is much .
Alot is going on here .
Hmmmm!!!
Stella,I doubt it was you Candy called "bloody swine " I think she was referring to the Anonymous that said Sandra/ black Slimmy had a se**al relationship.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a good thing and should be enjoyed.
@ Oremi Lora You Sha do not rate we Lagosians Sha,Canoe bawo😄😄😄😄.
@Motherhood poster,I am glad you now count your blessings.it is a good attitude to have.
@NFJ,I have never had any experience of my children been beaten in school but 1 thing I am sure of,It's Court that will settle us.
Flooding and traffic in Lekki after rainfall,is an horrible experience.
Let me get home and crash. I am so tired.
Meanwhile school owners,let us Breathe during graduation period.
Mehnnnnnnnnn.oti Sunmi.
Hello everyone....
*is a horrible
DeleteIs a horrible?
DeleteGood afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteStellz, no vex again.
Omo, things dey occur for this blog and outside the blog o!
NFJ ...
ReplyDeleteYou nor over react at all.
Why in heaven's name will a Parent default and the Child bear the consequences. That's absolute rubbish !!
That VP should have been given a seat he deserves .
VINCENT PLEASE STOP INSULTING PEOPLE HERE....moreso ur insulting those who had my back when you dragged me....stop it.... i can never take sides with you cos u r making me remember how you dragged me and the names you called me..I know you can still drag me tomorrow oh..please stop insulting them....
ReplyDeleteWarn that balloon to maintain his lane and leave me the heck alone! I ain't his freaking friend for crying out loud. He should take several seats and let me comment my comment without insults. You enabled their insults and still feel that I shouldn't reply them? Where's that done?
DeleteI dropped a memo for him today to steer clear which has been swallowed. What else do you want me to do?
If one comes for me unprovoked then the person should be ready to receive my clapback na.. Abi no be so?
I have heard you as pertaining the insults but you should also warn those ones yapping nonsense up and down too.
#PeaceOut
Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa! Gbam! IR, Vinshit, you don hear? Oloshi.... 😆 🤣
DeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi....
THAT PERSON WRITING ABOUT LAWSUIT...LWASUIT FOR WHAT???????????? WAS BABA IJESHA NOT ONVICTED?????????????
ReplyDeleteCrazy things are happening, crazy things are happening....
ReplyDeleteOmo, IR on SDKBLOG , jumping upandan and insulting people.. didn't know it would still happen. Phew!!
Wow. That's a really long memo and I could feel the emotions behind it. Things are really happening here o, haaa.
ReplyDeleteBetrayal hurts for real. Haven gotten it out now, misconceptions must have been cleared and I hope all parties involved can finally move on from all this and let peace reign.
All the back and forth, accusations and counter accusations will only drain everyone. Let love lead. I wish everyone well.
I am never and will never be in support of paying back people who once fed you this way. I had such experience. I even went to church with my relative for their marriage counseling and I became very furious when the pastor and church committee wanted to discourage the guy from marrying her because she was 8yrs older than him. She saw how furious I was and how I nearly went to challenge them only for them to fix date without telling me. I was in the town when someone asked me why I wasn't at my sister's wedding happening in my compound. I didn't even know about the wedding. This is someone who we share everything together. Every information together. We always come through for each other. I came back after two weeks and pretended as if I didn't know about anything that happened. Life continues. They were waiting for me to ask but I didn't. Maybe one prophet somewhere must have told them something, just maybe because that her husband, I have never sat down to converse with him about any single thing. I only greet jovially and pass, wetin prophet don go tell them?? That my relative likes prophet things eh...
ReplyDeleteWe all react differently, the way you react to situations when you feel disappointed can be different from the way I handle mine. I won't blame anybody for that but don't let the thought of them provoke you all the time. Let that pass because it's just a life's lesson for you. Those couple didn't try at all. They had the audacity to challenge you despite being guilty. Lol, such audacity.
Well, let them phase from your memory Stella, You don't have to come down to their level to start exchanging words with people you once fed. They have displayed their ignorance, it's left for the universe to pay everyone according to the seed they've shown.
Hiss.
DeleteBeating a reverse hun?
Go and print the gibberish you wrote yesterday, print this one and read them a paragraph after another, come back here and type what you saw.
Thank God say........🚶
I want to be clear that I am not claiming Stella is perfect, because nobody on this earth is without flaws. But if there is one undeniable truth I stand by, it is that this woman has a heart of absolute gold.
ReplyDeleteReading through her comment sections over the years, I constantly find myself pausing and saying, "What a woman!" She continuously shows up for people, even those who have actively hurt her and frankly don't deserve her grace. Beneath that fierce journalistic exterior lies a massive softie who cares deeply. See ba? Una no go understand wetin. I dey talk o. This is not a rushed judgment; it is a conclusion drawn from my long term experience following, reading, and engaging on her blog.
Even though I don't know her personally, my many years of following her space on the Stella Dimoko Korkus blog reveal her as a truly phenomenal woman. And that is exactly why so many of you take her for granted. It breaks my heart to see how people hurt her, yet still expect her to be their punching bag or continually play the fool to keep the peace.
To everyone reading this, remember that the golden rule applies to the digital world, too. What you would not want done to yourself, do not do to your fellow human being.
Grace is a privilege, not a right..Just because she forgives easily doesn't mean you lots should make a habit of hurting her.
Seeing how some of you treat her is infuriating. You take her kindness for granted, and when you mistreat her, you expect her to keep turning the other cheek. You dish out the kind of toxic behavior that you wouldn't be able to tolerate in a million years. like ba? some of una don see her finish. News flash...Stella is human, just like the rest of us. She no be God. What you cannot condone for yourselves, you shouldn't expect her to swallow. She bleeds, she feels, and she hurts just like anyone else, And she has her breaking points. Continuously abusing her kind nature will only force her to build walls...Her gain...Your loss.
I am not writing this to butter any one up, score cheap points or seek praise...I don’t even need a thank you for this. It’s just long overdue, and I had to finally put it into words.
Thank you Baci. 🫡 You just echoed my thoughts. Stella is a softie and because of that them don see her finish.
Delete👍
DeleteYou approving their insults and now saying stop insulting them is where the problem lies. What about you not enabling all of them since I don't have a right of reply? As for me insulting you in the future, that won't happen except I don't know what true repentance is. You showed me kindness despite my perceived and I will now pay you with bad again? God forbid bad thing! Keep your distance as they have advised (even though it's because of hatred for some) and I sure will too. It works perfectly well for me.
ReplyDeleteThat's about it!!
My friend will you keep quiet, you that Stella was doing all most everything for you still insulted her, you're a chameleon you will never change, for the record stop jumping up and down here insulting people because your foot print is already stamped here as a bad person..
Deleteflaws*
DeleteYou will always be internet rat.
DeleteGo to the other blogs, write and notify them that everything you wrote against Stella has been withdrawn and that you have repented.
DeleteThen , you can come here and talk about true repentance which I know that it is impossible, maybe in another life time, Yes!
Mtchewwwwwww 😡
Good afternoon everyone. Hope we are all having a good day.
ReplyDeletePhoenix, you no do well o. It hurts when you're betrayed by someone you trust. It is well
IR just stop !
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteBehold the monster u raised.
It is crashing out o shebi we warned you about forgiving it
ICYMI @Anon: She didn't only raise plus forgive me as a monster but dashed me... Fill in the blank space to make your false tale/narrative juicier.
DeleteSo love carry Phoenix go where she no know like this? When a woman is in love. Chai... It is well dear. But you didn't try . No matter the misunderstanding, you shouldn't have exchanged words with Stella, instead defend yourself peacefully and humbly. Defense is very necessary but do so humbly
ReplyDelete1000 likes 👌👌
DeleteIt is well with you, SDK. You're a champion.
ReplyDeleteWhat a long read, it is well. Human beings are so unpredictable. I just hope we'll all do better by being loyal to people that have impacted positively in us one way or another.
ReplyDeleteHave a fantastic weekend Aunty Stella nwanyi oma
ReplyDeleteIt is well Stella.
ReplyDeleteI wish all these wahala never happened.