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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDEDI need you people to know that i am emotionally exhausted and that is why i am sending in this Chronicle...I was so ashamed i could not send a mail but had to drop it in a post as Stella normally tells us to do...…
My wife suddenly changed overnight!
I love her but right now i dont have any emotions, because her personal hygiene is tearing me apart. This woman can go days without bathing.
Her clothes smell.!!!!
The bed, the bathroom, even the air around her feels heavy and i cannot kiss her to get intimate anymore cos of this smell….
I’ve tried talking gently but she ended up shouting... I’ve tried being direct but that didnt work... I’ve begged, I’ve pleaded, I’ve even cried but she gets defensive, and says that i’m insulting her.
After all these emotions and verbal stress, nothing changes.
I feel trapped between love and discomfort. I don’t want to shame her or to hurt her. But living like this is affecting my peace and has damaged my attraction to her...God forbids that i even want to gbensh her again cos the smell when i go near her or she walks by has messed up my manhood..
What do you advice at this stage? Note that i said i dont want to shame or hurt her, and telling anyone this will be doing just that…..
She goes out so i am guessing i am not the only one that has noted this smell…
Ah mental health issues!!!....She needs love and help at this time...Dunno what she has but since you are breaking down, thats a dangerous combination, so please Oga pack your bags and run temporarily oooooooooooo
PS- folder is empty oooooooooooooooo.Please send in ya Chronicle.
You dont have a problem when you know what to do, get a side chick that's beautiful and smells great.
ReplyDeleteShe might be going through a lot mentally. Please handle with care. No woman in Their right senses will want to be seen smelling like that. Get professionals involved please.
ReplyDeleteHave you tried praying for her? Please there’s nothing God cannot do so I suggest you keep praying till she comes back to her senses and realize that cleanliness is near to godliness
ReplyDeletePoster, you have begged,cried,pleaded like you said, what more is there to do? It's your choice, stay or leave.sometimes love is not enough.i once had a partner exactly like this, I stayed cos of love,and when I couldn't cope,I simply left.its that simple.learn to cope with it or don't.
ReplyDeleteNo body deserves to live with such discomfort. Instead of coming home to a nice scented house and woman,you get....Nna eh!
She goes out with that smell 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮. You have tried talking to her, but her mind's made up. She wants to be a pig. She is dirty
ReplyDeleteNeglecting personal hygiene is usually the first sign of dementia. Another angle could be dabbling in the dark arts or receiving a spiritual arrow. Whatever the reason, it needs to be approached with empathy, not attack.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you can use style to entice her to a romantic shower. Wash her hair and make it something fun. If she does not bite you may have to involve a trusted sister, mother, or aunt. Do not try to fix this on your own. Get help, early intervention makes a difference. If you have a washing machine or househelp you can ensure that her clothes are cleaned, as well as the bedsheets and towels. You can ensure the cleaning is done on time without waiting on her to initiate anything.
This is really really bad. Have you spoken to her parents and siblings?
ReplyDeleteDo you have kids? If you do, how does she handle them?
You have really suffered poster.
Do you still eat her food?
Run away from her..
ReplyDeleteShe will be the one going up and down, disgracing herself with her smell, reporting you,so people can see what you are going through and why you left..
Dirty woman 🤢🤮