Hailings!!!
Monday Memo
I hope you are all doing well oh.....Last week, I did plenty tests cos its that time here to do it....
You are told that you get to a certain age and you must do your tests every two or three years... In fact from when you clock 40 yrs especially, your insurance allows you these tests and you don't pay.....
I don't know if its only me but when I do test and its time to collect na so eye go dey shine me until I hear that everything is OK....LOL
Who else understand what I mean?
If you woke up this morning in good health and you are still complaining eh, you get witch oh cos I don't know why you cant thank God or let people hear word.....
There are so many sick people all over the place...…
That reminds me of the BV that went in for myom extraction today....I pray that you come out safely in Jesus name.
There is a topic that I have since discovered is not talked about in Nigeria and it when a woman is experiencing midlife crisis and when it blows in fully.....I am talking about premenopausal signs and menopause signs.......
Know yourself and know your body and stop thinking that village people are after you when it starts...stop allowing someone treat you for typhoid and malaria instead......Someone went to the village and came back and started experiencing heat waves that comes with premenopause and started saying someone has done something to her in the village...hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Una plenty like that here..
Woman no be only to sabi cook and sabi gbensh and sabi hold man for waist oh...know and study your body very well, read up very well and all will be well....
If you like take what I just said lightly....some of you understand what I mean...…
That saying, this is not a woman dominated blog, I am also talking to the men, to allow their wives kpekus rest when she is going through this tough time.....
Enjoy the rest of your day oh
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All Things Are Bright And Beautiful
All things are bright and beautiful, but jealousy will blind your eyes and block your path until you cannot even admire the beauty in front of you.
When your heart is full of envy, you stop seeing goodness, you stop seeing blessings, and you start counting other people’s wrongs as if it is your life’s assignment.
Change from your wicked ways.
Stop monitoring, stop comparing, stop keeping score of who is doing better than you.
Count your own wrongs, fix your own heart, and let light enter your spirit.
Life becomes softer when you stop competing and start appreciating.
Peace comes when you mind your journey and let others mind theirs.
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
My first has been calling me out a lot recently and he say it like this “ mom why don’t you ask Jesus to forgive you because what you just said isn’t true”.
The first time he said this statement I was shocked, I remember asking him if he was calling me a liar and he said so quietly “no ma but why did you say there was no food in the house, when obviously there is a list of foodstuff I can mention in the kitchen”.
I had to explain myself that my saying there was no food at home, was really a way of communicating that I was running low on my stock, and my need to restock, not that there wasn’t any food at all at home, he looked at me not convinced and instead insisted that I asked God for forgiveness since I was not saying the truth.
I accepted defeat and apologised, another time, I told a friend on phone that I just had my bath and was on my way to her place, she knew I was at home and I meant I was getting ready to come to her place as you can guess my little lie detector was beside me as usual asking me to ask God for forgiveness, I explained that my friend knew I was at home and I was getting ready to leave for her place and me saying I was on my way was just a way of communicating that I was still coming and not necessarily where I was at the moment but as usual he was looking at me with one eyebrow raised and waiting on me to ask God for forgiveness which I did to set a good example but this has made me more conscious of how I use my words around them.
Saying things like “why do you do the same thing all the time”, and being told that statement isn’t true and being reminded of the times when things were done differently and many other generalisation gets me a reminder to ask God for forgiveness and to be more precise with my statement.
This phase just started, I don’t know how long it would last but I am also trying to explain how people communicate without each words having you be taken literally. With the “tsm”, I know he is struggling to understand that but we will get there.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahhaha please ask God for forgiveness cos you just came here now to gaslight us to support you...hahahahahahahaha this is so funny!....Change your slang for your peace of mind...So you are just getting to the stage of their listening to conversations? it gets worse, just look for a way to stop talking on phone when they are listening. My kids heard things i would not want them to hear and they have not forgotten. Sometimes when i say something else, i am reminded of what i said years ago.....
I had to explain myself that my saying there was no food at home, was really a way of communicating that I was running low on my stock, and my need to restock, not that there wasn’t any food at all at home, he looked at me not convinced and instead insisted that I asked God for forgiveness since I was not saying the truth.
I accepted defeat and apologised, another time, I told a friend on phone that I just had my bath and was on my way to her place, she knew I was at home and I meant I was getting ready to come to her place as you can guess my little lie detector was beside me as usual asking me to ask God for forgiveness, I explained that my friend knew I was at home and I was getting ready to leave for her place and me saying I was on my way was just a way of communicating that I was still coming and not necessarily where I was at the moment but as usual he was looking at me with one eyebrow raised and waiting on me to ask God for forgiveness which I did to set a good example but this has made me more conscious of how I use my words around them.
Saying things like “why do you do the same thing all the time”, and being told that statement isn’t true and being reminded of the times when things were done differently and many other generalisation gets me a reminder to ask God for forgiveness and to be more precise with my statement.
This phase just started, I don’t know how long it would last but I am also trying to explain how people communicate without each words having you be taken literally. With the “tsm”, I know he is struggling to understand that but we will get there.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahhaha please ask God for forgiveness cos you just came here now to gaslight us to support you...hahahahahahahaha this is so funny!....Change your slang for your peace of mind...So you are just getting to the stage of their listening to conversations? it gets worse, just look for a way to stop talking on phone when they are listening. My kids heard things i would not want them to hear and they have not forgotten. Sometimes when i say something else, i am reminded of what i said years ago.....
Who else understands this phase?
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
One Sunday, we tried to visit a salon in our area, but all the shops had closed, so we ended up going back home. My daughter had to go to school the following day, so I suggested that we go to the next community. She had her hair braided by a hairstylist there once before.
When we got there, the hairstylist was busy braiding someone else's hair and said she had no time for us. Just as we had resigned ourselves to fate, she called us back and said she would contact someone for us. She did, and she directed us to that person's house, which was not far from her shop.
We negotiated the price, but at first, the hairstylist was reluctant to do my daughter's hair because of the amount I had offered. Ordinarily, I would have left, but I realized we had no other option. I also reminded myself that even if my daughter's regular hairstylist might have accepted that price, this was someone new.
I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and paid her. She started braiding my daughter's hair, and I was impressed by how patient and gentle she was. My daughter is tender-headed, but she remained mostly calm throughout the process.
I was observing the hairstylist, too. She was incredibly fast and finished my daughter's hair in less than an hour. I was so impressed that I asked if she would be willing to become my daughter's regular hairstylist. She agreed, and that was how I got her number. She had just gained a new client!
My takeaway from this experience is that being skilled and professional pays off. Whatever you choose to do, make sure you are exceptionally good at it. You never know who is watching, and one satisfied customer can become a loyal client.
And one loyal client can get you many many more clients and so forth.
Wait oh, you dont know how to braid? thats said oh!...Make sure that as your child grows you send her to the salon during summer holidays to learn how to make hair.......Let your kids learn skills during the summer and you will be shocked at how it will help them later...Some people can confidently braid their own hair!
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WIRED FACTS
·--- The vXgina is about ten times cleaner than the mouth. No matter how you brush your teeth always, the mouth is still the dirtiest part of the body.
· ----If you hit your chest at a very specific time in the electrical cycle your heart will stop.
· ---The length of a man's penis is equal to the length of his thumb times 3
· ---The human brain typically weighs around three pounds, and men’s brains are on average a bit larger than women’s. But Brain weight is not a measure of intelligence.
· ---Babies have 94 More Bones Than Adults.
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REMEMBER THESE TODAY
- Your kindness can change a life.
-Think intentionally.
- Progress, not perfection.
- You are enough right always
-. Feed your mind with positivity.
-You can do ANYTHING.
- Heal your gut. Trust your gut.
- Intentional action is everything.
-. Keep your attitude in gratitude.
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
One Sunday, we tried to visit a salon in our area, but all the shops had closed, so we ended up going back home. My daughter had to go to school the following day, so I suggested that we go to the next community. She had her hair braided by a hairstylist there once before.
When we got there, the hairstylist was busy braiding someone else's hair and said she had no time for us. Just as we had resigned ourselves to fate, she called us back and said she would contact someone for us. She did, and she directed us to that person's house, which was not far from her shop.
We negotiated the price, but at first, the hairstylist was reluctant to do my daughter's hair because of the amount I had offered. Ordinarily, I would have left, but I realized we had no other option. I also reminded myself that even if my daughter's regular hairstylist might have accepted that price, this was someone new.
I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and paid her. She started braiding my daughter's hair, and I was impressed by how patient and gentle she was. My daughter is tender-headed, but she remained mostly calm throughout the process.
I was observing the hairstylist, too. She was incredibly fast and finished my daughter's hair in less than an hour. I was so impressed that I asked if she would be willing to become my daughter's regular hairstylist. She agreed, and that was how I got her number. She had just gained a new client!
My takeaway from this experience is that being skilled and professional pays off. Whatever you choose to do, make sure you are exceptionally good at it. You never know who is watching, and one satisfied customer can become a loyal client.
And one loyal client can get you many many more clients and so forth.
Wait oh, you dont know how to braid? thats said oh!...Make sure that as your child grows you send her to the salon during summer holidays to learn how to make hair.......Let your kids learn skills during the summer and you will be shocked at how it will help them later...Some people can confidently braid their own hair!
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WIRED FACTS
·--- The vXgina is about ten times cleaner than the mouth. No matter how you brush your teeth always, the mouth is still the dirtiest part of the body.
· ----If you hit your chest at a very specific time in the electrical cycle your heart will stop.
· ---The length of a man's penis is equal to the length of his thumb times 3
· ---The human brain typically weighs around three pounds, and men’s brains are on average a bit larger than women’s. But Brain weight is not a measure of intelligence.
· ---Babies have 94 More Bones Than Adults.
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REMEMBER THESE TODAY
- Your kindness can change a life.
-Think intentionally.
- Progress, not perfection.
- You are enough right always
-. Feed your mind with positivity.
-You can do ANYTHING.
- Heal your gut. Trust your gut.
- Intentional action is everything.
-. Keep your attitude in gratitude.
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Good afternoon to y'all keeping it all time real on here.
ReplyDeleteIt's the start to a brand new work week and hey, go get them Benjamins/monies.
Quick One
Do you like pork meat? Is it a yes yes or no no for you?
#MotivationalMonday
#MagicMonday
#MarvellousMonday
#ManCrushMonday
It's a no no for me.
DeleteYes o I love it..but I don't get to eat it everyday...I'm just an occasional lover
DeleteLol @Osundi. Abi o..It's a no no for me too. A friend of mine once used it to cook some sumptuous meal (rice and stew) that looked delicious when I visited but declined after the great reveal by him. I later opted for fries but he has turned former now after the whole relocation to Canada brouhaha thing that happened.
DeleteInteresting one @Mor but it can never be me!
A no no no no for me.
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A no no no no for me.
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WHEN I WAS A CORPS MEMBER IN SOUN STATE ILESA; I SAW A PIG WAITING FOR A CHILD TO FINISH EATING AND AFTER THE CHILD FINISHED; THE PIG RUSHED TO EAT UP ALL THE SHIT NA SO THE PIKIN BEGIN SHOUT DEY CRY MAKE THE PIG RETURN THE SHIT OH......
DeleteThe next day, they killed the pig and butchered it and the lady that owned it dashed me some and i thought it was beef and made stew from it, when they told me it was that pig, i vomit the living daylight outta myself and since that day i declared pork a no go area.....even typing bout it now sef i wan vomit.....
i watched the pig eat up the shit no be say person tell me....
No no no, for me, i don't like goat meat talk more of ezi.
DeleteππΉπ @Stella. As in ehn! That their shit/poo eating part is always displeasing to the eyes and not encouraging at all.
DeleteUna wey dey chop dey try wella o.
The Lord said you will Win..
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My Enjoyment Lady in Paris, how is you?
Amin amin π
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DeleteAmen oooo,
DeleteToday is sunny with a little touch of harmattan breeze .
Amen!
DeleteAmen π
DeleteThanks Nwokeoma ππ i’m doing excellently well
@Tochi babe π I felt that early morning harmattan breeze too, i thought I was just imagining things oh❗️
Amen π
DeleteHappy Monday
ReplyDeleteWellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss ooooo
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
Hello Iya Boys
Happy Monday, Happy me π
DeleteChika baby, how you dey? π₯°
Greetings dear
DeleteChili Chilicious π
DeleteHola Chi baby ❣️
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DeleteParis dear, really? Maje I go find am o...anything to make me laugh π
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Mercybee Darling π₯°
Motherhood poster, I’m at that phase with my kids now! No white lie is permitted. You can’t even jokingly lie to them or be sarcastic with your comment.
ReplyDeleteYou will just hear ‘Mummy, why are you telling a lie? You said it’s not good to lie’
Bless their little minds π₯°
Lol@ Mummy, why are you telling a lie? π Kids and their innocent minds π€
DeleteThe Scariest people are the ones who creates problem then convince everyone they are the one being attacked.
ReplyDeleteI just realized that the age you turn on your birthday is the age you just completed, not the age you're starting.
ReplyDeleteSome of you make this mistake as well.
©️ TEEJAY
Not rocket science na, Teejay
DeleteMake una see wetin I see on the street of Facebook ooo
ReplyDeleteMommys in the house, please how do i forgive my hubby who told me I was shouting too much during an Induced 1hr active la!bour. He said it almost immediately i came out from the delivery room.
It really bro!ke my heart that each time I remember it, I get more disconnected from him while I believe he doesn't worth the sacrifice.
NOTE:He sees nothing wrong with what he said. He is also someone who believes pregnancy and delivery is women's duty so he shows little compassion towards it; once you complain, he will remind you he is providing for the family.
The marriage is 6yrs with 2 daughters(3yrs &6months)
He is very insensitive. Does he know what that pain is.
DeleteWhy on Earth did you marry such an unkind man? My goodness!!
DeleteSuch an insensitive man.
DeleteInsensitivity at its very peak. Nawa o!
DeleteYou all should save your breathe cos as you are raging on her behalf, she is planning on having another child for the goat.
DeleteYou all should save your breathe cos as you are raging on her behalf, she is planning on having another child for the goat.
DeleteThanks, Anon 16:34. We women don't love ourselves lol
DeletePlease have a serious talk with him with tears in your eyes to register your pain and how he hurt you with his words. I am sure he will change
DeleteNa wah oooo for you husband..
DeleteVery selfish
Na wah oooo for you husband..
DeleteVery selfish
how can the man respect you when your kpekus is open 247 despite such big insult...u feel more disconnected emotionally but your kpekus is rooted there...
DeletePls drink more water, the dry season is upon us π§
ReplyDeleteThanks Stella for the reminder...I am alive and healthy, fit and fine, thank you Lord π
Benefits of walking π I love this blog, so much to learn here π
Good afternoon beautiful people π
Good afternoon beautiful Adunni π₯°
DeleteMercybee dearie, how are you doing? π
DeleteStella every appointment with the Doctor is heart pounding ooooh.
ReplyDeleteMotherhood Poster,
this phase is forever, children will ALWAYS Question our words, my 22 years old daughter still does.
Hair making breaks my waist and hurts my fingers,Why stress my life when I can outsource it???
Hot Day.
Hello Everyone,let's be appreciative of good health.
Yes my darling, good health is bae π
DeleteYessssssss to Good Health π
DeleteMotherhood Poster, I love reading your column, you make motherhood very interesting.
ReplyDeleteIf you wake up healthy be thankful, the hospital is full of sick people, just coming from the hospital because my kids are down, i know today is monday but the whole place was crowded a govt hospital thou
ReplyDeleteAm grateful for health insurance i wonder how much i would have spent today, we started using it this year and its such a relief, i no longer seld medicate
Quick recovery to your kids π€
DeleteQuick recovery to your kids π€
DeleteSpeedy recovery to your kids.
DeleteI walk at least 1 hr every morning, I make sure I leave home very early to be able to meet up with my morning walk without affecting my daily activities and I can tell, it's very beneficial and therapeutic. It helps me to make use of excess calories in my system, people now commends on my stature, mind you I also watch my diet too but not on extreme dieting O, I dey chop but I control my portion
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people,
ReplyDeleteSDK I know what you mean π na only for hospital test we dey appreciate NEGATIVE results πππ
I can attest to the fact that one loyal client brings you more clients, I've benefited from referrals more than I can admit.
How's everyone doing?
Have a splendid week
Who’s watching east of eden?
ReplyDeleteThat cathy can ride oh ahhhhh
Watched it about a week ago! Very captivating series! Her level of wickedness ehn….
DeleteThanks for recommending!
DeleteEka her wickedness and s£x drive no get part 2
DeleteStellz, I understand you perfectly well o as per collecting the result of the test. My heart normally beats faster than usual πππ
ReplyDeleteI've done some routine tests. Will do the remaining ones next month.
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. It's a blessed week. Thank you Jesus. ππΏππΏππΏ
ReplyDeleteHello beautiful BB π₯°
DeleteSunny greetings everyone....
ReplyDeleteGreetings sis
DeleteMy Weekend was choked . Making it appear soooo short. Here I am in a noisless feeling sleepy oo dear Me. My Pupils had gone for Library time so Its a Cool atmosphere here. Lemme enjoy some rest before they convene.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your day everyoneππ₯³
That penis length of 3x thumb length is not entirely true - mine is shorterπ
ReplyDeleteHow old are you?
DeleteHow can adult’s π be that small and you’re laughing
Really π€£π€£π€£π€£
DeleteSo long as it can do what it was created to do, it's size doesn't matter, just like the boobs.
DeleteGoldenqueen take your flower πΉπΊ
DeleteGbamsolutely π
Good afternoon my people, how are y'all doing?
ReplyDeleteHappy new week guys, I pray for God's blessings and grace in all that we do this week Amen!!
WE KEEP MOVING!!
Funny how we hand out kisses freely when the mouth is practically a bacterial convention compared to a self cleaning vagyna.
ReplyDeleteSo you're telling me people will kiss someone's mouth all day, yet act dramatic about down there? Make it make sense. Abi wetin I talk? π€·π»π€¦π»
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Hello beautiful people π
ReplyDeleteIt's yet another fruitful week
Thankful to God almighty for the gift of life and sound health
Oluwa bless π our hustle π
Have a wonderful day π
Good Afternoon Beautiful People ❤️
ReplyDeleteMy heart is full of Thanksgiving to Godπ
My first fruit is 10years todayπ
To God alone be all the glory π
Happy Birthday BV Paris❤️π
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyoneπ₯°
ReplyDeleteIt's sunny plus rainy here maybe they're discussing sefπ
I understand you perfectly well in that aspects Mammi π
Wait oo,mouth is the dirtiest part of the body eweleke @ wired factππΌ
SDK she said in the morning that the surgery will not hold today again that the doctor will access her body for more two weeks,it's well with you dearπ«
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHowz the go dey go
This is a fruitful week for us all
My dear sisters❤️
ReplyDeleteHave you ever imagined waking up one day and feeling like your own body is becoming a stranger to you? Imagine experiencing changes you don't fully understand, having sleepless nights, mood swings, hot flashes and irregular periods.
This is a conversation we need to have and we need to have it LOUDLY!
We talk about pregnancy, childbirth and raising children, but how often do we talk about what happens to our bodies as we approach midlife?
Perimenopause and menopause are real and every woman deserves to understand what she may experience during this stage of life. Many women suffer silently because they don't understand what is happening to their bodies or feel too embarrassed to speak about it.
Dear sisters, let me remind us of something: premenopause or menopause does not mean the end of our beauty, our joy or our relevance ❤️
Our stories may be the encouragement another woman desperately needs. Our experience may help someone understand her body and realise that she is not alone. π«❤️
No shame. No judgement. Just love, understanding and sisterhood. π₯°π
GOOD AFTERNOON, MY SDK FAMILY! ❤️
Thank you Big Mama ♥️
Delete#Sometimesisdifficulttobeawoman
Delete'Sighs' women are strong o.
DeleteThanks Big Mama dearie π₯°
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ReplyDeleteI make sure I do short walk daily, it has even become a part of me sef..
ReplyDeleteLol today's weird facts be anatomy π
Keni nice day ✌️
You're doing well dear@ shirt walks π
DeleteHello ihn π₯°
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone and how's your day going.
Stella thank God everything came out good. It's not only you o, even me too if I go for ant tests, my mind won't rest until I see the results.
Motherhood poster, I like your son already. He's reminding you to practice what you preach π
Weird facts so weird and funny, especially the third one. Now I'll be looking at people's thumb π
Bvs I salute you all ♥️
E go surely be ✌πΌ
Hugs dear, have a great week π₯°
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteYou mean the penis length is 3x thumb length wow
Motherhood poster, your write up is interesting to read. well-done
Yall enjoy the rest of your day
Good afternoon my good people of SDK blog.
ReplyDeleteAm at thay phase where my kids reminds me how i tell them not to lie but i do atimes
ReplyDeleteRemember how he refused to add that we atteneded a party in his essay that made Essescode call me names
Abeg ignore that excesscode. Bring your stories here jare
DeleteThe rain no be here at all. Damaged so many things.
ReplyDeleteAll the same, we keep moving
Stella are we not permitted to post business adverts today?I appreciate you for posting..
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