BIG GRAMMAR LOADING
So let me show off small- i am wearing my cheapest watch, its a limited edition Michael Kors that i bought for 450 euros..its got a lot of bling bling eeeh..if u know me you will know bling bling is me..

SO?????.........LOL

u can join me and show off too eeeh

You better don't stress yourself. Who doesn't know you don't brag on this space. Even humble bragging you don't do it. because you don't want to offend anyone you end up even typing in a boring way. You better don't let people redesign your personality here due to their own personal interpretation of things. If people share their experiences here daily why can't you share yours if you like? Anyone who will like you will like you and anyone who will feel inferior would keep their distance from you, it's simple!!

People will come here say I just eat a whole tilapia fish and hollandaise yoghurt people will say my sister enjoy yourself and nobody will talk but the moment you say I just ate bluefin tuna and salad, foie gras or caviar they start getting angry. If you don't want people with different lifestyle on the blog to visit just say so!

What is it? She said she only eats salad they insulted her she said she asked a question they insulted her.
Stella if this bae wants to drag anyone let her drag to her satisfaction please and it they try to reply her with nonsense swallow their comments

OYINS COMMENT IS NOT AN AVENUE TO INSULT TEEJAY SO PLEASE DONT EVEN GO THERE COS I WONT ENABLE THAT COMMENT
STOP IT WHOEVER IS DOING THIS AND LET TEEJAY BREATHE
YOU PEOPLE HAVE CALLED HIM TO MANY NAMES AND HE HAS NOT BEEN CAUGHT GUILTY OF ANY
SCAMMER SCAMMER; E SCAM U?
ASAWO ASAWO E GBENSH U?
LIE LIE E LIUE FOR YOUR HEAD?
AI COPIER; ARE U AI?
WHAT EXACTLY IS THE PROBLEM?????

Thanks Stella for your last post.
You guys should be kind with words, stop dragging the poor guy.
I understand sometimes his posts can be a little bit too much buy hey leave TJ alone.

Some cant fathom how their imagination is other people's reality.

Loool Stella you know i really don't know how to brag but I'm realizing that sometimes just sharing these little details comes of as subtle bragging one of the reasons i kinda stopped talking about my life is all of these.

14:23 &14:28 thank you for seeing me for me it means a lot to me , I wonder why anyone would think I've anything to prove to strangers i don't even have any form of social media this is how much i value my privacy loool but you're right I'd live my truth unapologetically .

My Beloved Aboki it beas my imagination hollow how some people reason our realities are very different.

@Jeluwechi,they have finally dragged your legs outside.You don't need to do this girlie. We all know that you keep it cool here and you don't make trouble.
Don't allow them to bring out that side of you.Me like cool and calm Jeluwechi.

17:08 i don't plan of being who i am not but sometimes it's good to speak out. I find myself typing and erasing comments because when i speak out some things I'm attacked for no reason it's not cool.

Why do you people like getting my comment wrong here? For Christ's sake, we can't all have the same opinion. Must I agree with you? Why is a different opinion a problem for you people? Have I ever questioned your own opinion here? Or do you intentionally want to set me up to be dragged on this post?

Obviously, I will leave discussion posts for you people henceforth, since you women like picking on me all the time as if I shouldn't have a voice of my own here. Must I support your reasoning or opinion? I'm done with any discussion on posts. You women should have it all to yourselves.

Okay, let me reproduce the said comment and you point out why I should be crucified.

"It all depends. Yes, if he's the one that served himself, and no, if his wife was the one that served him.

However, if he chooses to do it when served by his wife, I don't see anything wrong with it, but I wouldn't advise it. It's not ethical."

In my comment, I clearly indicated that there's nothing wrong with a man taking his plate away, but I wouldn't advise a man to do it when his wife served him the food. I said it's not ethical in the sense that your wife served you the meal, and courtesy demands that she should be the one to take the plate away. It's not ethical for your wife to serve you a meal and you clear it yourself. Courtesy demands she should clear the table. That's what sensible women do. I never said it's wrong if a man chooses to do it himself, I only said I wouldn't advise it. So what is my crime? Do you know what ethical means?

Now what's ethical?

Ethical means behaving in a way that is morally right, fair, and acceptable according to good manners, principles, or the customs of a decent society. In a nutshell it means courtesy.

It comes from ethics, the rules of what is right and wrong.

For example.

If your wife serves you food, courtesy, good manners, respect demands you let her clear the table, or at least appreciate the gesture. That courtesy is what people call "ethical" in that home context.

So where is my offence here? That you women won't fail to remind me here every blessed day about my singlehood in a bid to ridicule and shame me? I wouldn't blame you women here, I brought it upon myself. I gave room for it. I set myself up for it.

But it's over now. You all can have your say on issues here. After all, there are men here who read and don't comment. It's not a must that I comment on posts here. Let me stick to one or two posts a day going forward.


©️ TEEJAY

You will leave disussion posts, but you will still talk.

He's been seeking attention all week, glad he is getting some. Lol

It's not ethical for your wife to serve you a meal and you clear it yourself. Courtesy demands she should clear the table. That's what sensible women do.
"That's what sensible women do"

So women who don't aren't sensible?


Well you only spoke based on your level of reasoning.

Tj, when they call you out on your bs, you start to play the victim, talking about how they ridicule you, you won't comment bla bla bla. Just grow up.

@Teejay,that statement sensible women clearing the table after a husband eats is totally wrong.You can air your opinion without insult baiting.
I serve the husband food and sometimes I am too knackered to even lift a hand or move my legs to clear the dishes and he does it.Does it make me with less sense?No.
You see your wife tired, stressed after the day hustle and she still puts in energy to make good food and after eating he decides to clear the table because of compassion.Its not an ethical or sense thing,it's an understanding/compassion thing.

When I read some comments i am amazed like Stella outlined things that shouldn't even be a topic of discussion is met with outrage .
Things like these make me grateful for the love i have oh my lovely darling God bless you even though i know you'd not see it and God bless my parents that raised my siblings and I.

Teejay, my comment is not to set you up for drags or to gag you. After all, we all come for the comments and diverse opinions. That being said, I responded to your comment because you've been very vocal here about marriage, the type of woman you'd like to settle down with... And reading those comments, I do not see you as a traditional man. So, my stance is; if you want to be a traditional man, be it. And if you want to be a modern man, live up to it and not claim to be traditional while expecting the benefits of a modern man/marriage.

PS, I'm not against whichever type of man/marriage you choose to have, as long as it works for you and your partner.

My comment is not to insult you in any way.🙏

In every clap back post Teejay's name must be in the register,ki lo de?Even if they did not find any offense,they will surely come up with one or rather say that he gave them stink eyes or they will dig up his previous comment to make sure they drag him.It sucks.
The comment section is open for all, bring your own gist in case you feel like Teejay is doing too much.
Teejay don't stress yourself explaining all the time.Do have it in mind that many lack comprehension.It's not their fault though,that's just their "brain setting'.

Yeah i love her write ups sometimes i wish i had the strength to write , a lot i would love to write about .

The trouble with teejay is that he neither here nor there,

Teejay pick a struggle