Hailings............
THURSDAY MEMO
I salute everyone ohhhh.Today i come with a giveaway that you cannot reject….
You want money? Money is good right? Do you know that there is something better than money? You dont believe it right? Well there is and do you know what it is? It is love….AGAPE LOVE!!!
I am giving away agape love that is genuine and warm to all those who seek a warm hug….
Do you want the giveaway?Will you reject it cause its not money?LOL
Send me your account details to wire the love to……..In case you want to send me love right back. My account details are ''LOVErocksSendit''....lol
That said i wanna do a giveaway with BV Rhoda Rex's money. half of it is mine and half of it will be for someone i will gift unannounced when i am ready.....
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The Rhythm Of Peace
A gentle reminder that life feels lighter when we choose the softer path. These words carry the balance we all need.
-Peace not war
-Calm not chaos
-Love not hate
-Hope not fear
-Unity not division
-Grace not bitterness
-Light not darkness
-Healing not hurt
-Kindness not cruelty
-Truth not deceit
-Strength not weakness
Joy not sorrow
-Patience not anger
-Wisdom not folly
-Growth not stagnation
-Clarity not confusion
-Mercy not judgment
-Warmth not coldness
-Harmony not conflict
-Courage not despair
-Faith not doubt
-Compassion not indifference
-Balance not disorder
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WAKE UP CALL TO MEN
A man I know cheats on his wife, starves her emotionally and financially, has children outside his marriage, and yet sat before me one day bitterly complaining ''Madam, my wife does not respect me.”
He even said the other woman never disturbs his home, yet everywhere his wife goes she tells people who he really is.
I listened quietly and wondered; What exactly does he think respect is?
Because somewhere along the line, many people started believing respect is something a woman owes a man regardless of how he lives.
It is not. Respect may be commanded, but genuine respect is earned.
I don’t know how many men are pursuing Christ with the same passion they pursue alcohol, side chicks , status, money, or fleeting pleasures.
But I do know this; Many women are not fighting the idea of submission.
They are struggling to find something godly to submit to.
The Bible never told women to submit to tyranny, neglect, betrayal, selfishness, or spiritual laziness.
The same Bible that says, Wives, submit yourselves, also says, “Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself for her.
Christ did not demand loyalty while living contrary to everything He preached.
He became the example, served, sacrificed, loved and gave
He carried the cross before He wore the crown.
That is leadership. Not shouting. intimidation. Not control.
Not constantly reminding everyone that you are the head.
A true head carries responsibility before claiming authority.
Many men are asking why their wives do not respect them.
Maybe the harder question is this if God behaved the way some men behave at home, would we trust Him?
If He only showed up when He wanted something…
If He constantly broke our hearts…
If He abandoned us emotionally…
If He betrayed us repeatedly…
Would we run towards Him or away from Him?
The Church follows Christ because Christ first proved Himself trustworthy.
Love came before submission.
Sacrifice came before authority.
Character came before honour.
That is God’s pattern. This is not a call-out.It is a wake-up call.
Our generation does not need more men demanding respect.
It needs more men becoming respectable. More men who know Christ.
More men who fear God in private.
More men whose wives and children experience the love of God through the way they live.
Because the greatest tragedy is not a woman refusing to submit.
The greatest tragedy is a man claiming to lead while refusing to follow Christ.
The world is not suffering from a shortage of men.
It is suffering from a shortage of men who look like Christ.
I want to ask you sir ? Are you loving your wife the way Christ instructed?
When someone you love deeply decides to go silent on you…
no calls, no texts, just blueticks — it hurts in ways words can’t explain.
You start questioning everything — “Did I do something wrong?” “Did they stop caring?”
But sometimes silence isn’t about you. It’s a reflection of them.
When love becomes one-sided, learn to pull back with grace.
Don’t chase where peace no longer lives.
Don’t beg for attention from someone who chooses to ignore your presence.
Real love communicates.
Real love doesn’t disappear without explanation.
If they value you, they’ll reach out if not, let their silence speak the truth.
Protect your heart. Heal quietly.
And when you rise again, rise stronger and wiser.
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SOME UGLY TRUTHS OF LIFE
· Health is all you have.
· There will be no one applauding you for your hard work.
· You get to know what people are really like once you go through a tough time.
· Money, power and looks will not matter in the long run. We’re all going to be old, seeing grey, seeing things differently one day.
· Your parents are growing old and need you to take care of them. Don’t forget.
· Not everyone is going to have a huge success story and that is okay.
· You will experience many failures. What matters is how you get up, not what happened to you.
· Life is tough. You can be high on life one second and losing everything the next second. Always be prepared.
· Try to stay open to life and not get bitter. Bitterness is poison to the soul. We are all meant to live a good life, whether you believe in it or not.
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SINGLE MOMS, IF YOU CAN, AVOID DATING MARRIED MEN.
My people, this is not about judging anyone. It is about protecting your peace, your dignity, and your future.
These are some of the nuggets I share from time to time:
Complicated relationships often come with complicated pain.
Are you aware you deserve a relationship that is open, honest, and fully available, ehn Segilola? Not one hidden in shadows.
Ngozi, your children need stability, not uncertainty.
Ruth, sharing someone else's commitment often leads to emotional stress, secrecy, and disappointment.
Habiba, don’t build your happiness on another woman's heartbreak.
Oluwakemi, you have fought too hard to rebuild your life to settle for half of someone's attention.
Aisha, a man who is unavailable cannot offer you the security and respect you deserve.
Chioma, protect your heart from situations that begin with confusion and often end in pain.
Ajoke, loneliness should never lower your standards.
Josephine, choose peace over promises, clarity over confusion, and self-worth over secrecy.
Yemisi, you are not a second option. Wait for a love that can stand proudly in the light.
Nwaamaka, never let loneliness negotiate away your values.
Oluwatoyin, you have carried enough burdens already. Don't volunteer for another person's complications.
Rukayat, your children are watching how you value yourself. Teach them that love should come with honesty, respect, and peace.
Adebisi, the right relationship should add peace to your life, not secrecy, guilt, and confusion.
And, if none of these makes sense, please continue with your shenanigans. Eere wa nbe
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WEIRD FACTS
----Charging a power bank to 80% instead of 100% reduces stress on its lithium cells, extending its storage life
--- Confidence is not ‘they will like me’. Confidence is ‘I’ll be fine if they don’t’ — things everyone should know
---- Avoid the unhappy and unlucky. You can die from someone else’s misery.
----Negative people are contagious.
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Abi them bury my placenta for Manchester United?
ReplyDeleteWhich type of disgrace be this for God's sake.
Carrick must goπ―
But I told you guys yesterday about it. Didn't I?
DeleteSo sorry about it but of a truth, Manchester United is really disgracing England and I'm not happy about it. Can you people win even Kano pillars?
©️ TEEJAY
ReplyDeleteDrove 7hours to a wedding.....
As them dey share food... only for this kinkrukakrus waiter pointed to my table and say..........
This bros don chop 3 plates oooooo b4!!!
Ah me? When? Where?
Naso them carry food pass me ooo
Sisi yellow wherever u dey....
My God judge u
Even if I chop weytin concern u 1st?
Hmm. π€¦♀️
DeleteGood day everyone. Permit me to rant a bit about Man Utd, their fans, captain & even coach, what is really going on with your team? It’s so sad now. And please, it’s all banter with this, but did you see the video where Rufai Oseni said Man Utd fans thought because Pastor Jerry Eze used their stadium for prayers it automatically means miracle will happen for them? He further said 'What God cannot do does not exist' doesn't concern Man Utdπ±
ReplyDeleteRemember it's all bants so pls don’t take it too personal. But the way you people mocked my team for this same UCL, you people are now there freely doing giveaways of points up and down in Europe and also in England back to back its really sad ooπ
Tbh yesterday, me and a friend literally said this exact same thing Rufai jokingly said while the match was going on, to banter our Red Devil friends and other fans of Man Utd when we saw the game together against Como yesterday. Oh what a sweet game of football from Fabregas teamπ
Only for Bruno, after the game as a captain in his interview was trying to throw Carrick under the bus so they will sack him or what, before he does our own giveaway for us in 9 days’ time? Abeg we need that 3 or even 1 point too...Carrick replied Bruno saying he is a disgrace. Na so some of my friends when be CR7 fans say na so Bruno dey do their goat.
But my Man Utd fans, I genuinely feel sorry for you guys bcos I know what you guys are going through even though you mocked us first. It is well, and it will eventually get betterπ€πΌππ»
Have a lovely day, everyone ππΌ
Sometimes I just wonder how it feels when God seeing ones suffering and keeps saying hold on especial when things are so hard.
ReplyDeleteIt is very very painful and frustrating and especially when it's between life and death.
DeleteLife is not fair.
As a human, you've endured so much pain, you've been patient, made sacrifices and then the reward is not even showing signs. Me, I just tell God my mind and vex well. Later, we go settle and then i pray for patience to wait till he is ready to bless me.
What I know is that our hearts desires will be granted to us. Let's be patient and keep believing in him.
Give thanks and be grateful for the gift of life
DeleteUna good afternoon o. How the day dey go na? I am super grateful for life despite all odds.
ReplyDeleteStay good!
Quick One
Did you participate in cultural displays during your prize giving day ceremonies held whilst in primary school from back then? Are they still a thing now or the current generation doesn't give a hoot about such anymore? Which particular tribe or ethnic group did you do their cultural dance as at then?
#ThankfulThursday
#TremendousThursday
#ThrillingThursday
#ThrowbackThursday
I need all the agape love I can get right now.. So, Stellz I receive it wholeheartedly ❤️❤️
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon y'all
God is faithful
To the person who recommended that I use uziza in making my okro, thank you so much. God bless you immensely. I added ogbono as well. It came out great. I will stick to this recipe. I love it.
ReplyDeleteMehn, to all the women who cook for their husbands and children regularly, I appreciate you all today. Cooking is not easy, I swear. I have not even started and I am already tired. Imagine a woman who has been doing it for over ten years. God bless every good and caring woman out there.
©️ TEEJAY
Is it okra or okro ? I hear people say okro and it confuses me .
DeleteTee I was the person that recommended it for you, it gives it a great and unique taste when eating it, I'm glad you enjoyed it..
DeleteGood afternoon SDK and BVs. It's a sunny Thursday. SDK I receive your agape love giveaway. God will continue to strengthen you and enlarge your coast. ππΏπ€❤️
ReplyDeleteYessssssss to the warm hug π«
ReplyDeleteYessssssss to the Agape love π
Good afternoon lovelies π
Beautiful weather today π
Bandits intercepted a vehicle in sokoto and kpai all the passengers, in a country where we have president o and the news is not even making waves. APC more concerned about ebola tinubu re election.
ReplyDeleteI receive it now and always π₯°π₯°❤️π
ReplyDeleteI receive it now and always π₯°π₯°❤️π
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone π
ReplyDeleteThanks SDK for the agape love π
You are blessed
I accept the giveaway of agape love.Thank you.
ReplyDeleteCopied from Facebook ............. Not scary though
ReplyDeleteHave you ever experienced something that you never understood till today?
*Things I Saw Working In The Hospital That Still Confuse Me Till Today*
One hot afternoon, I had an afternoon shift and I went to work earlier than usual. It wasn't yet time for the morning shift to hand over, and my other colleagues had not arrived.
So I went to the back of the hospital balcony to relax. I was busy on my phone when I saw a bike stop outside. A fair guy came down from it and entered the hospital gate.
I was surprised because bikes were banned in Enugu town, but I didn't give it much thought.
About twenty minutes later, a scream came from a patient's relative in one of the wards. Everyone rushed to find out what happened, I followed too.
The relative said the patient on the bed had moved. He had been unconscious since he was rushed in early that morning. I was told he was an accident victim.
My colleague on duty started attending to him. I looked closely at the patient on the bed, covered in bruises, and I was shocked to realize that he was the same guy I saw come down from the bike 20 minutes ago.
Told my mom when I got home and she said it was the guys spirit I saw that came down from that bike, coz those selling things outside our gate said they didn’t see any bike drop anyone there in the afternoon.
Till today, I am still confused and wondering.
Thank you for the agape love.
ReplyDeleteThe Bible says in (1 Corinthians 13:13) And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is LOVE. ❤️
ReplyDeleteSo dear Stella,please wire my own share of this Agape love! π❤️ My heart is open to receiving it and overflowing with love for others. And if you need your own transfer back, No bank charges, just pure love, kindness and prayers. π€π₯°❤️
May God help us to love one another genuinely, because in a world where many are silently hurting, a little love can make a lifetime of difference. ❤️
GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY.
Suddenly, the Nigerian Presidency is acting proactively by holding an emergency meeting on how to tackle the 'Ebola' thing, but such energy wasn't seen in fighting the insurgency head-on. What a country. Insurgency that claims more lives in Nigeria than sickness is what the government has turned a blind eye to.
ReplyDeleteI still maintain my position and I don't care how anyone feels or how they want to spin it. This whole 'Ebola' issue will eventually end with the Federal Government imposing political restrictions on campaigns starting next week. Keep your ears to the ground; before this week runs out, you will hear it. They don't like the NDC proposed campaign that is already gaining momentum in the northern part of Nigeria. Since APC has already stated that the President won't be campaigning himself, they want to justify their action by stopping other parties from campaigning. If APC had performed well, they would be happily campaigning, but since they have nothing to campaign with, they will look for every means to prevent others from campaigning. This is all their calculation. In the coming days, you will remember this comment.
Whoever is still supporting APC must really be something else, I must say.
©️ TEEJAY
Good afternoon,
ReplyDeleteThanks Stella for the love you wholeheartedly give.
Love the sign out.
The okada man that carried me this morning, was putting on the NYSC jacket. I asked him if he is a corp member and he said no, that he bought the outfit at the Okrika market. I was surprised. Them don begin sell NYSC uniform for okrika market? The man even get guts to dey wave all the "corpers" wey we pass for road. Hahahahahahahahahahaha.
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHNs.