Almost Friday Hailings!!!
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THURSDAY MEMO
I went through in house news comments on Wednesday and i was looking for two comments and found them
12th comment after Raheems Mums comment and the comment that said they went to a Reality TV stars page and their beautiful daughter…...Your comment made me smile and i love how you described that child that evil people called worwor…
The two of you should come to my inbox..I dont announce what i give anymore,its left for the recipient to announce or keep it private....
I will look for comments again another time and it will be unannounced cos i dont people to start acting in the comment section…..
Enjoy the rest of your day and gift people smiles and happy moments.
Hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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FROM WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS
What if its a setup? You take the kids to see their grand mum and they seize them and send you back alone? There are so many people this has happened to....... Be wise oh.....
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BITTER TRUTH
One day, a snake was slithering through a narrow pathway when it accidentally fell into a deep pit.
To its surprise, the pit was already filled with hundreds of rats.
The moment the rats saw the snake, panic broke out. They knew that snakes fed on rats, and they feared they would soon become its next meal.
They scattered in every direction, running up and down the pit, desperately searching for a way to escape.
The snake watched them carefully and realized something important.
If it attacked them all at once, the rats might unite against it. And hundreds of rats working together could overwhelm a single snake.
So, instead of attacking, the snake decided to use a different strategy.
"Everyone, please calm down!" it shouted. "I am not here to hurt you. I don't intend to eat any of you."
The rats gradually became quiet.
The snake continued, "I only want to help you live healthier lives. I will eat only the oldest, weakest, and sickest rats among you. That way, diseases won't spread, and the rest of you can remain strong and healthy."
The rats looked at one another.
At first, they were suspicious. But as they considered the snake's words, some began to believe it had a point. There were indeed sick, weak, and elderly rats among them.
The snake had cleverly disguised its hunger as concern for their welfare.
Then it made another promise.
"I will eat just one weak or sick rat every three days. The rest of you will be safe."
The frightened rats gradually accepted the arrangement.
Three days later, the snake selected an elderly rat and swallowed it.
The others watched, but many convinced themselves that the snake had done them a favour by removing a weak member of their community.
As time passed, their fear turned into trust.
Some of the stronger rats even began helping the snake identify its next victim.
"That rat is old," one would say.
"That one looks sick," another would add.
They began pointing fingers at their own kind, believing that as long as the snake ate someone else, they would remain safe.
Soon, the rats that had once feared the snake began sitting near it. They became comfortable around their predator and even saw themselves as its trusted companions.
They believed they were protected because they were strong, useful, and obedient.
But they failed to understand the snake's true intention.
The snake was not protecting them. It was patiently reducing their numbers.
One by one, the sick and elderly rats disappeared.
Then the snake turned its attention to the stronger rats.
The same rats that had helped identify the weak suddenly realized that their strength offered no permanent protection. There were fewer rats left to resist the snake, and the predator had become more confident than ever.
The snake began eating them one after another.
The remaining rats finally understood the truth: they had helped their enemy destroy their own community, believing that sacrificing others would guarantee their to personal safety.
But by the time they realized their mistake, it was almost too late.
They had surrendered their unity, abandoned their vulnerable members, and strengthened the very predator that was waiting to devour them.
MORAL OF THE STORY
Never betray your own people simply to gain favour with someone who holds power over you. Sometimes, manipulators begin by targeting the weakest members of a group, convincing everyone else that the victims deserve their fate or that their removal will benefit the community.
One day, a snake was slithering through a narrow pathway when it accidentally fell into a deep pit.
To its surprise, the pit was already filled with hundreds of rats.
The moment the rats saw the snake, panic broke out. They knew that snakes fed on rats, and they feared they would soon become its next meal.
They scattered in every direction, running up and down the pit, desperately searching for a way to escape.
The snake watched them carefully and realized something important.
If it attacked them all at once, the rats might unite against it. And hundreds of rats working together could overwhelm a single snake.
So, instead of attacking, the snake decided to use a different strategy.
"Everyone, please calm down!" it shouted. "I am not here to hurt you. I don't intend to eat any of you."
The rats gradually became quiet.
The snake continued, "I only want to help you live healthier lives. I will eat only the oldest, weakest, and sickest rats among you. That way, diseases won't spread, and the rest of you can remain strong and healthy."
The rats looked at one another.
At first, they were suspicious. But as they considered the snake's words, some began to believe it had a point. There were indeed sick, weak, and elderly rats among them.
The snake had cleverly disguised its hunger as concern for their welfare.
Then it made another promise.
"I will eat just one weak or sick rat every three days. The rest of you will be safe."
The frightened rats gradually accepted the arrangement.
Three days later, the snake selected an elderly rat and swallowed it.
The others watched, but many convinced themselves that the snake had done them a favour by removing a weak member of their community.
As time passed, their fear turned into trust.
Some of the stronger rats even began helping the snake identify its next victim.
"That rat is old," one would say.
"That one looks sick," another would add.
They began pointing fingers at their own kind, believing that as long as the snake ate someone else, they would remain safe.
Soon, the rats that had once feared the snake began sitting near it. They became comfortable around their predator and even saw themselves as its trusted companions.
They believed they were protected because they were strong, useful, and obedient.
But they failed to understand the snake's true intention.
The snake was not protecting them. It was patiently reducing their numbers.
One by one, the sick and elderly rats disappeared.
Then the snake turned its attention to the stronger rats.
The same rats that had helped identify the weak suddenly realized that their strength offered no permanent protection. There were fewer rats left to resist the snake, and the predator had become more confident than ever.
The snake began eating them one after another.
The remaining rats finally understood the truth: they had helped their enemy destroy their own community, believing that sacrificing others would guarantee their to personal safety.
But by the time they realized their mistake, it was almost too late.
They had surrendered their unity, abandoned their vulnerable members, and strengthened the very predator that was waiting to devour them.
MORAL OF THE STORY
Never betray your own people simply to gain favour with someone who holds power over you. Sometimes, manipulators begin by targeting the weakest members of a group, convincing everyone else that the victims deserve their fate or that their removal will benefit the community.
Be wise!!!
Thanks.
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Thanks.
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SDK BVs WELCOME BABY BOYS
Three blog visitors have recently welcomed baby boys and i am so excited and feel like a grandma...hehehehehehehehe
Please help me celebrate with BVs Mum Raheem, Fan Emmanuel and Creamy V.....Creamy has not been active for a while but she will resume soon.
Congratulations to them as they manage their day and sleepless nights...Motherhood is the most beautiful thing that will happen to any woman ...It may be different when you carry the baby yourself and begin to heal when they bring it out or it pops out from the kpekus or when you use a surrogate or adopt…..These all motherhood through different mood but the sleepless nights na the same..
I remember that i used to stay in bed and relax and do my thing..In the beginning i was not blogging actively, so i would just prepare my stories for the week for Encomium magazine and would sleep until 12 noon….
When pregnancy came, things changed a bit but little did i know that my quiet world was about to be rocked , albeit it in a beautiful way….
I will never forget wanting to sleep so badly and then my mum in law came to my place..i quickly ran to sleep and after two hours, she brought the baby to me that she was leaving..i nearly fainted and asked her why...She said she was leaving so i could sleep...SLEEP HOW???????????? This pikin that didnt stop crying twenty four seven becos of colic?
Congrats once again to the three of you and others out there….
Mother hood rocks!********************
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Foods That Contain Natural Collagen
-Bone brothFoods That Contain Natural Collagen
-Chicken skin and cartilage
-Fish and fish skin
-Sardines (with skin and bones)
-Beef, especially connective tissues
-Pork skin
-Turkey
-Organ meats such as liver and heart
-Oranges, lemons and other citrus fruits
-Berries
-Eggs
-Leafy greens
-Nuts and seeds
-Beans
-Bell peppers
These foods help support healthy skin, stronger hair, flexible joints and overall collagen production.
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Tips To Become A More Attractive Person
Being attractive is about much more than physical appearance. The most magnetic people combine confidence, kindness, good grooming, and a positive attitude.
Maintain Good Hygiene
Bathe regularly.
Keep your clothes clean and fresh.
Pay attention to oral hygiene and pleasant body odour.
Dress Well
Wear clothes that fit properly.
Choose styles that suit your body type and personality.
Keep your appearance neat and presentable.
Improve Your Posture
Stand tall with your shoulders back.
Maintain good body language.
Avoid slouching, as it can make you appear less confident.
Smile More Often
A genuine smile instantly makes you seem warmer and more approachable.
People are naturally drawn to positive energy.
Build Confidence
Believe in your worth without being arrogant.
Focus on your strengths and continue improving yourself.
Be a Good Listener
Show genuine interest in what others are saying.
Listen to understand, not just to respond.
Develop a Positive Personality
Be kind, respectful, and considerate.
Avoid constant complaining or negativity.
Stay Physically Active
Exercise regularly to improve your health, energy, and mood.
Fitness often boosts confidence and attractiveness.
Practice Emotional Intelligence
Manage your emotions well.
Show empathy and understanding toward others.
Have Interests and Goals
Pursue hobbies and personal ambitions.
Passion and purpose make people far more appealing.
Improve Your Communication Skills
Speak clearly and confidently.
Maintain eye contact during conversations.
Tips To Become A More Attractive Person
Being attractive is about much more than physical appearance. The most magnetic people combine confidence, kindness, good grooming, and a positive attitude.
Maintain Good Hygiene
Bathe regularly.
Keep your clothes clean and fresh.
Pay attention to oral hygiene and pleasant body odour.
Dress Well
Wear clothes that fit properly.
Choose styles that suit your body type and personality.
Keep your appearance neat and presentable.
Improve Your Posture
Stand tall with your shoulders back.
Maintain good body language.
Avoid slouching, as it can make you appear less confident.
Smile More Often
A genuine smile instantly makes you seem warmer and more approachable.
People are naturally drawn to positive energy.
Build Confidence
Believe in your worth without being arrogant.
Focus on your strengths and continue improving yourself.
Be a Good Listener
Show genuine interest in what others are saying.
Listen to understand, not just to respond.
Develop a Positive Personality
Be kind, respectful, and considerate.
Avoid constant complaining or negativity.
Stay Physically Active
Exercise regularly to improve your health, energy, and mood.
Fitness often boosts confidence and attractiveness.
Practice Emotional Intelligence
Manage your emotions well.
Show empathy and understanding toward others.
Have Interests and Goals
Pursue hobbies and personal ambitions.
Passion and purpose make people far more appealing.
Improve Your Communication Skills
Speak clearly and confidently.
Maintain eye contact during conversations.
Be Authentic
Don't pretend to be someone you're not.
Genuine people tend to create stronger connections.
The Secret Most People Overlook
Physical appearance may attract attention, but confidence, kindness, good character, and self-respect are what make people truly attractive and memorable.
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SUGNS THAT A WOMAN IS DONE WITH YOU EMOTIONALLY
She won’t come out and confess but she will say something that sounds innocent, but it’s the biggest warning sign.
Watch the shift:
1. She goes cold.
No more long talks. No more warmth. Everything feels distant.
2. She stops arguing.
Not because the peace returned, but because she stopped caring enough to fight for you or to fight you.
3. She gets irritated by everything.
Your presence annoys her. Your questions annoy her. Your love annoys her.
4. She becomes too private.
Phone always face down. Passwords changed. Always “busy.”
5. She disconnects emotionally.
She’s still in the house, but her heart is already somewhere else.
Here’s the truth most men miss:
The relationship changes BEFORE the confession.
Don’t ignore the signs and don’t beg for someone who has already checked out.
If you see this pattern, don’t chase. Don’t lose yourself trying to fix what she already broke in secret. A loyal man deserves loyalty back. Period.
- Moyosore Peace Adebobola
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WEIRD FACTS
· Human memories become distorted over time, meaning that the average person has at least one false memory stored.
· A study suggests that a person who loses their mobile phone will experience panic similar to that of imminent death.
· According to new studies, the memory of phobias is passed down from generation to generation through DNA.
· Your brain experiences rejection as if it were physical pain.
· If you trick your brain into thinking you slept well, it will believe you, even if you only slept 2 hours
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We all stories, the friends who betrayed us, the family member who would have treated us better but didn't, the love that went unrequited, sweet friendships that turned sour, mother/fathers who treated us like we were a burden they didn't plan for, heartbreaks that made us bleed, but a lot of us choose to swallow and sulk it all up like the grown ass men and women that we are. That's not weakness, it's called 'strength' from where I'm from ☺️
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Una good afternoon o. Wetin dey occur na? It's like the rain(s) that fell recently is the type that paves way for harmattan or am I wrong?
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3 = 6
4 = 12
5 = 20
6 = 30
8 = ??
What's the answer?
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Huge congratulations to the BVs who gave birth π₯°
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the latest mommies in the house πππ₯³
ReplyDeleteGOD bless your new borns and enjoy your omugwo wella!
A lot of Nigerians really struggle with English comprehension and it’s clear.
ReplyDeleteYesterday, I mentioned why it’s important as a married man to pour your resources into your wife and kids and do what you can for your external family members!
One misogynistic idiot went and disguised himself under anonymous to mention the things I’ve done for my family, forgetting that clearly falls under me doing what I can under no pressure whatsoever!
Imagine saving up 20% of your allowance monthly for some months to be able to afford what you can for your family. This leaves you with 80% for yourself!
How’s this difficult to understand? Toluwanisings paused starting a business for his wife to satisfy these wicked beings and they were never satisfied and were always coming back to ask for more.
He’s clearly not doing it comfortably hence his complaints. But ofcourse, you don’t have sense!
Since you lack comprehension, when e reach ur turn, be inconveniencing yourself for family members that are clearly using you!
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Thank you all for the prayers for my Mum on IHN yesterday I really appreciate you all and say a big amen to the prayers.
We are at the stage where it's God's healing hand and miracle that we pray for,just taking it one step & day at a time,we are doing palliative care for her,if God's willing for her to get better fine and if it's her time to go I won't fight it.He knows best..It has been draining financially, physically, emotionally,but in all we still give thanks.
And thank you Stella for always checking up on me,the encouragements and monetary help I am saying thank you,mama is saying thank you we appreciate youπ₯°π
Congratulations to Fan Emmanuel, Raheems Mum, Creamy V and other new parent here. God bless your babies and your home.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon,
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to all the new mums,God bless the babies,
It's a beautiful day.
Congratulations to the new moms, motherhood is beautiful and challenging at the same time , God would give ya'll the strength π❤️
ReplyDeleteTaking the day off to relax π , π« & π to you all.
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people, how are y'all doing?
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to the latest mummies in townπππ, I so so love baby news.
The oba has declared the main festival open in this part of rivers state. From now till January ending no burial over here,Base on tradition.
Any home you enter now, na new yam them go serve you ,with goat meatπ.
Unfortunately for me, shuga doesn't eat new yamπ.
Anyways God has been faithful!!
WE KEEP MOVING!!
IHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone π₯³
Congratulations to Bvs Fan Emmanuel, Mummy Raheem & Creamy V on the arrival of your bouncing baby boys π₯π₯°
The heat no be here at all
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