I had been dating my "boyfriend" for over a year. The relationship has been okay. Despite his busy work schedule, school and intense study schedule for his Bar Exams he made out time for us to hang out here and there. From what I could see thus far, he's a very hard working, well educated and ambitious Igbo man. And above all, during the periods we hung out, his phone was never off limits. I could freely check his calls, text messages and emails. Said access assured his transparency. 

As you read this, you probably wondered why I wanted to dissolve a relationship with a man who embodied these rare qualities.