Shocking---Blog Visitor says ''This Is The Story Of My Life!''

         IS THERE NO END TO THIS MADNESS CALLED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

THIS IS THE STORY OF MY LIFE
I need your advice, help and assistance. I am writing this not for sympathy but I want people to learn from my mistake and am also writing it sincerely without mincing words and not lying just to win people to my side.
I am a woman of 31 years old that was born out of wedlock, so I was raised up by different family members that don’t even like my coming to this world but irrespective of that I suffered as a young child where growing up was tough for me, I thank God today that then they thought they were punishing me for the mistake my mother made not knowing that they were building and training me for the future and actually made me who I am today.

I meet my husband in August 2009 he his a Muslim and photographer by profession, am a Christian and a caterer by profession. When we meet the first thing I told him about myself is that I am a Christian and also preach the word of God to people, which he advice me that its okay but I should be moderate about it , meaning religion is not a barrier in marrying me because his father’s background his a Christian and what matters to him is the love that exist between us.
One thing lead to the other I fall into the sin of fornication once and I got pregnant for him which he ask me to abort but I could not withstand it and I said I will keep it, which lead to marrying him through a traditional wedding and court wedding.
There is this man that has been assisting me with since my father died he his actually a family friend, but was just assisting me out of his own goodwill along the line we lost contact when I gain admission into the university doing part-time but at the same time I run my own personal business which I use in sponsoring myself while in school. I meet him again in early 2009, and my husband middle 2009. Two weeks after I meet my husband, this man who has now joined politics called me that he has been appointed has a commissioner in Ondo state I told him my husband to be his a photographer that we can come to cover him which he explained that he has used all his money for election and he does not have money to pay but he promised that he will link him up with other politicians when we get there, I informed my husband about it that we can actually go for the inauguration has a photographer which he obliged. A day before the inauguration I invited my husband for convention at redemption camp and he came and from there we left for Ondo State on our way that night we escape being robbed on the express to the extent that we had to sleep at the garage till the next morning, my husband nearly gave up the appointment with the man but I was the one that encourage him.
Getting there he was opportune to snap the governor (Mimiko) before even snapping the person we went there for, he frame it and gave it to the man to help give the Governor, the governor actually saw this and was impressed, he then order that my husband to supplied the frame to all the parastals in Ondo State which he made over 11 Million Naira from, he bought a house in his name from this gain and bought a Toyota Sienna in our name and gave it to me because he has his own Jeep.
Since he gave the car to me, my mother in-law became more vocal to the extend that she said why is it that am the one driving the car, that she gave birth to her son but am the one they gave a car to, she so much polluted my husband mind by telling him that the man God used in giving us a contact was my man friend. And secondly, all this while my mother-in-law was not in support of this mainly because I am a Christian. But my father in-law was. My mother in-law victimize me to the extend that she told me her son his not responsible for my pregnancy that I just want to use the pregnancy to tie him down, but at last she accepted with the aim of converting me to a Muslim, which I actually tried to do by following them to the mosque, wearing hijab and going for their service every Friday and Sunday. But yet this was not enough for her because she and my husband knew I was just forcing my self to please them.
Since his mother told him it is possible that the man that gave us the contact his my man friend, my husband changed totally with enough beating and insult. He beat me at any giving opportunity. To the extent that during my second pregnancy he beat me up mercilessly that I nearly loose my pregnancy at six month. After this the beating continue which I had to run away from home twice but he will keep on begging me to come back home. The last time before I took the decision to leave home he strangled me three different times and also threatening me with knife, broken glass and any object he can lay his hands on. This made me took those decisions I took by running away from home with my children. After much pressure from him, his dad and my uncles I decided to come back home. While I was away for two weeks his mum never called me. When we came back home the mum called his son to get a second wife that am not a good wife that if was a good wife I won’t run away with my children.

Presently my husband has thrown my things out, said I married him with juju by doing something in my private part for him to sleep with him so that he can love me. But now he said he has moved with elderly people and they have opened his eyes. He took my first baby away from me and throw my things out that he has seen another person that will take care of my children he tried taking the second baby from me but I ran away with my load that has already been thrown outside now am out with my second daughter and am pregnant. I need every advice and help right now.i had to use my phone to send this message to stella and as i wrote i have nowhere to sleep this night.God please help.Oh God.
Thank you all.''




*I HAVE HER FONE NUMBER IN CASE ANYONE WANTS TO HELP HER.WE HAVE GOTTEN HER SOMEWHERE TO SLEEP TONIGHT.....THANK GOD!