Friday, 18 October 2013
Domestic Violence : This Pastor Beats His Wife Every Week.SAD
I have a relation in my home right now. She got married to a winners chapel pastor in 2010,the marriage was awesome. The wife got delivered of a bouncing baby boy in 2011 and a baby girl just last month. But alas! She called me around 7am last week Sunday crying that she can no longer bear it, I was shocked. She narrated her story that this her pastor husband has been beating here mercilessly for a very long time .
That at the slightest provocation ,he'll beat her like hell . She then said they were preparing for service on Sunday that the husband then ask her to be fast in dressing for the new born baby while she was doing that ,she went to the kitchen to off the stove that has a boiling water on it,that was all. The pastor carried a lantern and wanted to pour kerosene on her saying"I will burn you to ashes and your family will come and carry your dead body" that afterall she's an orphan that no body will pick him on it. I cried because she had complications while giving birth. She said the night she came from the hospital after delivery that the pastor beat her and even on the day of the christening of the baby.
She said the pastor beat her almost every week . I called my brother who said she should come and stay with me in lagos for now,till they sort things out. The husband started sending sms threatening her. He said she should return his baby that he doesn't want her again,that he wants to marry another woman. Meanwhile,when all these started, the lady reported it to his co-pastors who just kept on encouraging her.
She popped the question yesterday ,asking me"aunty what do I do? I was like I am still thinking. I can't tell her to leave her matrimonial home nor go there to be killed by that man.
Stella what do I tell her?
*Blog Visitors please help out.
Please I know that project alert reads this blog,can they please contact me for the contact of this blog visitor to get in contact with the relation?.Thank you