Dear Stella,
I am 27 years old, single and I have been through several bad relationships over the years.
To the real deal, there's THIS cool, cute, sexy, caramel handsome guy oops!!! Need i say he's 6'5" and am 6' 1". (Smiles) met him through a mutual friend in the UK, and we became friends almost immediately, I didn't realise he was interested in me as more than a friend because he was going through a divorce but we were always looking forward to hearing from each other. We started exchanging pictures and we became more than 'friends'. *Giggles*
He thinks he is ready for a relationship but he hasn't figured it out yet, we have had an amazing two months together. Here comes the clause, the divorce proceedings of his one & a half year old marriage is ongoing. He's scared so am I, cus the way we fell in love was beyond us. Am scared he may switch off his emotions as he did with his wife.
He said one of the reasons they are getting a divorce is because they couldn't understand each other anymore which led to a complete switch off in their marriage and they decided to get a divorce instead of being unhappy in their marriage.
I really need your reader's advice on me and him. What do you think of me dating someone who is still in the process of getting a divorce? Even though I thought I had finally met my near perfect match. is it possible there might still be someone out there for me?
*they couldnt understand each other,he switched off and they are getting a divorce?...sweety something doesnt add up..look for friends of the about to be ex and try to find out what happened.....
all the best!
Olodo. Leave the man to handle his business. Do you know how many people file for divorce, go to hearings in court and in the end drop their case. Respect yourself small and stop all dese desperado moves, when the man is ready he will come for you, until then stop giving him osho free.
ReplyDeleteYou could have still made your point without the "olodo". Lets not always be too quick to insult people... She hasnt done anything wrong here...
DeleteThere is soo much bitterness in Nigeria.
U don't need to abuse d babe
DeletePple ve sex everyday
Some even have sex on dere 1st date
This lady here only had sex with the dude just last week aft being with him 4 two months
The said guy have been undergoing a divorce b4 she met him
Who knows if d guy doesn't wanna go into details of wat was going on in his marriage nd just summarise everything with "switch off"
Babe ve been there nd I know dat feeling
Mind you both need to talk abt ur fears and understand wat u both want
Me nd mine are still 2geda 2 years in marriage now!
Infact we had sex 5days aft we started talking!
Nne na one chance oh,better respect ur nwa agbogho before is too late
DeleteCyber Bullies. Their life depends on cussing people out. Olivia dnt mind them nne.
DeleteSweetie I advise you look for a guy without baggage. You could be a rebound trust me. The guy will be emotionally distraught so don't think it's love. It takes about 18months for someone to get over a partner while some never do. Chances are the guy might work things out with his wife. You mentioned their marriage lasted a year and half believe me it's not over between. It happened to me,we moved in together as a couple. Mind you that my own guy has been seperated for 3years and filing for divorce since the seperation. Be careful darling but then it could be real who knows*shrugs*
DeleteSister mi, u dey Yankee. Abeg go him state's court records and confirm say them they divorce true true. Because na standard lie from the mouth of naija men. We are divorcing when in fact they just did renewal of vows.
DeleteLmao,na their way be dt
DeleteNot all that glitters is gold. If this man could not stay in marriage for just 1yr and some months due to d reason he gave, then know that your may not last too cuz u're both experiencing an emotional high which will surely come down as time goes by (when una don see unasef finish). Just be watchful, I for one prefer a man is a widower than a divorcee.
ReplyDeleteEka
Do you have any evidence of the 'divorce proceedings'? Men are always in the process of getting a 'divorce'. Be sure u ve not entered one chance with Mr Caramel Handsome... Seems to me he has already even prepared soft landing excuse to leave you. After sex with you he tells you he and his wife couldnt understand each other hence the decision to split.
ReplyDeleteLet's be Frank, your height is going to be turn off for most guys (6"1) . All the best , short girls rock!! !
ReplyDeleteAbeg shut up your dirty mouth if you have nothing to say...short girls rock indeed...i'm 6"0 and I've never had problems with guys. My hubby is 6"6....if e deye pain u go kee yourself mumu
DeleteMumu! How comes most men keep looking for tall girls to wife? Abeg tall girls making sense
DeletePealie, I noticed you are wearing a push up bra because the breasts on your picture look nice compared to the former one..........
DeleteHahahahahahahaha. Pealie o!
DeleteGuys! Learn to just have a good laugh sometimes.
@Pealie, ur comment wasn't very smart but I dnt knw why I'm laughing so much. Buahahahahahaa....I laf so tey my lacewig fall
DeleteMshewwww idiot! its always rubbish that comes out your mouth, I'm a smallish person but its dumb to say a tall woman would be a turn off for a man.maybe cos people indulge your stupidity you think you are cool,are you that ugly sef thats its just your boobs you display,don't be deceived by the person that called ur boobs double ds it looks lke a C @best a D cup.fools lke u can critise cossy bt u don't hve half of what she does bt that's all you display. For the poster just tread carefully
Delete*that its just your boobs
DeleteDon't do it! Been there, done that! I married him and he got tired of me in a month! My eyes cleared 1-2. Some guys are not cut out for marriage.
ReplyDeleteOne chance.
ReplyDeleteThe worst thing a woman can do to herself is to fall in love with a fresh divorcee or even divorcees in general! The truth is because these fools have been there and done that, marriage doesnt mean anything to them anymore! going through a divorce or being divorced means they are finally free of any woman questioning them and monitoring their moves etc.. bascially as if you have freed them of shackles! they sleep with anything and everything in skirt and in the process end up destroying their lives with several baby mamas etc! you dont want to know what i went through in the hands of a divorcee i loved with my everything! dude was cheating on me and was damn good at it! we were together 24/7 and the bastard still got a hoe pregnant 6 months before our wedding! i found out and called the wedding off!
ReplyDeleteSTAY AWAY FROM DIVORCEES !!! 90% OF THEM ARE BASTARDS!!!
Don't mind the mumu! A man that can't be bothered to work on his 18 months marriage is "the one"? Just because of 5 mins roll in the hay? Continue to giggle n smile. You guys deserve each other. He will lose interest in you so fast, it will make your Brazillian hair extension spin! Abeg, no come cry on Stella's blog o.
DeleteThat your ex was a bastard doesn't mean every other divorcee is pls...you sound so bitter jeez....have a positive approach and maybe you can find love again. My brother is a divorcee and he is the most amazing man I've ever met i'm not saying this because we are related. Free yourself of all the hate jeez
Delete@ na me talk am you are aa naive as the lady who sent her story in...its people like you that see danger and stupidly go into it with sentiments..now answer my question. Have you dated or slep with your brother? Stop being stupid and be factual! ! You cannotvouch for any human being except yourself. .if your brother handled his marriage like a man just maybe he will not be tagged a divorcee as you just tagged him! DENDE! For your information, I have over moved on sef! Married to a sensible man who I just bore a beautiful baby girl for!!!
DeleteTagged a divorcee? Are we still living in Puritan times? Where's the scarlet letter, where are the stones? Let us stone all divorcees!!!!
DeleteAbeg crawl back under that rock you came out from. People get divorced for several reasons and it shouldn't be a stigma to be divorced. Nobody goes into a marriage hoping that it won't work.
It's obvious you are still pained about the way the dude dumped sad ass. So every divorcee now is evil abi. You'd rather they remain unhappy all in the name of being married to prove a point to idiots like you? Did u come to the conclusion that divorcees are fools before u started dating one? You even went as far as planing your wedding. Or u did after he dumped you. I really pity for that your husband I wonder how he copes with a sad Bitch like you. It's obvious u were the guy's side chic. Being married doesn't make u a saint either. It's people like u that will be going through he'll in their marriage and still stay put because being married is a great achievement.
DeleteLol@ na me talk am, , youare obviously a divorcee! He pain you eh? Heheheh? My dear hopefully you will find someone who will re wife you soon! LMAO!!!!
DeleteMUMU OF LIFE! VOLTRON FOR DIVORCEES..IT'S THIS ATTITUDE THAT DID NOT MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR BROTHERS MARRIAGE WORK! YOU AND YOUR BROTHER SHOULD GO BACK TO SCHOOL AND LEARN HOW TO MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK!
I was engaged, smelt the coffee and backed out! A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage! I smelt the coffee and saved my life! You and your divorced brother have no brains and couldn't smell thr coffee! SHALLOW SOUL!!!
Na wa oo take it easy.
Delete"Am scared he may switch off his emotions as he did with his wife. " #quoting you. Do you want to know the truth? You have every reason to be scared! You did not "fall in love' with him, you "fell in lust". "Six feet five sounds like six feet grave". Old girl, you can see you've started with sex; exactly what you fell for. This is the reason why you've had very bad relationships like you've mentioned. I am a man and I know that once a lady opens his legs before marriage, she loses respect (the kind a wife should have). How about another lady dating him when he is in a divorce proceeding with you; how about that? What happens to the wise injunction of "do to others as you will like them to do to you"? Babe very soon, you will not be "giggling" but "grinding your teeth". If I tell you "all the best" I will be deceiving you. It is all the worst . . . Jesus loves and seeks you.
ReplyDeleteGBAM! U hit d nail on d head. I love ur comment. Oya chop kiss. Mwaaaaaaah.
DeleteLol @ all the worst. Advice yourself girl. Not all dt glitters is gold
DeleteGirl very soon the "caramel" intoxication go clear well well for your eyes. You just they fuck another man's wife o. No wonder all ya relationships dey get k-leg before. Sorry, no be relationship you dey have all these while na fuckershionship.
ReplyDeleteWith all these your "Giggles" and "Smiles" sef, it shows you are easily "Tortoreed"(consult the Niger delta dictionary for the meaning of totori) and easily carried away. Cool down, study the guy, carry out some underground investigations on the guy and his EX, evaluate your own feelings critically and give the friendship some time. Dem no dey rush enter marriage like that especially when the previous one was so short lived otherwise all your "Giggles" and "Smiles" will turn to "Weeping" and "Wailing". No be by 6"5 and 6"2 dem take dey contract successful marriage o.
ReplyDeleteIt is an honor to offer a piece of advice to you. Babe, did you say you fell in love? Let's see . . .
ReplyDelete1 Cor 13: 4 Love is PATIENT, love is KIND. It does NOT ENVY, it does NOT BOAST, it is NOT PROUD. 5It DOES NOT DISHONOR OTHERS, it is NOT SELF-SEEKING, it is NOT EASILY ANGERED, it keeps NO RECORD OF WRONG. 6 Love does NOT REJOICE IN EVIL but REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. 7It ALWAYS PROTECTS, always TRUSTS, always HOPES, always PERSEVERES.
Note the words in uppercase. Is that what you just fell into? We've lifted from the "manual of life". Regards.
My dear pray abt it. If he's for u, den O°˚ be it..
ReplyDeleteI have tried so many referral websites but they haven't been real. But this one I joined a month ago is realistic. Just earned my first monthly payout via western union..http://MonthlyJobPay.com/?id=iheoma
Na wa oo, 1 and half year marriage going through divorce? I bet if someone had told his about to be ex wife, the love go clear her eyes like this, she mo go gree.... Have Mercy Lord oooo
ReplyDeletei agree with you. divorcess are clueless failures and bastards. never do wells. ie one charles osaro in ph that used to follow follow Timipre sylva. well its always good to know.NEVER DATE A DIVORCEE.
ReplyDeleteSo u know charles osaro? I heard he has gone into hiding in Uk oo! That's hw he invites girls to sylva's house in abuja and claim d house belongs to him na so him dey deceive girls
DeleteIs this Homa? Hmmmm so charles no marry u again? Buahahaha
DeleteSo u know charles osaro? I heard he has gone into hiding in Uk oo! That's hw he invites girls to sylva's house in abuja and claim d house belongs to him na so him dey deceive girls
DeleteOmg! U know charles osaro? I heard he has gone into hiding in the UK oo as efcc dey trail am. Charles wey dey carry girls go sylva house for abuja and be claiming it's his house. He lived off timipre sylva I doubt he has anything going for him. Fake bastard!!
DeleteHahahahaha Charlie osaro matter don reach SDK well thats strange. He is a cursed divorced jobless Bastard. His ex wife cursed him I'm sure thats why nothing works for him. He lived off Timipre sylva n lied to all the women he met. Even heard he was timipres cook in abuja that later became close friends. Lesson to young women NEVER CHOOSE A DIVORCEE over a promising young single dude. Charlie is hiding in lagos now changed his name and grown full beards still fucking around wd d small change left from timi.
DeleteGoodness gracious.......don't knw this dude but he seems to have offended you lot.
DeleteWe are not offended, we are happy we didn't marry his broke ass. Lol
DeleteStella you need to open a fresh post on dangers of marrying a divorced man, wetin this oosaro man do 4 ph na die oh. Him engaged like 20chics all in queue 4 marriage them come run go change name relocate to lagos abi london grow beards and started same line of washing. Lagos ladies beware,he is in your zone driving 2013 cars lying all over the city. No house,no job, nothing na only that motor e get. Lol.
DeleteIn my honest opinion, u r a "rebound"
ReplyDeletestella where do u get these funny smiley...always fits the story.
ReplyDeletemadam lovina easy ooh. the guy will soon drop you like its hot. He is going through a tough time and u r using sex to distort his brain.. THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE FOR U.
That's how one married man is on my case. At first he started sending subtle signal now its full on hard and i hav to work with him erryday. uuurrrgh God help us singles. Le boo where r u??**sobs**
Divorcees and single men wit one or more baby mamas should be a no go area 4 young ladies, cos most of them ar chronic un-repentant liars. They ar bad news. Don't be suprise if his claims of divorce process ar lies, jst leave him alone jeje n go ur way,
ReplyDeleteWo, Obirin! You wrote something "he thinks he is ready for a relationship but he has not figured it out yet"...babes, that one sentence has revealed bros to me. Dude is not getting divorced, you are his runs. He knows that you are not the sort of girl to date married men (Thank God for that), so he formed this story for you. After a couple more times of osho free, he will withdraw from you. In desperation you will ask him whats wrong and he will tell you that he and his wife are thinking of getting back together and he needs space. END OF STORY!!! Be wise and end it now! No man going through an emotionally and financially draining divorce will actively seek out other relationships
ReplyDeleteP.S. Am a girl and I have heard too many stories like yours
My dear u are on a longgggggg thing. Run for ur dear life if u don't wanna be hurt again, Mr Caramel is nothing but a heartbreak hotel. All the clues are there but u are so in lust to even notice
ReplyDeleteDon't generalize please. Most divorced people tend to know what exactly they want because they've done it before.
ReplyDeletePealie is saying that you as 6 foot can only cater to 6 foot and above but short women can cater to all.
ReplyDeleteah ah. see personal issue.
ReplyDeleteMale divorcees are nothing but trouble. They are complete failures and messing with them will just get your heart broken. Think about it, if the man could not care enough to make his marriage work the first time, what makes you think he will care enough the second time. This is a man that could not even try hard, he is divorcing after a year plus. His excuse is that he lost interest in his wife. The wife no even do anything, he just dey throway the woman sha!!! Babe, you are his mugu o!!!
ReplyDeleteWell said
DeleteGod bless you! If a man can't make a first marriage work, if he's not patient and matured enough to tolerate his wife's excesses, he can't n will never tolerate urs when he finally ties d knot wt u! Its dat simple!
DeleteDivorcee {'guys' cos 99% of ladies(divorcee) wre only dumped by dre husbands} are nt just liars, bt they are yet to grow up, they are d type that are so spoilt n blv they can do away wt anythn cos its nt jst workn for them!
Pls thread carefully n don't get carried away! A guy who's out of his marriage in less than 2yrs is nt someone u run to fall in love wt.
You sound quite immature to be going into such a complicated relationship. Save yourself the heartache and find someone who is drama-free.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 11, you are full of wisdom
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 11, you are full of wisdom
ReplyDelete@Anoymous 1:25pm I know 1 charles Osaro in ph 2 d guy ehnnnn.well I say no more don't know if he's d same person
ReplyDeleteSame some more na the same charles osaro divorcee wey live for ph wey get one dead restaurant for stadium road before timi come bless him life. Knack me your version of this gist. Idiat divorcee never do well.
DeleteAwooooooo na d same charles ohhhhhhh.d gist nor b 4 public ohhhh but I thank God say I nor go futher wit am.
DeleteWell its all in d past now.d guy was sometin else I hope n pray God 4gives him.but some men shaaaaa.I 4 give u full gist but na market place b dis.let's just 4get d matter.I guess u know every tin already
Delete@10.12- gimme the gist jor, e still dey pain me 4 body. I even loan am money join. Ph is small n weird though.
DeleteLoooool the guy really messed you guys up. Naija gurls with chicken brains especially when they see a guy that's made they would form love that doesn't exist. Good for guys.
DeleteYankee girl with pig brain; fall out of this convo pls you no nothing about the Charles osaro in question, he was broke to the teeth. Type his name on Google and help your self with answers. He is a broke criminal who only deceived women in ph with marriage gist. Thank me now. Uchu Ewu ocha.
DeleteAnon 8.27 Yankee pig with cow brain. Nkita lacha gi anya cz u r Def a naija goat.
DeleteHmmn, der is a well published research that states that all first marriages av a 50% chance of ending in a divorce, so u av to work for it.
ReplyDeleteNow, after the first, d second marrige has a 66% chance, and d third a 75% chance. And d probability continues to increase. Now for an individual who has gone thru divorce, irrespective of how good his new wife is...d chances r that d marriage wl end in a divorce cos their threshold keeps dropping...dey av done dt before so its easier to do it again. And it actually agrees wt common sense.
Now I am nt writin off divorcees bt d way urs has happened il advice u press d pause button. Even wt relationships u r adviced atleast a year before goin into anoda let alone marriage.
Take it easy my lovely, looks like u on a roller coaster and usually dt ends in a crash or throws u off d cliff....all d best still
So many bitter bitches up in here. Divorce is 50/50. So it can be the woman or the man who was the cause. Never write off anyone but get to know them. I suggest you hands off for now till the divorce goes through. It's better they are divorced than miserable. Also, show him this post and listen to what he has to say. Also watch his reactions too. Most importantly think with your head and not ur heart
ReplyDeleteDis has to b the dumbest comment ever. So she shud show him d post nd den wat? He puts up his best deceptive act? Gush cant deal!!!!!!!!
DeleteAm sure if you were smarter than the thinking capacity of a mustard seed you would have dropped a comment, rather than replying someone else's like a stark lunatic. Dumb does not even begin to describe your response. Am sure you lack understanding of what you typed or read here
DeleteThree things, is he really getting a divorce? This is a standard line adulterous people use. Look into it he is still with his wife and she probably has no clue this is ongoing.
ReplyDeleteSecond thing, alarm bells should sound if he is ready to move on so quickly after a marriage of less than 2 years.
Thirdly another poster has said it all. What is love? When all the excitement and butterflies and giggles wane.. which my dear trust me they will do, what have you got left? Marriage is a struggle, very testing and several challenges. If it isnt built on an extremely solid foundation with God as a centrepiece Im sorry it just won't work. So please spare yourself a lot of heartache and look into this very well and pray about the situation. Goodluck
Babes calm down! From your writeup,i can practically feel your excitement and fantasies.
ReplyDeleteHis reason for seeking a divorce from his wife is way too flimsy yet you are still fantasizing being Mrs caramel handsome just like that???relax!
I think You are more connected with his looks than the real him. Do you know this man well? Remember looks can be deceiving. Look beyond the sex, beyond the looks....try get to his other side. What is he capable of. What is his xter like? Tolerance level, understanding level, anger level, compromise level....tick those boxes and others before you make your conclusion if he's the Mr you seek.
hmmm, always be careful with a divorcee, whatever they tell you, always try to hear from d 2nd party first before jumping into it..people just dont get divorced like that in nigeria, before they actually sign those papers, something terrible happened...FIND OUT!
ReplyDeleteThank you oo tall and proud of it - you rock whatever God blessed you with, so short Pearlie go sit your ass down.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I advise you to breakup with the guy and let him sort himself out. Tell him when or shall I say if the divorce gets finanlized then he can contact you. If he does, collect evidence of the divorce and check directly in court because I have seen a case were a guy produced false divorce papers - beware of our naija guys. My friend is happily married to a divorced guy for almost 10 years - the guy is a good husband/father, his first wife was just a nasty b*tch. So there are good men and bad men, just like there are good women and bad women.
A man that is checking out after 1yr and some months.........You want to carry ur head there, hahhahaha you never start . You life is go down hill so fast before you can say JACKROBBISON .
ReplyDeletemumu girl.... hiss
If love him,pray for him.Advise him to work things out wid his wife and pls take ur erronous emotn frm him.Also streamline ur relshp wid him....
ReplyDeleteI think I know who 'our' guy is. He's easy to love. But sweety trust me he's not ready for a serious relationship with anyone. I know cos we were together for a short spell. He's emotional unavailable. He seem distant sometimes with his male friends as well.
ReplyDeleteBiko hope not my Boo oh.
DeleteShut d F up biatch! U just delusional
DeleteIf u don't ve anything 2 say just mute it..
Now you too 5.27 fuck your generation. Idiat coward cyber fucking bully.
DeleteChukwu kpoo gi oku 4 saying I should shut up. Your generation should shut up already
DeleteHold up! You said you dont know if he loves you as much as you love him and, yet you said you guys fell in love... I'm as confused as you are love
ReplyDeleteYou might not like my answer but hey...imma talk anyways...
ReplyDeleteGod hates divorce!! And wat if the wife is trying to make amends to make her marriage work and Ull be the barrier in that relationship
Then again.....one year of marriage?? Switch off emotions??? Red flag boo!! If he didn't try to make itwork with her,he won't try to make it work with you..husbands are meant to love thier wives like Christ loves the everly unfaithful church...it's not by emotions
Don't worry God will give you your own husband if you wait in Him :)
pealie said:
ReplyDeleteLet's be Frank, your height is going to be turn off for most guys (6"1) . All the best , short girls rock!! !
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Madam, is this why we are here?
Commentator no 9, she's not fucking another man's wife, she's fucking another woman's husband.
and commentator no 8, a woman cannot open his legs for a man, but rather her legs.
Don't u guys proof read the nonsense advice you leave on here???
Lmaooooorotfl, hahahha dis is my best comment of the day, now where is the like button? lwkm. Odi egwu ooooh
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DeleteDifferent strokes for different folks I for once think that divorced men usually come in mature packages.
ReplyDeleteSisi caro is dat u?!!!!!!loooooool on all d comments here u guys rock men. Well would like to add to wat u all have said cos u all made ur points. Ms sexy cute caramel sweet pizzza n ice cream,open ur eye n don't fall a prey of divorcee. Enjoy d moment while its last. Could c u have a tin or 2 for him but try to control wat ever u feel for him now n be verysure he wants u as much as u want him. N pls commentors stop truing insults ond lady she hasn't done any tin bad here, love feelings,emotions are all beauiful tins.maybe just maybe if haters n just stop hating for second u might find love too. SweetestB
ReplyDeletewhy does this story sound familiar? if this is you nkem, you better leave that young man alone and stop lying that he told you he's getting a divorce because he isn't going to leave his wife you hear? woman that has 2 son's for him, you're a small fry. why kofo is leaving you is what i don't know but karma will get to you sooner than expected. and please stop going to redeemed camp to pray because you wont get answers; infact, keep going so that answers will come faster and bite you in that your black ass. smelling thing
ReplyDeleteU wish she's nkem?
DeleteSorry 2 burst ur bubble she's not #tongueout
Bro u wicked o @anon 12:33pm. But u hit d nail on d head totally. Thats all d advice she needs, a word they say is enough for d wise.
ReplyDeleteHe's getting a divorce after a year and half of marriage?
ReplyDeleteAnd while divorce proceedings are still going on both of you are ... let's be brutal here ... committing adultery.
Now you want to know if he is the real deal?
Lady, I do believe that soon-to-be-divorced-wife must have thought he was her real deal too. Now barely two years later, they are tearing up the paper.
And by the way, things are always sweeter and better and fun when we are dating, they only get tougher after - I DO.
My take? Mr Lover Man is afraid of commitments and you are playing with fire ... it burns.
Does his name start with Y and does he live in the US? If yes, you have entered one chance of life. As he chocolate reach, na so e lie reach. Spare yourself the torture. He's sick in ways you can't even appreciate just yet. Keep your market open abeg and consider him a booty call.
ReplyDeleteIf this is your guy poster, respond and I'll drop an email address you can mail anonymously. Does he shuttle Atlanta, and Nigeria, have 2 kids and did he just leave the UK or get there on vacation? He has lied to you about his marriage and much more.
DeleteI know someone with this profile. His name is Chibuzor..... Lies about everything. Has a wife and two kids in the UK and was deported but keeps lying to babes he's filing for divorce meanwhile he can't enter UK again...
DeleteThis girl nah olodo big time!!! Go ahead and marry him, you go see pepper!!!
ReplyDeleteAaaaaah you have just confirmed who you are @ Anon 7:56 God will judge all of us equally. Ah
ReplyDeleteAnd your height will be a turn off for most guys as well. Some men don't like giants and some don't like midgets... so tall and short girls rock depending on who you ask!
ReplyDeleteShut up already u dwarf
DeleteDang, you sound like a scorned woman. All this abuse over a story concerning people you no sabi and over a story u no even sabi if it's real? Na wa ooo... you have deep rooted issues, so seek help! You and everyone that are cussing the woman instead of giving articulate and sensible feedback.
ReplyDeleteSWEETHEART, MY DARLING, MY LOVE, DEAREST WRITER..... HOLD BODY!!!
ReplyDeleteListen, i am talking from experience. i am in ur age bracvket and i have been involved with two divorcees. initially, i was always thinking the women were wrong (with the stories the guys bring) but my dear, after few months with each of these guys..... i realised that no sane woman like me can live with them in peace. guys who have issues always pretend. they mask it. they will be nice for weeks, even months. but when u start to see the other side, u will hate urself for being stupid. my dear, relax.
I love you 4 this sensible comment.
Deleteto the original poster....you have been sooooooo had!! that guy just played you big time. i can assure you he is not divorcing his wife! i am confident of that...
ReplyDeletewhy am i so sure? because you cannot file divorce proceedings in Nigeria until the marriage is at least 2yrs old. this is the Law's way of recognising the challenges of most newly-wed couples in adapting to their new situation...
so if he has told you that he has filed for divorce and he's only been married for 18months..then that's your first clue that he's a liar...chances r (95% infact) the poor woman is carrying his baby and he's looking for a side-kick..
unfortunately, you are 'it'
Yes oo,they must have bin living apart for two yrs before the proceedings commence
Delete@27u need to be careful of who u date,this guy might just be a time waster,plz I beg u trend carefully and heed to dis people advice,
ReplyDeletedear commentors I wonder sometime if u all know eachother somewhere before with d way u guys throw curse at each other,#just asking# and the gist abt dis Charles ossoro guy a eg back us make una save Lagos Chic too.we fit treat his fuckup
@27u need to be careful of who u date,this guy might just be a time waster,plz I beg u trend carefully and heed to dis people advice,
ReplyDeletedear commentors I wonder sometime if u all know eachother somewhere before with d way u guys throw curse at each other,#just asking# and the gist abt dis Charles ossoro guy a eg back us make una save Lagos Chic too.we fit treat his fuckup
wise words from nike no 27
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