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Stella,
I am married to perhaps the most beautiful woman on planet earth and we are blessed with two boys. I neither drink nor or smoke but i love women. they are my greatest weakness. its really a problem for me because i keep a string of women who i sleep with when i feel like.
I actually cried one day when i examined my life. i have gone for several deliverance sessions to get rid of this lust in me but each time a pretty woman just walks by my whole system just shuts down like Alan Harper (two and a half men) and the ladies dont mind when i ask them out. i just cant understand it. they know am married yet they dont mind sleeping with me.
i considered castration. so i spoke to my doctor who completely disagreed with me and asked i discuss with my wife. i am too scared to discuss it with my wife cos i know she would resist.
i want to be holy and pure so that i dont go to church and see all the ladies i have slept with .. the guilt is too much for me to bear..
What i do?has anyone tackled such problem and scaled through without castrating themselves?
*Castrating yourself means cutting of your manhood?wow!
Your mind is where the problem lies,if you can discipline your mind,you can see a naked woman and you will not have an erection....well,you might have one but disciplining your mind will help you look and move on...good luck.
Any blog visitor experience and advice?
Ha! If u cut off ur manhood who will satisfy ur wife na? Hum I think this is spiritual, u need to seek God really hard on this please, don't do it.
ReplyDeleteIt's Charlie Harper, Mr. Poster. Alan is d mumu of d family.
DeleteCastration doesn't necessarily mean cutting off d manhood....it cld mean d removal of testes. A man cn stil have sex after castration bt wil b unable 2 reproduce cos dia wil b no production of sperm. Dia is also great decrease in sex drive or libido cos hormones responsible 4 dat (testosterone) produce by d testes wil b greatly reduced...so him fit stil get sexual contact wit his wife bt no more children....
DeleteYaron Allah
did u stop to reason that he could have been referring to the mumu of the family? I too know!
DeleteDiscipline! Discipline! Discipline and most importantly prayers is all you need right now. It starts from you and not visiting multiple churches all in the name of deliverance. You can do it yourself so go to God in prayers and work on it.
DeleteI'm sorry you are going through this and your wife has to deal with your philandering ways. Maybe it could be a psychological thing or as a result of where/who you associate with.
There's also chemical castration which involves the use of drugs to reduce sex drive, compulsive sexual fantasies and capacity for sexual arousal. It can have side effects though like reduced body hair, loss of muscle mass and larger than normal mammary glands( man boobs).
DeletePoster has to take the plunge and confess to his wife because any decision he takes would affect her too. May God give him strength.
This write-up sounds like what is coming from a man who has too much time in the World.........
DeleteGet a Job/Life bro!
Get Mr.. wht are u doing going from one blog to another.. Any man who does not drink or smoke is a dog! Facts
DeleteCut it n let ur wife cook or fry it for u na...oshisco
ReplyDeleteLmfao. Hi-5...Cut it biko. SDK blog tho. I'm out! Looooool.
Delete@bitchplis, I totally agree with you. I fit even follow im wife chop!! Oshi Ashewo.
DeleteJust like stella said, dear u v to discipline ur mind. U v to be in control of ur mind n not d other way round.
ReplyDeleteExactly.......its ur mind u need to work on......meet a psychologist if u must.
DeleteAsk God to help u.
Exactly.......its ur mind u need to work on......meet a psychologist if u must.
DeleteAsk God to help u.
may God deliver you from the powers of dark.my dear not only you in this shoes.i cant take my mind away from gender.i go to church and i prayed and fast abt it but once i get off my knee am back to it. and all i imagine is me doing that thng and i even think abt the last i had how sweet it is.
ReplyDeletedont gerrit twisted love is beautiful somthng.
Leave M-amie out of it!!
DeleteI have no experience with castration but here is what i think you should do.
ReplyDelete1)Be genuinely born again: Forsake all,confess and promise him you will never go back to that act anymore
2)Pray and fast about your weakness:you need a violent prayer to destroy the demons in you,dry fasting will do even if its for a day.
3)Thirst for the sanctification experience: That would cleanse your heart from all negativity and give a new heart,a heart after God and the things of God.
4)Be Disciplined:You have to put your body under subjection, your body should not control you, you control your body,you have the right to,it is yours always.
5)Always spend more time with your wife alone:i don't know how young your children are but you should spend quality time with your wife alone, talk to her,play with her, take her on romantic dates and always find a reason to love her more everyday.
Lastly,Fill your mind with the right thoughts: let the love of God always be your priority, the genuine love of your wife and kids revolve around you,and also always put yourself in check,look at the mirror and ask yourself,do i feel better?Does this love feel better?this is the much i know, i guess they are better advices you can learn from.
1Cor 9:27
I concur
DeleteYaron Allah
I want to add , "go to the right places" and "be with the right people".
DeleteDon't walk in the counsel of the ungodly, seat in the seat of sconners or stand in the way of sinners. Don't be found in clubs, parties, bars etc, where u can always see willing girls. Help yourself first.
I want to add , "go to the right places" and "be with the right people".
DeleteDon't walk in the counsel of the ungodly, seat in the seat of sconners or stand in the way of sinners. Don't be found in clubs, parties, bars etc, where u can always see willing girls. Help yourself first.
Its all in the mind,learn to control urself,discipline urself and teach ursef to have self control above all,castrating ursef isn't the solution
ReplyDeletePoster is a very irresponsible, undisciplined, selfish and stupid man.
ReplyDeleteYou love women, how many of the women you love did you take to the alter and swear to God to love and honor? (Unless you are a Muslim. ...)
You probably dont use condoms when sleeping with your numerous women.....endangering the life of your wife and kids. How utterly stupid are you?
Then you think castration is the solution to indiscipline? Joker of the century! So if the doctor dint tell you to go talk to your wife, you would have chopped off your blokos without informing her? And if you ended up with a chopped blokos, who would fulfill your matital duties to your wife? Very selfish man
What you need to do is, if you are a Christian, to give your life to christ and ask the holy spirit to guard you.
Gbam! God bless you.
DeleteMs
Come on, be nice to d poster; at least he feels some remorse, which is more than can be said for a lot of men in his shoes.
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes n cupcakes, Cheers
exactly!
DeleteNo need for the insults,, you are not holier than him.... at least he has taken the 1st step which is admitting that he has a serious problem... learn to advise objectively without throwing insults, hiding under anonymous to bully people is worse that the problem this man has so mr anonymous" insulter" be warned
DeleteOh my God!I am in stitches!Lol@chopped off ur blokos.
DeleteUna sabi vex o!hehehehehehe
Oh my God!I am in stitches!Lol@chopped off ur blokos.
DeleteUna sabi vex o!hehehehehehe
Coco nj, im a mrs (yes, im female and i am holier than he..... I take my wedding vows seriously) And my name is Jennifer.....I dont have anything to sell or market, hence I dont have an account.
DeleteIm not sorry to say, the poster deserves whatever insults he gets from anyone.
Bros no be only you, we plenty... I have beautiful wife, who I love and respect somuch... But menh it's not easy to close your eyes against some booty o... I've tried many ways.. I've even stop hangingout with friends just to ignore this... But it's been to no avail. Most time I look at my wife and I feel pity for her, if I truly deserve her, she is too good to be mine(I thank God thou).
ReplyDeleteOne thing for sure I know I'll change and also be a Good father.. Becuase I'll want to live an examplary life for my children.
I also think it's our mind that works, not any demon, we can control it.. I'm trying my best anyway... One more thing if you must do, USE CONDOM o.. Make u no pass sti to madam o, she will never forgive u.
Hahaha...do not assume your wife doesn't know this! Infact I dare you to investigate properly she is doing the same. Ode!
DeleteLol....
DeleteThe thing is that I am very sure your wife is aware you are cheating on her. Every woman knows when she's being cheated on....she's probably waiting 4 u 2 come to your senses.
Ppl get wahala oh. No problem we knw go hear. Try n discipline ur mind n be prayerful
ReplyDeleteDon't even try it...God forbid anytin happening 2 ur kids,bt think abt wat wil happen 2 u n ur wife wen u lose their enemies prematurely n u can't reprosuce cos u av castrated ursef...my 2cents is dat anytym u r tempted 2 fornicate juz tel ursef dat u r stronger dan d temptation oo..
ReplyDeleteThat isn't the solution to your problem, pray hard and make conscious effort to desist from the act. Wishing you the best in your struggle.
ReplyDeleteCastration!!?? doesn't your wife need it?? (i mean your dick )…Ha!
ReplyDeleteTo add to my earlier post... If u castrate yourself sir, mehn! madam will play home and away o... While you'll be the refree.
ReplyDeletepls dont even try it , u need to follow stella,s advice, by the time u cut ur manhood anoda probs will come, u will no longer trust ur wife just becos u dont av d**k to satisfy her,the probs will now b who is sleeping with ur wife n bla bla bla
ReplyDeleteYou better padlock your man-hood and give the keys to your woman....hope u dey use condom sha....abeg no give your wife disease....
ReplyDeletemy thought exactly,padlock manhood and let your wife be the key holder.
DeleteProblems dey this world o! I'm sure it started off like a joke. That's why people shouldn't get addicted to things. Now it's like a spirit that you can't control. God can help you....thank God you don't like it, and you want to change a lot of men are like this. But they don't see it as a problem to them is normal. Because they go about believing God created them that way... saying it's in their DNA. that's how one man ended up contracting HIV and now his wife and unborn child is positive. You don't need to cut your dick lol. Let your weaknesses be your strength. BellaX
ReplyDeleteDnt get d concept of castration wrong....it's nt cutting off of d manhood bt rather removal of d testes or rendering Dem useless by any means.....
ReplyDeleteYaron Allah
It is only God that deliver you, I understand how you feel dear poster. I was in a similar position for close to 15yrs I masturbate so badly mehn. Started from age 12 till I had an encounter with a man of God that delivered me nd I tell you after that deliverance it ceased from dat day. I am a lady. So I would suggest you visit a powerful man of God to help you.
ReplyDeleteI'm in the same boat my brother. I have a very beautiful wife. She's God fearing, comes from a very very very good home, she's well brought up, her family is very well known where she comes from, she has a very very sound education from the best universities abroad, she's also 7 months pregnant and I love her more now than ever before. She comes from a very wealthy home yet she's the most humble woman I've ever met. Even in pregnancy, she attends to all my needs, makes sure she prepares my food herself all the time. Anytime I remember Proverbs 31, I remember my wife. She is the epitome of a great woman. My friends are envious of me even because of how good she is to me. Even as difficult as my parents are she has never ever had any problem with them. Stella, I love her more than she will ever know. I adore her. But I have cheated. A lot. And it breaks my heart anytime I do it. Wifey found out once and it broke my heart seeing her cry then. I swore I'd never do it again but I carried on. The thing is that the girls even I cheat on her with, my wife is a billion times finer than them. My friends even tease me cos of it. I think it is spiritual because I've tried and I keep trying. I have NO reason to cheat on my wife. So why do I still do it? It's not like she's fat or ugly. She's stunningly beautiful with an amazing figure. If she walks out on me, my life will be over. Totally. I want to stop cheating on her. I need help. I've told the women outside even that I'm married. One of them has seen photos of my wife and heard her speak. And she asked me why on earth am I cheating? That was the last time that lady had any encounter with me cos she said I must be a very wicked man to treat my wife in that manner. Stella, please help me. I totally understand what this poster is going through. I've started praying seriously now though so I'm hoping with God, i'll stop this. God bless.
ReplyDeleteOh boy ehh! See casala wey you don put yourself.
DeleteHmmm! i don't even know what do advice you sef.
Why do you do this to your wife? From all your encomium about your wife you still do this to her.
Anyway, who am i to judge you.
Pray hard and draw closer to God. Cut all form of avenue that may draw you to temptation.
When you fall into temptation remember the voice and word of God and try to picture your wife and even the unborn baby.
Biko! Ejo! i beg you don't spoil what you have for few minutes of pleasure. You made a vow to her in the presence of God and man so keep to it.
I'm out!!!!!
Abeg gaan siddon.
DeleteSpiritual indeed! That's the nonsense PDP umbrella you people hide under to commit atrocities.
Its pure greed, nothing more. You, the poster and other men like you are just greedy fools. Until you lose your health, your family or something important, you won't desist from your shameless philandering.
Ole! Olojukokoro!
It's not just one who flies at night that is a witch or wizard. U Mr man are a wizard! Simple. How can a woman be all this and u still fuck outside? I pray that ur wife dumps ur sorry ass!!!!!!!
DeleteAdmitting your problem is the first step to the solution. You have tried on your own bt no headway y not try it God's way. I would advise you visit a man of God to conduct a serious deliverance on you by dat you ll be set free indeed.
DeleteThis man is a big fool. U stated that u have no excuse to cheat. So what is ur problem? U made a promise to ur wife when u took her to the altar. Keep that promise and stop turning ur stupid penis to public commodity. Haba! Wetin sef! Me wen get bad wife sef never treat am like this then na u! U don't deserve ur wife at all. She deserves a real man and one day a real man will snatch her from u. U think bcos she's quiet she's a fool? O boy, she dey plan how she wan take fuck u up. Carry on Fucking outside ur home. Remember r Kelly that said when a woman is fed up, e no get anyamount of begging wen u fit beg. Idiot like u!
DeleteDear poster. I was once in your shoes. My ex wife is just like ur wife. I was stupid to think she would never leave me because we had 2 children together. How wrong I was. She left me and is now happily married to another man. I am still in shock. If I could rewind time I would never have looked at another woman. Bcoz I have lost the best thing that happened to me. None of the women who I even cheated with could come close to my wife. I have tried to have a relationship but every other woman pales in comparism to my wife. Poster, the day ur wife gathers up the courage, she will leave u and she will not come back. Don't allow urself be in a position of had I known. No whore is worth losing ur home over esp when u have a good wife and u say u do. Very soon u will start giving another man a chance to make ur wife smile. Then it will be too late for u. Get ur act together aAND make a fresh start. Good luck
DeleteOle OLojukokoro, alainitelorun, alapamasise, ole okunrin.
Deletei hope your wife leaves your cheating arse.
Sumbo.
I detest men like this poster! God will punish u and men like u that cheat!! If ur wife does the same thing, you'll probably start to cry like a bush baby! I agree with anon that called u a wizard. U be real wizard. He-goat! Useless man! I will fast and pray that ur wife leaves u! The scales will fall off her eyes soon! Hopeless idiot! Anuofia!
DeleteI hope all u stupid people who always blame women for cheating husbands are reading this.....some of them have their demons and no matter what you do they will cheat......it's even more annoying when women themselves blame other women for a cheating hubby.....May God help you and deliver you before you go and jam the woman that will shorten your lifespan.......randy he goat
DeleteCut it off, give your wife make she take cook jollof rice. Mumu. How can you even think like a child? My friend train your prick to me more respectful.
ReplyDeleteHehehehehehehe.why una get mouth like dis na???!!!
Delete1000 likes for this comment!I
Stella dear, there's chemical castration which is more common than the old school physical method. When people go to rehab for sex addiction, what do you think they do there?
ReplyDeleteTry and have self control, talk to urself about wat u want and stand by it! No feel say madam go stay if u cut dat thing oooo hummm hemmm sugar cane no b waiting dem take dey play oooo.....
ReplyDeleteDear poster go get the book Battle Field of the Mind by Joyce Meyer, it will help know how to fight and win the battles in ur mind.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious!!!
ReplyDeleteit takes genuine spirituality and discipline to stick to one woman
ReplyDeleteperhaps if you are more enlightened about the spiritual implications of adultery you will desist from the act
D main fact here is, r U bornagain?
ReplyDeleteIt's abt deliverance sessions?
It's start 4rm U totaly surrendering 2 God!
I canof undastand wat U going tru, ie runin 4rm sometin but yet bin cut in2 it!
Bt I don't no d extent of Ur efforts.
If ladies attract U, den stop evry contact(as much as possible) wit dem.
Also find out wat has bin d case wit Ur family(it cld b is a generation issue) or curse, wen it startd...cld b dat it was afta a sex session wit a particular lady dat d probelm startd!
Den reconsider Ur life,mak a final decision n b sincere abt Ur repentance!
Go 4 deliverance n U c God helping U?
Remember if U dnt stop it, it wil stop/destroy U!
HRH
I HAVE A FRIEND WHO COMPLAINED OF BEING PROMISCUOUS TOO, PRETTY MUCH LIKE THE POSTER. HE WAS TRANSFERRED TO WORK IN SAUDI ARABIA FOR 6 MONTHS AND GUESS WHAT? HE KEPT HIS BLOKOS UNDER LOCK AND KEY FOR THE WHOLE PERIOD!
ReplyDeleteMORAL OF THE STORY: YOU DO IT CAUSE YOU WANT AND YOU CAN. ALSO THERE ARE NO IMMEDIATE CONSEQUENCES/REPERCUSSIONS!
NOISE MAKER
Stop shouting
DeleteThis!!!!
DeleteGbam......let God come and tell them that anyone who fornicates or commit adultery will fall down and die, all their pricks go obey sharply......men have been taught to think they can get away with anything and it's a man,s world so a lot of them have no self control....renew your mind that's all u all need...
DeleteFirst of all, its Charlie Harper.
ReplyDeleteDude, you are absolutely promiscuous. Only you can amend your ways. Aint nothing nobody says here can change you.
You knw deep down u can NEVER get castrated.
Quit playing games with ur home and be a good hubby.
A problem shared is a problem half solved. All d best I hope u get advices dat will help u out @ d end of d day but abeg no castrate ursef. Do u want anoda man to b worshipping in ur wifey's temple?
ReplyDeletePls holla at me when u want to cut it so I can come down and get a part. I like that part that taste like pkomo. Its been a while, I'm craving for it right now
ReplyDeleteso u are so shallow to blame ur dIck, don't worry years from now when ur daughter gets married and her husband is cheating on her and she reports to u and the young man makes this excuse I hope u will clap for him and take him for deliver ance.e wats wrong with men these days don't u know u made a vow before God and u ve a responsibility to control yourself. my father lived this kind of life today he is full of regret and wishes he could turn back time. fear GOd and do the right thing ..... Magical Eyes
ReplyDeleteANGELRAY SAYS,
ReplyDeleteU are a very LAZY man, abeg park joor, go and look for a good job dat will take most of ur time dat way u will ve less time for women, ODE.
ANGELRAY SAYS,
ReplyDeleteU are a very LAZY man, abeg park joor, go and look for a good job dat will take most of ur time dat way u will ve less time for women, ODE cut ur penis make u rest.
Poster pray,pray,pray and pray. Tell ur wife about it also and let her know u re willing to change. U shld both agree in prayers on the issue since u think it's spiritual. Anytime u feel d urge call ur wife and tell her exactly d way u feel about d woman distracting u. If she is an understanding woman,she can help u out. All d best o.
ReplyDeleteWell if it's that difficult to zip it than cause your wife trauma, may be u should dip it in a bottle. U are just cheating coz she is a good woman, u know can't try it with some babes sha. Used to have a neighbour that threatens d hubby she will seek help outside for him.lol
ReplyDeleteStupid poster....I hate it when people think they can make a mockery of the church.....if you go for true deliverance then you will be delivered.....do u think deliverance is for you to go to go for prayers then go back to your old life? Are you born again? Have you truly repented? Deliverance is not just talk and church is not for short term solutions....genuinely give your life to Christ, spend time to read the word and change your lifestyle then God can change you.....I don't know where u got that rubbish that castration is the cure for promiscuity.....you don't even sound like a serious person....mtschweeeeeew
ReplyDeleteRandy Men and their randy dicks...
ReplyDeleteWen ur wife leaves you for a better man, hope u won't come crying to Stella o. Coz u may tink she's not aware dat u are cheating but she's very much in the know.
U may come home to an empty house one day....
For as many that are going through this,they have admitted they are wrong and not even because their wives are bad, there is only one solution and that is christ.We can do all things in christ who strengthens us.run to him tell him you are sorry,call for his help and he will help you,it might look difficult but give christ a chance in your life.Is not enough to just say am a christian have an encounter with christ and it shall become a testimony.locate a good word believing church,don't forsake fellowship with other children of God read your bible there is God waiting to meet you in his word and pray always.all grace has been made available for you.
ReplyDeleteHmmnn,na wa o.My own hubby said to me that he prays someday he stops drinking and smoking but he doesn't think he can stop chasing women.His younger sister is now dating some dude who is rumored to 've a baby mama with 4 kids;I then asked him what he thought about his sister marrying such a guy,he went there is nothing wrong with womanising at least he isn't doing a guy.
ReplyDeleteMen are soo evil and wicked. I've been married 2 my hubby 4 years in Feb,and he cheats and I know. Its painfull and I've just put my mind off his attitude simply bcuz I can't die young. I'm just gon b 31yrs in June and I've 2 kids,honestly I just wanna leave him and relocate with my kids cuz its not worth it. When I was pregnant with my 2nd daughter,during my 2nd trimester I started spotting,went 2 d hospital and I was tested and I was told I had Staph,since then and till date I've not had any sexual contact with him bcuz only God knows d places he's bn 2,its soo scary,dr lots of diseases flying dr,and I don't wnt any1 apologising wn dy bring something dt cnt b cured home. I'm sure he looks @ me like I'm dumb and naïve,he dsnt knw I've plans 4 him,even if it takes me yrs 2 get dm excuted,I don't see us having sex. I wonder y men r wired like that. I've spkn 2 him abt it in d past,but he says its all part of imagination,Smh! I would survive,sometimes I wonder if men knw wt love,respect and honouring dr vows mean.
ReplyDeleteDon't do it you will miss orgasms !
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