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A 38-year-old civil servant, Silas Dodo, has prayed an Upper Area Court in Mararraba, Nasarawa State, to dissolve his marriage with his wife because she is HIV-positive.
Dodo, who lives at Masaka, Nasarawa State, told the court on Tuesday that he wanted to divorce his 35-year-old wife, he married in 2007.
He told the court that his wife was found to be HIV-positive following a recent test they had.
Dodo also told the court that he met his wife in 2002 at the Federal University of Technology, Yola, and they married in 2007 in a church.
He said both he and his wife were screened on the church’s directive for HIV before their wedding, and the result indicated they were HIV-negative.
According to him, not too long after their marriage, his sexual relationship with his wife deteriorated as she started denying him of sex.
The complainant said his wife was always falling sick, a condition that compelled him to take her to several health centres for test where she was found to be HIV-positive.
He said when he found that she was HIV-positive he instructed his lawyer to write her and his church.
Dodo told the court his wife later packed out of their matrimonial home in Masaka and went to live on her own at Auta Balaifi.
He tendered the result of the various tests on his wife to buttress his claim.
In her response the woman, who was not represented by a counsel, admitted that the HIV test results tendered by her husband were genuine.
Counsel to the complainant, Mr Elisah Onaji, therefore urged the court to adjourn the case to another date.
The presiding officer, Mr Vincent Gwahemba, adjourned the matter till March 31 for continuation of hearing..
Which adjournment again.both parties r not happy wt themslves anymore and none of them rili wants to stay back in d marriage.the court should stop prolonging cases jare.d man didnt say weda he s negative.
ReplyDeleteI tire o...court just like to dey do unneccessary serenren. Since the wife is not objecting,they should be divorced
DeleteThat is the normal proceedings. The couple may change their mind before the adjournment date and strike off the case.
DeleteWhen it comes to marriage, its never really over when they say its over.
DeleteWhy didn't they state how the woman contacted it.
ReplyDeleteI feel for her.
How did she get d dreaded disease? Is she promiscous? If she got it thru any other means apart from adultery, then d man is wicked by bringing her plight to d public.
ReplyDeleteSome men dese days are highly selfish and never ready to work things out,if it were the other way round now,the woman will be expected to stay and nurse him notwithstanding how he acquired' d sickness.God dey o!it's a man's world..
DeleteAnother marriage gone wrong making it easy for the side chick to easily come in;am sure some side chicks prayer point will be Father destroy his marriage,so i can resume as the official wife lol and funny enough it looks like that prayer is been answered much more of late.
ReplyDeleteSide chics like you abi? Praying for marriages to crash so u can assume the role of wifey. And who says yours wont crash eventually? ??. Just imagine where your mind went . That's cos dat is who u are. Better repent before the wrath of God comes upon u. Anuofia
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DeleteKaycee sometimes ur comments are so meaningless and I just wonder...
DeleteLol.... Easy o kaycee is a guy oooo.
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DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: so many unanswered questions going thru my mind. She could have gotten the disease tru other sources. It could happen to him too. He might not be totally clean. They need councelling!
ReplyDeleteIs d man negative, he was silent on his own status
ReplyDeleteGbam! Nothing on the man's status.
DeleteFor him to have the guts to do this, I believe he must have been faithful to her throughout the marriage. So he might be positive as well but he knows he never cheated.
Make we sha no forget say HIV isn't via sex alone ooo
I don't blame him, I just hope he hasn't contracted it...
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So d man couldnt stick to d wife and help her, its possible dat she has never cheated on him, she must have gotten it through other means..I feel for her sha
ReplyDeleteY are people dying in ignorance
ReplyDeleteJust one incision and u are protected for life.
What kinda of incision? Na so una dey take initiate people for winch. Shoir.
DeleteEzewanyi the only woman that scares HIV into its abode! Ha ha ha pepper is moving.
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What is d man's result abi he dint test himself after his wife tested positive to d virus??
ReplyDeleteWhy adjourning the case again,the woman in question seconded what her husband said and she has already moved out their house.
ReplyDeleteWhat about the man, is he negative or positive? I'm sure they were intimate at some during the marriage and without a condom too. And why is this news? Washing your linen in public. Some peeps sha, SMH for them.
ReplyDeleteKaycee nwannem, what does side chic prayer have to do with this matter? Biko kwa.
ReplyDeleteIf that is what the two want? Why not. He must be negative then? I wonder what happened to for better for worst.
ReplyDeleteKaycee is a guy oh, lol
ReplyDeleteFor the woman to quickly move out, seems she is guilty of something.
ReplyDeleteCos if na me, and I no I no cheat, we go fight am o. You must to do your own test & prove no be you infect me.
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ReplyDeleteMr Silas Dodo abi na Plantain r u sure u too have been faithful since u two got married? Any ways infidelity is a strong reason f a couple t go dia separate ways but rememb u r not allowed t remarry as long as Mrs Dodo lives only death can part u guys.
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