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Monday, October 20, 2014

Blog Visitor Cyndy Ifeajika's Boo Puts A Ring On It After 7years!






''Good morning Sdkers and Stellz. I've been in a serious relationship for seven years now. It's not been an easy one for us but we sure pulled through because God was the foundation of our love. 


I met Bae when I was in school. He was also a student. We were friends for about a year before we realized we were in love. Most of my friends tried all they could to discourage me from being with him cos like they said, "school boyfriend no dey pay. you need a working class dude to take care of your needs". 





I loved him more not Minding them. We had both good and bad times. Sometimes we were really broke at some point and rich at some point as well. We had our bad moments though but love kept us together.


 He graduated, went for service and got a job immediately.Then, I had "a working class boyfriend". Fast-forward to this year,he proposed on the 1st of October 2014. 
I am now engaged to my best friend. My blog name is cyndycandy and this is just a very short version of my story. I pray that all those searching for love will find it soon.''




*Awwwww,Congrats Babe.Happy engagement!
You didnt tell us how he proposed?was it a surprise?I can see you cried!

209 comments:

  1. Congrats dear.. May u find joy and peace.

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    1. BLOG ANALYSER: Congrats! True love is all I see

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    2. I hate ur stupid blog name. Fool

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    3. Congrats darl,may u have joy,peace and hapiness in ur home,God bless u both

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    4. Congrats dear, patience is always key!

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    5. Congrats girl!

      Pepper ose oku

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    6. Awwww!

      That's so sweet. Congrats. May this mark the beginning of better things.

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    7. Eyaaa! U tried shaa. I never did skul luv chachakwa! I always had my dudes working class, 419ners n drug barons. I had money eeh! Was never broke. Oh well, I'm happily married to an oil baron now. Congrats though!

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    8. Congrats Candy. A big Amen to the prayer.

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    9. I don't know what is wrong with people these days. You eat, you tell the world. You sleep your tell the world. Every thing you do is on social media. You better be careful. A word is enough for the wise and no am not jealous but I just feel the world we live in entails knowing what to put out there on social media.

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    10. Just say congrats and move on abegy, this kind of news is worth telling d world. Congrats girl.

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  2. My dear! School boyfriend dey sweet pass o! You are soon lucky to be marrying your best friend! Dt is sooo long-haulish baby!
    Congrats dear!!!

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    1. School boyfriend sweet for where? With all the poverty?? Mtzheeeeew. Sugardaddy anytime, anywhere.
      God punish poverty.

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    2. I still maintain my stand! School boyfriend never pays. You can imagine wasting 7 whole years of your life. When you'd have been done with child bearing by now.
      My friends all wish they had listened to me when I advised them. They are still single now while their buy friends are getting hitched one after another.
      I'm waiting for the day my younger ones will bring a school boyfriend to introduce to me. That's the day I will stop paying their school fees. The school boyfriend should be ready to take over.

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    3. Congratulations Candy, a big Amen to your prayer.

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    4. Gbam sweet mother...you forgot to add the constant abortion..
      School boyfriend is a total waste..

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    5. Sweet mother, i totally disagree with you, a lot of serious relationships which i know started in the university ended in marriage, my sister and many others are examples. One of my close friends married her course mate, same class, same age.If your school boyfriend is caring, nice , responsible and focused then i see no reason why one shouldn't stick with such a dude.

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    6. Isn't it better to wait and get married to the one who loves you than to rush in to marry a man who you really don't love but settled with because of the "biological clock"? You do realise that getting married early isn't a guarantee that you'll start popping out kids, yeah? Don't get me wrong, sweet mother, you have made some salient points that I agree with. True is, our Candy girlie's case is rare, a lot of college relationships end in despair and regrets. Where my opinion differs is the point of dating working class men so a lady can get married early and be done with child bearing. I still believe love should be one of the foundations on which marriage is built. What can I say? I'm a hopeless romantic. Yours is a more practical approach, though, but I can't imagine going through the rigours of marriage without being in love with my man. @ poster ; congratulations darling, I wish you guys all you've ever hoped for and much more. #e-bearhugs.

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    7. @ Sweet mother: I beg to differ. I married my school boy friend, my best friend and we will be celebrating our 4 yrs wedding anniversary next week by GOD'S Grace. Several of my friends that had ready made boy friends are still single for different reasons. Truth is, it can go either way for everyone but God is vital in all relationships.

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    8. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay20 October 2014 at 22:30

      Lmao! @sweet mother. I almost fell off my chair while reading your comments. I never had school bf, but maybe that's why I'm still single *shrugs* Congrats to the BV!

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    9. lmao...dis is just funny....well m still in skool sha 300level...i get skool bobo, working class bobo and american bobo....i cnt put all my eggs in 1 basket...but na onli 1 I dey fuck sha so m safe. anyone wey propose first i go follow cz i love all...lmao!...dis babe is lucky sha cz majority of skool boifrends are use and dump...tufia. dey will just lead u on n go...but as an ibo gyal dt I am...adim too sharp...av planned ahead....happy engagement baby gyal... dnt tolerate nonsense frm dis nigga oo...life is too short to be unhappy

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  3. Wow!!..
    Congra girl..but that your nails though..
    He should the needful sharp sharp...
    Don't be gods of the ring..

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    1. D nails fit tear live chicken into two

      Congrats dear
      U pretty too

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    2. What about d nails?????
      Bwahahahaha......

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    3. Lol, Linda ooooo.....
      Happy engagement dearie, we want wedding pictures soon.

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    4. The nails are quite pretty and feminine. I like.

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    5. @ Ezewanyi ; Lookie here, Lookie here! See who's back. Welcome honey, I hope your fangs will gnaw with a little more mercy this time around. Lol!

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  4. Wow! This is great news. Congratulobia to you dear! More blessing to you both.


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  5. Congratulation. A simple proposal is good too, no too much drama. I hope the engagement won't last too long before the real marriage.

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    1. Haa..the wedding should be this dec or early next year..no be engagement dem dey since?? 7years is not 7months oooh.lol

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    2. @ Iphie dearie ; hi darling, how have you been? I hope all is cool at your end. Sending warm wishes your way. #e-bearhugs.

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  6. Awww..! Congrats Cyndy, though ur blog name is unfamiliar.
    I wish u and ur fiance well.

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  7. Lmao! Stella surprise after how many years..it was a long time coming *In Puff Daddy's Voice*

    You guys look good together...thank God for patience! God bless you my dear...Open doors,marital bliss and gorgeous babies are your portion...Amen!

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    1. Congrats dearie. So happy for U.

      Baba God, be a boo provider.

      Iphie dearie, keedu? *hugs*

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    2. Manna Bee, God has answered your prayers, have faith.

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  8. ANGELRAY SAID
    Ow congrats darling, ur patient paid off,where are those aristo friends of urs that discouraged u, tell the single once among them NTOOOORRRRR.

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    1. Oloda rabata.

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    2. Good thing you mention "the single ones among them" Am sure a lot of them are long married and settled. 7years, and she is just getting engaged. Well... Good thing he finally proposed sha. Na big risk she take o. I can't deal

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    3. Afi patient. Clinic matters.

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  9. ANGELRAY SAID
    Ow congrats darling, ur patient paid off,where are those aristo friends of urs that discouraged u, tell the single once among them NTOOOORRRRR.

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    1. Some patients no de pay oo. Once u r done treatin Dem , na disss-appear dem be......erhmm *confused* wat d u mean sef?

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    2. Charry........ bwhahaha

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  10. congrats.. jus lik gift got married to uduak ova d wikend chai d wedding was sweet...

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  11. Congrats..but why are u now formin cry?.wetin u dey xpect before afta 7 years?hope u don't become Lord of d ring sha

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  12. I wonder why people can't just keep their private lives out of social media

    Congrats ooo. Am happy if u are happy

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    1. Area mama I hope u be area oo.....cos d names I dey see here no dey fit some owners ooo.....like fearless wey dey fear pass anything abi na bad mama jama wey no bad bad anything....abi na that oolosho wey call herself beautiful(ugly)and blessed(accursed)there is nothing fine about her oo.....live up to ur name as area mama oo....otherwise!

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    2. Pls I would like to have a blog Id without using Google. How do I do that. Thanks

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    3. What of his HRM ichie that hustles for recharge card?

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    4. Why would you like to have a Google Id without using Google? Are you hiding from something? You are asking for the impossible! like asking for sturgeon caviar from a catfish!

      Pepper ose oku

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    5. Ooh my days! That's cold! LOLZZ!

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    6. Hahahaha..... una no go kill pesin. I don laf tire today

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    7. Hahahahahaha. All Igwes are not rich na. U no dey watch African market.

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    8. What of oil money and plenty money?sexybukola that sell egg haha sexy my foot.

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  13. Congratz dear!
    Linda lord of the rings dear!

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  14. Oh the knuckles! Oh the knuckles!
    Hope d wedding comes befor April 2015? Dnt keep d ring for another 2years boo

    Congrats.

    So who wants to marry Xyz? I do have large yellow breasts.

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  15. 7 years of spoiling ur tohto..u are lucky sef coz if I were d guy I will dump u..any new tin in d marriage...Absolute not!

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    1. So Hiller you went anonymous after deleting ur comment u made wit ur blog name up there.

      Ooooooopsss! See who forgot to go anonymous earlier

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    2. Dump her ke??? Unfortunately, you are not the guy!
      You no know why the guy stuck to her toto? My dear it's called "sticking to Honeypot" she get honeypot! That never runs dry! No blame the guy! Love knows no boundary!

      Pepper heiss!

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    3. Then when you dump her you'll now go marry a new tohtoh wey don slack...wey deep like well...and who had abortion several times for former boyfriend with loads of hatred for men because she was dumped! oniranu onisekuse agbaya tabi omode ise...mu eyi to ba to si e nibe!
      Congrats jare candy, you'll find fulfilment there in Jesus Name!




      !!omu Iya dun!!

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    4. Congratulations but pls keep ur lives off social media. I wonder how we all coped before the social media craze. Now see people talking rubbish from the nails to school bf to knuckles

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    5. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay20 October 2014 at 22:35

      U see!!
      That is how Azubuike ended up with Chinwe. After digging Bertina's honey pot for over 10 years and dumping it for 'fresh' Chinwe. Today where is he? Yeye men! Always feeling smart and outsmarting themselves. Shioor!

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  16. Congratulations!!
    This one that it took him 7 years to propose, hope it wont take him another 7 years to do the actually wedding.

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    1. Ahahahaha d one n only udu money I just saw ur comment n burst into laftr. Abeg I dey wish well oh

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    2. Ahahahaha d one n only udu money I just saw ur comment n burst into laftr. Abeg I dey wish well oh

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    3. Bwahahahaha......I can see that.
      How far???

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  18. awww..congrats dearie..wishu all the best

    visit my blog

    www.glowysofiscated.blogspot.com

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  19. How sweet!congratulations

    *KARMAisabitch

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  20. Congrats dear,I pray blessings and marital bliss into your lives

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  21. This ur bobo looks like someone with big dick. Right or wrong?

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  22. Congratulations!!!!!!

    I am shocked at some of the comments I'm seeing here.this is happy news.if you can't task yourself to say something nice,then please shut up.you mustn't comment.


    *KARMAisabitch

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    1. Abeg tell dem,I don't knw why they like bringing someone down,if u can't say 'congrats' and move on,then shut up,nbody wants ur opinion,what ur business with d way her nails looks r d ring?d pint is she's engaged and happy!if u can't see d biger picture den u guyz shuld shutup period!

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    2. That's why good things don't happen to some. Be truly happy for others........

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    3. Shocked is an understatement!,im appalled.
      How much low can we go?????
      This is just too bad!

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    4. @ Kemie, and they begin to wonder why their case is always a near miss situation, failure, disapointment , rejection etc. If you are in the business of pulling people down and you are never happy about their achievements, yours will never come , it is that simple.

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    5. odogwu ezenwanyi no be you they find engagement ring for the geh finger and you are forming appalled. Na you bad passs.

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    6. I bad pass U @ lovelace????
      I dey learn work for ur hand naa. ..
      Bwahahahaha........

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    7. Frustrated people normally project negative vibes in their comments or interactions. It gets worse when they see or hear that someone else is being celebrated for whatever reason(s). Some even go ahead to hiss like a constipated python. Hissing at somebody's excitement, it doesn't get more bitter and resentful than that. Whomever she is and whatever she did or didn't do is strictly between her and her man. A doctor once said, the best way to know a depressed person is, as soon as they leave you, you end up feeling depressed as well. Miss/Mr wikileaks, please keep your malicious negative energy to yourself.

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  23. What are guys doing?haba 7yrs for dating hmmm mouth seal congrat tho

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  24. He was a student that's why it took him long.
    Congrats dear.

    New leaf is better than an old one
    I am changed
    XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. You sound like a broken record.
      No one cares.
      mtchew

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    2. Awwww, thata soo sweet dear, dont just be boring ok*hugs

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  25. Look at her dirty finger nails. Keep your cheap ring to yourself .Though I never got a ring but my partner spent millions on me before I had my baby.

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    1. Ashawo oshi

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    2. Baby mamas still dey talk? Kikel...

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    3. Ode!may u be a baby mama forever! Dnt knw why u can't cngratulate her nd pass,poor church rat like u,see her talking abt millions,which sane man will evn spend thousands on u not to talk of millions?u must be very stupid for saying her ring is cheap,may u neva wear one in ur life idiot!aristocratic bitch,baby mama no 10.

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    4. Kike ooooooo...... I like your name but not your comment. Kikelomo. ..

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    5. Kike u r alwaz vry bitter abt oda ppl..dts nt nice. Read ur comments to on d oda post abt a poster wit a bad MIL is wsnt nice too..stop dis xter f urs..cultivate d habit f if u dnt av anytn nice 2 say dnt say anytn.

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    6. Kike the Dagenham woman. The same one that was looking for someone to make her hair? Lmao...spent millions yet you can't afford a good salon? Ma'am, ure always bitter. you need to take 1 tbsp of honey everyday.

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    7. Kike...is just pained....that despite the fact the father of her child is trying to be there for his child he still sees her as not wifeable...but knackable

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    8. You are real a drag Kike. You def need a brain re-set

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    9. u are very stupid @kike.....wat is cheap ring...you fool!

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  26. Congrats Cindy .I'm Happy you are marrying your friend.That's all that matters.

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  27. Congrats dear, may you both find more reasons to stay in love and understanding. And I wish you both a fruitful married life ahead.

    Pls visit Osahonaimufua.blogspot.com. And show some love.

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  28. Congratulations darling.
    Wishing you guys the best.
    Keep the fire burning!
    I'm glad he is your love and best friend, you need both in a spouse for you to have a very happy home.
    Happy married life in advance to you.
    You guys should do the needful asap.

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  29. Congratulations!!
    That chair resemble our chair for village that time when I smalllllllllllllll.........
    I'm trying to see d ring but it seems u ve pulled it off....ohh!I see it now but,it's a little one.
    Bwahahahaha......
    ikid
    ikid
    Dont pay any attention to me oooo......
    Candy,I see fire in this ur bae's eyes and I dont like it one bit...d fire bothers me cos it's
    familiar...pls put it out biko
    Hian!

    U guys look very good and so in "love" and on that I say happy married life to U.

    So tired and happy***
    God is good***
    Xoxo menstruation lwkmd no mind kelvin jare how far?hope U are good?

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    1. Must u write a novel,u dnt have to see d ring,let's see urs that's if u even have sef,I dnt knw why u have to bring some1 down in d blog,does it make u feel beta?abeg move to on side mk I see road!mtcheew

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    2. Buhahahahahahaha

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    3. Biko ezemoni educate us dt dsnt see well...wot fire did u see in her baes eyes biko..mak I dey learn

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    4. Hahahaha Ezenwanyi ti kolo

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    5. Chair with flowered curtains and rug to match.ur head dey there

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    6. Hahahahaha this is so wrong.lol

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    7. Thank God for his mercies
      Praise God, hallelujah, He is a miracle working God.
      Stella thank you too for saving someone's life!
      Ezenwanyi,,can you describe the waiting period, it must have been hell, tears at night, loss of appetite, praying and fasting,,Dear Lord minister to Stella to at least mention my name so i can shamefully start commenting again, lord am sad, you know sdk blog is my life, i live my fantasies on this blog , this waiting period and anonymous shit is killing me.

      Dear Lord, i only pretend, am lily livered,please touch Stella's heart and then Bingo Stella does the call out and she surfaces in about 30 mins hahahahahahaha, what a joke!

      Ezenwanyi couldn't even pretend and hold it till the next day,she was relieved, God answered her prayers, the Lord that answereth by fire.

      Anyways, hope you will respect and arrange yourself this time around? Ndo o! This ain't xoxo , just an observer.

      Monitoring Spirit

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    8. Brouhahahaha! Nwanyi Eze, 1st thing dat caught my atenchon was d cha...erm i mean d ring

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    9. Xoxo does not write incoherently and btw,quit spitting and crying on me biko it actually reminds me of how little I care about others.

      Xoxo,come and hold ur stepdaughter ooo......she also said her name is monitoring spirit and U know what we do to monitoring spirit oooo.......Holy ghost......Fire!!!!die...die....fire. ..fire............

      Bwahahahaha............
      What time around?????
      Evil spirit mmuo!

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    10. Well said monitoring spirit. D jobless Ezenwanyi had been dyeing in silence. All tnx to SDK blog wetin she 4 do? Mumu woman

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    11. Bwahahahaha.......
      U guys are sounding lame jare....
      Lwkmd @ wetin she 4 do if not for sdk.....I for don bang d whole married for Lagos,Congo and Paris...Bwahahahaha............

      I pity U sef abi na because I no mention that old Philips television wey dey on top of that wood???see ur bae head like opioro mango.
      Take ur time ooo.....afterall I prayed and congratulated U and if U abuse me again I talk d whole thing wey I see there.
      Short engine mmuo.

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    12. who be monitoring spirit again? Stella, this blog oh, kikikikiki!

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    13. pointer abi point blank is dat u??? I guess not

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    14. Eya is back!
      I think she is obsessed with Nwanyieze,I dont think she's happy about you know return.

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  30. Btw this BV looks so much like someone I know,if she is then hmmm! She deserves to celebrate that ring, cos she saw 99 in the hands of that working class boyfriend,back then when we were in sch I doubt if she even took this one criously,cos the big boy bf was doing all for her,we tot he was going to marry cos he finally gave her an engagement ring,only for us to hear that he has collected the ring back,reason being that they had a lil quarrel,he was just a jack! maybe he tot he was doing her a favour......fast forward to now ok,
    I pray this ring becomes permanent IJN.have to go anonymous on this.i hope I am not being a frienemy.
    Okbye

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    1. Haaaaa!!!!

      Will anyone ever make heaven bikonu.

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    2. Brouhahaha @Lady evangelist d ibilibi madam, preach on dear!

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  31. congrats dear. I pray it happens to me too oh.

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    1. Kemie abi wetin be your name Be replying all the comments ooo. Don't go and face your work or get something to do. You wan turn to onise abi?

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    2. Shut your mouth anon...... I choose to reply whosoever I choose to... Abeg park well. ....

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    3. You too shut up Kemie. Go and get something to keep you busy and stop replying everyone. Kilode?!

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    4. Lol o ti jo, sha ma pa ara re...... Hohhoho ama keep replying. ......

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    5. Kemie, me and you on this blog. Keep replying. Iwo gaan ni ko ma pa ara e.Go sleep before you become something else on Stella blog. Shior.
      Hahahaha... Pele ma ke o...LOOOL

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  32. Congratulations dear. Hope he will do d needful very soon?

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  33. hahahahaha stello your blog v are real case ,i swear na de same mama born una?

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  34. Amen to your prayers. So happy for you, congrats. That's a faithful lover.

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  35. He will still cheat, and you would send SOS BV narrative to SDK.


    Kikikikikikik....

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  36. He went to JARED!

    Congrats on your new journey.

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  37. BV's and their mouths...tufiakwa, thing is she's engaged to the guy and they will get married, why bring up the past...they both cheated on each other but realized they were meant for each other...congrats girl

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  38. Congratulations.
    The boy try, after 7 years. Please, don't even bother on long engagement, go do wedding ASAP (if possible sef next month), you've waited long enough.

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  39. People still dey collect engagement ring these days?.Shuu! Abeg engage the guy sharply before you realize say na late comer you be. Dtae smebody for 7yrs, babe you don marry over 6yrs ago. Happy free knacking..

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  40. Wait a min anonymous. ..the guy will give her the ring, collect it back, then give it to her again.
    Are they using engagement ring to play "turn, turn?

    hahahahaha hahahahaha

    If they quarrel again..he will take back the ring and then give it to her, they will do that for the next seven years.

    I am good oo Ezenwanyi.
    Your step children likes katakata
    Tell them , they didn't see me o

    XOXO menstruation. ..ewwwww. Who uses menstruation to yab?

    Well, I am a new leaf.
    Peace in

    *Chewing Okazi leaf*

    XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. When everyone was begging for ceasefire during chizoba and kelvin why didn't you listen?you humiliated and killed every mystery in yourself and comments .I am not for or Ezewanyi but you started it and she gave it to really food.
      Nonsense.
      Why didn't general wife tell you to stop taunting the other people?you were floored kapish

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    2. Pls it was the working class boyfriend that is d ring giver and collector,dont get me wrong.
      Una too like gossip sha.

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    3. Lol xoxo! U betta get u a grindstone to help u wit dat okazi....

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    4. See one of ur own up there...
      Put her to sleep biko!
      @anon 2; 12,thanks but it's ok biko.

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  41. Congratulations dear. Don't listen to the haters.

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  42. Congratulations!
    You are lucky dear, not all school boyfriends are goodnews. My own 'stowie' na long thing, thank God for eventually sent me my guardian Angel in my DH with two lovely daughters.
    Lolashow

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  43. Congrats dear.God answer my own prayer too this year..oh.

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    1. Ewoooooo. .....
      ndi senior singles..
      Amen!

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    2. No be u be mama twins?where papa twins nah?

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  44. some peeps only hav negative things to say bout others.. na wa ooo..

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  45. 7 years...so u started fucking at 18 or even 16... All the best. Go learn hew fucking styles sha. Cos that surprise element will soon be fading now...the see finish kinda thing

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    1. is it bad to start fucking at 18??...chai i started fuckin st 18 oo...i feel bad... lmao! fucking no get age jare....som girls fuck early n dnt end up fucking plenty guys before marriage while som will stage late n unleash d dragon in dem...its all about being a sharp geh and nt d age nnem. so sharap!

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  46. Why do women especially our african sisters celebrates engagement/marriage more than the men? Is getting engaged/married some sort of trophy or achievement? It appears that Nigerian women can't live their lives and attain greatness and their prospective goals being single. Ideally, one would expect the men to also be celebrating their engagement and marital union on social media but this rarely is the case. Mentality as this is what makes the men feels they are doing these women a life time favour by marrying them hence they cheat on them, abuse them both emotionally and physically with the believe that they can't do zilch. Of course she stays put in the marriage no matter what coz people will start gossiping and stigmatization crawls in. The society needs to change our mentality towards marriage. Yes, a woman can live a great life without marriage and two lovers can have a blissful life without putting some pen on paper in the name of marriage. To the poster its no congrats from me to you only but to the both of you. African women should stop degrading themselves whilst the men keeps gloating about.

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    1. I think because most men don't celebrate their ladies....theyvwant to still have reserve in case they need to change mind....nobody wants to celebrate someone....that doesn't celebrate them.. So they end up celebrating the ring...and besides....I feel the ring is meant to indicate the seriousness of the hookup....I'm just saying

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    2. My bae celebrated on fbk when me never change status sef. I love him scarra oo but I don't like my business on social media except it's absolutely necessary.

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    3. Show me a foreign man that has celebrated engaging or marry his wife and I will show you a Nigeria woman who is not in love with her proposed hubby to be

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  47. Congrats dear....
    Buh errrhm,u geh mind ooo,7 years? U try wella...am happy for you buh dis tin u jes did is wat my dad hates..he'l skin me alive if I eva bring out boo in public lik dis...he has taught me to kip my private life personal...altho I feel he's too xtreme wiv his views...
    I love ur ring....u nid to pray hard ooo so dt money won't be comin n goin...dis phase is a bit difficult if u dnt ve money tied down smwia for a wedding,i'v bin dia befor.
    Goodluck 2you and ur boo.

    Chinwenmeri.blogspot.com

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  48. Buh why people even seek friendship on blogs is beyond me!!! All your family friends, classmates(secondary schools) coursemates etc (cos we actually meet people daily) none could be a friend. Only someone u read their comments(which most tyms don't represent their personality) online.

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  49. sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!

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  50. Congratulations!!!!! God bless you and your home, 7 years is a long time. I'm happy for you because you're with your best friend and you guys would have a glorious union IJN. I still have a long way to go, if anybody proposes to me now, including boyfriend, I will just see you as a destiny blocker, lol.

    @Harmony Best, even the Western ladies celebrate their engagement way more than the men, is it not them we learnt it from? Where did Africans know engagement ring and proposing before this era, ask your grandmother if they gave her ring or a mam knelt down for her! Biko as for celebrating engagement and even staying put in a bad marriage is very general to women world wide and not just Nigeria. You're very correct in your observation, but it's not just in Nigeria oo, it's in other place too!

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    1. Thank you o, women are same. But some women dont know when to walk away, as if they tie their legs in bad marriage or rel. Am team walk away if its not working

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  51. Hian! I fear SDK bvs, once you bring yourself out there, some bvs would just disecct your story and tell you things you don't even know about yourself.

    Who are these people? Can't you just rejoice with her and move on? Must you remind her of her past deeds in school?

    Congrats Cyndy, hope to hear the wedding bells ring soon.

    Ybette

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  52. Congratulations. ...now 7years is jst like yesterday to u...Thank God for life and please no wear dat ring pass 6months oooo tell him to do d needful sharply. ..

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  53. hahahaha Manna Bee ur boo is coming dont worry..
    Congrats to the lady..dating a guy for seven yrs?na wa ooo
    But i think some things shud be kept PRIVATE...thats the only way to move forward in life..

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  54. Me wey all my friends don curse me tire,because i no get girl friend @33,Oh God where re you?Body no be fayawod!1

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    1. Do I know u? If u are my ex that I think u are, u will maintain that status fr a while...The Lord would fight fr me and I will hold my peace!!!

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      Kikikikikikikiki....
      Sai! Oga u better confess oh. @33

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  55. wow congrats. Perseverance pays off. All the best

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  56. 7yrs???? I hope the engagement process will not take another 7yrs sha. Why is ur nail polish black like dat of a witch? (Abeg nor too vex o) I wish u gud luck allthesame. I went out with my ist guy for like 8yrs n we split 4 good. Long story

    RED ALERT!!!

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  57. Congratulations dear. Don't listen to the haters.

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  58. see them..awon elenu diarrhoea kike and co.alwaz bitter.no wonder.olosho 1.u wer nt worthy daz y he didnt put a ring.million ko.zillion ni.babymama to sure.mtcheww..if u dnt av anitn to say.stfu n pass.dnt infect odas wt ur bitternes ok?na una go stil go unda anon dey beg..all i c here is love dat stood d test.jeeez.ppl cn irritate me....congrats ojare cindy..may hapiness neva elude u........culled by JENNY

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  59. Wow 7 years...You get mind thank God it paid off at the end of the day.


    Congratulations and I wish you the best.invite us for the wedding ooooo

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  60. HAwt Libra:

    Cindy Cindy Cindy.. how many times did I call you???

    Go and remove that dirty nail polish you have on.

    Also that ring is suppose to be on your 4th finger not 3rd. Why are youi acting like a bush girl?

    Congrats my dear. Please fix a wedding date today so he wont make you wait another 7 years.

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  61. People will never learn.Why would you even post a pic of yourself wand boo??...You should have just sent in a picture of your ring and hand or something. Now, see the bashing from "frenemies". Saying all sorts about you and your man!....When you get married, keep that away from social media!!!!

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  62. Big congrats to you cyndy. Enough single and lonely ladies here dishing out yabs. Someone dated school boyfriend and you expect them to marry back in school shey? Cuz na una be their parents!

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  63. Hup is nt aboki ring coz it lookz like 1.....anywayz congratz to d boi coz he is lucky u said yes.

    ~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~

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  64. Congratulations darling!! I love seeing people so happy. May God continue to bless and protect your Union from any trials, tribulations and frenemies lol

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  65. Ezenwanyi i abeg ask Google for the meaning of bad mamma jamma. I no talk say I bad oh.

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    1. girl whose body measurements are perfect in every dimension. She’s got a figure that’s sho’ ‘nuff gettin’ attention. She’s poetry in motion, a beautiful sight to see. I get so excited viewin’ her anatomy. She’s built, she’s stacked, got all the curves that men like. She's as fine as she can be. Looks like she’s poured into the gold, she bad(good way). The essence of beauty, ooh, such lovely hair. She’s foxy, classy, sexy, sassy. She’s heavenly, a treat for the eye to see.

      My questions still stands,are U a bad mama jama?

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  66. Congrats dear. may God bless you both as you move on to the next stage in Jesus name, Amen.

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  67. From 7 years in Tibet to the proposal

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