Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

*Whistle blowing can sometimes come back to slap you in the face if you aint careful*

Keep the whistle,you are not a referee!

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

BOYFRIEND WITH A TRUCK LOAD OF SECRETS

Hey Stella,You are a wonderful woman and may God bless you....

I am really confused about something,Am i dramatic or insecure?

Is it ok for my boyfriend to still have nude pics of his ex on his phone and even nude pics of his baby mama?

When i asked him why he still had them,he said its his ex who keeps sending them and he doesnt ask her to,Then for his baby mama i wonder why he still gives her money anytime she asks,eg. for hair,clothes etc even though i know they have broken up,is it ok?

And the kids are with him,so i know she doesnt have any responsibility...Help a sister out please, am i making a mistake to still be with this guy?.And for his phones he never allows me go through them,its always passworded,i saw those pics because i insisted i must go through his gallery.

I hope he doesnt have your nude pics or snapped you cunny cunny when you were naked?

If you are making a mistake?my dear you are dating yourself!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WHISTLING BLOWING ON A FRIENDS HUBBY IS WRONG OR RIGHT?

I have this Muslim neighbour who later became my  very good friend. She is nice to a fault. She is Yoruba while I am Ibo. Her husband stays in another state as well as mine. She got pregnant and travelled to deliver where her husband stays. 

Few weeks before her delivery, I packed out of that compound.

After delivery, her husband called at 9pm to inform me he is in my base and would want to see me urgently but I told him its not possible because I was too tied to go out and more over its too late for me to visit him at that time knowing fully his wife is not around. He hung the phone on me. I did not call back.

The next day, I called to tell him I will see him after work, I closed late so could not go as promised. I also called to apologize. He ask where my house is, I gave him direction. 6:15am, the next day, he was at the gate, I was not too happy because I felt he will waste my time discussing as I needed to be at work before 8am. I ushered him inn, I checked my phone and realized he has called several times while I was in the kitchen. 

I asked him to give me few minutes. I got ready for work,entered the parlour to hear him out. He said what he wants to discuss with me is confidential, that I should please allow my younger brother to go to school first before we start. I was like... hian, I became paranoid.  I called my office that I will be late. Hurried my brother to leave. 

Immediately my brother left he said he wants to ease himself. I pointed the toilet to him, He went inside, came out stake naked.Oh My God, What is this???. I felt soooo angry and asked him what does that mean??. He knelt down, said he has been admiring me all these while, How he can't take his mind off me.... Me married woman???, If you hear someone slept with your wife, what will you do?? I asked. Meanwhile, where I came from, its a taboo for a married woman to sleep with another man.  I walked him out in serious anger, with my body shaking.  I no get mind tell my husband o.

He has called severally since then to apologize. The wife (my friend) is back. She has brought her baby to my house severally but am yet to visit them at home. Am just angry. I can't visit her. The lady has been good to me. She said her friends said I have not visited her maybe because I am jealous she has a child while I am still trying.

What do I do, Should I tell her what happened between me and her husband or do I just forget my relationship with her. I am just worried.

My dear your friend will not believe you and will say you are either trying to break her marriage or snatch her man.keep quiet and keep your distance oh.....

Thats how i feel,if you talk it will backfire!