Hmmmm na wah!
PROBLEM ONE
ANNOYING STRETCH MARKS.
Hi Stella.
Right from time I've always had stretch marks on my boobies but they were just tiny lines. Earlier this year I tried to lighten my bikini lines with a cream as they were too dark. This led to thick and dark stretch marks on my thighs and waist.
Please what can I use to take them off. I've tried everything from ori to herbal to chemical creams. Please I need someone that has cleared his/hers to tell me what they used and how they used it. I can't even wear bum shorts anymore. Do help a sis! :(
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PROBLEM TWO
SHAVING THE PRIVATES.
Dear Stella,
I just want to ask in house doctors if shaving the privates has anything to do with orgasm.I am very bushy down there but i just noticed that the hair has changed colour and i wanted to shave but a friend of mine said shaving affects the libido.
I am confused cos i really need to get rid of the hair.
Will shaving affect my libido?
no it will not.it stinks to carry sambisa forest around,haba!
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PROBLEM THREE
BABY NOT MOVING
Aunty stella,good morning.i went for a scan yesterday and they said my baby is not doing well, I later met wit my doctor but he didn't really tell me what I want to hear.Please this is the result of the scan.I want doctors in the house to help me interpret well.
I have done like 5 PT and it read positive but I dont really feel any pregnancy signs,i also feel pain at my lower pelvic region and I have never spotted one day.Please help me post this I need answers urgently.
I pray God breathes life into my baby again.
Thank you for doing an amazing job.Be blessed.
GOD is the CEO OF MIRACLES,LET HIS WILL BE DONE CONCERNING YOUR BABY.be of strong mind!
I will just read comments from professional, this one pass me biko.
ReplyDeletePlease click on my name for Fashion/Fitness/Beauty tips
Lol,hw Can 1 b Carrying sambisa forest abt ewww
DeleteProblem 1.
DeleteUse iron sponge when bathing and the stretch mark will disappear. Lol
Problem 2.
Please don't shave that forest down there, if you do, what will happen is that you have carried out deforestation, which will alter the PH of the area, and will lead to lost of nutrients. Leave it very bushy and allow it change to brown, also allow it stink. I will come and rent the it next year for my Yam and corn plantation, it will be good for it because it's still very fertile. Lol. Please leave it, I will pay you well and you'll eat out of the Yam and corn also.
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Poster 1, na ur over sabi push u to use cream... good luck getting back to d old u
DeletePoster 2, like seriously u did not have to ask that kind of question... leave d hair there till it grows weeds n roses n thorns u hear?
Poster 3, dont believe any medical report. D doctors have said their own, av u consulted d Almighty doctor n talked with Him on behalf of ur baby?? He's still in d business of doing wonders n performing miracles
Dear Poster 3,
DeleteYou baby shall live and not die to declare the works of the Lord- Psalm 118:17
I also went for a scan at about 5 weeks pregnant and the were unable to see anything on the scan except a mass of blood and a positive pregnancy test done by drawing my blood. I was so worried when I was asked to wait and come back in 2 weeks.
Those days were the longest, when I finally went, baby was 8 weeks and I was able to see him on the scan, he is now a healthy 3 months old to the glory of God.
How I got through those waiting days was through prayers and trust in God's words.
I also read the book supernatural childbirth by Jakie Mize, I know only God could safely help me carry the baby through after I suffered a previous miscarriage.
My favourite bible passage and the words I declared were Exodus 23:26
Malachi 3:10 if you are a tither. Stand on God's word and he will make you a joyful mum soon. Congratulations
Stella God is the CEO of mracles not can please do correct it
ReplyDeleteMadam corrector, U too correct the spelling of miracles. It is miracles not mracles. Goes to show that nobody is above mistake.
DeleteN 3,pls stop worrying urself and relax. U are just 5weeks + long,dont expect them to hear a strong heart beat till 7-8weeks along,u went for that scan too early. Relax and trust in God,ur baby is perfectly okay
DeleteJoy you sabi book like this still I never hear say them get dictionary way you write . Abeg go siddon my friend . prof Patrick .
DeleteI too sabi, ur grammar no even make sense sef! Just dey show urself shaa
DeleteHmm. Poster 3 its well. Fear not. Maybe you went for the scan too early. Relax and let the pregnancy advance. That was how I was told in my first pregnancy that the sac was empty and the doctor suggested evacuatiin. I was hysterical but people told me to calm down. To the glory of God, thatpregnancy I was asked to evacuate has produced an almost 3 year old ebony black girl. The ssmartest and most intelligent. Trust God not man.
ReplyDeleteMe too, I went for a scan at 7 weeks because I had severe pelvic pain and was scared of ectopic pregnancy and was told there's nothing there. I remained calm and kept praying. I had a healthy baby and today he is 9 months old
DeleteThe pregnancy is still too early to talk about movement. They are not sure about its survival but all in all its early. As rightly advised relax, God is in control.
DeletePoster 1: use pure almond oil for your stretch mark, it's really good.
DeletePoster 2: get a Brazilian, don't know what else to tell you. Bushy privates makes your panties and pants smell sef.
Poster 3: how far along are you? That ultrasound looks like early stage pregnancy. You can't expect massive movement, you'll get massive movement later that you sef go dey beg Baba God to let the baby come like right now. The doctor is supposed to just listen to fetal heart rate which should be done every time you go for your appointment. Goodluck honey.
@Poster 3...I have a feeling you did this ultrasound at Union diagnostics..They have a way of making everything look ambiguous...eyes rolling. Just as advised repeat ultrasound in 2-3 weeks. And please you can't feel any movement now until like 16-20 weeks. I'm sure you're a first time mother...you'll soon become a guru. Even as a Dr, my first pregnancy I was always doing ultrasound every 3 weeks..lol which wasn't needed. Be rest assured dear, both you and your baby will be fine...Best wishes
DeleteI don't think there's a remedy for stretch marks jare. You will hear use this use that, all na lie. The stretch mark that won't go will not go. I don't have stretch marks though, but I have just one tiny line of it around my tummy area that is not visible except u strain ur eyes. When I was preggy I had them like whiskers on both sides of my stomach and there was nothing I didn't use. From cocoa butter to shea butter to clarins oil that one Asian girl forced me to buy becos she wan sell market. I sha used everything and it didn't go so I left it. After delivery I didn't bother, only to find them no more after a few months. Except for the one line remaining. So poster don't bother... you will just be wasting your money.
DeleteHmmmm... ama just read comments on this one.
ReplyDeleteComment sure pass....i be confirmed learner in dis aspects!
Delete#1, Ntooorrrr na better for u, u want to turn oyinbo abi, now u ve seen the result, u berra live with it cos there's no cure to stretch mark.
ReplyDelete@2, I guess ur bottom will be smelling especially when u sweat, abeg shave dat bush u are carrying about, am sure it has lice, tufiakwa.
U harsh o.
DeleteAngelray4sdk, na who beat you for this kind vex vex ?
DeleteSorry o o o !
U think bleaching is the only cause of stretch marks?
Deleteam not a doctor o.will just read comments
ReplyDelete#teamDec14
Hian! What is all these team dec 14 again? U guys should chillax abeg..
Delete#1.... Dunno if there is anything that can totally remove it.... I have on my hip area but I keep using shea butter religiously nd its gradually giving me d change i require....even tho its slow and steady.... I do not allow it worry me tho... I just wear what makes me comfortable and me is good. Shea butter is d real deal o.... I heard abt BIO oil too... dunno how effective it is....but too much of treatments on d skin can do alot if damage!
ReplyDelete#2...pls ...i beg u in d name if GOD.... Shave whatever forest u have down there... HOW DARE U ALLOW URSELF B BRAINWASHED THAT WAY? to an extent that ur pubic hair is beginning to change color? oga do d needful...
#3The Lord is ur strength.... i hope u get d help u require .
I had a course mate too back in school that didn't believe in shaving her armpit and veejay hair..God, we talked and talked, clean , posh chic like that oh, maybe she does now cuz she is married.
DeleteHair in the Veejay or armpit gives me the creeps, once or twice a week is fine.
Yea, shea butter usually does d magic, but with time..
DeleteBio oil is costly and before you see any result, you would have grown grey hairs.
DeleteShea Butter mixed with home made coconut oil is the bomb.
Yeah Shea butter mixed with coconut oil is d bomb**it works very well*I can testify to dat.@ Poster 2 hw do ur partner cope wit dat? Am sure d hair don dey twist like dread*lol
DeleteI heard anything cocoa butter and even bio oil makes one dark. So how will the affected area clear out?
DeleteThe armpit and vJay hair?...will it not be scratching them? Used to know a dude that liked a bit of hair on the Vjay..yulk
Have Faith,gosh my first ever comment,lolz
ReplyDelete@Narr 2, How can you not shave downstairs like the hell? The hair has now changed colour wtf? Nawa oo which kain nonsense be this? Abeg get that place waxed quickly. Now i cant eat the whole day thanks to the nonsense image you've put in my head mschewwwwwwwwww
Deleteposter 1,God pass u
ReplyDeleteposter 2,abeg leave ur sambisi forest make e turn jungle....mtcheeeew...dumb question
@ poster 3..God will kip u nd ur baby..Tis well wit u
poster 1,God pass u
ReplyDeleteposter 2,abeg leave ur sambisi forest make e turn jungle....mtcheeeew...dumb question
@ poster 3..God will kip u nd ur baby..Tis well wit u
Narrative 2: My dear, whose report would you believe, I believe I can hear you say GOD'S REPORT. I speak wellness to you and the foetus growing inside of you. I pray the miracleous hand of God will touch you right away and make this seed grow normally and miracleously in Jesus Christ name, Amen. Lay your hand on your tommy daily and speak the word of life into your body and the foetus and I know you will return to testify in Jesus Christ name, Amen. Congratulations darling!!!
ReplyDeleteAffi sabisa forest.. Lol....Wetin we no go read for here.......
ReplyDeleteOn a serious note....some Men love women with hairy pussy....I don't know why
@Galore
Lmaoo of sambisa forest.but really dat ur frd na bad person oo..poster3 it is well wit u ijn
ReplyDeletePosers 3: God will perfect all that concerns u dear.
Delete@poster 3.God is in control n u shall testify His goodness.Ur miracle is on d way.it is well.pls b strong.
ReplyDeleteSHAVE. THAT. BUSH!!!! Haba its changing color sef. Hian wetin be dis nah. I can imagine menstral blood and urine and cum too hanging on those hairs. Chai. Omg. Tueh!!!
ReplyDeleteNow this picture that u've jes painted, is very disgusting!
Delete#Double Tueh
Oh lawd!! That image tho, eeew!!
DeleteEwwwwwww
Delete1) Ummmm.... Donno o. Others may
ReplyDelete2) Pls get a lawn mower before wild animals start living down there. Ewww, I hate forestry and wildlife downsouth
3) Not cool at all.. God can. He will breath into your baby the breathe of life. Be strong and keep holding on to God.
Out of point: what da hell is wrong with eltel(airtel) and their '500 naira instant credit'. Na so so msg everyday. Urggggggghhhhh!!!! Its annoying!
Need new friends in my life jor. Anybody up?
Lmao! Though d last part of ur surname sounds like d sound dat comes out wen u sneeze.
DeleteNo vex oo *runs away*
No mind the Airtel, they don pass MTN for message
DeleteFor Stretch marks- Coconut oil worked for me(original not processed please coconut oil).
ReplyDeleteShaving does not affect nothing...doesn't have anything to do with your libido(better shave).
Awww... can't really say what exactly is wrong with the foetus please in house doc/gyne help.Plus i'm wondering why a doctor will not explain in details the outcome of a scan. IT IS WELL OOO
Prob2, pls quckly take d result to a doctor, probably a gynaecologist. Alnighty God ll restore d foetus ijn. Amen
ReplyDeleteHmmm na real wa!
ReplyDeleteWill be back to read comments
@POSTER1...thats the dilema of most girls...stretch marks...i feel the more you tamper with them,the more they tend to increase..
ReplyDelete@poster2...abeg notin concern shaving with orgasm...better go and shave...
@poster3...God will definately work a miracle in your tummy..do't loose hope..
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Use shea butter on the affected areas for the stretch marks it'll clear with time
ReplyDeleteGood luck and please stop all those toxic creams you're using
I agree poster 1 i used/ been using shea butter on my stretch marks for a month now, its firming my skin and i can barely see the lines. Some1 advised me to use continuously for 3months to get max effect
DeleteReally?? I guess it has to do with individual skin then.
DeletePoster 3 God of Shiloh will help u. No weapon fashioned against you shall prosper. Amen
ReplyDeleteUse shea butter on the affected areas for the stretch marks it'll clear with time
ReplyDeleteGood luck and please stop all those toxic creams you're using
Am in class will come back.
ReplyDeleteI decree life into your baby, I join my faith with all faithful BVS I say ur baby sha live & not die, Jehovah that stood by Moses while in d nile will stand by u, u ll not weep, u will not loose ur baby. All you need to do is to praise God, thank him for the battles won. Your miracle has come. Don't panic don't fear. Shalom
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteAMEN!!
DeleteAmen. Chai that 'viability' brought sad memories. It's well with your baby, keep praying, don't stress and don't make love to your hubby till you go back for the scan.
DeleteAmen!
Delete1st post!! Dangers of lightening creams...I tried a certain cream and got that thick stretch marks I stopped immediately I noticed them..That thing scared me Lol!! Well I went back to my all natural products from my body cream to my wash with no harsh chemicals applying day and night...and slowly it vanished now I ve my groove back in the pool side :D!!
ReplyDeletePost 2!! Bushy down there..Really? Chai! That your friend doesn't like you oo...biko shave it..
Post 3!! It is well with you and your unborn child..Just say your prayers and make declarations and confessions...
Poster 2- shaving privates has nothing to do with libid. It is not even advisable to keep pubic hair cos it will give you cuts during vigorous sex. Hygiene wise also.
ReplyDeletePoster 3. It is well wetin you. I feel so much for you right now. May God perfect everything concerning your health and pregnancy.
Poster 1- the cream you used has taken an adverse reaction on your skin.
Ori is your best bet. Keep using it.
* libido
Delete* with
But ori can smell one kind sha. Ewwww
DeleteLol. But it works
DeleteLol at sambisa forest madam please go and clear that bush it wont affect your libido
ReplyDeleteShaving doesn't affect libido na. To the third poster, e-hugs. God is a miracle working God. It is well with you.
ReplyDeleteOluyomi Odukoya
Aunty Yomi wia v u bin? Good to av u back
DeleteOluyomi we have missed you o. Don't let the cyber bullies run you off. Welcome back
DeleteOluyomi we have missed you o. Don't let the cyber bullies run you off. Welcome back
DeleteMadam Stella, don't scare the poor girl! What baby movement do u expect to see at 5 weeks??? Stick to journalism and leave medical advice alone. My dear pregnant woman, there's no fetal pole thus early. The scan shows gestational age of 5 weeks and a few days. Meaning u missed ur period a few days ago or a week ago. It's too early to say at this stage if anything is wrong or not. It's also too early to get any pregnancy signs. Just wait for a week or so and watch the signs start in full force. Take it easy my dear and go enjoy your pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteAnd that's why you've been given 2 weeks for further assessment.
DeleteCool down and stop worrying.
Exactly my thought, she should go back in 2 weeks for a follow up scan, there should be heart beat by then, poster you and your baby will be fine
DeleteAgreed. At 5weeks. No heart beat is expected and equally no movement is felt until around 16weeks. Gestational sac is appropriate at this time. In the next 2 weeks the scan will be ablt to detect the sac and an embryo, and a heart beat may be detected at that time. Also note that there is a difference with transvaginal and trans abdominal ultrasound. Trans abdominal will not give accurate calculation and findings with your gestational age. Instead of worrying, rest and take your prenatal daily, and eat a healthy balance diet. Wishing you a safe pregnancy, and please do not listen to street pharmacies and street doctors. Always present any concerns with your pregnancy to your doctor or midwife. It is well. Good luck
DeleteDr. C
#1 Maybe u'r gon be fat, sowwy
ReplyDelete#2 Ahhhhhhhhhhh....what won't one hear, i personally see anyone bushy down there as dirty, one shouldn't even feel comfortable with a forest down there.I don't think it has anything to do with ur libido sha.
Wait sef, so u'll be willing to create sambisa forest down south just so ur libido doesnt reduce???smh
#3 Awwwwwww...I pray God breathes life into ur baby.Whatever the result turns out to be, just know God is in charge.
Pkease fellow bv my own is anytime I shave, small bumps start showing around the upper part of my private part. Please help
ReplyDeleteWhat do you shave with? Shaving sticks? they can give bumps for Africa, get a small clipper for women .
DeleteRazor bumps on d punana....don't wanto imagine it
DeleteUse scissors, sit on the toilet bowl, relax and clear the bush. Stop useing shaving stick
DeleteClipper is the best.
DeleteAh make she no go mistakenly use scissors cut her clitoris o.
DeleteStella I beg to differ, having a bushy private doesn't stink as long as the individual's personal hygiene is top notch.
ReplyDeleteThank you jare...
DeleteIf you don't like a clean shave, u can trim from time to time. I personally like to feel small bush downsouth. And it doesn't stink at all.
For stretch marks, use ori religiously. The effect is not automatic, you'll notice it with time.
Pregnant madam, please calm down n sip exotic juice. There's nothing wrong with you n your baby, it's quiet early to be worried abt kicks n movements ke. Give it 3 more weeks. *hugs*
I wonder o! You don't have to shave everything. Keep it neat and trim. Studies have shown that pubic hair has its own uses.
DeleteHonestly, l don't know why anyone would think having hairy pubes ( pls note l don't mean a bush or forest) would mean you are dirty and stinky.
BV pls I need ur help have been have problem in urinating any time I pass urine I do feel pains have done test and have treated it but it keep on coming over and over again dnt know what to do pls doctors in the house pls help
ReplyDeleteIf it is an infection that u treated, maybe u dnt treat it well or u r still sleeping with your partner dat infected u or is infected too
DeleteGo to hospital, u have UTI or infections, plus google it so that after receiving treatment u won't do stuff that will expose u to it again
DeleteThat's an infection my dear, run to the hospital
DeleteSince u didn't xplain here in details, as in d results of d tests carried out on u and d treatment u earlier applied den I will take it dat u re jst joking around.
DeleteHere is d lil help I have 4 u dnt boda urinating again!!!
If u got ur treatment from a pharmacy, I advice u see a medical doctor,u probably have not taken d right medication
DeleteGaddammit!!!
ReplyDeletePeople still carry 'sambisa' around?
Poster 3 your baby is fine IJN
Done with AbadaBeeDee!
Shaving doesn't affect anything... The lady with the stretch marks Try original olive oil or coco butter.. Heard it works
ReplyDeleteUr doctor didn't interpret clearly to u? Whatever will be will be...just be strong...d scan isn't clear..something like "No fetal fluid or No fetal pole) both of which is bad as in BAD. There's nothing God can't do..pray n go to d clinic.
ReplyDeleteStretch mark goes of gradually if you take your eyes and mind off it even though its hatd to do, keep using the shea butter, it works. Bushy below, no way at all. Its so irrirating. Please shave it off asap and rather it would enhance your libido. I speak healiibg I to that pregnancy and baby in Jesus name, amen. It is well.
ReplyDeleteStella oh, u won't kee sombori....lmao as sambisa forest. @ poster 2, pls trim d damn tin @poster3, God of miracle will breathe life into dat baby. It is well with u.
ReplyDeleteWhy try to lighten whatever part you lightened?couldn't you have left it just the way it is?your bikini area was dark for a reason..now you tryna find solution? I hope you do get a solution though..poster 3 I will pray for you and you will carry the baby to full term and birth the baby..poster 2 I feel you already have an answer to the question you pose.what is that they say about cleanliness?
ReplyDeleteNa wah for N3 predicament.
ReplyDeleteDear, I cover your baby with the precious blood of Jesus.
Please why not go to another hospital for a second opinion?
It is well with your baby dear, have faith.
Doctors here please help her.
N2
Shave jooor. You must really cherish this your libido so much.
LOL
N1
There is no cure for stretch mark my dear, forget all the creams out there that they claim cures SM. You'll just be wasting your money buying them.
You can only prevent or manage it if you already have it.
You can manage it by fading it so it will no longer be so visible.
When I was about 38 weeks gone with my last baby few months ago, I woke up one bright morning and while inspecting my bump in front of my dressing mirror, I saw to my horror signs of stretch mark on my tommy. I don't know how they got there cos I always rub bio oil on my bump.
Wow! I freaked out. I quickly called my mum to complain. She sent me original shear butter days later,(she ordered it from the village).
Shear butter is Ori, we Igbos call it Okwuma.
So I mixed the Ori with almond oil, turmeric powder, fresh aloe vera and coconut oil.
Note : I personally researched on natural ways to fade stretch marks and the above ingredients were highly recommended.
I then bought them and added to the original shear butter mum sent me.
That's what I have been using as my cream for about 7 months+ now and I can boldly tell you that the difference is glaring. The marks on my tommy are barley visible now. My skin is also glowing!
I'm sticking to my home made cream till further notice.
Maybe you should try it.
Make sure it's original shear butter oh, lots of fake out there.
It doesn't work like magic oh, rub consistently morning and night for like 3 months before you can conclude if it works for you or not.
All the best dear.
Genny, u no do summary for sec sch?
DeleteI heard u want to make mammy water braids because you want another belle shebi?
LOL @ Mrs D.
DeleteI no go school oh.
Manage my novels like that inugo?
poster3 ..I am also an expectant. I av been reading alot of books and doing research online. well I dnt knw how serious ur case is cuz I am a first timer. I recently read in a book dat u can drink a cup of cold water if u want ur baby 2move. I thnk under a normal circumstance d baby is suppose 2move when u drink cold water.I dnt knw hw true this is anyways but there's no harm in trying. wish u all d best. pls talk 2God about it.
ReplyDeletePls..be urself..dont attempt anything u c online..if dey say u should drink yoyo bitters so baby will move, will u? Be drinking cold water u hear!!
DeleteHer Maj. She can old take a cold glass of orange juice if she wants 2 feel her baby move or kick and lay quietly on her side but dat has 2 be at d right time when d foetus is of age. For now, the baby's heart beat can't be felt yet and talk more of movement. Put ur heart 2 rest, God will perfect all dat concerns ur unborn.
Deleteoh blackberry pls try and start reading books .I read alot. I asked few people abt dat and they confirmed it.but u av 2b about 6 to 8months gone. its jst a lil trick. but d poster's case is different cuz d pregnancy is still 2early for that.
Deleteposter 2, everyday, different story, try braiding ur bushy hair or fix a weavon on it in order not to affect your libido. nothing person nor go hear
ReplyDeletechai, you are wicked, lol.
DeleteYou sure pass. Hahahahahah
Deletenumber 2: Lol... nah it won't affect ur libido ... don't mind ur friend... she just messing with.... quickly go and do De need ful... away keep keep it spotless...
ReplyDeleteproblem 1: I had that experience in 2008 when I was serving(nysc)during the 3weeks camp,i was rushing to camp so I bought a cream that turned out to bleach me and I was wearing tight in my white shorts.
ReplyDeleteI had terrible black stretch marks after 3wks on my laps(unknown to me)it was even my ex then that saw it and asked me wat it was,i was surprised to see dem ooo,u know how camp is,no moment of rest,no time to look at ur body when having ur bath,mehn I felt so bad,my mum bought me so many creams that we felt will work,i even got edmark product(chlorophyll)I used ori,there was nothing I didn't try,i cld nolonger wear short skirts and short gowns.
but today,i can wear short dresses,the black stretch marks are now fair like the colour of my skin,am fair in complexion.
I will advice u use ori,it works gradually in a long period of time.patience my dear,patience.
Pls n pls, shave d hair n dnt mind those hurling abuses on u.. Its nt ur fault dat u dnt knw... And to d pregnant woman, may God breathes life in ur baby, b patient coz God works miraculously n dnt gv up hope.. #ifeoluwa
ReplyDelete1. Stop bleaching.
ReplyDeleteShea butter mixed with coconut oil is your best bet.
Bio oil (the original) is good, too.
The tiny stretch marks are usually naturally, but those thick 'palaba' ones are chemicals induced.
2. Your friend just told you the greatest fallacy of all times.
Actually, shaving off pubic hair increases libido.
The aftermath of shaving would be doing you tinini tanana (sweet feeling o.)
You've been really missing out.
Please shave, and let it have a fresh breath.
3. Whatever it is, the God that keepeth Israel never sleep nor slumber. He's with you.
That baby in you, I'm christening him Oluwajomiloju Emmanuel, if na girl she's Anuoluwapo Emmanuela.
It is well, in Jesus name.
Do not complicate things for yourself by stressing because of some doctor's report.
This my question is for kehinde Ake and anybody that knows the answer. I want to know if the sperm my hubby releases inside me will affect my baby of rmonths, I am a nursing mother. If yes, advise me how to avoid it.
ReplyDeleteHian! Thank God you specified its for Kehinde.
DeleteAre you 5 years old?
Delete1. Stop bleaching.
ReplyDeleteShea butter mixed with coconut oil is your best bet.
Bio oil (the original) is good, too.
The tiny stretch marks are usually naturally, but those thick 'palaba' ones are chemicals induced.
2. Your friend just told you the greatest fallacy of all times.
Actually, shaving off pubic hair increases libido.
The aftermath of shaving would be doing you tinini tanana (sweet feeling o.)
You've been really missing out.
Please shave, and let it have a fresh breath.
3. Whatever it is, the God that keepeth Israel never sleep nor slumber. He's with you.
That baby in you, I'm christening him Oluwajomiloju Emmanuel, if na girl she's Anuoluwapo Emmanuela.
It is well, in Jesus name.
Do not complicate things for yourself by stressing because of some doctor's report.
cant laugh @ poster 1 n 2
ReplyDeleteStretch marks lady,Kim kardashian used laser. Maybe you can try it. Some spas have it in Lagos.
ReplyDeleteN2: don't mind ur friend. Pls shave off everything. The sweetness is out of this world, you will never keep the bush again.
Sambisa forest: Keep it loooow. Or are you growing an extra beard to absorb urine, sweat, pre cum, vaginal liquids, post cum and other assorted fluids?
ReplyDeleteMother to be: Worry not. You shall hold your child in peace.
Stretch Marks: NO cure.
I can't believe people still leave hair down there.. Baby not moving, don't you think you should go look for a very good doctor?
ReplyDeleteall wil surely be well my dear.
ReplyDeletePoster1, shave ur private part, its hygienic,heat dey nd u Stil wan keep bearbear for down below, poster2,use coconut oil nd remove ur mind from d stretch mark n Google about it, poster3, depends on d stage nd week of ur pregnancy, whatever d case, put all in God's hands
ReplyDeletePoster 3) whose report do you want to believe,the doctor's report or the report of the almighty God? Pls believe in the word of God,always speak good about your baby,speak what you want to see in ur life,God is not a man he can never fail
ReplyDeletePoster 3: God will perfect everything that concerns u and ur baby. Amen. And to u poster 2, how do u manage to live with hairs on ur private part..doesn't it stink? Hian!!
ReplyDeletehi madam,i've read through ur result and i can assure u that nothing is wrong with ur baby.
ReplyDeletePoster3 please relax and lay hands on your tummy,speak the word of God into the life of your baby,call that baby by the name you have given him/her. God will prefect all that concerns you and your baby IJN
ReplyDeletePoster #3 its probably nothing to worry about vis ot also happened to me when I was pregnant with my daughter...i went for a scan at six weeks according to my Lmp bit was told it was 5wk n that no fetal pole was seen was worried six but went bk after 2wks n I heard my baby's heartbeat.,,I will advise you go to pix center in rumumasi since then are in ph cus d hv d bst ultrasound center and the radiologist can counsel you on what's bst...its 3000 for the scan...i will remember you in my prayers...
ReplyDeleteTnk u.i will rescan in pix center.I did dis one in images diagnostic, eligbam rumuola.it was done by their two senior radiologist.
DeleteTnks for d encouragement.
POSTER.
It is well!!!
ReplyDelete#2 try trimming it down...btw it doesn't affect libido
ReplyDeletePoster1 use bio-oil and shea butter mixed together religiously,don't get discouraged when its not giving u the expected result,it takes a while to see any notable difference. That's what I used after I had my baby and now ten months down the road my body looks as good as new.
ReplyDeleteI will jst read comments.... Inbtw Buhari is leadin on da APC primary...
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
Poster2, pls don't shave it, e go better in u dey plait de forest twisting. But dat ur frend wicked o.
ReplyDeleteLmao@sambisa forest
ReplyDeleteLMAO @sambisa forest!
ReplyDelete#poster 2, shave d bush down der Biko cos it Nas nada to do with libido..
#poster 3, I speak life to d foetus inside of u...It is well
always looking forward to doctors section. poster 2....common how can it reduce your lib biko.....you for retouch the hair with ebony relaxer nah so that the colour will change. better still dye am.
ReplyDeletePoster 3: to my best of knowledge,d baby cannot be confirmed dead with this result. The sonographer said equivocal viability not non viable foetus. I can't speculate the age of the foetus cos he jst gave us the gestational sac diameter n so cannot say if its tym to see the foetal pole. Ultrasound we al knw is a subjective examination.this is wat u wil do, do not go for evacuation,rather repeat the scan in two weeks tym as advised by the sonographer n if possible go to another scan centre cos some machines can hv low resolution. God wil see u tru.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 cream also showed me pepper, I have had normal everyday stretchmarks o, me sef naa joined the I must be light ministry band wagon o, naah the thing be for me. My stretch marks turned black I could not cry. I ave started using coconut oil and it is fading but let me emphasis that u have to be consistent with it. I rub it like 2ce daily
ReplyDelete2) you better shave
3) God of miracle will do it. I will keep you in my SHILOH prayers
The gestational sac can sometimes be visualized as early as four and a half weeks of gestation (approximately two and a half weeks after ovulation) and the yolk sac at about five weeks gestation. The embryo can be observed and measured by about five and a half weeks. The heartbeat may be seen as early as 6 weeks, and is usually visible by 7 weeks gestation. So poster you are still early, from the sonogram picture everything looks fine relax your mind pls.
ReplyDeleteIts well
ReplyDeleteIts well
ReplyDelete@genny baby pls hw did u get almond oil and tumeric powder biko, o gini ka o bu na igbo?
ReplyDeleteSomeone helped me buy from India. Turmeric is a food spice too used mainly by Indians, I don't know the Igbo name my dear.
DeleteWill try and get the number of a lady that sells in Lag for you. Drop a comment if you need her contact before I go searching for it.
Genny biko I need it too, u need to see my hand, I am not even bleaching or anything I just added so much weight and I guess my skin couldn't keep up with the weight gain. I have a really firm skin so u can imagine what it looks like. I can't even wear some clothes again.
Delete@Genny baby...and here I was thinking tumeric is the naija normal curry powder. #coversfaceandrunsaway
Delete@Genny baby...and here I was thinking tumeric is the naija normal curry powder. #coversfaceandrunsaway
DeleteN3, the poster didn't say how far gone she is or should be according to her last period. If the result from the scan corresponds with ur last period then you have nothing to worry about, just give it two weeks and go for a repeat test.
ReplyDeleteHahaha poster 2, so tay your sambisa forrest colour don change. - free bleached things. Pls work on your lower region hygiene.
ReplyDeletePoster 3 - God will see you through, wait at least 2 months before you panic okay.
Poster 1 - errr I will read comment section for help too!!
We have alot of fake Ori,My dear go To ilorin and get original 1 and stop using cream for the main tym.
ReplyDeletePoster 3. I want you 2 believe only the report of the lord. Its well with you and your baby. I speak life to him/her.
ReplyDeletePoster 1i don't think there is a cure 4 stretch mark.
Poster 2. Abeg shave
Poster 3: God that has started the good work will surely perfect it to the , to the very end. Please visit any Shiloh viewing center nearest to you. Your testimony is sure In Jesus Name.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: "Ofia afuru agu 1" = Sambisa forest which Lion dey inside.
Abeg clear the forest before the lion go jump out of it and tear you to pieces
Poster 1: Stretch mark remedy, coconut oil, shear butter are the best bet. but please dont tamper with your complexion again, for any reason.
You are beautiful the way you are !
please my people, i need advice on HSG, the average price, the hospital I can go to, and experience from other people that have done the same procedure.
ReplyDeleteI did mine after a surgery to remove ovarian cyst. It was painful for me cause my vagina was tight as per no sex. You may spot a little after the procedure. The pain is when the dye moves through your tunes. Did mine at redding ton via insurance. It is well
DeletePoster 3 ur baby will start Moving from 4months + just b calm God is in control. Am also an expectant mom
ReplyDeleteomg GOD for the lady whose baby isnot moving.keep praying while the pregnancy advances.as for the bushy stuff, i heard some men like it bushy because it turns them on o.the lady with stretch mark just dont let it bother you naw!
ReplyDeletePls my people, i need advice on HSG, the average price, and the name of the hospital I can go to, and experience from other people that have done the same procedure.
ReplyDeleteI have little stretch mark will take the shea butter
ReplyDeleteI hate hairs down dere go and shave biko
God will breath life into your baby
All of you screaming shave your sambisa forest are you aware that some men love hairy pussy????
ReplyDeleteYou are not dirty or will not stink because you have hair down there. You will stink due to poor personal hygiene.
I am married now and only had 4 boyfriends all my life including my hubby. EVERY ONE of them liked a woman with hair down there. Every single one of them. So I never shaved completely. Just trimmed the hair and kept good personal hygiene. And let me tell you they loved to eat me down there too. And I've been the one to end all 3 relationships before I married my chosen one. Matter of fact it was hard for them to let go. They all claim I have the good "ish" hairy and all. My hubby can die on top of it sef. So the point of my epistle is this:
1. Not every woman that has hair down there stink. It could be a personal preference or that's just what their man prefers.
2. Stinking down there is as a result of poor personal hygiene and not necessarily due to hair. If you keep it trimmed and clean it will not stink.
3. You will be surprised how many men love hairy pussies. Some will sleep with your fully shaved one and still keep going back to that hairy one and you keep wondering why. Before you join the clean shaven bandwagon ask your significant other if they have a preference.
Above all, practice good personal hygiene!
Madam, please take the back seat and doze off.
DeleteSo, your love interests, including hubby likes your hairy pussy ?
Would they have liked it if it was changing color, or you didn't read that part?
You must be the friend, she talked about.
Lmao @ changing colour.
Delete@Mrs BB but she's right.
It's an individual thing. But the shaving or the keeping of it should be the lady's choice not because of any man. Well that's what I would do. If it makes me itchy and hubby likes hair, will I keep it and be scratching tohtoh up n down like a mad woman? Nahh. He's going to have to bear with me. Man or no man me I can't keep hair there. But it's different for others like this anonymous explained. Wetin girls wey get multiple partners go do when one says I like hair and the other says no? Na to shave one side leave the other side be that. Ok bye
All of you screaming shave your sambisa forest are you aware that some men love hairy pussy????
ReplyDeleteYou are not dirty or will not stink because you have hair down there. You will stink due to poor personal hygiene.
I am married now and only had 4 boyfriends all my life including my hubby. EVERY ONE of them liked a woman with hair down there. Every single one of them. So I never shaved completely. Just trimmed the hair and kept good personal hygiene. And let me tell you they loved to eat me down there too. And I've been the one to end all 3 relationships before I married my chosen one. Matter of fact it was hard for them to let go. They all claim I have the good "ish" hairy and all. My hubby can die on top of it sef. So the point of my epistle is this:
1. Not every woman that has hair down there stink. It could be a personal preference or that's just what their man prefers.
2. Stinking down there is as a result of poor personal hygiene and not necessarily due to hair. If you keep it trimmed and clean it will not stink.
3. You will be surprised how many men love hairy pussies. Some will sleep with your fully shaved one and still keep going back to that hairy one and you keep wondering why. Before you join the clean shaven bandwagon ask your significant other if they have a preference.
Above all, practice good personal hygiene!
Poster with a scan.....at your present gestational age....the baby can't move naturally because the limbs haven't formed yet.....no pregnant woman experiences..fetal movement at 5 wks GA.... Go back in 2 weeks time for a repeat scan...if the pregnancy is viable (good pregnancy) then the fetal pole will be seen..and even if it's too small to be measured cardiac activity of the developing embryo(baby) would be seen..but if in 2 weeks time it's d same tin no development then its most likely a blighted ovum(empty gestational sac...meaning no baby is developing).. Wishing you luck dear...just be optimistic you might have probably gone for a scan too early..all the best and God's favour
ReplyDelete@Poster3: Calm down, all is well. You are stilk quite early. Be hopeful.
ReplyDeleteTake it easy dear. The fetus rarely moves at this stage. Give it another two weeks and with God on your side, everything will be fine. Trust God! Rose
ReplyDeleteGod pls take control of that baby, you are the Master Planner, take charge.
ReplyDeleteSome bv sef,samira same bottom weh u get with am de make u poke,you no de shit, abeg suffry give advice biko. Una too de make una fellow women look them selves like say de carry shit. Ndi ocha
ReplyDelete@ Poster 3: Don't worry your pretty head over nothing, I had the same concerns as u currently do earlier in my pregnancy, am a first timer so I didn't know much, I was worried about movement, heartbeat and the health of my unborn but I just totally trusted God and laid all at his feet, fastforward now that my pregnancy is advancing, my little one does serious gymnastics in there, I even have to pray for peace sometimes. So relax, watever it is, trust God and fear not. You will birth your young. Besides I think it's too early to worry at all. Infact if there is anything to worry about....start praying against severe morning sickness, that should be ur only concern right now cos ur baby is fine.
ReplyDeletePoster2 keep it up, u will soon start harvesting 4rm dia.
ReplyDelete3 madam, pls chill nothing is wrong wt d foetus
*Rmn blessed*
Its well, ur foetus is fyn u jst need tym @ poster 3
ReplyDeleteP3 It is well with your baby in Jesus name
ReplyDeleteNigerian doctors always behaving funny.....they will never explain well to a patient....in the uk whoever does any procedure with you will explain the process and let you know what is happening..if it requires further test for clarifications they wil tell you....I don't know what they mean the baby is not doing well? Only a doctor can interprete the scan."...poster if you are still in the first trimester you can't feel your baby move yet, just keep praying and go back for another scan in a months time.....all the best.
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