She is just 18years old,she had sex or has been having sex...and now she is pregnant and .........OMG!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
18 YEAR OLD PREGNANT TEEN LOOKING TO ABORT
Dear Aunt Stella,I'm an 18year old girl turning 19 in June....I've missed my period for 2 months, my boobs are heavier and painful and I keep getting this strange discharge but I think its from the toilet infection I had.....I've been nauseated and vomiting for 2 weeks now although the doctor asked me to take a pregnancy test, my mum refused due to her extreme confidence in me...they eventually found traces of typhoid fever in my system and I've just completed the treatment last night,although the nausea is still there and my boobs still hurt...I might be pregnant and I'm not ready for it....I know its not right but I would like to flush it off since its still early.....where do I go??do I take a d or c or take pills?I would prefer pills if recommended by a good doctor and won't cause any damages....how do I get a hospital in Lagos that can help me out with either option? D and C or pills? Thank u so much in anticipation of your help......Ola.
I begged her not to commit an abortion and asked her why she isnt keeping the baby and i reply is below.Anyways i have told her that i will put this here so that she wil hear what blog visitors have to say to her.....
''Ma,its complicated....I'm being sponsored by my uncle through university....its a private university and its expensive....if It turns out that I'm pregnant and I keep it,school stops. No more help...my parents are separated....my family would disown me and It would be very shameful for me...nobody would help...I have a very promising future and I'm making excellent grades at school...it was a stupid mistake..and I don't want my life plans to become topsy-turvy because of a silly mistake on my part...in short, they would kill me at home....''
PLEASE KEEP THE BABY...Please.I dont know what else to say to you.the mistake has been made.
there is even no guarantee that your mum will not take you to abort it if you tell her.I pray that God frustrates every plan to kill that child you are carrying in Jesus name!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
TOO MUCH SEX IN A MARRIAGE
Good morning Stella,
I am tired of dying in silence, I just have to cry out to you this morning.
My husband wants to kill me with SEX, he has a very large appetite when it comes to sex.
Once he sees my behind or nakedness or I smile at him suggestively his chairman picks, whether in the kitchen, church, shop etc he starts demanding for sex. He wakes me up with the sight of his erect cock which is enormous. Sex is like a chore for me. I have made a conscious effort to satisfy this ravenous appetite of his, all to no avail.
He is extremely adventurous and willing to go hours, in other words he is a rough rider while I am on the conservative side. Its even worse in the wee hours of the morning he rarely comes, the guy go wan do vigil on top my body. Sex for me is ok every other day but for him lai lai.......it must be a daily affair or twice a day. By the time he is done with me, i am useless for the whole day because my pot will be on fire and my thigh muscles will be wobbly when i stand, I will be experiencing abdominal pains.
I need help, how do I combat this menace because I have developed a phobia for sex as a result of this and we are TTC, once he touches me I cringe in fear and can't get wet. He gives excellent cunnilingus but that is not enough fun compared to the hours of pounding, drilling and tossing of my entire body frame. He dislikes the missionary and loves strenuous sex positions that always leave me exhausted.
Please BV's help me make sex fun in my marriage and how can I match his libidinal pattern. I am very open to learn.
Can't type for long, I need to continue fanning my pot to enable me do some chores today.
Please help me......
JESUSCHRISTOLORUNOBA!
It is your body,why are you not telling him that sex hurts with him?dont you both communicate or is it a wham-bang-thank you kinda marriage?
Sit your hubby down and explain what is happening to your body otherwise you will continue suffering in silence!...and stop faking orgasm so that he does not keep thinking you are screaming outta pleasure!!!
Choi sex everyday is what some people are looking for sef..one mans meat is really another's poison.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE
WALKING OUT BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE
Hi Stella dear, thanks for the opportunity. I read the diary of the lady that was deceived into marriage and I felt like talking about my experience.
Whenever I think about that relationship and what my life would have turned into, I would remain grateful to God for giving me the courage.
I met this guy during my NYSC days years back. We started dating and because we are from the same village we started planning marriage early which didn't seem a bad idea. But along the line I started noticing some lying traits which made me wisen up. First, before we visited his dad in another state he told me they own the house they live in, only for me to get there and they were just occupying a self contain room and parlour, tenants!
I didn't have an issues with that because I wasn't marrying him for his money (which he didn't have by the way). I asked him why he lied about their house, he couldn't give a reasonable answer( story for the gods). We returned back to lagos, he lives around alaba, an environment I hated so much, but was ready to cope, I was born in VI. I noticed after we got back that he wasn't going to 'shop', I asked him he initially said he was resting, then after some days he said that one guy he was owing locked up his shop, then I asked him to take me to the guy, he said again that the people he was owing are many, hmmm!
I asked him how come he was owing so much debt and he said he borrowed the money to import goods, but custom seized the goods, I asked if he had contraband in the container he said no. So I somehow got the then controller general of custom's number and told him to call which he never did, after a week I dialled the man's number and forced him to talk, after the man asked him some questions he told him to come see him that day at his office, Stella, Omo boy left the house but never went. Somehow I found out that he didn't import any goods, and he didn't own a shop either, but was squatting.
I still ignored.
I was feeding this guy and taking care of his bills, sometimes he would take my money without telling me. Then I spoke to some friends who told me to send his CV so they could help get a job for him, somehow, I found out Omo boy lied about his academic qualification, he never graduated. I was mad and I felt like a fool. However, what pissed me off the most was when he started giving out my numbers to people to pretend he was owing them, this people would call me and start threatening how they would lock him up if he doesn't pay up. I got angry and blocked them.
I asked him why he gave my numbers to those people he denied doing so. Stella I hardly went out in that area and I was friends with no one cause am an indoor person, so no one else could have given my numbers out. Our wedding was being postponed severally because he couldn't open up to me on his finances, and his people wanted my parents to foot the bills, my parents would have, but they held back because they found out about the guy from some investigations they did, they knew that marriage would never happen, but were waiting for me to take a decision, they didn't want to force me to leave.
I called the guy one day and asked him to open up to me on how much he was owing people and how much he needed to start up his business again, he rained insult on me, that was me being calm and nice but what did I get insults. He said if I wanted to give him money I should give him and not ask him such questions. For Christ sake, how dumb would I have been to give someone such money without asking questions? That was the night I packed my things and first thing the next morning I left.
We returned the dowry afterwards. My friends and aunts felt I shouldn't have left because according to them people would think I left the guy cause he didn't have money, which was what the guy went about telling everyone, but who cares? Definitely, not me. I needed to be happy, I needed a truthful fresh start. Before I forget, back then this guy would call my parents to complain and cry to them whenever we had any issues, he is the same person who would go around saying funny things about my folks. Am glad I left, I moved in to lekki phase 1, and to the glory of God am a successful entrepreneur.
One thing ladies need to realise is you don't need a man to succeed, only you know where it pinches do not care about what people would say, cause they would talk anyways. Sorry for the long epistle.
Na you even prolong am sef,your walking out should have been earlier.if any woman is in this kind lying-tion-ship and still waiting for a miracle confession,you need a reset slap to bring you back to normal.
Na wa ooo
ReplyDelete@P2, this ur narratives is too sexy, making guys feeling so horny.
DeleteOsmoses... Blog MC.
Oh girl, pregnant teenager, I do not know what to advice u sincerely. And I do not feel the need to castigate u either, bcos the deed has been done. Sha don't do anything that'll jeopardise ur life or cause u to regret ur existence. If u get out of this peculiar mess, Face your studies and don't let ur sponsors down. As many crave the opportunity to find sponsors for a state university, not to talk of getting the luxury of attending a private university. The Lord is ur strength.
DeletePoster 2. Ewooo. After typing epistle like me.. u now said u can't type for long? Wetin come remain na? Loll. Anyway to your problem, ..........
This is what I call "a good problem"...albeit a painful one to u. Biko tell oga how u want it...perhaps u need to be excessively lubricated to enjoy his "staff of authority". What do I know. Ndo ooo
Last poster. I rejoice with you.
OK bye bye
Poster 1. Come to think of it, I hope u aren't pregnant for ur uncle and sponsor o??? Pray tell.
DeleteOscar moses side eyes to you in stella's voice
DeleteLet me sit and read comment,hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteAaaahhh. Narrative 1:
DeleteThere's a message the Holy Ghost just ministered to me now. (This is because I took a moment with God as soon as I read your narration)
Dear, the holy ghost asked me to tell you that, you must not abort that baby if truly you are pregnant.
If you go ahead with the abortion, you will only be digging your pit here on earth and face hell hereafter.
Life for you will seem worse than what you envisage the out known of the pregnancy will bring.
PS: The day you shall be called upon to account for this, do not say I didn't WARN you.
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Stella Kork, give us IHN by 1:00pm dot.
Stella Kork, return IHN to 1:00pm dot.
#DelayIsDangerous #WeKnowYouAreWorkingSoHard
Narrative 2:
DeleteGet a female Gold Cycle and put some pepper in it. Where in on your cunt when he's almost ready to put his schlong in there.
Or eat pepper well well, and use the mouth give em head. Lol
Stella kork has spoken well. For this, I raise hand for class (seconded)
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Stella Kork, give us IHN by 1:00pm dot.
Stella Kork, return IHN to 1:00pm dot.
#DelayIsDangerous
#WeKnowYouAreWorkingSoHard
Poster 1, plz tlk 2 ur mum 1st, mums alwys hav a soft heart cos. Dey no wat it. Feels lyk 2 b preggy
DeleteP2 talk 2 ur husbnd na, u guys shld try n find a suitable solution 4 u both so hw wuldnt go outside Bcos dis hunger 4 sex na die.
P3 u shld hav left wen u saw d signs bt tank God u left anyway.
This sun is killing.
I can't tolerate lies. Once a man tells me the first lie I won't wait for the next. I'd rather u tell me you can't open up on this issue just yet and I should not discuss.
DeleteYou even fed him? Ha! Una dey try oooh
Why would u even move to Alaba? Duuhh! If u were living in such an area fine. But what I know is a good man will never drag his wife to his lower standards. He would try to meet hers. When places like ajah and gbagada still dey? For a girl who grew up in VI that's the least he could have done. Even if na one room. Duuh!
Abeg leave matter, 90 percent of those shouting "don't abort" have done abortion Or have had babes abort for you
DeletePoster ask for a good hospital, don't be desperate, meet and talk with the doctors. If it was Abuja I would have recommended a great hospital for you.
@ Dauda: 1. The only sin that is unforgivable is a sin against the Holy Spirit. 2. If you lie against me, you've sinned against me.
DeleteThink about that and tailor your jokes accordingly
Narrative one, please u re the one who knows how things are in ur families, and I don't want u to stop ur school, I personally tell u to go and meet a special doctor that will help u to flush out that pregnancy and becareful, because given birth to unwanted child is bad, very very bad. Nobody will help u dear, do not let anybody deceive u. Because they won't help u again for ur school fees and many other things, go and remove that pregnancy! Narrative two, sorry for what u have been going true, talk to ur husband how u always feel when he is having sex with u, that u re not enjoying it just tell him what u feel, if he refuse to listing to u. U divorce him, before he paralyzed u... @ the 3rd Narrative, I think u did the best thing for running for ur life is just the best
DeleteDauda, this won't stop her. Can't you feel the determination in her voice. For an 18 year old her determination na die.
DeleteDauda, this won't stop her. Can't you feel the determination in her voice. For an 18 year old her determination na die.
DeleteYou know,I have been watching and now I am here. I am here to take my rightful position. To sit on the throne,my throne.Rules for everyone: No insults to my person,the trillionaire. Also as a mark of respect,do not reply my comment. Last and by no means the least,do not cuss anyone I take as a friend. Deal?
Delete@Moneytalking
Poster 1: sit in a very quiet place this night and listen to this song: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ifCWN5pJGIE
DeleteAnd if you don't have data, read the lyrics here: http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/pentatonix/marydidyouknow.html
Humble yourself before God and admit you've made a mistake. Cry out and ask him to meditate on your behalf to your mom and uncle.
Then go to your mom and tell her the situation.
If you don't feel comfortable enough even after praying, look for an aunt who loves you, is not judgemental, and has a very good relationship with your mom.
Confide in her and beg her to help you tell your mom.
Right now, it is pride about "What will people think of me?" that is driving your decision. If you truly humble yourself, the scales covering your eyes will drop and you will take a far better decision.
From the moment that child is born, you will always thank God you never killed him/ her.
Your uncle can even rescind his decision and continue supporting you and that baby.
I suspect the break up of your parents influenced you to seek for a male figure and you ended up bonding with the wrong person who eventually got you pregnant.
I have a close friend who has been in your situation. Her son is the best thing that happened to her. He is an exceptional child academically and morally.
If you inbox me, I can link her up to you.
Will pray for you.
Please go and take several seats. Babe, if you don't want to have the baby, you don't have to. Your life is in your hands and if you feel you are not prepared then you really are not. Don't self medicate on pills. There is a pill that can terminate the pregnancy and it has to be administered under doctors supervision. If you are 2 months pregnant then you can still use this method without going for a D and C which can have several complications. Talk to your doctor and he will advice you appropriately.
Delete"Dear, the holy ghost asked me to tell you that, you must not abort that baby if truly you are pregnant". Dauda "your" Holy Ghost does not know if she is pregnant. The Holy Ghost is omniscient, so stop lying.
DeletePoster one pls get cytotec searle 1865 drug. Insert two tablets when you about to sleep and use two tablets orally. Your foetus will come down. Or look for a good hospital to do a D&C. Don't let a baby tie u down since your education is on the line. Pray!!
DeleteTory full ground .will relax and read comments .
ReplyDeletePoster 1
Do not abort that child .
Run away from home .after having the baby you come back ,or my dear dont even run any where ,carry on with your studies ,let them see it ,tell them you cant abort .
Poster 1 I feel so sorry for you but, talk to your mum, I am pretty sure she would be there for you rather than disown you.
DeletePoster 2- all I can do is LOL. Sorry sit your hubby and talk to him. Too much of everything is not good. Pele
Poster 3- Thank God you woke up sooner.
Poster 1, God help you whatever you decide; i have a feeling you've already made up your mind though.
Delete2. You sound like you and dh wrestle, as oppossed to making love. Abeg, sit him down and have a proper chat with him. How can you be left bruised and battered each time you copulate with oga. Your dh sounds like one of those men that rough- handle women in the name of making love.
3. Like Stella said, you should have taken a walk a long time ago, haba! Mtchw!
Click my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Bootylicious you are very confused.
DeleteN1, Stella has said it all. I say Amen to her prayers.
ReplyDeleteN2, is ur hubby into drugs or porn?Am just wondering how he gets his strength. Didn't u date him b4 the marriage? You ought to have noticed his excess libido before saying I do. Its a pity.
N3, Thanks for taking a walk even though you wasted time before leaving. A broken courtship is better than a broken marriage. I wish you the best.
So you are invariably saying "she should have had premarital sex?"
DeleteN1- you should have thought of the consequences before indulging in the act.
DeleteDo whatever you want to do. Na you sabi.
Mtchewwww!
N2- I been think say na my story you de type, the only difference is mine is considerate and respects my wishes when i say am not so in the mood. Make I cross leg read comment concerning your case. Pele.
N3-N3-you made the right decision
Poster 2. One man's meat another man's poison.
DeleteOboi Sex is fun if you jam your type with same high Libido.
Babes you have to get prepared for hubby too
I love it the way ur Hubby is doing it.
Babe go look for Supplement to increase your Libido so you will be competiting with Hubby, Before Hubby start misbehaving
Poster one Stella in as much Abortion is WRONG for me I will suggest the Student flushes it not to put her study on hold, She is too too young to nurse a Child. You sef next time play safe.
ada my tots ooo,hahaha
Delete@Ada Onyeoma, must u have sex with somebody before you notice his/ her sexual appetite? See who is preaching about premarital sex! As if you've not have sex before. I hate pretenders!!!
DeleteAda onyema like u are not having premarital sex? Abeg make I hear word
DeletePoster one, I won't go back to calling you names, I know you already know you are silly. Having sex at 18 and not having sense to protect yourself.
DeleteI'd ask you to keep it but I know it's going to stop a lot of things in your life. Talk to your mum, put everything out, including the fact that you don't want the baby and let her help u out .
Poster two, I am speechless. I'm sure you can find sex positions that aren't hurting...
Poster 3, thank God for you o.
Bloggy nwa, I didn't hesperit o.....
To the 18yr old girl, Abeg stella no vex she doesn't need a child now, don't force her, ogini? So to a good pharmacy and buy misoprostol and take since it's just two weeks old, Abeg you don't need a child in your life now, your education is more important, you Gann close your legs please
ReplyDelete2weeks old? She has missed her period for 2 months ooooo. Read well before you give a wrong advice.
Deletehian stella dis comment shud hhav bn censored o,u say its misopro...lolz,yipeeee av known one now,*jokin o*infact God punish me d day i wil abort o exceptn 4 medical purposes ,cant even wait to get a second of me cos am beautiful *shines teeth*and av got a strong gene too*runs away*
DeleteHaaaaaa,that's not a good advice....
DeleteI swear thats what I thought. Pls take it out. Believe me you would hate yourself later on especially when in future guys starts telling you they cant marry "an after one" trust me dear... please go and take it out ASAP. Your family cant even afford it and your baby daddy is going to run too
DeleteAhhhh....dont advise her wrongly ooo. She said she has missed her period for 2 MONTHS(not weeks).
DeletePoster,pls confide in ur mum....and if she also thinks you should take it out....then she will help u out. If you go to any pharmacy, they wont prescribe/sell any drug to you for abortion without sighting a doctor's prescription first with ur name on it and a means of identifying urself to confirm its really ur name. I know cos someone close to me found herself in that scenario not quite long. She only missed her period for a month and she went to three big pharmacies but they all refused to sell any drug for her if she cant provide a doctor's prescription. Though her period came afterwards(meaning it was just a delay).
Poster 1...u know u have so much on your hands, y did u allow this to happen. May God help you ooo.
Poster1..do.what you want, it's your life..
DeleteWhen.i was 18 sef i.dint know I was a human being not to talk of having a boyfriend or having sex..life is like this for you yet you allowed yourself to get pregnant.do as u want bae
Poster 2..i love adventurous men sha.but he's your husband so you should be able to discuss this issue with him, y worry? Talk to him
Poster3..you did the right thing by walking away but you wasted time..when.i see women pay their boo's bill I just wonder,Tufiakwa! When we not married I'll b feeding, clothing and paying your other bills? Tufiakwa..
2 months ooooooooo
DeleteSee you. U wanna kill Some ones child. She said 2 months not 2 weeks
DeleteI am in support of this. All these people saying keep the child will not support you financially and emotionally when you have the child. And please always insist on a condom if you can't close your legs. Today is pregnancy, tomorrow might be AIDS.
DeleteAbeg o, take any drug with the doctor watching you o.....
Delete@poster2...am in the same situation like yu...sex daily...its very annoying but the moment I complain is trouble....too much of everything is bad..@3rd poster....i love ur courage to walk out on him...I have a friend who fell into such,she almost lost all she had laboured for but now she is good...good riddiance to bad rubbish
ReplyDelete#2...if ur hubby was cheating on u cos of his high libido,u'l be complaining n writin stories here....abeg go home to ur husband n chop epon,let him tear u betta prick jor
DeleteWish I'm in your shoes. I get sex once in a blue abi purple moon sef. And to think we sleep in the same room on the same bed. Once I complain he says he is pitying me. Abeg no pity me, give me thorough fucking jare
DeleteMy dear sister, I get it once in three weeks and to think that we are newly wed. I would love to be in ur position honestly
DeleteAnnon 18:17 "Abeg no pity me, give me thorough fucking" that got me LOLOing .& screaming! I feel you jare. Me sef wey never marry am praying for a sexually potent man. Pele O! Poster 2 wish I were in your shoes, my own wetness na flood so I don't see me complaining much. Just talk to your hubby or try to up your game as well. It is well you hear. The LORD is your strenght. *side eye*
DeletePoster one so what do u want us to tell u, na we hold touch for u, at ur age u couldn't behave so u can make ur uncle proud that is paying ur fees, my dear I can't tell u to abort pls. I don't have advise, other BV should have.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 don't worry KEHINDE is in the house he would give u all the tips u need to know, he is a PHD holder in that field
Poster 3 thank God for ur life, u left on time, hope other ladies going through same would also have the courage to leave and not give silly excuse.
Things are really happening in this world sha, i woke up with a swollen eyes cuz of wat m going tru in my relationship, its just a matter of time before i walk away.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I wont even blame you cuz i know how tough ur age is, wen ur parent talk to u u wont listen, Now u av learnt from ur foolishness. You better keep d baby, u didnt think about this before u started opening ur legs ba? Mtcheeeeew
Poster 2: I am not married so i cannot say much but some people actually want this and they wont get it, i know of someone who says dt d husbands av sex with her twice in TWO years. Communication is needed, make he no turn u to basket, lolllzzz, WAIT: Scientist say everyday sex is good for the body. Yinmu
Poster 3: I just dont kno what to say oooooo, Such WHIMPS(Not Men) should be in rehabilitation center. And when they now say, *Men raise your hands* Dz atutupoyoyo will stand up. Mtchewwwwww. God please save mankind from FOOLS like this. Thank God u borrowed urself some senses.
By the way, CANT WE ALL REMAIN HAPPILY EVER SINGLE???????? *runsaway*
d poster 1 Doesnt need advice weda to keep d baby or not o,lolz,she wants to knw d best abortion process,d and C or drugs which is beter,all dese keep d baby or dnt keep nor De enter her head o,lolz
DeleteTwice in two years?
DeleteWhat are you waiting for? Do the walking away NOW! Tomorrow might be too late
DeleteIf you are in a relationship that wakes you up with swollen eyes then maybe you are just as 'foolish' as poster 1.
DeleteExactly @sisi Eko.
DeleteSee fake sisi eko. You've started again abi??? OK.
DeleteDisclaimer.
DeleteThis sis eko with the orange B moniker ain't me o... I hereby disassociate myself from the person's comments.
Thank u
so many lying men around. Mothers need to up their game. Its like mothers are not really training their sons properly. Dont get me wrong, fathers play a part in training/upbringing. but its the mother the child spends 80% of his time with. If a boy really knows how to and learns to love and respect his mum, he would do so to any lady that comes into his life. Mothers, mothers....
ReplyDeleteI have fallen in love with u. In fact let's be friends.
DeleteAfrican mother's have been investing too much time grooming their daughters to be all rounders and leaving their sons to feel like kings, thereby causing a dysfunctional generation of more reasonable women than men. Yes I blame the mothers for letting their daughters cook, clean, sweep, carry baby, still go to school, do her homework, look decent and smell fresh, iron and fold clothes, keep her room clean while still engaging a trade or business.
Yet the sons wake up, eat ready made food, take their bags, go to school, come back, play ball, do homework, eat lunch, might wash his plates, go to visit his idle friend, they play more ball, come back, wash his uniform late and eat dinner. He may not bathe. Repeat same cycle tmr. U hardly go to see your female friend and see her playing. U ppl will have to gist while she is washing her uniform or plates or cooking in the kitchen. But the boys always in d parlour watching TV and quarreling with their sisters who are tired of arranging the house after them.
Now see the outcome....
TO THE 18 YEAR OLD PREGNANT LADY: My heart bleeds. You want to Kill him not "flush it"(Please it is not feces that you are carrying but a human like you!) . . .but let's see . . .Let's reason:
ReplyDeleteThere is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.
Lady Igo
Mother Theresa.. I beg go and take several seats.
DeleteLeave the story for the pulpit.
DeleteMorning freshness to you all. That woman in Case2 needs to be grateful. If she can't cope, then how about arranging some girls to service her man on her behalf? Share that master beef.
ReplyDeleteThis anonymous baaad gan ni o.
DeletePoster 1... Please don't abort your baby. It's already there. The mistake has been made. I guess you'd learn from it. Just pray your uncle and other family members understand.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... Biko was your husband not like this when you were dating? Or his love for sex just started now? Talk to him about it and adjust because you have entered already.
Poster 3... Thank God for your life.
@1....keep that pregnac... No matter your sub stories I wouldn't support you aborting that pregnacy if e too bad call me I go adopt the baby...when you have unprotected sex...a pregnacy is a likely result not a plasma TV 📺
ReplyDelete@2....talk with your husband, quit faking orgasms and ensure you both engage in alot of foreplay that would make you wet and well lubricated for each session
@3 na you prolong matter...thank God you bowed out... na that kind guy dem dey call DEVOURER or better still HYENA because his type will devour your past, present and future just like the hyenas that eat the hooves and the horns...
Goodafternoon Sdk BVs
Poster two have a talk with ur german thunder of a husband. Poster three walk away. Poster One go to school
ReplyDeleteLoll
DeleteDid u have a. Talk with ur supposedly married man who fathered. D bastard u gave birth to?foolish fool
Chai! U suceeded sending jayem from this blog! Cyber power. Rispect*in jamaica accent*
DeleteLorlll @German thunder. Poster2.
DeleteReally too much of everything is bad. Find a way to talk to ur husband in a very subtle way in fact ask The Holy Spirit to direct ur words or lead,do u know u can pray to God about it? Tell God to control ur husband's sexual appetite,there is no pray that God doesn't answer especially when it is good for us. Poster1 don't abort it please what if u were destined to have only one child in ur life? Ask yourself many questions and learn from other peoples mistakes so u don't regret in future. Amen to Stella's prayers.
Poster one,buy eprostol. Go to a good pharmacy n buy.insert one deep in Yu vagina n take others.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 1- I think you should talk to your mom, she is in a better position to decide what's best for u at dis stage, if u read ihn there's a lady there who is begging God and waiting eagerly to be in ur position and ure throwing this chance away..fine u might not have been ready but God is ready hence he put the child there,,next time don't taste what u can't eat,,, talk to ur mom and mosly talk to GOd ,don't visit any quacks or take advise from ur teenage friends ,let a trusted adult handle this..may God see u through darling.
ReplyDeleteNarrative2 -your story get as e be ooooh,ist of all u claim not to enjoy it so why do you still give him suggestive smiles...Lools e dey ur bodi..u just came here to boast about ur husbands great Kpak.l mean that's what some people drink Alomo and Jedi on a daily basis to achieve...but on a serious note dialogue is key..make him understand how u truly feel and reach a conclusion before side chics go help u share the energy.
Narrative 3 -u don already help yourself as a sharp girl that u are..thanks for sharing this recurrent lesson amongst babes..#teamvigilante
...........Stella u must enjoy me
Poster 3 am glad you bowed out from such decietful Relationship. The Guy is a Local Scammer.
DeleteLlol
DeleteStella must enjoy. U,
Buy her a lambo first *shines teeth*
Send her flowers.
Madam low Sex drive, go n buy eve's desire,
Drink it, na ur husband go run,
U will chase him around d house,
U will rape him if u ain't careful..
Use preseed also...my o my...u will just arrange yaself. n receive dickanointing
Posterr 1, when u decided to spread your legs and received a guys raw penis, where u expecting a plasma TV as the end product? U made a mistake, deal with it, what if in the process of aborting u damage your womb? Cn u live with that? Then no man will marry u from this part of the world,
ReplyDeleteShe needs advise and not blasting.
DeleteLmaooooooo @plasma tv. Word @damage ur womb, that's another angle to this thing. Sad enof,I have friends who have been waiting on God for the fruit of d womb for over 5/10 years. Meanwhile someone wants to take out d one she's got. O girl pls have a rethink, confide in ur mum, God loves u so much, He won't abandon u. May God help u.
DeleteGbamest!!! May God help us all
DeletePoster1,u made a mistake and abortion is a sinnso as lying and fornication is a sin.all these sdkers wil tel u to keep it but if its oin dia own case dey wil abort it.you are too young to keep a baby,u parents are broke who wan com train d pikin wen u born?u beta take abortion pills or go for a direct abortion which is very safe,then seal ur legs or knw ur safe period.simple.aunty stella fit don do abortion for her own tym.smallie lik u no sabi safe period or contaceptivz.smh 4 u
ReplyDeleteU spoke ma mind exactly
Deleteposter 1 av bn bein in ur situatn o,nver bein preg so dnt knw how to advice you sha,18yrs?????sigh,dnt say its a stupid mistake o,its deliberate jor afterall u didnt use condom,God wil direct you.btw b4 peeps wud advice her to keep d baby check d circumstances behind it o,as 4 me
ReplyDeletei cant outrigtly tel u to abort d baby o,cant put hand in killing dat innocent baby,
poster 3 leme take dat guy's space by sending my CV,he's nt serious
@1, I need to slap ya mouth before I advice u, @18 u are already rotten, who spoilt u, if u cared about ur future that much u would ve avoided men knowing ur background, go and ask d guy that got u pregnant for advice not me, silly.
ReplyDelete@2, did u not know dat d guy haf an outrageous libido before u married him, y are u complaining now, put ice block in ur punani to calm it down then get ready for another nacking, marriage is for better for worse.
@angelray.u yarn correct.no sympathy. choi
DeleteAngelray, u don see d Oyibo husband wey dey find u for IHN? I wish you good luck.
DeleteKikikikik
DeleteLolz @ ice block.. cray bvs everywr
DeleteI thot that man said you don't ever have a harsh word or insult in you. Kilode? What happened to calm and mature and considerate?
DeleteMifepristol/misoprotol tablets wil do it.drink 2 and insert 4 vaginally afta 4hours.goodluck and seal ur legs next time
ReplyDeleteAhhhh,these drugs ur Prescribing are dangerous na,do you want to damage her womb?Misopristol damaged my friend's womb,she's married now for 3yrs and yet she can't concieve.Pls don't advise this young girl to take such.
Delete4 is too much.
DeleteFor misoprostol, u can either insert it deep into ur vagina, or under ur tongue.
DeleteThe instructions never said to swallow it.
Poster 1, get a guy to help u buy it, cos no pharmacy will ever sell it to u, even if they garrit.
*side eyes* speaking from experience? Lol
DeleteP1, pls dnt abort. God is ur strength.
ReplyDeleteP2, bhahahahahahahahaha. Talk to ur hubby biko
P3, these kinda stories are strange to me.
N1, please keep that baby. You had an option of using a condom or taking the morning after pill but you still got pregnant. Either you used a condom and it broke or don't know about contraceptives. N2, talk to your husband, let him know he does more harm than good to you with his excess libido. N3, thumbs up to you for walking out when you did. Women should learn that they can be successful without men. Let us work on ourselves and stop depending on men for approval.
ReplyDelete1:
ReplyDeleteHas this blog ever given out abortion pills' names or D&C doctor's names and addresses?
You know all you have at stake, yet you decided unprotected sex is the way for yourself. Now you are pregnant, you can't handle the consequences of your irresponsible behavior.
You are a foolish young woman and I hope you have learnt yourself lesson and this doesn't derail your path.
Look for experienced aunties in your family or neighborhood and let one take you to a good doctor to have a D&C.
2:
So you want to kill yourself in your quest to satisfy your Burantashi husband.
Obviously you don't work, you spend the whole day fanning your injured pussy. What a life! For how long will you continue like that?
Instead of you to confide in him and together find ways to lessen the destruction he's carrying out on your body daily, you are looking for ways to match up. How? Through drugs? When his own libido is natural.
You can't match his libido.
If he's hurting you, you have to let him know so he can find ways to tone it down.
You are not his slave to be ridden any which way. Sex is to be enjoyed by both of you.
3:
See who is churning out advice...
Orisirisi.
Your stupidity in the story you narrated is unbelievable.
Her stupidity is appalling, and she's here admonishing women.
DeletePlease Poster 3, get it right first, then you can turn into an advocate for emotionally abused women.
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When people think they have the right to insult people, like their lives are better or perhaps they are smarter.
DeleteIt's her responsibility to satisfy her hubby...poster 2,go home n chop plenty plenty epon
DeleteGD, o lenu gannn.....see how u finished the the three posters....lol
DeletePoster1; darling,this your mistake is a huge one o,which will more likely be followed by another mistake.
ReplyDeletei think she should do a d nd c.that way you can continue with schooling and making urself a better woman,hopefully you'll stay off boys.or remember condom.
Poster2; madam sorry o.i wish i knew what to tell you o.but i do not.
Poster3; thank goodness for you.that you didt make a mistake ending up with that sort of man
Lol @ 'lying-tion-ship'. @Poster three, u are so right. People would talk, but do they even know half of what u are going through? I always ask who the 'society' is. Doesn't the so-called 'society' have its own issues too? Abeggi! I always feel extremely lazy to type my journey in marriage to Stella. But as I type, I'm in my parent's house and Hubby knows we are sitting on a keg of gunpowder, but lies to the church members that I'm running a program in the West (lol) I, do not even have any explanation to give anyone cos I know what I have been through in his hands.
ReplyDelete@Poster one : this is really complicated o, cos I know what childbirth can do in a married woman's life not to talk of a single girl. It has a way of bringing some things to a halt or a slow pace. Can u confidr in your mum? Pls do.
@Poster two .... I'm short of words o! I'all read comments on this
I love you so much ,no homo preachers wife,i feel your pains even when you dont say.
DeleteThanks bootylicious. God uses some things in our lives to make us stronger people. #hugs
DeleteThis too shall Pass baby!
Delete@ Preachers wife,I don't know u buh I hurt wenever I read ur story.
and to think he is a Preacher....
It's well hun.it's well.
Preacher's wife,don't worry...everything will end well
DeletePreacher's wife dear, kpele. I always follow your comments about your marriage. It is well. This too, shall pass.
DeletePreacher's wife... You will know happiness again...
DeleteI wish I can take away the pains in the world...
Preachers wife, you are a blessed and strong woman.... Hugs
DeletePreachers wife don't worry nnem, it will end in praise..
DeleteE hugs to u.
It is well with you ma..
DeletePoster 1 wen u re doing it u dnt no dat it will result into pregnancy upon all d preaching wey den dey preach 4 dis blog,abeg carry ur cross,igba ton se Iya ee oo mo baba ee mo,igba to yun wa yo u come dey complain,poster 2 laugh wan kill me die u re on ur own ooooo,kikikiki,wa fe ku lale,wa te soju ee lale, Pele tie.
ReplyDeleteWe're yeye!
DeleteNarrative one....pls don't abort
ReplyDeleteNarrative two.... Ur husband wan break ur spinal cord...better tell him u don't want to dir before ur time
Narrative three..... Siddon dere dey pant dey wear u....better walk away ...pretend say u dey "who wants to be a millionaire"
@Galore
STFU.Haven't u aborted before?
DeleteDon't abort poster1. I was in d university when I got pregnant. I kept it now she is 17yrs,though it wasn't easy,the shame,backbiting etc but I bore d consequence but today am married to someone else with 2daughters. My 3 daughters are very pretty
DeletePoster 3 I ve nothing 2 say,am walking away frm.....
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2 got me laughing so much. Once in a while my hubby is like that o. Those times I don't border doing any household chores. I eat and wait for the action which might take a whole day with break interval.
ReplyDeleteNarrative1, pls do what will give u peace of mind o.
Narratives3, thank God for delivering u from the hands of that guy. I am happy for u.
Pregnant girl, have dokinta give you methotrexate injection sharply to abort the pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteWoman with nackson as husband, are you married to a Calabar man? God is you strength. Make una call that blog doctor wey dey advice on sex issues to help you. Me sef dey sign out.
Hmmmmmmm.....poster 1...am so sorry you found yourself in such situation, but please talk to your mother...we all make mistakes...am sure she could discuss with your uncle to continue with your sch fee payment after birthing your baby...abortion is murder...pls don't....i wish i could help you financially but i can't
ReplyDeletePoster 2...lol...speak with your hubby now before you die in silent
Poster 3...am happy for you...You did the right tin...thumbs up
Poster 1... pls do not abort dat angel. poster 2...hmmmmm u shuld have known naa. anyway it is well with u. Stop seeing sex with u'r hubby as a chore and start enjoying it unless u want him to start getting it else where. It is well with u. Poster 3.. thank God u left wen u did or else u would be writing a different narrative.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 do what you think is best for you, it's easy for everybody to tell you to keep the child which is the best thing to do BTW, but a child changes a lot of things in a woman's life, even when you have the support of the dad and those around you, if you decide to abort, don't use pills, do it the right way, see a doctor, another option is to give the baby up for adoption and use the money you get to take Care of your educational bills, whatever you do, learn how to abstain or use protections, a pregnancy is not the only thing you can get,and yes treat that infection ASAP.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 talk to Oga, I don't know what you hope to achieve by sending your story here, tell him you can't stand those strenous positions and hrs, if you are thinking that if you don't Succumb to his demands he would go out that's bull, even if you are a tigress in bed, if he's the type, a lamb outside can still entice him, communicate!!! BTW were you the one that was fanning her swollen Labia yesterday on that comment? Epele.
P3 you did the right thing dear, the man is so shameless, what's it with some Naija men anyway? Just because they feel women are desperate for marriage? Who's to blame? That how I heard some security men in my school quoting "1saiah 7:1"( that verse about 7 women clinging to one man, that they would find their own bread and clothe, but he should just allow them bear his name) this particular one was saying that we are in that era now, God forbid bad thing! Yeye lazy Men. A man should provide.
I'm in tune with you concerning the advice you dished out to Poster 1.
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Yea....a man who can't provide for his home is worse than an infidel. 1timothy5:8"
DeleteThe only sensible comment I've read so far. They are all saying don't abort like it's easy to raise a child. My dear, we all make mistakes, do what gives you peace. Being a single mother ain't easy.
DeleteLadies once the lying has passed two,find ur way out,learn from ppl's experience
ReplyDelete@poster1 : hmmmmmmm,pls keep the baby.
ReplyDelete@poster2 : is your cross,carry it.
Some women here are even complaining dat DH doesn't touch them.
@poster3 : you are still wasting time. Pls leave asap
Poster 1 ... God will see you through. Close una legs for where see where it landed you. Me am not innocent on dat but God will give you the wisdom to do what you want to do.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.... some like it hot, some like it cold,some like it in the pot 3 days old. Communication is the key. i wonder why women will be afraid of their husbands. why marry if you cannot talk to him
Poster 3.... you saw the flaws and you still believe you can change him.... anyway you no Jesus that can change situation. Am happy you are out of the relationship
I AM OFF NEXT WEEK
Poster 1: I will advise not to abort that baby,the quilt you will feel if you do that will remain with you for life.But you know what's best for you.young girls learn how to close your legs,sex is just a 5minutes pleasure that can cost your future.
ReplyDeleteI am seriously bioling right now.my maid just confided in me that my brother inlaw molested her and was trying to touch her anyhow.the guy own don finish.today is the last day he is going to sleep in my house.if his fathers house is far from the office then he should go rent a place of his own.I was already tired of his staying and devil don use am today so he is so going.
Poster 2 please talk to your horseband before he kills you with sex.haba!you will just grow old over night how can some1 be having sex twice a day?
Poster 3
You are a smart babe marriage doesn't garaunty happiness.
Lying-tion-ship, lol!!!!
ReplyDeletePoster2 : na wa, your husband is just having fun, tell him without bruising his ego, baby make I no go die from too much sex o, wetin you go tell my family?Let us cuddle sometimes ni.
Poster 1 : no words, i'm stunned!
N-1, Keep the innocent child, I beg of U!
ReplyDeleteN-2, Discuss, talk about it over a romantic dinner, introduce more of foreplay to distract him from your pot...Pele Dear.
N-3,D simple truth "One thing ladies need to realize is you don't need a man to succeed, only you know where it pinches do not care about what people would say, cause they would talk anyways'.
Narrative 1:ABORTION IS MURDER(mortal sin) dnt make it an option pls!!!!
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2:LOL,just hail flyin horse for me(still laughin)
Narrative 3:(high five) at least u wnt av children wit lyin traits.............
Which one is mortal sin bikonu?
DeleteStory 3; madam what is wrong with you and many other women? Do you need God to.come down himself and tell you he is a fake? Jeez all these desperate women smh
ReplyDeleteTo the 18 years Old Lady:
ReplyDeleteWhat if you abort the baby and all the blessings stop flowing (for some reason you couldnt finish your education),it is only by Gods mercy you are being sponsored through school, you could even die/have damages for life...
And
You keep the baby, God blesses you with so much more...
We are only living by God's Grace.
The bible admonishes us not to kill...
You have made a mistake, please just ask for God's forgiveness and he will see you through.
It wont be easy, definately, but am sure it will be worth it in the end. You can also give your baby up for adoption.
If you do abort it, you will live with the guilt for the rest of your life, do not put yourself in something you will regret.
Please pray about it and ask the Holy Spirit to direct your decision. I will advise you let your Mum know.
I pray that the lord will give you the wisdom to do what is right, and be your strenght.
Just know that the baby is not a mistake. God has created a Life in you. Our God does not make mistake.
All the best.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
One: yu are fool and is gud yu acknwledge that..
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Two: tell him hw yu feel simple....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Must you insult her before you pass ur msg across?...Get a life you ds ass licker.
DeletePOSTER 1: It sounds hypocritical to say this, but you should keep it. I really believe that you should. It will definitely be shameful. It will change, even 'temporarily' ruin things. Your family will definitely be disappointed. But if you take it out... which many might counsel... you'll forever wish you never did.
ReplyDeleteHope you make the best decision.
POSTER2: I actually laughed out loud when I read "My husband wants to kill me with SEX"... Stop parading about naked, stop giving suggestive smiles and deflate that big, big bottom... lol. Sorry dear, so funny really when I read this kind of posts. But I can relate being a woman with a low sex drive myself. Luckily for me, Oga mi no too send the matter too.
Abeg, I don't know what to say jare. Tell him to take it easy with you. Beg am. As some of our BVs day talk - sex is not food.
Lol @ combat this menace... choi, Poster you are the funniest writer ever.
Abeg follow Stella counsel and have a heart-t-heart talk with him. Make im take am easy with 'panelbeating' you... Lmao. O gah o!
POSTER 3: Thank God you wised up. But it was still late. I've had a like experience and the matter no even reach marriage talk sef. Have even had a guy tell me his credentials got burnt in a fire incident, I sent him and his stories that touch outta my life... when the story begins to have K-leg, bow-legs and W-legs, slip on your running shoes and become Usain Bolt.
**off to re-read Poster two's narrative... so hilarious**
@Poster 3, Thank God you walked out of the relationship or marriage as it were. Your post is more or less giving us Bvs, lessons to learn from.
ReplyDeleteThank God you've moved on and better off now
@Poster 2, your case is that of one man's meat is another man's poison. You should talk to your husband since he's inflicting u with pain. My guess is, he has no idea what this is doing to you both physically and psychologically making TTC difficult. You two need to have some heart to heart discussions and hopefully he would try to be gentle with you.
@Poster 1, you should have thought of the consequences before having unprotected Sex. Anyway, the deed is already done and there is no need weeping over spilt milk.
My advice is to keep the pregnancy. Confide in your mum, let her know how devastated you are for letting every1 down. Initially this path would be rough buuuuuh eventually everything would be fine. As long as you are determined, u can still go back to school after delivery and baby, a toddler. Now this option seem like a 'not to be considered one' but 12 years from now, u would regret terminating the pregnancy. U would continually be reminded of the Age, the baby would have been then.
Besides Abortion has its complications and it's higher when done by quacks. Your uterus could be permanently damaged causing infertility among other complications.
Poster 2- you and your husband no dey go work ni.sex twice a day keh! Pele.for you to be complaining despite Ttc, it means u have been enduring.buh, truth is you have to tell him about the pains.doh oh .
ReplyDeleteI'll read comments today. It is well.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 I remember last month daily manna on a lady who got pregnant and didn't abort but delivered, her schooling came to a halt but later on she picked her self up and went back to school. She graduated first class and was the best overall in her department. Her parents wre dre to help her all thru so pls confide in your mum am sure she can help you. Next time pls be very careful.
ReplyDeletePOster 2, I don't know what to say at all but talk to him and express how you feel.
POSTER3 you did well by walking out, had a rship almost like your but walked out fast cos I was loosing my self and integrity. Thank God you are out.
Poster 1 I remember last month daily manna on a lady who got pregnant and didn't abort but delivered, her schooling came to a halt but later on she picked her self up and went back to school. She graduated first class and was the best overall in her department. Her parents wre dre to help her all thru so pls confide in your mum am sure she can help you. Next time pls be very careful.
ReplyDeletePOster 2, I don't know what to say at all but talk to him and express how you feel.
POSTER3 you did well by walking out, had a rship almost like your but walked out fast cos I was loosing my self and integrity. Thank God you are out.
Poster 2= E be like say u gather Adazi enÚ & Adazi ani.
ReplyDeletePoster 2= E be like say u gather Adazi enÚ & Adazi ani.
ReplyDeleteLol @a reset slap
ReplyDeleteSome ladies sha get time
U saw some signs and yet u still held on
Thank God u finally saw d light
Poster 1: they will all advise u to keep d child but remember u must train d child. Money for pamper alone is... do whatever u wanna. Do jare. It's ur life.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Enjoy it nau, Shebi u r married? Sorry o
Poster 3: u wasted time self. U should av left long ago
To the 18 year old girl, you are no longer a child and therefore old enough to know what's good for you. Find a good hospital and do what you have to do. What gets me is when u r prepared and ready for sex please take the appropriate precautions. Yes mistakes and shit happens. Find a good hospital. That's my own advice. Not all abortions leads to death or failure to conceive later on in life. People should stop the scaremongering attitude about abortion. Each individual have their varied reasons. Only if u abort in a wrong way can lead to fatality, hence the reason to go competent. Goodluck
ReplyDeleteN1: Though I'm anti-abortion, it's apparent that this girl is not even mentally ready to deal with all that motherhood entails. So *coughs* in this case, since she's not far gone, I'd say she should take it out. Dear teen, I hope you know how hazardous abortion is? *i'm talking from both sides of mouth* #bye
ReplyDeleteN2: I understand your plight. DH goes on & on too. Lol. I don't get hurt though. I gently push him off & there are times that we wouldn't even have sex. No cuddling, nothing simply bcos I don't want it. He respects that too. I make up of for those times o *wink
N3: Go girl! I'm so proud of you. R.I.P to the relationship that never was. Keeping soaring!!!
who plzzzz!!! all this self righteous idiots on this blog. Make una keep quiet Abortion is this that. Except you all got married as virgins which you didnt dont insult poster1. Get rid of that pregnancy very fast. If your 18yr old daugh is preg will you allow her have the child? Go to ANY lab where they have a clinic attached to it also or where they have a stanby doctor will reads the tests and prescribes. do a pt test there see their doctor and tell him. they will sort you out.
ReplyDeleteI don't advice d 18yr old girl to kip d baby. D harm has bin done. Learn your mistake afta dis. DO NOT have sex if u know u are not ready to face d aftermath.
ReplyDeleteI believe love can find anyone anywhere, poster praying for fruit of the womb do not worry God will see you through, God bless the givers. nice weekend all
ReplyDeleteP1-wen u know u dnt a baby,y did u make one.firstly be sure u are pregnant and not fear/anxiety causing d delay, therefore run to d pharm and buy test strip. Secondly my fear is d drugs taken for ur thyphoid,shd not affect d baby and considering what u will loose if u keep d baby,am making an exception,.confide in ur mum,she will knw wat to do. Vit C P2-d lord is ur strenght. P3- thank God for ur life
ReplyDeletePoster 1, pls do not abort!
ReplyDeleteRemember abortion is a sin against God. Grace differs, that someone u know has done it b4 n gone free doesn't mean u would.
So my dear, I would advice u to keep it 4 heavens sake, no one said its gonna be easy but keep it n confide in ur mom.
Were u not supposed 2 be studying? I guess u didn't think of the consequences of ur acts.
You can leave school 4 a year n go back 2 continue but u will only hv an extra year bt u hv 2 tell ur departmental heads.
@2 communication is the key.
@3 Bold step, good 4 u.
*Rmn blessed*
Poster 1: I dunno wht to say but abortion is not it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: lmao, rotflmao. I actually laughed so hard reading ur story.. Sorry abt that
Talk to ur husband... Let him know ur pain,sex is sweet,let him know he's nt giving u d enjoyment he's getting from U. After sex, say some mins after, show him ur swollen vagina n ask him 2 show u his penis. Touch it n ask if it hurts him..then let him touch urz and show him d pain u feel and pour out ur heart to him,if possible shed some tears...let me know u love sex with him but u want him to slow down..
The following day, tell him u want to MAKE LOVE with him without him interferring..do the foreplays and ride him,tell him he shld just enjoy then ride him,make sure d lights r on while u do it then enjoy urself..moan genuinely. He shld get d msg.
Seems he watches lots of porn.. He's ur husband not ur boss. Tell him to stoP if he does.
#poster 3... Thank God u walked out..
TOLUkork( Stella is my elder sister)... *side eye.
Kork is the short form of her husband's name, Korkus. So you can't be her sister but sister-in-law.
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteI won't judge you for making such a silly mistake and I won't advise you to keep that baby either.Pls don't listen to all these self righteous BVs that are advising you not to abort that baby,when you start suffering,none of them will be there for you!Most of them committed several abortions when they were teenagers and they are advising you to bring in a child into this world to suffer at your age!I can't advise you to take any drug(s) because it could damage your womb.If you must do anything,pls go to the hospital.
Go and talk to the guy who got you pregnant so that both of you can decide on how best to abort that baby...abi did he deny you?Take care.
Poster 2
Didn't you date your hubby b4 you married him?Pls talk to him and tell him to slow down,sex is not food.If he refuses to change,go on a vacation for a while....
Poster 3
Am happy u've moved on.
It's irritating when you read comments from people and they ask posters if they didn't know before marrying? Is that what they want to hear? Deed has been done, if you have a solution to their problem by all means talk if not zip it.....sanctimonious irritants...
ReplyDeleteBloglord fake arsed chic, so when you were 18 you sat down and tot through every action you took? If u dnt end up pregnant at 18 was not cos you were wiser but just lucky
Poster1 : confide in any of your older cousin or aunt$im sure they will assist u. Whatever it is, Dc is a better option, kindly do not use any pills. However,this shouldn't be a regular for u. Protect yourself,henceforth.
ReplyDeleteI agree
DeleteLoooool poster 2 just made my day
ReplyDeletePoster one!
ReplyDeleteGet that thing off fast!
U re too young and still a child to care for another child and alone @ that!
Huh!!!! Its not easy ooh!
The deed is done so not gonna trade blames
Face ur studies afterwards and use condom
Any guy that won't use CD doesn't like u less love u!
U cul have end up with worse veneral diseases
Not everyone want to come to SDKB asking for used stuff for their kids or house rent nor baby sch fee abeg!
Enough already!
Poster 2
Is ur marriage arraingee?
If not u dated this guy and sure knew his high libido b4 getting married to him so ur cross carry is with a smile!
Poster 3!
Good girl! Better late than never!
Next time don't be in pity but in love
Cos to me u pity his situation and don't wanna go
Marriage go beyond all this though
U have learn the hard way so next time u know better
Relationship can be endured if you wish but marriage should be enjoyed .... 21 and marriage scares the hell out of me *mouth open* hope hope
ReplyDeleteHi poster 1 you haven't even done the pregnancy test yet can you please so that and confirm that you are pregnant and it's not ur mind playing tricks on you? Thank you
ReplyDeletelol @poster2 funny @posterone you should have thought of that before allowing the guy to enter the place keep it o nothing go happen
ReplyDeleteas for me I hate having sex with my boyfriend because is dick is too big for my pussy,but I have never told me I just pretend as if I am enjoying it.
ReplyDeletePoster 1.
ReplyDeleteThe drugs you took for typhoid might have malformed that foetus sef so maybe you will still opt for abortion. Stupid mistake and you tripled problems for yourself. You suspect you are pregnant and yet when drugs was prescribed for you to cure typhoid you didn't speak up. Hmmmmm
So sorry dear, hope this ends well.
Poster 2
Find Quicksilver and liase with her.
lol *rrunsaway
Quicksilver dorl na joke oo.
Indeed one man's meat is another man's poison.
I didn't read Narrative 3.
My Ofada stew dey burn for fire.
Hahahahaha
DeleteI'm just here, envying that lady.
Issorait.
Wats ttc?poster 2 got me feeling horny but no bf or husband...i for like marry that kain man sha....
ReplyDelete18 years? the world has ended.
ReplyDeleteLMAO @lying- tion- ship.
ReplyDeletePoster 3, thank God you left already.
Poster 2...Communucation is very important. Your hubby may not even know how you feel cos you already gave him the impression you are enjoying it. Talk to him abi for how long will you be fanning your 'kpekus' all the time? Be wise about it too so you dont push him out eventually.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, God guide you.
Poster 3, I'm heaving a huge sigh of relief for you. A relationship should be ENJOYED...
Poster 2, I'm sure I have some advice for you...but I...just....stop...laughingggg.......talk about different strokes... ;-)
Haleemah
Madam stella,wit all due respect,wat kind of prayer is that? She is 18 & made a. Mistake we have all made,asking her not to abort the baby. Is jus pure hypocrisy in the sight of God,its jus a 2 week fertilised eggs not a 2 week old baby. So wen she keeps the baby,family turns their back on her,U will prefer her come here & seek BVs widows mite?
ReplyDeleteDear poster 1,pls meet a pharmacy & explain to him/her,& tell ur BF ur 2 always use a condom.
Madam stella,wit all due respect,wat kind of prayer is that? She is 18 & made a. Mistake we have all made,asking her not to abort the baby. Is jus pure hypocrisy in the sight of God,its jus a 2 week fertilised eggs not a 2 week old baby. So wen she keeps the baby,family turns their back on her,U will prefer her come here & seek BVs widows mite?
ReplyDeleteDear poster 1,pls meet a pharmacy & explain to him/her,& tell ur BF ur 2 always use a condom.
N1. serves you right... wetin dey sweet dey kill. now belle done come.,. just go and abort the bastard or your life is over..
ReplyDeleteN2.. Abeg castrate your hubby for night
N3. Never knew so many guys are illiterate. i thought B.sc is the easiest thing to obtain. i got my Bsc since 2007 and i have never submitted any CV. sometime i wish i can just sell it
poster 2 please brace up and meet his challenge. at least till u guys are able to conceive. It will die down naturally after this.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 1. Make sure you abort the baby fast. cus its already 2 months and once it gets to 3 months things get a bit complicated. the safest time to abort is less than a month or a month. you need to know yourself very well and once you start feeling heavy. press your stomach towards bottom of your Tommy and if its hard inside know you are weeks pregnant... Dont take pills to abort. flushing is better than taking pills... Go to different hospital and confide in any nurse around. they will refer you to hospital that does it.
ReplyDeleteHave it in mind that its either successful or might turn out to be story for the gods tomorrow
Narative one if u have made up your mind its okay.
ReplyDeleteDont take pills
Its causes unnesesarry complications
go to adefemi hospital its in ikeja,seriki aro avenue off adeniyi jones
its a maternity hospital, ask to see the doctorand expalin your
Your budget should be about 40-50k anything worth doing is worth doing well.
Goodluck
poster 1: do what will suit you joor. majority of #dontabortitladies in here have been there before. make sure you see a good doctor if u must abort.
ReplyDeleteposter 2: nawao. someones food is another persons poison. dont play with communication in your marriage. discuss these ish with your husband before you get old fast.
poster 3: u were smart thats all i can say. the prb with some ladies are that they are selective in their 20s. when they hit 30. desperation will increase. thats wen men like these will come in. women wisen up.
Poster 1, I cannot help you.
ReplyDeleteSort out your mess.
Poster 2, your gist reminds me of Stanley.
Nigga will leave u bruised, battered and swollen.
Can go for 2hrs straight.
And still be doing Oliver twist.
Poster 3, I've been in a similar situation.
I didn't foot any effing bill, and I walked away.
I dunno why it's always the broke ass bruvas that want to get married.
IN A HURRY.
this is serious
ReplyDelete#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE
@ Too much sex, are you trying to make us jealous??? LOL.
ReplyDelete@Poster 1. So you did not think about all these things before having sex, now that the seed has started germinating, you want to uproot it. Abi? Ok. Let me make it clearer to you:
ReplyDelete"ABORTING THAT CHILD IS WORSE THAN KEEPING IT".
BE WISE!!!
#1: Sweetie, have you ever heard of the principle of causality? It's nature's way of rewarding every action negatively or positively . For every cause set in motion, it attracts a resultant effect. Some effects are immediate while some tarry a while. When you have unprotected sex, one of the effects is pregnancy. Baby, I'm breaking it down so you understand you have to fess up to your responsibility. You've dished, nature just served. Now you are about to poke the very core of nature, sweetie, are you prepared to face the repercussions? You haven't even been able to deal with the 1st mistake, now you want to correct the error with a bigger one?
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry my darling but I can't advice you to have an abortion regardless of how practical it may seem. You gave reasons for keeping it secret, have you considered the possible outcomes of an abortion? True, it may be successful but it could also calamitous. You could have scar tissues after a botched procedure which can result in Asherman's syndrome where the front and back walls of the uterus stick together. That could mean you can never carry a pregnancy or not even get pregnant at all. You can also get your womb perforated and you bleed to death, you may develop complications from the procedure days or weeks later which may result in the total removal of your womb (hysterectomy) before your 19th birthday. The list is endless. It's a matter of probability, like gambling, but the stakes in this game are way too high. As a mum, I'll say abortion is not an option but that's just me. Sweetie, it's your life and your choices and you are the one who will live with the consequences. I pray you make the right choice and open up to your mum and learn from this mistake.
#e-bearhugs.
@poster2 dnt knw what to say, d Lord is ur strenght....dialogue with him, let him knw what ur passing thru .....poster1 was in ur shoes some yrs ago, wasn't easy but my mum supported n encouraged me (may her soul rest in peace,Amen) today am blessed with d most handsome n intelligent boy(12 yrs,now) lost my mum whn he was 6 mnths old tho it wasn't easy, now am bck to sch, so I advice u dnt touch dat foetus tell ur mum n forget what people will say, after birthing ur baby, u go bck to sch shikena, pls dnt do any abortion u might risk ur life...poster3 thank God u realise ursef on time, stop givin men money they'll take advantage of U
ReplyDeletePoster 1 @ 18 year old girl, please keep shut. No pity from me... At 18 you are already sexually active and u are hear asking for advice. Pschew. Do whatever you like, if you like abort, if you like keep, na you sabi. Can you imagine now telling us stories that touch the heart.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, hahahha I can't stop laughing. I understand your situation too much.Na serious problem o people, she has to satisfy the guy lest he go find some free ladies outside. Pls is there a drug people, pls help if you know. Poster buy preseed o, if you are dry getting pregnant might be harder o. Also u need to two days to build good sperms when TTC.abeg use these info for now to free yourself small.
Hi dear, was in your condition too. I was in 200 level then first semester. I got pregnant and I was in a private uni. The boo wasn't yet in uni. Really had for me then. Parents separated and my father is useless though a big name in the country. I removed it oo through d and c at 13/14 weeks. I cried my eyes out. We( the boo and I ) still regret it till today. It's the most painful thing ever and they had to do it twice because it was far gone. My advise is for you to keep it. The memories will linger on for life. You can't forget about it. When you see other people's kids, you will remember the one you removed and try to count his/her age, if it would have bin a boy or girl, who it would have looked like. It's a really hard decision. It's better to keep but if you decide to remove it please don't go to a quack and the drugs can be sold to you illegally but it's almost 10k and sometime ineffective or it should be done twice. All the best
ReplyDelete#2: The saying that "marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured" isn't an exclusive quote when one partner cheats or when one or both partners fall out of love with each other or in cases of physical, verbal or emotional abuse. It also applies in cases where a good thing becomes unbearable to one of the partners.
ReplyDeleteHoney, you can't keep enduring what should be enjoyed. Call your hubby and let him know exactly how you feel and the toll his hyperactive sexual drive is taking on your body and lady parts. You are already getting put off and your libido has drastically reduced because love making with your hubby is no longer a heavenly experience. We all have various thresholds for stuff like this. Some can handle a guy like yours all night and even give him a blow job as a wakeup call and are all reved up and ready for another marathon sex. Trust me, some women have the stamina and skills to outsex your hubby and wear him out. Some women may even pass out from the first thrust and probably need medical attention. The problem you guys have is sexual incompatibility which can be resolved through compromise and sacrifice. A man who truly loves his wife would do anything to keep her sexually satisfied and not cause her pain. For all you know, your hubby might even think you're enjoying every bit. I know a lot of women will kill to have their hubbies initiate sex even once a month and wish they could trade places with you but that's them and this is you. Even too much of a good thing is a bad thing. Please talk to your hubby and both of you will reach a compromise. If he still can't control himself after he's now aware of how it affects you, then that's when there's a problem. Both of you can also go for couples' counselling to fix it.
Honey, don't keep quiet for fear of losing him to other women. The fact is you can't cope with his sexual appetite and you will only hurt yourself or cause serious damage to your "love below". Please put your safety 1st and try to develop a more intimate relationship with your hubby to establish healthy communication between both of you, it may just be the solution to your problem.
#e-bearhugs.
Everyday sex can be so frustrating. Sorry dear poster.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, let me not lie to you, I was were you're like 6 years ago. I was 16. I removed it oo. But I can't advise anybody to kill another human being. Whether you like it or not abortion is murder and get ready to never stop thinking about it if you abort but everything all boils down to you and what is most important to you. Can you give this child a good life? Can you bear the shame? Can your mum go through this shame? Do you want to put your education on hold albeit forever because it's not your parents sponsoring your edu? Are you ready to bath, feed and clothe another human being? What about the emotional investment? Mehn, sweetheart I feel for you but you know what's important. I pray you find peace in whatever decision you make. Plus all the drugs and medication you've been on, wouldn't it affect the child? Girl Abeg go to a pharmacist or a doctor. Better still talk to your mum.I don't know how they do it in Nigeria but if you lowkey ask around you'll find out. If you choose the abortion route, avoid quacks please! Condoms are actually cheap, hope you know.You can utilize them next time. God will forgive you.
ReplyDeleteYou aborted at 16? Lipsealed!
DeleteAll of una wey dey here dey form holy holy with keep the pregnancy after una don abort more than 10 babies now una dey here dey form holiness. That girl has a future, its unfortunate that the deed has been done but fact still remains that she is still schooling, she doesn't need a baby now.... Even u stella u no FIT tell me say u never abort b4.
ReplyDelete#3: Touche! My darling, your last paragraph couldn't have been more apt. If you worry too much about what people will say, you will end up miserable and guess what? People will still analyse your misery and blame you for it.
ReplyDeleteSweetie, I commend you for having the courage to leave that caricature of a relationship. Marrying him would be tantamount to signing your own death warrant! The minute you start taking care of a man, feeding him and paying his bills, including giving him cash so his pocket isn't empty... you are certainly on a wrong path. It rarely ends well and when he becomes financially stable, he will be stingy because he's accustomed to your independence and sees no reason why you should start asking him for money now. Role reversal is not a good thing. My love, I pray God surprises you will a good man at the appointed time. A man who will love you like what we see in the movies. I'm glad you have the right attitude. Your life should be like a golden chain, it's beautiful and has a high value. Having a good man is like adding a pendant to the golden chain. The combination seems more elegant and adds beauty to the already beautiful chain. However, should the pendant be misplaced, it's still a very lovely chain and can be worn without the pendant and still catch people's attention. You are a queen and the absence of a man doesn't affect your royalty. Never forget that and don't settle for a knight when you know the only man befitting a queen is a king. All the best, my love.
#e-bearhugs.
Poster 1. Please don't abort. Please have the baby and give it to me. I will care and love the baby. I am over 50 years old and do not have a child of my own. I can do all the legal documents regarding adoption. The baby will have a good life and will not lack anything. Please doo not abort. you can collect my email address from Stella and get in touch with me.
ReplyDeleteThanks.
Hmmm..... am an advocate of big penis infact it always a prayer point that table before the great boo provider but that does not mean that husbby should wear me out.
ReplyDelete#3 Inshort the narrative of the lady deceived into marriage removed the small fold of desperation wey bin dey my eyes.Hou did good by finding your square root. Some men of today,Mtcheeww..... Sio kelebe pue!
Poster 1 Dont abort that baby period!
ReplyDeletePoster 2 Na wa o...anoda man food na anoda pesin poison o.Pls sit him down and tell him b4 he wil distroy your pot totally.
Poster 3 Its very good you talked.U are wise.
May God see you through.
ReplyDeletePoster2 try Erovit-IHP, it's available on Jumia. It will stimulate your sex drive for hubby. Thank me later
ReplyDeleteposter 2, the Lord is ur strength. rough see is not good for a woman ttc. in the process of the rough sex,ur womb fit don shift. Abeg go find delta or ijaw woman to set ur womb.
ReplyDeleteam writing from experience, have been trying to conceive for a year plus now.when I went to meet a delta woman in warri,she said sex from the back can cause blocked tube. so talk to ur husband to take it easy, at least no be food
Poster 2: I once had a bf like that. Big, very well endowed. I loved s*x with him until I reach orgasm. It was always wonderful. But then bf would not be done. He would keep going and going, banging hard, tossing and turning my body, conventional, then doggy style. Doggy style was his best. He could go on and on doggy for an hour. Afterwards ,I would, like you, be fanning my pot. My legs would be too weak. I couldn't tell him because I felt guilty that I had had my own enjoyment before and then afterwards wouldn't let him have his. Anyway, we broke up due to other reasons -not the s*x. Fast forward to many years later, both of us married, I met him. We became good friends but nothing in between anymore though I still remembered the hot s*x. But I noticed that he kept girl friends now which his wife knew nothing about, I asked him why? He said his wife couldn't keep up with his bed rythms and he had to find a way of releasing his sexual tension. I remembered. I kind of understood. He confided in me that at every point in time, he would have to keep at least one side chick that he could have some release with as he was being considerate of his wife who couldn't keep going at his own pace. I thought for a while the day he told me this and wondered what the solution was. I asked him if he still engaged in porn (he used to way back then) and he said yes. Does his wife know? He said no. He told me his wife doesn't get wet easily and he just feels like he is punishing her. I asked if his wife does a BJ on him and he said no. I recalled that I was able to endure then because I learnt how to give him a BJ. I could BJ him to the point of him screaming and after the great BJ, the banging would not last as long anymore before he gets satisfied. However we didn't have time to practice this so much before we broke up( I was the one who broke up with him).I told him to ask his wife to BJ him. Maybe you can try this too with your husband. You've got to do something to help him or else, I'm sorry baby girl, you will still eventually share him with a side chick!
ReplyDelete#1-Probably when people were telling you abt boyfriend, you didn't listen and now this, the question is - Are you ready to quit that relationship? Are you ready to stay without having sex? When a lady had abortion, she'll become a pro kinda of, her eyes go open more cos she'd known d tricks involved. Talk to your mum about it and here her. If you had the baby, def not the end of the world for you. We be humans and we dey make mistakes everyday no matter how clever we be.
ReplyDelete#2 Pray for the strength to carry on my dear I know its not easy and try to talk to him to slow down though it can be uncontrollable but with God all things are possible. One woman prayed concerning her husband's randy behaviour that his manhood will never stand on meeting any lady and so it came to pass until one day d man confessed to his wife that he had a problem abt his manhood not knowing that it was d wife's prayer, d story mayb difft from yrs but prayer works. That man is a changed person today. So my dear, if you can't stand it, tell God abt it, he knows your husband more than yourself, He will handle that situation for you and in due time, you shall conceive.
#3 You delayed the 'Usain Bolt'. You should've left him tey-tey. So many ladies are into this kind of rubbish relationship all in d name of trying to settle down. A guy that wanted to marry me then, met my dad, dropped drinks on my head tho he was working but not a graduate as he said, that he had a mansion in d village, no pic to show for it, he served in so so place, no NYSC cert, I did my own investigation after I finished my last paper n discovered d unbelievable, gisted my sis, we laughed n laughed, I took a long walk, he begged but all na story. I thank God for my husband.
God will bring yr own husband to you, don't jump into men n don't be rigid. Jesus cares/